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269 | NTA, and FYI, inheritance is considered a protected non-marital asset in a divorce. | 100ogg4 | Uatatoka | 1,672,596,722 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Uatatoka", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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270 | NTA
Lock that money up far away from your greedy husband and in-laws. They have no rights to your inheritance. You might want to remind them that you only have the money because someone you love DIED. You didn’t win the lottery.
Make it clear to your husband that you need to live off your current incomes and t... | 100ogg4 | Used_Mark_7911 | 1,672,595,023 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Used_Mark_7911", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8b... | [
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271 | NTA
Your husband and in-laws somehow think that your mother's death made you an ATM? It certainly made them very entitled... | 100ogg4 | VallisGratia | 1,672,596,876 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "VallisGratia", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96dd... | [
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272 | Absolutely Nancy. Talk to a lawyer about your rights. Even in those states in the US where marriage couples assets are considered a fifty-fifty proposition in case of divorce, individual inheritances such as yours are considered outside of those assets as long as they are not mixed with general family funds. | 100ogg4 | VariousTry4624 | 1,672,595,596 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "VariousTry4624", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db40... | [
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273 | NTA. It’s insane how entitled some people act. When you come into large amounts of money like that all of a sudden everyone is sticking their hand out. | 100ogg4 | Vasiliychaomian123 | 1,672,596,530 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Vasiliychaomian123", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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274 | NTA, you already know they are trying to take advantage of you and your husband will help take and take and take until it's gone. Keep that in mind | 100ogg4 | Veauxdeaux | 1,672,596,828 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Veauxdeaux", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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275 | Not specifically inheritance, any life changing sum of money.
I've seen marriages break apart over 10k. | 100ogg4 | VietOne | 1,672,627,431 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "VietOne", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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276 | I would just get divorced if I ever felt I had to do anything like this. | 100ogg4 | Vsx | 1,672,623,162 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Vsx", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_t... | [
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277 | NTA.
I am blown away by your MIL talking about your inheritance. It's none of her business how you decide to use it and it's not her slush fund. Entirely insensitive and inappropriate.
It also scares me how your husband is treating it as "fun money." Your mom passed on a legacy to you. It should be used to improve y... | 100ogg4 | Warm-Acadia-1892 | 1,672,597,450 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Warm-Acadia-1892", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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278 | nta. for a visual of the carnage at the restaurant, exactly how many freeloaders were expecting you to pay for their meal ? | 100ogg4 | Weary-Chipmunk-5668 | 1,672,596,264 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Weary-Chipmunk-5668", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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279 | If the tables were turned (no pun intended) and it was OP's husband's mom that died and OP's family expected him to spend his inheritance on them, this story would be very different. | 100ogg4 | Weird-Roll6265 | 1,672,600,799 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Weird-Roll6265", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d... | [
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281 | And even if she had won the lottery, her money is still none of their fucking business.
NTA OP. I’m so sorry for your loss and for this shite family you’ve married into. They probably seemed nice to begin with but I would take this as them showing their true colours and be prepared. As others have said, get some legal... | 100ogg4 | WhyDoYouCrySmeagol | 1,672,601,388 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "WhyDoYouCrySmeagol", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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282 | NTA, if they were “relying” on you to pay, they should have expressed that expectation to you beforehand. If you didn’t offer, they had no reason to rely. Your inheritance isn’t their windfall. | 100ogg4 | Wienerwrld | 1,672,596,666 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Wienerwrld", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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283 | NTA.. it is your money.. it is in inheritance and legally only yours… no one decides what to do with it besides yourself..
i feel you should think about divorce because clearly your husband only sees $$ | 100ogg4 | Wooden_Albatross_832 | 1,672,594,713 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Wooden_Albatross_832", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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284 | NTA for not paying for a dinner you did not invite everyone to and promising to pay for. Them expecting it is not your problem. | 100ogg4 | Yawrant | 1,672,597,217 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Yawrant", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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285 | Exactly, husband and I will read this sub together and we'll frown over the same people. But it's still nice to be here and read. It puts your own little struggles ("don't leave water in the kettle when you make me a tea, it might turn rusty") into perspective. It's a nice life we got. A really nice life. | 100ogg4 | You-Done | 1,672,674,423 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "You-Done", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-f... | [
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286 | I found it very telling that her husband said that out of the blue, to accuse her of punishing them for not helping. To me, that sounds like a guilty conscience, and it's almost impressive that he can be a demanding asshole on top of that. | 100ogg4 | ZugTheMegasaurus | 1,672,603,814 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ZugTheMegasaurus", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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287 | I'm so sorry for your loss, OP.
