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10ufuer | Had this heated argument with my SO just a few minutes ago. SO finally said he was too angry to keep discussing it and we should just drop it. I'm still PO'd so tell me, Reddit, who's AH here?We are in our 60s and have a big extended family scattered across the US, but no kids or grandkids of our own. We don't live nea... | AITA giving presents to one kid and not their half-sibling and cousins | NTA |
10utlbz | Ok this is gonna be dumb lol but I was having a bad day already. I had a decently full cart and I got in the first lane I saw, not realizing the "15 items or less" sign was on (or I swear the guy turned it on while I was in line idk man.) I was loading my stuff on the belt with a barrier to the person in front of me's ... | AITA for accidentally getting in 15 items or less lane, then leaving the lane when I realized? | NTA |
10uszet | Let me preface this by saying I love my dad. He was the main parent who supported me both in childhood and now.For some background:Three and a half months ago he went to the hospital for a surgery. It was supposed to take two weeks max until he would be able to get back home. It ended up taking almost three months. Dur... | AITA because I said no to helping my dad? | NTA |
10uh689 | I'm learning Japanese and am using an app called Tandem currently where I can meet people from Japan online and chat with them. Most people use their own picture for their profile so I should as well. The issue is I'm a bit chubby, and wear glasses, which has seemed to make most people filter me out.Even when I wrote p... | AITA for using a model's picture instead of my own on an app for studying together? | YTA |
10uy6al | Hey guys, so I'll give a little context before I begin, I was in a two-year relationship with my first-ever girlfriend. She was a year older than me 22 at the time and I'm 21. We had our ups and downs but overall I had a good time. We recently broke up and I haven't been able to let go, so here is my story.About six mo... | AITA for expecting more from my girlfriend's Christmas present | NTA |
10v3t9r | So for context, i am a really emotional person. (As in I cry really easily). When people talk bad about me, it doesn’t always get to me. But when it comes to my family, i get really upset when they do. My parent likes to remind me about my acne and acne treatments as well as exercise and diets even though I told them ... | WIBTA if i asked my parent this? | NTA |
10usc8g | My ex likes to get around a lot. Before we started dating a few of our friends would make bets on how long he would be with a woman as a joke. They temporarily stopped while we were dating as I was his longest relationship by far but now that we’re broken up and he’s seeing somebody new they’ve started placing bets on ... | AITA for participating in the bet on how long my ex’s new relationship would last? | YTA |
10uu0ad | Please excuse me for any formatting issues. This is my very first post. I have (26/F) and my husband (25/M) moved to our current town a few years ago together. We recently just moved into a very nice apartment with the help of a friend my husband made here (29/M) in July. In Aug that same friend (29/M) asked to crash ... | AITA for wanting my significant other’s friend to leave our home? | NTA |
10ukjor | Ok so to give a little bit of back story, my step mom helped me get a car when I first got my G1 licence. I got the car November 2021, a 2012 Hyundai Elantra priced at 2000$ (got it from a family friend) and it was put under her name because I couldn’t get it insured until my g2. So the quickest way was to put it in he... | AITA for losing it over my car situation | NTA |
10u5n2c | My husband, Jim and I have an almost 3 month old baby boy, Dev. Jim is a perfectionist and lately he's been frustrated because he feels I'm slacking on staying on top of things around the house and tells me there's no excuse for the house to not stay immaculate at all times.Dev is the best baby, but he does not sleep a... | AITA for snapping at my husband? | NTA |
10uz109 | Ok so I ( 15m ) was forced into a musical by my brother and mom, but that's a whole story in itself. In this musical there are only 2 people who bring the whole thing down as in profomence and mood of others. Seid people are A and Z (insane coincidence) the only one who matters in this story is A. A for lack of a bette... | AITA for getting angry at someone who called me Homophobic because of my looks? | NTA |
10uim7b | I feel like I'm being made out to be the bad guy, but I feel like I didn't do anything wrong, just need some outside opinions. Sorry if this is long and drawn out, also for any formatting issues, on mobile.So, one of my good friends' wedding was at the end of August 22. It was a quickly planned wedding (started plannin... | AITA for leaving a friend's wedding a bit early? | YTA |
