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119 | I'm with this respondent--
NTA and you need both a lawyer and a re-evaluation of your marriage. Perhaps a marriage counselor or a divorce attorney. Behavior like this is almost never isolated and unique.
Very sorry for your loss and for the terrible place your husband has put you in. | 100ogg4 | LettuceAdmin | 1,672,599,228 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LettuceAdmin", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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120 | Concur - but only if we’re talking divorce. I cannot condone violence. | 100ogg4 | LiberalHousewife | 1,672,598,348 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LiberalHousewife", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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121 | I love your response. | 100ogg4 | LibraryMouse4321 | 1,672,603,639 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LibraryMouse4321", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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122 | He probably told them she was paying | 100ogg4 | LingonberryPrior6896 | 1,672,597,093 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LingonberryPrior6896", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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124 | In most cases, inheritances are considered separate property in marital situations. Do NOT comingle that money with any of your other jointly owned accounts. | 100ogg4 | Little-Gur-5233 | 1,672,629,259 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Little-Gur-5233", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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125 | NTA. These people, your husband included, are monsters. You didn't get a pay raise at work or win the lottery. Your mother died! This is all that she had left in the world to give to you. And these AHs want you to be their personal ATM and act grateful for? Forget that. Especially after none of them lifted a finger to ... | 100ogg4 | Little-Sea-6868 | 1,672,596,764 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Little-Sea-6868", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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129 | NTA. He caused a rift by acting like he was entitled to give your inheritance to his family. HE is the issue. | 100ogg4 | Maggie_Mayhem_1 | 1,672,596,173 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Maggie_Mayhem_1", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8... | [
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130 | Yup. Her mom does and the in-laws thought “oh good. The bank is now open.” | 100ogg4 | MamaTumaini | 1,672,599,346 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MamaTumaini", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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131 | NTA Why does he and his family expect you to pay for their dinner? Sounds like your husband set that one up. Apparently he feels like he is entitled to spend your money. He’s TA here. | 100ogg4 | Mazmum | 1,672,596,173 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mazmum", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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132 | > Not being at all concerned about his wife walking out a restaurant.
[...quoted text...]
Oh he was concerned. Not about his wife, but who was paying for dinner. Not exactly the thing to be concerned about. | 100ogg4 | MegaGrimer | 1,672,619,529 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MegaGrimer", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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133 | Precisely this. I am fortunate to have both my (now very elderly) patents still with me, but a friend's Mum died when my friend was in her late 20s. Because of this, she inherited a very nice house in what is probably one of the "coolest" suburbs in my city, which also happens to be one of the most expensive cities i... | 100ogg4 | Melbourne_wanderer | 1,672,619,671 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Melbourne_wanderer", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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134 | NTA your husband and in laws played around and found out. The fact that they felt entitled to YOUR inheritance is disturbing. I hope things get better between you and your husband tho and that he changes his mindset and attitude | 100ogg4 | MelodicWhole1083 | 1,672,594,695 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MelodicWhole1083", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... | [
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135 | NTA. Your money won't last long if you pay for him to have this and thought. Keep the money where it is and do something special with it. Hubby needs to stop being so entitled. MIL too. | 100ogg4 | MerlinBiggs | 1,672,594,743 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MerlinBiggs", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#eeb800", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "edf63c8... | [
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136 | This is so helpful. When I inherited after a relative passed away, my husband said the money was mine to do with as I pleased. After some thought, I chose to pay off our house because that’s something that would have mattered to this relative. I’m also married to a very good man. YMMV. | 100ogg4 | MiddleAgedCool | 1,672,604,836 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MiddleAgedCool", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c... | [
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137 | NTA
If I were you, I would make it so he never get access to that money. You need to stay strong OP and never blindly agree to his suggestions or demands. If he keeps pushing you need to put yourself first and do what's necessary for your wellbeing | 100ogg4 | Mileminia | 1,672,596,486 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mileminia", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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138 | Hi.
read this free ebook, you may be surprised by what you learn.