NTA. The in-laws' behavior leaves a bad taste in my mouth. "Inheritance pocket"??? WTF. 1) Awful term. 2) They don't get to dip their hands into THAT pocket.
Even your husband having you pay for all of the recent expenses, actually.
Entitlement lvl 9000 all around. (Except OP, obvs) | 100ogg4 | _Kaiiiii | 1,672,595,915 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "_Kaiiiii", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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288 | I'm sorry for your loss.
You are NTA. | 100ogg4 | aleheartilly | 1,672,595,422 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "aleheartilly", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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289 | Please talk to a lawyer and in the meantime do NOT commingle your inheritance with any other accounts your husband has access to. | 100ogg4 | allison375962 | 1,672,599,436 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "allison375962", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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291 | My father committed suicide when I was 9 and I got a decent trust find. People still tell me how lucky I am to have so little debt from school (doctorate). I tell them how lucky they are to have two living parents. | 100ogg4 | atrifone | 1,672,647,158 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "atrifone", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f... | [
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292 | NTA. It's often the case that when someone comes into a lot of money, the people around them get jealous and their avarice comes out. I think that's what happened here. That your husband aligned himself wit his parents instead of you speaks volumes, OP.
My guess is that after you left, your husband and his like-minded... | 100ogg4 | bambina821 | 1,672,596,900 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bambina821", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24... | [
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294 | I always thought of marriages / relationships as you forming a team. It doesn't appear your husband shares that view.
Yes, "it wouldn't have hurt" you to pay. But that's something that's done out of generosity, not manipulation or guilt. Why is your husband not on your side here?
NTA. | 100ogg4 | bobledrew | 1,672,597,108 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bobledrew", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-... | [
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295 | Agree. It starts with this meal then it turns into "I need a new car". "My son needs a college fund." "I have an idea for a new business, but need funding."
They will never quit until every single cent is gone. | 100ogg4 | briomio | 1,672,596,015 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "briomio", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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296 | NTA - mooches deserve humiliation. | 100ogg4 | bureaucratic_drift | 1,672,596,622 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bureaucratic_drift", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#e3be04", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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297 | I’m so sorry for your loss and for how you have been treated. You deserve love and respect at the very least and he has failed to give you both. I hope your good days out number your bad ones and that you find someone who actually deserves you as you heal. | 100ogg4 | candypinkpoms | 1,672,601,395 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "candypinkpoms", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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299 | Your husband is the asshole. Most likely his family expected you to pay because he led them to that conclusion or at least didn’t correct them. You handled it perfectly. | 100ogg4 | classicgirl1990 | 1,672,595,006 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "classicgirl1990", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8... | [
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300 | Yep. The entitlement to her money, poor financial planning ideas, bad communication, and trying to surprise her into paying the bill, but the gaslighting and shaming afterwards would be the worst in my opinion. Emotional/mental abuse takes so long to heal and is the hardest to spot.
Run. | 100ogg4 | cleanthemirrordammit | 1,672,610,848 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "cleanthemirrordammit", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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301 | Yep. Some ppl are fine until they get too close to a dragon's hoard and then suddenly flip into greedy AHs | 100ogg4 | cleanthemirrordammit | 1,672,610,931 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "cleanthemirrordammit", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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302 | I would ask in front of his parents if he'll buy her an expensive dinner when his mom dies. See how they like their own medicine | 100ogg4 | cleanthemirrordammit | 1,672,611,061 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "cleanthemirrordammit", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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303 | I would definitely ask my spouse. Yes, it's their call what to do with it, but at the same time we always discuss big decisions. | 100ogg4 | codeacab | 1,672,652,106 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "codeacab", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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304 | 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | 100ogg4 | coucub | 1,672,595,018 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "coucub", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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306 | This was my main take. I have some saving but they're not accessible via my payment card! | 100ogg4 | daneview | 1,672,648,856 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "daneview", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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307 | NTA and your husband clearly is not on your side. they want to turn you into their personal ATM.
you need to serious reevaluate your relationship with this man and freeloader his family. | 100ogg4 | darknessnbeyond | 1,672,597,111 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darknessnbeyond", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8... | [
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308 | NTA. Why would you being paying for everything? What else are they expecting you to pay for? And why does your husband now expect you to pay for everything? You need to seriously reconsider your marriage if that’s his attitude not hard to see where he gets it from. | 100ogg4 | dazed1984 | 1,672,596,505 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "dazed1984", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8bfb56-... | [
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309 | What do you mean by “not being able to help Mom when she was sick”
not able or that he didn’t allow any help?