10uv922 | I (22m) called my grandma this morning to wish her a happy birthday while I was out getting my taxes filed. We traded the usual joke we do every year that she's just turning 40 instead of her actual age.We talked for a bit, and I noticed that she didn't sound like she was feeling well. I asked if she was okay, and she ... | AITA For Not Going To My Grandmother's For Her Birthday? | NTA |
10v3ld9 | My (29m) mother died in September 2021, it was all very sudden and a huge shock for all of us. She was only 56. Her death has hit me very hard because I was already in a depression before she died and her death obviously didn’t help. She was the only family member that I felt close with. I‘m not particularly close with... | WIBTA if I won‘t be there when my family scatters my mothers ashes? | NTA |
10uiir4 | My (27F) and my boyfriend (30M) go to a local strip club for date night sometimes. It’s a really fun chill atmosphere (jazzy lounge vibes not a club) and the girls are super pretty and nice. I’m bisexual so it’s just a great time for everyone involved. I have a close friend group of other queer women (25F and 24F) and ... | AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t come to a strip club with me and my friends? | NTA |
10v01e9 | I was getting ready for high school this morning. I usually eat breakfast, get dressed and leave. I have a schedule to leave my house to get to high school at 8:25-8:30 every weekday \[The drive to school takes around 10 minutes and class starts at 8:45\]. Only issue is that me and my family usually wake up around 8AM,... | AITA for laughing at my mum? | NTA |
10v1h6a | Update: after reading a few comments I realize I overreacted. We did enjoy the rest of our time and saying I wouldn't do it ever again was probably not a good way to go. I will apologize to him and well talk about what was really going on. Like a couple of you mentioned it's possible that there was a bit more to his fr... | AITA for telling my husband I wouldn't be making nice plans for us ever again? | ESH |
10uj5xb | Some backstory first, I travel a lot for work and this happened while I was away for about a week. My girlfriend has social anxiety and recently had a medical incident that require some medication that she is now withdrawaling from, this can cause some increased irritation. My old FB picture was of the two of use but w... | AITA for changing my FB profile picture without talking to my girlfriend first? | NTA |
10us893 | something tells me I’m TA but also not so the only way I’ll know is through the help of strangers on the internet.I’m a 16YR boy, turning 17. My sister, who is the same age (we’re twins) has her own room, bigger than mine. we grew up sharing everything, including clothes, bathrooms, and bedrooms. I recently had gotten ... | AITA for asking my sister to not touch my stuff without my permission? | NTA |
10uth2n | A bit of context: wife is busy trying to advance her career, I have been nothing but supportive because I believe in her and she deserves to see her dreams come true. I take care of a large chunk of things at home (all the cooking, dishes, cleaning, chores, errands). I also help with work-related things, since we are i... | AITA for asking a clarification question to my wife regarding house repair during a stressful period without realizing the pressure she would feel? | NTA |
10uinvc | I woke up this morning to find my fridge door all the way open. Everything in the fridge was room temperature, so the damn thing was open for hours. This isn’t the first time this has happened… in the last 3 months, this is the fifth time I’ve found the fridge open with all of the food spoiled in it. In total I’ve thro... | AITA for snapping on my roommate in front of his girlfriend? | NTA |
10u9k0y | My husband told me that he wants to run a disco-themed party from 10am Friday morning until 4pm Saturday afternoon in our house and people have to pay for invites to come, he said he'd be getting a good Spotify/Alexa/YouTube playlist and bulk-buying food, be it Pringles, Lay's, WISE chips, M&M's, Skittles, cakes, n... | AITA for telling my husband his disco party in our house is a no-go? | NTA |
10urwol | I am F 36, my brother is 38, my sister is 40, my dad is 72. When I was 26-27 I pitched the idea of a family vacation multiple times. Everyone was on board (including my mom who has since passed) but my sister couldn’t afford it at the time so we didn’t go since not everyone was able to make it. That was fine with ... | AITA for being upset that my family wants to go on vacation without me? | NTA |
10uvfq6 | \*Throwaway account\* I (21 F) used to have a good relationship with my bio dad (48 M) up until around when I turned 12. He and my mom split when I was 1 because my dad was an idiot, and could barely hold down a stable job (he was 28 and had had at least 15-20 jobs at that point). My mom and stepdad married when I was ... | AITA for not wanting to talk to my dad anymore? | NTA |