I started reading it and I gotta say that so far, it doesn't look good. It in fact looks concerning because my husband has been displaying some of these behaviors and we already have issues in our marriage. | 100ogg4 | MirandaAddison13 | 1,672,598,084 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MirandaAddison13", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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139 | NTA. Had anyone bothered to ask you to pay before going out to eat, they would have been told no. They just assumed you would pay. They learned they were wrong. I hope they all brought their wallets. | 100ogg4 | MommaGuy | 1,672,595,366 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MommaGuy", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-f... | [
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140 | This was going to be my exact response, too. | 100ogg4 | MongooseLoud | 1,672,594,661 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MongooseLoud", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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141 | NTA - They humiliated themselves. | 100ogg4 | MonkeyType | 1,672,594,677 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MonkeyType", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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142 | I think it’s related to people not posting until their SO/spouse behaves so egregiously bad that divorce seems like a good idea. | 100ogg4 | MontanaPurpleMtns | 1,672,613,589 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MontanaPurpleMtns", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0... | [
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143 | NTA
These are red flags OP reconsider your marriage. | 100ogg4 | Moonchilddowney | 1,672,596,821 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Moonchilddowney", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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144 | Nta. Your husband is extremely entitled. It's not his money to spend. He didn't even ask before going out. | 100ogg4 | Moonerdizzle | 1,672,597,171 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Moonerdizzle", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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145 | This is the perfect response. Same with my mom. I’d MUCH rather she be here. | 100ogg4 | Mumof3gbb | 1,672,604,271 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mumof3gbb", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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146 | “Picking at the bones” yes!!!! | 100ogg4 | Mumof3gbb | 1,672,604,326 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mumof3gbb", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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147 | I don’t think he could but I fully agree to go and make sure. Because you never know. | 100ogg4 | Mumof3gbb | 1,672,604,369 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mumof3gbb", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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188 | Spend the money on a good lawyer and divorce him! He sounds awful, along with his family. | 100ogg4 | NanaGert | 1,672,596,816 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NanaGert", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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189 | Hey, that's unfair. Sometimes it skew to help men retain access to sex. | 100ogg4 | Naomizzzz | 1,672,618,017 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Naomizzzz", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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190 | Fucking capitalism | 100ogg4 | Naomizzzz | 1,672,635,821 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Naomizzzz", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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191 | I think it was just the new years that was being celebrated | 100ogg4 | Nearby-Assignment661 | 1,672,595,631 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Nearby-Assignment661", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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192 | Noped right out of that. I have enough rage for daily internet strangers without adding that to my life, lol | 100ogg4 | Net_Interesting | 1,672,629,189 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Net_Interesting", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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193 | NTA and do NOT commingle any funds, do not put anything in his name. See a lawyer to protect yourself | 100ogg4 | NewfromNY | 1,672,595,230 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NewfromNY", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db40139e-... | [
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194 | Even beyond the incredibly sad and terrible series of events that led to this moment, if you date or are married to someone and they get a big familial/inheritance windfall, THAT IS NOT YOUR MONEY. Don’t EVER touch that money. Don’t talk about it, bring it up, or start to “act rich.” Give advice about how to spend it O... | 100ogg4 | Nice-Violinist-6395 | 1,672,606,804 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Nice-Violinist-6395", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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195 | Op this is great advice. Protect your inheritance at all costs, your husband is trying to bleed you dry. | 100ogg4 | NickelPickle2018 | 1,672,596,839 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NickelPickle2018", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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196 | I got that they didn't ask. They invited her to dinner THEN expected her to pay. | 100ogg4 | Nixiey | 1,672,609,894 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Nixiey", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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197 | NTA - also look into state laws and such to ensure he cannot get a share of your inheritance. Had a friend who came into a large sum of money due to an injury. They put it into a joint account with spouse and then spouse divorced and got a huge chunk of it. | 100ogg4 | No-Ability7424 | 1,672,597,099 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "No-Ability7424", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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198 | NTA but there’s a lot to unpack here. You need to sit down with hubby and see what his expectations are. You also need to ask yourself if you’re willing to have him benefit from the inheritance or just you. Only you can answer that. Good luck. | 100ogg4 | No-Personality1840 | 1,672,595,616 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "No-Personality1840", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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199 | Sage advice. Do not pay for anything jointly owned with inheritance. Your husband & his family are showing their true colors. I doubt they will stop thinking above it how to spend your money. Put it in trust & invest for your future not theirs. | 100ogg4 | No-Train8518 | 1,672,595,000 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "No-Train8518", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96dd... | [