Anyway they all sound like leeches and I don’t know if you know but normally you should bin anyone that’s like that.
NTA | 100ogg4 | domatesx | 1,672,596,157 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "domatesx", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-f... | [
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310 | Have you found r/ShitMomGroupsSay yet? | 100ogg4 | dragonchilde | 1,672,621,016 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "dragonchilde", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96dd... | [
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311 | This honestly reminds me of some shit my ex pulled once.
We went to buffalo wild wings to hang out with some friends and watch football before we went to the movies for date night. I ordered one beer and some chicken strips/fries. My ex had several beers, two appetizers then ate most of my fries.
Check came and he s... | 100ogg4 | dragonstkdgirl | 1,672,611,894 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "dragonstkdgirl", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d... | [
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312 | Manipulate is exactly the word. They were counting on OP to acquiesce to "keep the peace". A good spouse wouldn't be a party to that. | 100ogg4 | dsgoose | 1,672,599,460 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "dsgoose", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8... | [
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313 | This!! OP is definitely NTA, OP’s husband is obviously very money hungry.. or at least money centered. OP should not be expected to treat/cater him and his parents just because OP can “afford” it. OP is most likely still grieving this major loss in her life, but because she got an inheritance that changes everything? N... | 100ogg4 | dxddynicotine | 1,672,637,894 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "dxddynicotine", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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314 | NTA, what he did was straight up bullshit. | 100ogg4 | edc7 | 1,672,595,671 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "edc7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-... | [
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315 | You should probably hire a lawyer that can help you protect this money from the impending divorce | 100ogg4 | electricgotswitched | 1,672,608,592 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "electricgotswitched", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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316 | For many women and men, abuse and controlling behaviour are escalating gradually during the relationship and it is difficult to realize it when the limits are pushed inch by inch.
But sometimes, one big life event can directly show how their partner not only cross a huge moral line but happily jump on it without shame.... | 100ogg4 | eric_tai | 1,672,602,249 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "eric_tai", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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317 | Nta I would talk to a lawyer to secure your money. And then I would reevaluate your relationship. | 100ogg4 | evillittleperson | 1,672,595,053 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "evillittleperson", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... | [
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318 | Don’t combine your inheritance $$$ in a shared account with your spouse. Keep it separate so it remains your sole asset.
This is so insensitive of your husband-like dancing on your mother’s grave.
You are NTA. But your husband is 🚩🚩🚩 | 100ogg4 | exlibris1214 | 1,672,595,282 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "exlibris1214", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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319 | NTA | 100ogg4 | eyore5775 | 1,672,595,488 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "eyore5775", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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320 | *For NYE, My husband and I*
I **seriously** hope you mean SOON TO BE EX-HUSBAND
What a gross display of complete and utter disrespect. Also, inheritance is not considered communal property in a divorce.
NTA. | 100ogg4 | facinationstreet | 1,672,596,578 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "facinationstreet", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#e3be04", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "e8... | [
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321 | NTA. Nobody would’ve been “humiliated” if they’d discussed who was paying before going to dinner. But he knew you’d say no, so he waited until the check came to spring it on you, thinking you’d feel pressured to pay and he could brush off your anger later. Good on you for not caving. | 100ogg4 | fading__blue | 1,672,596,183 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fading__blue", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#c7a509", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d5e9f5... | [
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322 | NTA. They are trying to exploit you. I am so sorry that your husband is acting this way. | 100ogg4 | fermat9997 | 1,672,595,996 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fermat9997", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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323 | Yeah, I'm not usually one to yell "leave them!" but there is too much selfishness, lack of respect, and manipulative behavior going on here.
Husband didn't help OP with her mother. This reminds me of the story of the little red hen. You didn't plant the crop, water it, harvest it, or help bake the bread....