10usefe | So, me (25f) and my ex-girlfriend (25f) recently split up. She lives with her roommate, I’ll call him Kevin (27m) since two years ago, and I am living in a different city. Sometime ago my father brought me two boxes of hotpockets (24 in total) from the US ( relevant, they don’t sell them in my country, and I love them ... | AITA for making my ex’s roommate pay for my Hot Pockets? | YTA |
10ulsv4 | I(33F) have chronic, treatment-resistant depression. During a bad spell over the summer, I lost my job and my home. My sister asked our grandmother(88F) to give me a place to stay, and she agreed. I was surprised, but I moved into her outbuilding at the end of August.I had a car loan I obviously couldn't pay and planne... | WIBTA: Discharging a debt to my grandmother in bankruptcy | NTA |
10ujx7b | My (31F) brother (26M) and SIL (25F) rescued a dog in Oct 2022. This was an emotional purchase since SIL previous dog got put down after attacking my nephew (2M) twice within a short period. The adoption was a few days after they asked me for money for groceries, 2 days later sent me a photo of adopting her, only to as... | AITA for calling my SIL about giving up her rescue dog? | ESH |
10tm226 | I (45F) am facing major surgery on my heel, ankle and Achilles tendon if physical therapy does not improve my current pain levels. I have what my podiatrist has described as the “worst calcifications” he has seen on my Achilles. There is a very high chance that with or without the surgery, I will lose my ability to wal... | AITA: I told my mom the major surgery I’m facing at 45 is a direct result of surgery she made me get at six. | NTA |
10uwwmh | Im 29F dog sitting for my sister 32 while she and her husband 35 are on vacation for two weeks. I agreed to dog sit cause my home life is bad and I wanted a break from it. Sister isn’t paying me. She left chicken breasts and hamburger meat in the fridge. She didn’t have much vegetables other than some carrots, celery, ... | AITA for not cleaning the bathroom? | NTA |
10tnmts | I'm 23 and my niece is 14. Last year, my brother and SIL moved her to private school since she was getting bullied and she'd gone from an A to a F student. But even a year in, she was still failing. I knew what she was going through, I'd had some traumatic experiences from my first boss. And even when I quit, PTSD from... | AITA for my advice to my niece about bullies? My brother and sister in law are furious. | NTA |
10v0mxt | Hi y’all, throwaway because I’m just curious what you guys think. My (23m) ex and I (19m) used to go out together maybe once a week or so. At the time I worked 30 plus hours and went to school virtually given it was peak COVID. He went to school but only took a single class every semester and did doordash maybe twice a... | AITA for making him drive? | ESH |
10up9u7 | For reference: there’s an age rap in our relationship. He has teen children that are 17-19.Today is my S/O’s birthday. He’s super chill and lowkey. Predictable in a sense. I just wanted him to relax and do whatever he wanted on his day. He said he just wants to chill at home and eat take out.However my bonus kids have ... | AITA for possibly skipping my S/O’s birthday dinner due to his kids? | NTA |
10uwc38 | AITA for thinking that a parent drinking 16 beers in an 8 hour period is too much when you have 4 kids in your care? One of these kids includes a newborn baby. I am the other parent and I was there and not drinking but am I wrong for thinking this is inappropriate for the other parent? It seems excessive to me. He insi... | AITA for criticising a parent for drinking 16 beers in an 8 hour period, with children in his care? | NTA |
10v2ewi | I work early in the morning, my room mate of almost 2 years has decided to take a year off work after he was fired for starting a fight.He has some money so can afford to, his boss also lied to EI and said he was laid off so he could claim EI but in reality he was let go for violence. So he could very well do this for ... | AITA for wanting my apartment to be quiet at night | NTA |
10v67g7 | This happened a couple years ago.So my granddad got covid and very unfortunately he passed away because of his underlying health problems. This all happened during the height of covid which meant funerals were limited to 30 people in attendance. My grandparents have 5 grandchildren in total, my 2 older cousins (F33 and... | AITA for bringing up my annoyance at my granddad’s funeral? | NTA |
10v645e | So last year I got pregnant and my now ex (of 8 years) decided he no longer wanted kids. We had many conversations during our relationship about having kids and he was always more excited about it than I was, only to leave when I got pregnant and chose to keep it. He didn’t contact for the first 5 months of my pregnanc... | AITA for blocking my daughter’s father? | NTA |