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200 | Welcome! You have been assimilated 😆 | 100ogg4 | No_Appointment_7232 | 1,672,608,531 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "No_Appointment_7232", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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201 | Seriously! Nicely said! | 100ogg4 | No_Appointment_7232 | 1,672,608,933 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "No_Appointment_7232", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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203 | NTA-Honestly, you need to see a lawyer about protecting your assets and divorcing this guy who actively encourages his family to sponge off of you. Your husband is messy, protect yourself and get out. | 100ogg4 | No_Stage_6158 | 1,672,596,965 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "No_Stage_6158", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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204 | NTA. If you didn't plan and invite people to the party, no one should expect you to pay. Your husband is going to keep spending it if you don't nip it in the bud. It was good to do something dramatic instead of being taken advantage of. They wouldn't get the hint otherwise. | 100ogg4 | Ok-Cat-4975 | 1,672,596,968 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ok-Cat-4975", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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205 | Insane isn’t it? The post I see in a local moms Facebook group constantly make me lose my mind. Like do you not think better of yourself than to live with a complete asshole? | 100ogg4 | Ok_Butterfly_3174 | 1,672,610,470 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ok_Butterfly_3174", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a... | [
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206 | I am continually baffled that people marry guys like this. Im sure a chuck of it is people who got married when they thought they were adults and were still kids really.
I’m mean who among us didn’t make questionable dating choices in our late teens/ early 20’s? | 100ogg4 | Ok_Butterfly_3174 | 1,672,644,092 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ok_Butterfly_3174", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a... | [
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207 | NTA, your husband is a tool. Seems like he hasn't even considered there might be emotional attachment to this monney as it came from your mom. Does he love you? Why has he not considered your feelings and opinion?
Then comes the fact that he thinks he has a full claim on it. Then comes that he thinks his family has a ... | 100ogg4 | Old-Host-57 | 1,672,595,859 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Old-Host-57", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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208 | AND for me, if they were relying on OP to pay for it, that implies they bought more than they normally would’ve (and outside of their own means) which is an AH move in itself, let alone if the person you are expecting to pay for it isn’t even aware / consenting of that fact. Jfc. | 100ogg4 | OliB150 | 1,672,605,024 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OliB150", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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209 | This right here. How she got the money is irrelevant. Informing someone they’re paying for your meal is unacceptable in any situation.
It’s made worse because she has the money because her mother died. That just not cool | 100ogg4 | On_my_last_spoon | 1,672,605,815 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "On_my_last_spoon", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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210 | NTA, but your husband and his family are so greedy and entitled. They invited you to the restaurant, you didn’t invite them. It’s times like this that you know who’s in your corner and who’s not. It’s sad to say, your husband is not. | 100ogg4 | One-Awareness3671 | 1,672,595,408 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "One-Awareness3671", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a... | [
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211 | INFO: why are you with him? And how long have you been with him? | 100ogg4 | One-Awareness4609 | 1,672,594,503 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "One-Awareness4609", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a... | [
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212 | NTA and maybe you should keep on walking. That inheritance is yours, not your husbands or his family's.
He in particular seems uncomfortable that you have the freedom of your own money to spend. Don't let him control you.
EDIT: And so sorry for your loss. | 100ogg4 | ParsimoniousSalad | 1,672,595,243 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ParsimoniousSalad", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#9b1e00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "f... | [
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213 | NTA. Your husband obviously feels entitled to half that money, which is bullshit. Half of what’s yours is only his in divorce and if he pushes the issue… well… if he fucks around he’s gonna find out. | 100ogg4 | Peachy1409 | 1,672,596,245 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Peachy1409", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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214 | Of course you are NTA. Also, I would seriously have a discussion with your husband about boundaries and expectations. Why did the family think you were going to pay? Did he tell them you would? In an case red flags all around. | 100ogg4 | PegasusTenma | 1,672,594,986 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PegasusTenma", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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215 | Also definitely foolproof and tamperproof birth control until she has decided whether or not to continue a relationship with this guy. You don't want to be stuck to him and his family through a child if you decide that you don't want to be with him anymore. | 100ogg4 | PetraLoseIt | 1,672,604,262 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PetraLoseIt", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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216 | I hope you figure out what is best for you. I am sorry for your loss. Don’t let anyone gaslight you or bully you. And I support how you handled yourself at dinner. | 100ogg4 | PhiladelphiaPhreedom | 1,672,599,877 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PhiladelphiaPhreedom", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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217 | I agree with you that a divorce Lawyer might be a wise investment. Might be interesting to see what or how he and and his family react to the idea of a Prenup. | 100ogg4 | PicardNCC1701D | 1,672,602,848 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PicardNCC1701D", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d... | [
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218 | Might be worth for her to get one. | 100ogg4 | PicardNCC1701D | 1,672,605,013 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PicardNCC1701D", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d... | [
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221 | I’d use the term commingle over conflate. Same idea.