So you do... | 100ogg4 | formidable-opponent | 1,672,605,235 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "formidable-opponent", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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324 | Yeah, the family were definitely hanging out, trash talking her and telling him how to "handle" her.
That's why you see posts like this.
To outsiders it's blatantly obvious who the problem is but when you're married to someone actively trying to bend reality in your mind, it can come down to really needing that rea... | 100ogg4 | formidable-opponent | 1,672,609,136 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "formidable-opponent", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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325 | Nta. Would t hurt any one of them to pay either! | 100ogg4 | fromhelley | 1,672,596,179 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fromhelley", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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326 | NTA- & I would have a conversation with your husband about his family leeching off of you. It wasn't his business to tell them about your money. It would be 1 thing if you offered to pay and explained why. It's not cool for him to tell them that you will pay for that reason. | 100ogg4 | fun_mak21 | 1,672,596,104 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "fun_mak21", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-... | [
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327 | If he's so humiliated, tell him to give you a divorce. NTA.
But seriously, think of putting the money in a irrevocable trust with yourself and someone you trust (not your husband, and you need to look into why not) as executor. | 100ogg4 | garthastro | 1,672,596,026 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "garthastro", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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329 | NTA, but your husband and family sure are. I would have a firm talk with your husband. Tell him to forget that money exists because it is not for him and his family and you won't be taking suggestions for how to spend that money. | 100ogg4 | gracenweaver | 1,672,595,866 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "gracenweaver", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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330 | NTA-in most US states, inheritance is not community property. You should be able to discuss the $ with your husband, but it's
None of MILs business. | 100ogg4 | hbauman0001 | 1,672,597,108 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "hbauman0001", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddc... | [
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331 | The sheer ENTITLEMENT is mind boggling. The fact OP received it from the loss of mom after a long illness makes it even more disgusting of the husband/family. Bunch of f*cking absolute vultures.
NTA OP - take your inheritance and run before you’re this man gets his claws into it. | 100ogg4 | heatherlj88 | 1,672,601,503 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "heatherlj88", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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332 | Yep, OP has a r/JustNoSO problem. So sorry OP. NTA. | 100ogg4 | heytherecatlady | 1,672,603,927 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "heytherecatlady", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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333 | “We accept the love we think we deserve” | 100ogg4 | highfreakingfive | 1,672,643,476 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "highfreakingfive", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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334 | Even worse, a “celebratory dinner” when his mom dies. | 100ogg4 | highfreakingfive | 1,672,643,684 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "highfreakingfive", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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335 | NTA the only thing I’d be giving your husband is a stack of divorce papers. | 100ogg4 | holden204 | 1,672,597,087 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "holden204", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-... | [
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336 | NTA. The money is yours, not your husband's. He had no right to volunteer you to pay for the dinner, and to spring it on you during the meal is sneaky and gross. He humiliated himself and lied to everyone in attendance and when you didn't comply he made you the scapegoat. What a loser. | 100ogg4 | iamst_fowarten | 1,672,594,838 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "iamst_fowarten", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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337 | NTA, and if you need an idea for what to do with it, take part of it to the courthouse, and file for divorce.
I would say invest the rest, but then it runs the risk of becoming marital property. Ianal though, so you may want to ask someone with more experience. | 100ogg4 | idcpicksmn | 1,672,596,785 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "idcpicksmn", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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338 | Definitely NTA and you should talk to a lawyer about a post nup so your husband can’t try and take your money. | 100ogg4 | idntndrstndyurwthsgy | 1,672,597,273 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "idntndrstndyurwthsgy", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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339 | I thought the celebratory dinner was for NYE, not for OP’s inheritance? Or did I miss something? | 100ogg4 | imtheheppest | 1,672,639,922 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "imtheheppest", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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340 | Yeah, I hate immediately jumping to it and I know subs like this are notorious for suggesting it so often, but divorce is sadly the play here. Alternatively, the husband and his entire family need to learn some serious boundaries *real* quick. I think the former is more likely, though. | 100ogg4 | intripletime | 1,672,608,122 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "intripletime", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c... | [
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341 | NTA. Sorry for your loss. Your husband’s behavior was atrocious. | 100ogg4 | invisiblew830 | 1,672,595,880 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "invisiblew830", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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343 | it's called a fuck off fund. and it's NECESSARY. | 100ogg4 | kelly4dayz | 1,672,638,112 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "kelly4dayz", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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344 | Inheritance isn’t typically considered a marital asset. Husband will not benefit by divorcing OP. No matter how you look at it, he’s not entitled to it. | 100ogg4 | kikivee612 | 1,672,598,817 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "kikivee612", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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345 | NTA Get rid of the husband along with the in laws. And do it before spending any of your inheritance. Inherited money or land doesn't count as marital property in most states. However, once money is used that property can be held as a marital asset and therefore divided equally in a divorce.