10uov9c | Me, 16 and my friend, 16, named Angie. If you read my recent post, you’d know Angie is pretty sketchy. We were having a sleepover, I was going to have a shower and get dressed to go out. I laid my clothes and jewellery on the bed to get while she was in the room, and I had a shower. After, I came back to the room to se... | AITA for accusing my friend of theft and searching her bag? | NTA |
10v0bkw | My boss yells a lot when she's stressed, and usually I'm used too it but today I got yelled at for no reason, we have these salads that are supposed to be weighed out, my friend (who is my manager) told me to add more kale if salads ever look too skimpy because customers complain about it, my boss caught me doing that ... | AITA for wanting my friend to comfort me after I got yelled at by my boss? | NTA |
10ubnfs | Hi, My best friend recently broke up with her fiancée and they’ve been together for a while. They share an apartment and it’s been hard for the both continuing to live together. My friend is searching for a new place and I assume her ex is too.I have my own apartment, living with my dog, it’s a one bedroom and it’s pre... | WIBTA if I said no to letting my friend crash for a bit | NTA |
10v2a29 | This is a throwaway account, as my best friend has reddit and will recognise me right away.So, I have this best friend (let’s call her Alice) and we have many similar interests and usually get along, but only because I go along with everything she says to avoid getting yelled at/scolded.Our friendship has become toxic ... | AITA for asking my best friend to be a better person? | NTA |
10ugvb6 | I (F13), cant stand noises like chewing and breathing loudly, tapping, ect and was diagnosed with autism in November 2022. my dad, (M52), is someone who eats really really loudly. I can’t handle hearing it and my mum, (F46), even got me ear plugs because of this. but everyone sits in the same place at dinner and me and... | AITA for constantly snapping at my dad because he chews with his mouth open? | NTA |
10v5zkl | One of my coworkers is having what could be considered a moderately high-profile wedding in the summer. I say high-profile because she’s a well-known and popular news person in our city (I’m not on air, I’m just a newscast director).It should be known that she and I are not necessarily in each other’s super close circl... | AITA for telling a coworker I don’t want to go to her wedding? | NTA |
10v5yys | AITA for treating my older sister how she treats me and everyone else every day?English is not my first language, please excuse any mistakes.Let me preface this by saying that as long as I can remember my older sister has treated me like a living piece of shit. My mother has always made excuses for this behavior with t... | AITA for treating my older sister how she treats me and others every day? | NTA |
10v5yl8 | This is long so bear with me.To give context, I (22F) have a pretty bad relationship with my dad (43m). My entire life, he has been mentally and emotionally abusive to my mother and I. The worst was when he yelled me in a public square on the day my mom graduated from Harvard, telling me I ruined everything I touched a... | AITA for not going on a trip my dad booked? | NTA |
10uyloz | i’ve been planning to go to this concert for months and i wasn’t informed until after i had already bought the (non refundable) tickets that my cousin’s wedding is the same day. these tickets were NOT cheap and it’s something i’ve been really looking forward to.my cousin and i were close growing up but as adults we’ve ... | WIBTA if i went to a concert instead of my cousin’s wedding? | NTA |
10tz7yh | On the RSVP my fiancé and I put that we’re reserving 5 seats for his family of 5. Today we got the RSVP back and he crossed the 5 out and put 6. I asked one of our sisters if she knows who the 6th person might be and she told me it’s his sons girlfriend. We are having a smaller wedding and already didn’t invite a lot o... | WIBTA for telling my brother his 16 year old son can’t bring his girlfriend of 6 months to my wedding? | NTA |
10v5w5v | Going to DR for a wedding. All inclusive. My BILs best friend. Good grip, rowdy, but fun.But, for the last 3 of these weddings, the leader of that group insists that everyone goes to duty free before arriving and buy a bottle each of whiskey. The guy loves jack daniels and he’s a groomsman. He did this at the last 2, m... | WIBTA if I went into town for booze? | NTA |
10v5vuf | I'm 34M, my half-brother is 39. He has a teenage son, I have a 1 year old daughter. We don't see each other often, but we call and text. He grew up without a solid male role model, his father was never in the picture, so he was somewhat difficult in his youth. My mothers general lack of parenting didn't help in this re... | AITA for not giving my brother money? | NTA |
10v266g | Names changed. I (39M) play DnD (Dungeons and Dragons) with my friends and in 2020 I decided to DM a campaign for my friends to help with the stress.