Even in a community property states there are ways to keep some funds separate. Post-nuptial agreements are also a thing.
Regardless, OP, visit a lawyer that specializes in estate planning. Keep your money in a way that lets you direct how you use it. Even if tha... | 100ogg4 | PolesRunningCoach | 1,672,595,931 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PolesRunningCoach", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d... | [
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222 | My husband is the type to insist on picking up the check for the whole group. In fact he loves doing it. But he gets real stingy when everyone automatically expects it from him | 100ogg4 | PoopAndSunshine | 1,672,614,551 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PoopAndSunshine", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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223 | NTA. I literally hate it when people attempt to climb into my wallet. | 100ogg4 | Positivelythinking | 1,672,596,118 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Positivelythinking", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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224 | NTA. | 100ogg4 | Pretty-Benefit-233 | 1,672,595,543 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Pretty-Benefit-233", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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225 | I would honestly pack bags and leave ASAP. Like, today, NOW. His behavior is concerning and I would not be surprised to see it escalate. Look at how many people have family members attempt to murder them after winning the lotto. I would also be very very careful with birth control to make sure he doesn't try to baby tr... | 100ogg4 | PrincessPnyButtercup | 1,672,600,963 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "PrincessPnyButtercup", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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226 | Double check your jurisdiction, but I'd be inclined to remind him of the legal status of inheritances, they're usually considered non-marital assets.
Keep your money separate. He can do as he likes with the money he stands to eventually inherit from his parents. | 100ogg4 | Professional_Ruin953 | 1,672,601,259 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Professional_Ruin953", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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227 | >I agree with you that a divorce Lawyer might be a wise investment. Might be interesting to see what or how he and and his family react to the idea of a Prenup.
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They actually have "Postnups" for just this kind of... spouse. | 100ogg4 | Pumpkinspiciness | 1,672,604,608 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Pumpkinspiciness", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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228 | What I am wondering is **why does OP's husband's family know anything at all about what OP inherited?** I also find it tacky that OP's husband and his family would throw a celebratory party on OP's inheritance because the only reason why OP got that inheritance was because OP's Mom died. | 100ogg4 | Puzzleheaded-Desk399 | 1,672,614,480 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Puzzleheaded-Desk399", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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229 | > “If I’m lucky that I my stepdad had to die in order for me to get that money then I’d rather not have the money and have him alive instead.”
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Here is my poor woman's award 🏆🏆🏆🏆🥇🥇🥇🥇 | 100ogg4 | Puzzleheaded-Desk399 | 1,672,614,664 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Puzzleheaded-Desk399", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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230 | That just delays the inevitable. He’s still going to try to get at her inheritance one way or another. Who wants to be in a relationship where they have to constantly dodge their partners attempts at getting their hands on your money? | 100ogg4 | Queasy-Loss-484 | 1,672,672,546 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Queasy-Loss-484", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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231 | >Who RELIES on someone else to pay for anything
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This. If you can't afford going out without relying on your DIL, You can celebrate NYE like all of us broke people. | 100ogg4 | Queen_of_skys | 1,672,604,080 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Queen_of_skys", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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232 | NTA.
Unless you’re invited to a dinner where the host has *specifically* made it clear that they are paying, a good rule is if you can’t afford it, don’t go. Nobody worth having in your life will judge you, and if it’s a small group you’ll probably end up going somewhere that’s in everyone’s comfort zone.
