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9,253 | It's about the amount of time they have to be "embarrassed" in church. | zvmflw | LingonberryPrior6896 | 1,672,067,967 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LingonberryPrior6896", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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9,254 | Doubtful since OP stays in hotels when he visits. She probably complains. | zvmflw | LingonberryPrior6896 | 1,672,094,320 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LingonberryPrior6896", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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9,267 | NTA. Considering what they're always bringing up, I'd be bringing this up all the time. | zvmflw | NA | 1,672,059,095 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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9,303 | Some (lots of) Christians legitimately believe that sex, in its entirety, is shameful and wrong, so they spend their entire lives taking one of the single best and most fundamental parts of being alive and twist it and twist it until you can’t even think about sex without experiencing horrible, aching guilt.
It’s ba... | zvmflw | Nice-Violinist-6395 | 1,672,077,473 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Nice-Violinist-6395", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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9,304 | This is the way to go.
See, when your entire “sex talk” with your kids is just telling them that they actually don’t have to know anything about sex, because only bad hateful terrible people who are going to hell do it (and you’re not a bad terrible hell-bound person, are you?), you’re setting them up for disaster. ... | zvmflw | Nice-Violinist-6395 | 1,672,077,724 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Nice-Violinist-6395", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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9,387 | Wow. I love this story! | zvmflw | Trick-Statistician10 | 1,672,077,173 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Trick-Statistician10", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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9,398 | Pregnancy math is weird, they measure from when the egg matures, not from the moment of conception. So when you conceive you are already 2 weeks pregnant. But even if they were assuming 4 months is 16 weeks, that early is not reasonable. To quote my Irish grandma, they lie like a cheap rug (meaning not very well and n... | zvmflw | WorkInProgress1040 | 1,672,079,264 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "WorkInProgress1040", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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9,431 | Oof. I actually feel bad for the dude too. He never had a chance at a normal life. | zvmflw | drainbead78 | 1,672,094,744 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "drainbead78", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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9,435 | That is a freaking big 33 weeker! | zvmflw | etds3 | 1,672,074,478 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "etds3", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8bfb56-f967... | [
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9,436 | I was 36 ½ weeks and 7 lb 3 oz. My oldest was a week early and was 2 ounces shy of 9 pounds. And I KNOW when I ovulated with her so my dates were solid. But I cook em fast: the nurses thought she was late.
They also moved my due date for my twin pregnancy up 10 days (and again, I know ovulation date) because they wer... | zvmflw | etds3 | 1,672,074,680 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "etds3", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8bfb56-f967... | [
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9,464 | She probably thought he shouldn't think of her *like that* | zvmflw | loftychicago | 1,672,081,178 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loftychicago", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#a1009f", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "336251... | [
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9,465 | Which is fine if it's couched as *Don't make the same mistakes I/we did*. But acting like they're pure as the driven snow is just hypocrisy. | zvmflw | loftychicago | 1,672,081,634 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loftychicago", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#a1009f", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "336251... | [
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9,466 | The wee tank 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | zvmflw | loftychicago | 1,672,081,874 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loftychicago", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#a1009f", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "336251... | [
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9,484 | NTA.
What kind of fucked up church do they go to where literally anybody else cares about your living situation? | zvmflw | pinniped1 | 1,672,061,990 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pinniped1", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-... | [
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9,488 | The thing that gets me is, it would be one thing if the parents said, "we had sex before we got married but regret it; we think it was the wrong thing to do; we don't want you to end up having the same regrets." But instead they're pretending to be blameless on this matter and judging OP.
It's like the parents who ac... | zvmflw | raquelitarae | 1,672,074,959 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "raquelitarae", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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9,489 | Well, if they don't regret it then they are even odder for giving OP a hard time for doing the same. | zvmflw | raquelitarae | 1,672,086,746 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "raquelitarae", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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9,502 | 🏅 take this poor man's gold and know that you have killed me (with laughter at this comment!)