Two friends of mine are a couple, Matt and John (29M now) just added an infant to their family when I started my campaign. They shared a character at first to swap baby ... | AITA For not wanting to play DnD because my friend keeps forgetting how? | NTA |
10v0099 | TA account. For background, I am in a group chat with three friends and an acquaintance "Mel". I call Mel an acquaintance because I am not really close to her but the rest of my friends are good friends with her. Mel likely sees me as an acquaintance too. I have hung out with my three friends multiple times as a group ... | AITA for not wanting to go to an acquaintance's birthday event? | NTA |
10v1zjy | The title may be a little misleading but I can't figure out something better. And sorry for my bad english. To start of, I M16 used to sit around on Discord quite a lot. I made a lot of friends on there and always talked to them like I talk in real life. I'm most likely autistic and currently in the progress of gettin... | AITA for talking about experiences I've had as an undiagnosed person? | NTA |
10uwv5h | I have two Masters degrees and, with my Bachelors, 3 degrees worth of school loans totaling $180k that have ballooned to much more with interest. I have never bought a house and have never had kids. I am responsible. I have moved numerous times for better jobs over the years.My current long-term (2.5 years) boyfriend r... | AITA to attend school and not be home full-time to enable myself to pay a huge school loan balance? | NTA |
10v5huy | My wife(34f) and I (33m) were looking at YouTube videos of Paris and I pointed at a cafe that I once visited. She replied with “let’s save up and go there next”! Even I said let’s go. And I stupidly followed by saying “London has got nothing on Paris” and she shook her head and said that’s not true!My wife used to live... | AITAH for saying to my wife that Berlin is like a mistress? | NTA |
10v5hhe | My husband, 38, told me he's agreed with his friend Rachel (fake name), a 38-year-old masculine-looking woman who works in various offices in Vancouver (in a different part of Vancouver) that he'd stand in for Rachel and meet her clients so she can go for a shopping day in Toronto with a friend.Rachel said she'd help m... | AITA for telling my husband that dressing up as his friend from another workplace is weird AF and not socially acceptable? | NTA |
10usklp | In June, it will be 2 years since I was in a car accident with my mom. I was driving when a drunk cyclist came at a big speed down the road perpendicular to the road we were on (he was going down the hill on the right side of my car) and didn't hit the bike brakes. Fortunately, I wasn't speeding or anything at that tim... | AITA for yelling at my mom, because she disturbs me while I am driving my car? | NTA |
10v1s2f | I don't know if the mods will let me post this. Anyway, I am a 27 year old female and currently stay in an Asian country. I suffer from chronic depression and social anxiety, and it has been very hard for me to hold on to a job. I shall explain why.Ever since I was an infant, I was constantly emotionally, verbally and ... | AITA for adamantly demanding seven thousand dollars from my parents as compensation for the years of childhood neglect? | NTA |
10uuac4 | So I was flying home from vacation with my friend and we were seated next to a man in a 3 person row. He had a pilot's association lanyard and was chatting pretty familiarly with one of the flight attendants. We asked him and he confirmed he works for the company. We sat on the tarmac for about 40 minutes because of he... | AITA for reading a stranger's texts about me, when they're sitting next to me on a flight? | YTA |
10uwkf3 | i’ve been in various forms of a band with a good friend for the last 3 years, with him on drums and me playing guitar or bass as needed. for the longest time, we were the two strongest members and the lowest common denominator was always somebody else, but over the last 6 ish months we reformed with a new bassist and s... | WIBTA for quitting a band with a close friend and starting a new project with another member of said band b/c i don’t feel satisfied creatively? | NTA |
10uqtoq | I went on an expensive ski trip with three friends, spending 700/night on a luxury hotel for 3 nights. We all agreed months ahead of time that we would split the the cost of the hotel equally and prepaid for our stay. On the trip, one of my friends, Mona (names have been changed) hurts her knee and can no longer ski. S... | AITA for not refunding friend for prepaid trip? | NTA |