Your husband has stopped ... | 100ogg4 | kit0000033 | 1,672,597,239 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "kit0000033", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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346 | I was going to say this was money showing you who people really are. But seems like it's just money reinforcing what you already knew about them. | 100ogg4 | kralrick | 1,672,605,507 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "kralrick", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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348 | NTA
It’s good that you have enough money for a divorce lawyer down the line. | 100ogg4 | lamppostsarentreal | 1,672,595,988 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "lamppostsarentreal", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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349 | NTA
Leave these golddiggers behind.
The nerve, they're making plans with *your* inheritance that they are crassly "celebrating" despite the fact that your mom died.
Your in-laws don't sound like great people.
PLEASE TALK TO A LAWYER AND A FIDUCIARY FINANCIAL ADVISOR. | 100ogg4 | lejosdecasa | 1,672,597,614 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "lejosdecasa", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4... | [
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350 | What is wrong with your husband? | 100ogg4 | lisamolli | 1,672,596,026 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "lisamolli", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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351 | If my husband were to inherit anything from his parents i wouldn't even tell my family unless he wanted me to for some reason. you're totally right, it's nobody's business | 100ogg4 | m-adir | 1,672,605,209 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "m-adir", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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352 | NTA. It's not his money, and on top of that he didn't even discuss with you but tried to corner you into paying. | 100ogg4 | madogvelkor | 1,672,594,434 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "madogvelkor", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c2... | [
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353 | NTA and OMFG your husband and ILs are such AHs.
- Inheritance is not your husband’s. Full stop. He is an AH for trying to get so involved in how you spend it.
- Inheritance is certainly not your IL’s. Full stop. They should keep their mouths SHUT.
- You are grieving and only have an inheritance because you... | 100ogg4 | majesticgoatsparkles | 1,672,595,674 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "majesticgoatsparkles", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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354 | NTA a friend of mine ended up divorcing because her husband had so many ideas on how to spend her inheritance, which by the way didn't involve anything she or her daughters wpuld need or like. | 100ogg4 | malavock82 | 1,672,595,221 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "malavock82", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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355 | And oops the fact we didn’t help the woman while ill shouldn’t be held against us - let’s celebrate with her money…?
NTA OP, you’re just surrounded by them. | 100ogg4 | mayfeelthis | 1,672,601,375 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "mayfeelthis", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4... | [
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356 | NTA! No one should expect you to use your inheritance on them. You were blindsided and under no obligation to pick up the tab for their meal. I'd be very concerned about your husband thinking your inheritance is his money.
I suggest you speak with a lawyer about ways to put that money out of his reach, and with ... | 100ogg4 | me0mio | 1,672,595,614 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "me0mio", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a... | [
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357 | So you all plan to have dinner together and after you get there, they tell you that you're paying out of your inheritance. No, that's not how it works. It's galling that they would even suggest that you pay, but to spring it on you after everyone's at the restaurant and you're trapped? DESPICABLE!
You did nothing wro... | 100ogg4 | meetmypuka | 1,672,597,043 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "meetmypuka", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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358 | OP, I read that book when deciding to leave my narcissistic/abusive SO. If any of what you read in there resonates with you, I urge you to reconsider the relationship you are in. So many red flags arose that I hadn’t understood before. I wish you peace and clarity in this New Year. And, I am deeply sorry for your loss.... | 100ogg4 | megoue | 1,672,608,199 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "megoue", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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360 | NTA and absolutely keep the money in a separate account and do not conflate it with your marital money or household expenses. Definitely get legal advice before spending a cent of it.
Source: I put part of an inheritance into a renovation of our family home - which instantly became 50% owned by my husband which he le... | 100ogg4 | nancytoby | 1,672,595,106 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "nancytoby", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-... | [
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361 | When it comes to inheritance, at least in the US, as long as the inheritance is kept separate from marital property/accounts it is exempt from divorce proceedings. A financial adviser can help with this.