It’s not ... | 100ogg4 | Reasonable-Pen-88 | 1,672,594,884 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Reasonable-Pen-88", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a... | [
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233 | That's why my grandpa distributed most of his assets when he was alive. He wanted us to fully enjoy the "inheritance" as opposed to being sad for his death. | 100ogg4 | Reasonable-shark | 1,672,648,253 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Reasonable-shark", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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234 | NTA. You’ve lost your mother, and at a pretty young age to lose a parent. I lost mine at 26, and a fair amount of money came through a couple of years later. Neither my then partner, my friends or other family members expected a penny from me. In fact I splashed out on Christmas presents for them and got a talking-to a... | 100ogg4 | RedorBread | 1,672,596,075 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "RedorBread", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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235 | A good response I’ll try and remember. My mom passed last year four years after my dad passed from cancer. I sold their house and used all the money to buy a house for myself. I was told a few times how lucky I was to have no mortgage and a home but yeah, you know I’d just rather have my parents back. | 100ogg4 | Ren_Lau | 1,672,613,845 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ren_Lau", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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236 | NTA Freeloading Family in law need to take a hike and your husband needs to join them. | 100ogg4 | ReviewOk929 | 1,672,595,199 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ReviewOk929", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#eeb800", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "edf63c8... | [
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237 | So let me get this straight.
Your mother died after an illness and the thing your in-laws take from this is "great, now she can pay for everything".
Yeah, NTA | 100ogg4 | RichSignal7022 | 1,672,594,821 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "RichSignal7022", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db40... | [
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238 | Why did they think you were paying?? | 100ogg4 | Routine-Nature5006 | 1,672,597,178 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Routine-Nature5006", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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239 | Pretty bold statement when you don't know where OP is from. | 100ogg4 | SachPlymouth | 1,672,646,878 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SachPlymouth", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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240 | NTA Their expectations are what caused the problem. For some reason they're somehow feeling entitled to YOUR inheritance. That is weird, unless you have discussed it with either hubby or in-laws, which it doesn't sound like you did. The family was wrong to place blame on anyone other than the people who felt entitled t... | 100ogg4 | SageGreen98 | 1,672,595,272 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SageGreen98", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "db40139... | [
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241 | NTA
All I can say is that the money I would inherit from the hard work of my parents would not be thrown away on dinners of my inlaws. | 100ogg4 | SaraRF | 1,672,596,513 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SaraRF", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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242 | Please do this! I know it is hard when someone you love betrays you but this is a definite reason to get out. It won’t get better . | 100ogg4 | SarahOnTheHill | 1,672,604,460 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SarahOnTheHill", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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243 | NTA. I am not a lawyer and don’t know nearly enough in how this works, but I’d discuss with a lawyer a post-nuptial to ensure that inheritance is not considered a shared asset. | 100ogg4 | Scottopus | 1,672,596,737 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Scottopus", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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244 | Sometimes I think this subreddit should be called SIDTA (Should I Divorce This Asshole). OP needs to RUN, not walk, from this clusterfuck. | 100ogg4 | Scottyknuckle | 1,672,604,674 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Scottyknuckle", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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245 | NTA. If you don’t have a prenup, you can still make one now. Make sure he has zero access to that bank account. Good luck. | 100ogg4 | Sea_Yesterday_8888 | 1,672,596,524 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Sea_Yesterday_8888", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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246 | NTA | 100ogg4 | Senju19_02 | 1,672,595,060 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Senju19_02", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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247 | NTA
"celebratory dinner" for your dead mother?
That she "could" leave you money they can spend? /S | 100ogg4 | Shnipi | 1,672,596,106 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Shnipi", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a... | [
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248 | In-laws being shitty is bad enough, but you can ignore them when your SO has your back. In this case, husband sided with his shitty family, so this marriage is DONE!
I am very sorry that your mother died, OP. Please use the money she left to you to get yourself free of this awful man and his awful family.