10v56px | My (25F) brother is turning 17 and my parents are planning to have a birthday dinner celebration with him. But between work being stress and me not being very close to him, I’m not too inclined to go. I’ve indicated this to my parents and they’re upset and they said it’s to spend time with family, but I’ve replied that... | WIBTA if I don’t attend my brother’s birthday dinner? | YWBTA |
10v55x4 | Okay, this is gonna be quite the read.Early last year, I (21F) had my boyfriend (21M) move in with me in my college townhome with my 5 other roommates.All of my other roommates are women. We all moved in a year prior to my boyfriend, and I only knew a couple of them at the time. We all grew really close and became good... | AITA for having my boyfriend move in with me and my roommates? | NTA |
10uqlxh | A few days ago i celebrated my bday party at my house (i am 19 for reference) with a group of close friends aprox 10. And later, during the party after a round of games a few friends went together in MY room upstairs, closed the doors and basically had “deep” conversations for a good hour.Maybe the most weird thing was... | AITA for thinking that having seperate/private room conversations during my birthday party rude? | NTA |
10uhw8h | I am the youngest of five children. My siblings and I grew up struggling financially, mostly because of our parents’ bad spending habits, unwillingness to keep a job, and financial illiteracy. I grew up so financially traumatized, I made it a point and focus of mine to never have to live a life like that ever again. My... | AITA for asking my sister and her family to move out at the end of the month ? | NTA |
10v52im | I (32f) have a “friend” Hannah (32f) who was my best pal growing up. We had been through so much and she was honestly like a sister to me at one point and we considered each others families as our own. A few years ago while I was away visiting my long distance partner, my younger brother (20m) was attacked by her partn... | AITA for ignoring my (ex) best friend? | NTA |
10uv30i | I’m going to keep this as short as possible.my mum called me today and i mentioned that my younger brother was helping to clean out my aunties garden whilst she finished her uni work (i thought my brother already told mum), she said she would pay him for his work which he happily accepted and got everything done within... | AITA for telling mum she’s wrong? | NTA |
10uv02c | So I've never been to a rave before, my partner has been too many in the past and I know he enjoys this a lot. He is coming too my city for a upcoming rave this March, seeing as we haven't spent any time together being long distance and he's only here for a couple days I suggested what if I come?He shut this down immed... | AITA for wanting too go to a rave with my partner but he doesn't want me too? | NTA |
10v1fhp | I (25F) have a boyfriend (24M) who will be going overseas for a few weeks for a business trip. As I don’t like to be apart for too long, he suggested he can pay for my flights to join him for a small portion of his business trip. As it’s in a continent and country that I’ve never been to before, I thought I could make ... | AITA for wanting to make the most of a trip? | NTA |
10uasfe | Sorry for bad posting, this is my first post for Reddit.I had to leave my apartment for a week as my partner is having a medical situation, our pet and I had to find other accommodations until my partner’s situation got better. because of that, I reached out to a friend to see if I could stay with them for that week. T... | AITA For not giving up the guest bedroom to a couple? | NTA |
10uoe74 | I (18F) am having a hard time forgiving my (18M) friend and he thinks it’s not fair. A few months into my course and one of my classmates and I realised that we were childhood friends. Let’s call him H.We were once talking online and I accidentally revealed that my ex was a girl. He asked me if I were bisexual to which... | AITA for not being able to give him another chance? | NTA |
10uuu6c | I'll keep it as short as I can - we're a production outfit of about 30 people including an office, a main production site and some smaller satellite sites. I (31 M) worked at both the main production and smaller sites for about ten years and maintain a good relationship with all my old teammates. I've been in the offic... | AITA for excluding one office colleague from my band's gig invites? | NTA |