I had a friend inherit a really nice house before she got married. After she caught her husband cheating on her s... | 100ogg4 | naranghim | 1,672,611,567 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "naranghim", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-... | [
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362 | A podcast I listened to recently with a divorce lawyer brought up postnups l. He said that postnups aren't usually upheld anymore because it sort of amounts to a threat since you are already married.
The way he explained it was that a prenup is basically an agreement that "I'll marry you under these terms" whereas with... | 100ogg4 | nat_the_fine | 1,672,609,528 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "nat_the_fine", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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363 | The MIL making a comment about her “inheritance pocket” is unbelievably not okay, even if the husband said she was paying. | 100ogg4 | ninthandfirst | 1,672,600,072 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ninthandfirst", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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364 | There's also a HUGE difference between someone who sometimes does a shitty thing and then realizes it and tries to do better (IE, all of us sometimes), and someone who does a shitty thing and then doubles down on it afterwards (like the AH husband in the post). The latter isn't worth your effort. | 100ogg4 | nixnullarch | 1,672,850,438 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "nixnullarch", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4... | [
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365 | Yep. I have known more than one couple to break up after one gets an inheritance. A windfall tends to show people's true colors.
OP, NTA. Your in-laws are horrible people and your husband is an apple who did not fall far from the tree. Very sorry for the loss of your mom. | 100ogg4 | nodumbunny | 1,672,606,357 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "nodumbunny", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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366 | I’m so sorry, for the loss of your mom and for how your husband treats you. The advice above to take a small trip to think things through sounds like a good one, would you be able to do this? If he’s very controlling, maybe don’t tell him exactly where you’ll be. NTA, at all, btw | 100ogg4 | non-binary-fairy | 1,672,600,238 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "non-binary-fairy", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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367 | I always shudder at the thought of everything they’ve had to endure they didn’t tell us. | 100ogg4 | nopedontask | 1,672,633,326 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "nopedontask", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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368 | NTA. Unfortunately, your hubby has his eyes on that money, I think. Money/greed can really show a person's real character. | 100ogg4 | organizedcj | 1,672,596,871 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "organizedcj", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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370 | The idea you should stay in an unhappy relationship is antiquated and always skews to help men retain unpaid labor. | 100ogg4 | outlsbn | 1,672,610,704 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "outlsbn", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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371 | My bad. I forgot that crucial aspect. | 100ogg4 | outlsbn | 1,672,618,076 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "outlsbn", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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372 | I once asked a friend what her ideal man is. She said one that does not beat me. I cried. | 100ogg4 | paigezpp | 1,672,636,711 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "paigezpp", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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373 | Same here! I rejected a few men that either proposed, or would have proposed if I stayed.
Marriage is for life, so I set out to be the best woman I can be in the hopes of being a good man's dream woman.
Fiance and I are buying a house this year. Hoping to afford a wedding the year after, and start having babies the ye... | 100ogg4 | pastelcottoncandy88 | 1,672,616,119 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pastelcottoncandy88", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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374 | NTA divorce and get yourself away from this leech and his shitty family | 100ogg4 | pattern_thimble | 1,672,596,131 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pattern_thimble", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8... | [
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375 | NTA - Unless you explicitly said at some point that this dinner was your treat there shouldn't be any expectation on their part that you are paying. You didn't cause the scene in the restaurant, they did by assuming and then overreacting when you corrected them and walked out.
I agree with everyone else - consult a l... | 100ogg4 | pattycakess__ | 1,672,595,574 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pattycakess__", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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377 | NTA: I am curious on what exactly was being celebrated. Nonetheless it is not your job to pay for everyone else specially if it wasn't talked about upfront.
Your husband and his family are acting really disrespectful but this is just another example on how you really get to know people once money is involved.
Please ... | 100ogg4 | pluhgeh | 1,672,595,124 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pluhgeh", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8... | [
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378 | Hahaha I knew how you meant it but it did read kind of ominous | 100ogg4 | potatofairy42 | 1,672,625,305 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "potatofairy42", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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379 | NTA. Your husband and in-laws fucked around and found out. Time to see a lawyer and a financial advisor and tie that money up so he can't touch it. | 100ogg4 | rainyreminder | 1,672,594,408 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "rainyreminder", "author_cakeday": true, "author_flair_background_color": "#c7a509", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d5e9f... | [
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