☠️👻 | zvmflw | sionnach_liath | 1,672,083,650 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "sionnach_liath", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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OP, and anyone else that thinks it might be helpful, we've created [these resources for those in unhealthy or abusive relations... | zz5str | AITAMod | 1,672,429,659 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AITAMod", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "b776189c-1842-11... | [
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9,537 | How's his beer belly doing? | zz5str | Active-Pen-412 | 1,672,425,902 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Active-Pen-412", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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9,557 | OP says her husband's comments are "passive stuff" but to me they sound pretty aggressive. This is verbal abuse. No one deserves this but particularly a new mom who is already going through all the emotional turmoil. | zz5str | BaitedBreaths | 1,672,428,486 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "BaitedBreaths", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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9,566 | NTA you could lose weight by dumping the loser considering YOU GREW AN ENTIRE HUMAN INSIDE OF YOU. | zz5str | CakeZealousideal1820 | 1,672,423,264 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CakeZealousideal1820", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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9,570 | Why are you with someone who abuses you. NTA for your reaction but you need to get some help. While I realize the latest incidence was the straw that broke the camels back, you should have shut this down as soon as it started. Think about this.. how will you feel when he starts sharing his toxic and misogynistic views ... | zz5str | Cat-astro-phe | 1,672,421,973 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Cat-astro-phe", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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9,576 | NTA, and he ruined Christmas. At best he’s tone deaf to his own comments and at worst he wants you to change yourself for him and doesn’t understand how much pregnancy can change someone’s body. He’s either dumb or downright mean | zz5str | Ciphree | 1,672,422,686 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ciphree", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8... | [
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9,586 | Also, when he calls them "observations" don't let him. I'm a firm believer that we need to use the correct words for things and not allow others to change that narrative to suit them.
When he is like "I'm just making 'observations' about your body". Respond with "these are not merely observations but body shaming, yo... | zz5str | CuriousPenguinSocks | 1,672,425,986 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CuriousPenguinSocks", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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9,587 | Girl how is any of this passive?! Your husband is ripe for a good ass kicking - what time is dinner? Asking for a friend.
NTA | zz5str | CuriousTsukihime | 1,672,422,447 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CuriousTsukihime", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#e3be04", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "e8... | [
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9,601 | NTA AT ALL. I'd text hubby back and tell him to KNOCK OFF the innocent act. Add that you expect HIM to go therapy in order to try and save your marriage. He needs to understand that his comments weren't "observations" but cruel passive aggressive insults. | zz5str | EmeraldBlueZen | 1,672,423,039 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EmeraldBlueZen", "author_cakeday": true, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96... | [
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9,602 | I 100% agree. OP should in fact text this back to him - "stop gaslighting me. You've been abusive and a bully. YOU need therapy to figure this out. Because if not, our marriage may be over." | zz5str | EmeraldBlueZen | 1,672,425,418 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EmeraldBlueZen", "author_cakeday": true, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96... | [
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9,603 | OMG - that's absolutely horrific. If anyone has a link to that post, I'd love to read it. | zz5str | EmeraldBlueZen | 1,672,425,457 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EmeraldBlueZen", "author_cakeday": true, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96... | [
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9,604 | This 100%. And in case he actually doesn't. OP should insist on therapy so he's no longer in the dark about what an asshole he's been. | zz5str | EmeraldBlueZen | 1,672,425,563 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EmeraldBlueZen", "author_cakeday": true, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96... | [
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9,605 | Yup. Very snide and phrased so he could pretend they were "observations" rather than hurtful langage because he actually didn't say she was a huge fatty. SMH. | zz5str | EmeraldBlueZen | 1,672,425,656 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EmeraldBlueZen", "author_cakeday": true, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96... | [
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9,627 | NTA his comments were hurtful and cruel and not needed. Observations my backside x | zz5str | Happy-go-lucky123 | 1,672,421,287 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Happy-go-lucky123", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a... | [
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9,637 | NTA. Your husband is a cruel, abusive asshole. If his family didn’t know it, they do now. He’s the one who needs therapy for his bullying. Do not put up with his shit anymore. Embarrass him every time he bullies you. He deserves it, he doesn’t mind doing it to you. | zz5str | Ibba60222 | 1,672,423,193 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ibba60222", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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9,686 | Reactive abuse. Where they needle you till you lose it and then point and act surprised and hurt. This isn't a small thing and it's unlikely to stop. Your self esteem will be fine when you don't here him being and AH all the time. | zz5str | Mundane-Currency5088 | 1,672,427,574 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mundane-Currency5088", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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9,753 | NTA. His comments are rude and ungrateful for you growing his child in your body.