10togpu | My dad (53M) has a girlfriend. They’re pretty serious, they’ve been dating a couple of months. My mom (46F) passed away a couple of months ago. My dad, since then, now has a new girlfriend. “Tammy”. (48F)For a while, I felt like an asshole because she hadn’t done anything for me to not like her. My dad and his friends ... | AITA for yelling at my dad’s girlfriend for “accidentally” throwing away my contacts? | NTA |
10urpsw | My friend (39m) has been a widow for 6 months now. He has been grieving, as they were married for 13 years. I suggested he go out with some friends and have dinner. He calls me and tells me he’s home early and didn’t have the best time. But his wife’s step mom was coming over to drop some items off for his son, her gra... | AITA for telling my friend he’s wrong | YTA |
10th549 | My (37m) sister (29f) is getting married in June. I have two daughters one neurotypical (7f) and one high needs nonverbal autistic daughter (5f). My sister made a rule about her wedding no kids under 5, which I think was a "polite" way of excluding my disabled child. My wife or myself would have immediately took her ou... | AITA for not bringing NT daughter to my sister's wedding due to autistic child not being invited | YTA |
10v4q7h | My engagement ended 2 months ago and ever since there’s been a divide in our friendship group. The majority of our friends have tried to remain neutral but there are some who have very clearly taken his side even though nobody besides us knows why we decided to break things off.We went to a party and I arrived late so ... | AITA for sitting on my ex-fiancé’s lap? | ESH |
10v4pki | My 15-year-old daughter showed me on her online high school portal an assignment from his history teacher which stated:> You must listen to Chapo Trap House, and compare and contrast articles on the phenomenon. You are also required to write one article in support of the phenomenon as if you were an adult living in ... | AITA for anonymously contacting my daughter's school principal over something she had as a school assignment? | YTA |
10v4ms2 | I got into an accident a couple of months ago where my car stalled on the road and another driver totally wrecked me. I ended up in the emergency room.Ive since recovered, but ever since I haven’t been too keen on driving. I sometimes drive alone if it’s a quick run to the store or just to aimlessly drive to get reacqu... | AITA for blowing up at my little sister when she said I drove “kinda” well | YTA |
10v4kvq | Right now I do feel like the asshole but for context I was recently diagnosed as autistic. Me and my psychologist think that's the reason I hate people touching me or saying compliments about me about 10 minutes ago I asked my mum to stop calling me pretty or baby girl because it makes me uncomfortable and makes me fee... | AITA for asking my mum to not call be pretty | NTA |
10umbti | When I was born my mom opened a savings account for me, it's supposed to be a "future studies" account (but at the end of the day that's just a label).Anyways, I go to uni now and do a lot of work on my laptop, my previous laptop was really shitty to the point I had to pray for Office programs to work smoothly. Then on... | AITA for using money that was in my bank account? | NTA |
10tgni8 | My, 16f, mom is an addict so my and my brothers, both 14, don't see her much and haven't in almost a year now. My dad is a good dad but when it comes to girl stuff, he is utterly useless. He's also not working right now due to the hours not being there for him so he's really struggling. My school does provide period pr... | AITA for asking my dad for money for period products? | NTA |
10uwvpx | I 19F got into an argument with my shift manager who’s like in his 50’s today at work. We work at a deli As soon as I arrived to work my friend and coworker immediately told me that he was in a bitchy mood like always and I responded not surprised because he always is and never does anything except wash dishes. I made ... | AITA for arguing with my manager? | NTA |