Let Mom ta... | 100ogg4 | SiroccoDream | 1,672,606,913 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SiroccoDream", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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249 | NTA -this feels like a form of financial abuse. You need to set some clear boundaries with him about the money and this isn't an acceptable expectation of you to pay for things like that. Especially if they don't ask you first. | 100ogg4 | SkulCain | 1,672,596,000 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SkulCain", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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250 | NTA. | 100ogg4 | Snoo1560 | 1,672,594,569 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Snoo1560", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#c7a509", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d5e9f50c-a... | [
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251 | From the looks of it, he won’t inherit much if they are relying on OP to pay for dinner. | 100ogg4 | Snoo71074 | 1,672,610,846 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Snoo71074", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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253 | NTA. Run far far away from that family. | 100ogg4 | Southern-Clue8133 | 1,672,595,698 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Southern-Clue8133", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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254 | NTA. You need to have a serious conversation about boundaries and entitlement. If you would have paid, then you would’ve set the expectation that people can just blow your money. You didn’t offer in advance to pay for everyone; therefore, they shouldn’t feel entitled to the money that you only have because you lost you... | 100ogg4 | Southern-Salary2573 | 1,672,595,630 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Southern-Salary2573", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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256 | Seriously! I remember a relationship I was in in my early 20’s. I was helping him move across the country as he was in the military and got assigned a new post. We were driving from New Mexico(my home state, where we met) to Georgia(his new post). We drove through Illinois to see his family. When we left after visiting... | 100ogg4 | StressSubstantial104 | 1,672,668,025 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "StressSubstantial104", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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257 | I said the same thing | 100ogg4 | Substantial-Air3395 | 1,672,603,586 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Substantial-Air3395", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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258 | NTA- what an outrageous expectation from your husband and in-laws, with no discussion before hand? The joke from your MIL was also just lame and insensitive. After the emotions settle from this incident, time for a serious discussion with your husband about this money and your boundaries. | 100ogg4 | Sufficient-Guess7018 | 1,672,596,675 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Sufficient-Guess7018", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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259 | NTA
Cut your losses and run from them sweetheart, nothing but gold digging from them | 100ogg4 | Sufficient-Sulfer | 1,672,595,813 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Sufficient-Sulfer", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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260 | >Inheritance is free from marital asset status s long as she doesn’t mingle the money with marital assets.
[...quoted text...]
That hugely depends on where, how and even when OP married. It's not at all universal | 100ogg4 | Tar_alcaran | 1,672,610,629 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Tar_alcaran", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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262 | You are so not the AH. Your husband is for telling HIS family you would pay everyones donner from your mums money. You only know who you married when finances come into play. And, really sorry for your loss. | 100ogg4 | Temporary_Trouble_25 | 1,672,596,522 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Temporary_Trouble_25", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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263 | That's assuming you even had the means to pay it anyway! It is safely away in a savings account; I don't have x amount of money in my checking to make up for that! | 100ogg4 | Tesdinic | 1,672,602,497 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Tesdinic", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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264 | My wife has inherited some money from her grandma's estate. I have no idea how much or what she plans to do with it, nor do I plan to ask. Its her money to do with as she sees fit. | 100ogg4 | TheDisapprovingBrit | 1,672,613,633 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "TheDisapprovingBrit", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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265 | NTA - your husband and his family should be ashamed for assuming that just because you have the money, you would treat everyone. Especially if there is no family history of treating others (prior to your inheritance).
Depending on the amount of money you inherited, your husband also needs to get wise that recklessly... | 100ogg4 | TheMrSnrub | 1,672,594,750 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "TheMrSnrub", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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266 | He's ignoring the part where they lied to get you there and then planned to use you.
He's also ignoring the fact that he's been trying to spend your inheritance since you got it.
Keep the money separate, it will save you in the divorce. And the divorce is coming. | 100ogg4 | TheQuietType84 | 1,672,595,513 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "TheQuietType84", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96... | [
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267 | NTA. It would have been different if they had asked you and you said yes. Why is your husband offering up your money? And who would go out to dinner not expecting to pay? | 100ogg4 | ThesaurusRex_1025 | 1,672,596,030 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ThesaurusRex_1025", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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268 | My grandparents were married 72 years, and all it taught us was that it's not worth wasting your life in a miserable relationship for the sake of marital security. | 100ogg4 | Top-Wolverine-8684 | 1,672,648,192 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Top-Wolverine-8684", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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