I'm petty, so I'd start communicating on something about his body. "It's a shame you don't wear glasses to hide that nose bump." "I could have a smaller waist, you could have more hair. Looks like we're both disappointed." "That sweater... | zz5str | Ok-Cat-4975 | 1,672,422,257 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ok-Cat-4975", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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9,759 | He prob thinks it's like in Mad Men where the therapist will call him after each session to let him know what OP said. | zz5str | Opinionista99 | 1,672,425,441 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Opinionista99", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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9,786 | NTA he is. Body shaming you by calling it observations does not cut it as an excuse. He is being cruel and ignorant. He ruined the dinner not you. | zz5str | ReviewOk929 | 1,672,420,815 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ReviewOk929", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#eeb800", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "edf63c8... | [
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9,840 | NTA - Your husband is the one making you feel insecure. He sounds extremely manipulative. There is also no way his family was “scared” of you.
You should see a counselor, not for the reasons he suggested, but because you are in an unhappy and unhealthy relationship and you need to get some support.
If you want to... | zz5str | Used_Mark_7911 | 1,672,421,703 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Used_Mark_7911", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8b... | [
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9,850 | NTA. Would you make “observations” about his penis size or muscle size, or hairline, *in front of your family?* | zz5str | Wienerwrld | 1,672,423,208 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Wienerwrld", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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9,856 | Yeah, and I also can't overlook how he casually shames her for the changes her body has gone through, in order to (I assume?) produce and birth his fr'king offspring. How can someone be so disrespectful? The pain and stress a woman goes through in order to create a new life go completely unnotices with him. So much spi... | zz5str | You-Done | 1,672,426,126 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "You-Done", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-f... | [
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9,886 | All of this.
OP, I can guarantee if you did said things like, "Wow, you used to have more hair," or "Did you always have this many wrinkles?" or "It seems smaller than I remembered." or "Is that smell you? I don't remember you smelling this bad." He wouldn't think you were giving him helpful observations, he'd think y... | zz5str | crystallz2000 | 1,672,425,584 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "crystallz2000", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96d... | [
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9,890 | My husband said and I quote "Boobs are boobs and all boobs are awesome." Then he coped a feel. 😂😂😂 | zz5str | destiny_kane48 | 1,672,427,642 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "destiny_kane48", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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9,905 | This is spot on.
Please get yourself and your son out of this situation if you can. He is only going to escalate from here because you called him on it, in public, in front of his family no less. I'm proud of you for doing that but it's likely he will retaliate.
And I'm sure you don't want your son growing up being t... | zz5str | formidable-opponent | 1,672,428,489 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "formidable-opponent", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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9,914 | I never thought that a dude pulling out his balls would be so sweet. | zz5str | icecreampenis | 1,672,427,406 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "icecreampenis", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7... | [
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9,945 | Just save yourself years of misery and file for divorce.
Your value was your pre-baby body. This man will never accept you as a living, changing, actual human woman.
You deserve to make babies and be praised for it. You deserve to eat tiramisu and love yourself.
There is a partner for you out there who will support ... | zz5str | mouse_attack | 1,672,423,014 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "mouse_attack", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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9,955 | NTA. Your husband is a jerk (edit, took out passive aggressive)... | zz5str | organizedcj | 1,672,422,493 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "organizedcj", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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9,997 | Yes! Read “Why Does He Do That” - it’s all covered in there. He abuses her, then makes her out to be nuts.
Edit: Op I found it! Your husband is the “water torturer” (though his observations are pretty obvious abuse). http://intheknowwithro.blogspot.com/2014/02/nine-types-of-abusers-who-are-you.html | zz5str | yellsy | 1,672,422,944 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "yellsy", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a... | [
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9,998 | There’s no one saying that except a few dummies. People aren’t robots - there’s a reason “temporary insanity” is a viable legal defense. People snap when put under severe emotional stress, which a new mom who isn’t sleeping and being verbally abused probably is. I commend Op for what I think was a mild reaction. She di... | zz5str | yellsy | 1,672,425,868 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "yellsy", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a... | [
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