10uwu50 | For context I'm 21F - lived out of home for almost a year with my partner, it's my 22nd birthday next week! I grew up mainly with my single dad, I am an only daughter. We are super close and aways have been, however we never had much money growing up. My dad is now with my step mum, they've been together for about 4 ye... | WIBTA for getting upset about presents? | NTA |
10uwtct | AITA; my boyfriend ordered pizza and I didn't eat itSo the last 4 weeks I've (33f) been trying to watch what I eat, trying to behave when it comes to carbs. I messed waaaaaay up last weekend, ate a ton of pizza popcorn and we went to bubbas and got all the fries and shrimp sandwiches. I wish I would have had more contr... | AITA for not eating the pizza my boyfriend ordered | NTA |
10ul8dv | I (18 F) am white. I have short hair that is buzzed on both sides and the back. Needless it's not long enough to put into ponytails. Today I planned on cooking. I don't like my hair getting in my face and asked my mom to braid it. Unfortunately, it was too short to go into one braid. So she separated it into 22 very ti... | AITA for wearing 2 small braids? | NTA |
10uv6wq | My aunt has recently moved into my house (she moved in a couple of months ago) and i really do love her. We're really close and in my culture I actually refer to her with a word that means "mom" and even everyone else in my family says shes like a second mom to me. However, she's been doing this one thing that really b... | AITA for shouting at my aunt and slamming the door on her? | NTA |
10tyql0 | I 38M have 2 boys. Mark 12M and Steven 16M. Steven recently came home past his curfew, but it's not a reoccurring issue. He's got good grades, helps out around the house, and is generally respectful. He's a big help and because of that we are a little lenient with him. Sometimes you're having a good time and time slips... | AITA for punishing both my kids? | NTA |
10v3wy6 | I (21f) haven't been feeling up for going out like i used to. Things have been a little different for me and i dont have the energy to listen to my friends' vent about their issues all the time. (same issues usually over and over again). I want to supportive and a nice friend as they have been friends with me for over ... | AITA for not wanting to go out? | NTA |
10uuvpd | I have been struggling with my mental health and it had been affecting my work. I asked for a position within the company with a less pressure involved but was not given that option, in fact my boss gave me an unjustified written warning, after I asked. I have successfully disputed the warning and it’s been taken off m... | WIBTA if I accept a new role and leave the company within 2 weeks of acceptance | NTA |
10uusbu | My work sometimes require me to do split shift with 3 to 4 hours break in between, going back home and back to work took around an hour, longer if there are traffic jam and also there is the cost of fuel,so i would just stay in staff rest area during that time, catching some needed sleep and restJon only work afternoon... | AITA for telling my coworker to either watch the TV or his phone during his break | YTA |
10trbib | My friends Kara and Tony are getting married tomorrow. I went to college with Kara and got to be buddies with Tony too over the last couple years they've been dating so they asked me to be in the wedding.This AM Tony came to me and told me Kara wants me to shave my beard cause all the other men in the wedding are clean... | AITA for refusing to shave my beard for my friend's wedding? | NTA |
10uw9ek | My grandma 76F and grandpa lived few minutes away from us. Grandpa died a month back. I have 2 aunts who lives far with their inlaws. My grandpa gets pension, so will grandma. Me (17F), mom and dad live in a 2bhk house. Mom and my relationship with grandma is very sour. 10 years back when we used to live together, she ... | AITA for not sharing room with my paternal grandma? | NTA |
10ub0yx | My sister planned a 40th birthday cruise for her husband in 2020. My parents and myself (plus my husband and two kids) were the only people who said we’d come. The trip got canceled due to covid. Then my sister wanted her kids to be vaccinated for covid so got postponed again. Kids are now vaccinated and she could’ve p... | AITA for not rescheduling my 40th birthday trip | NTA |
10ub4w2 | I've been with my girlfriend for six months, we don't live together yet. I love my girlfriend and we have a lot in common with each other but the one thing that differentiates us is that she doesn't drink or do drugs at all. Not even wine with dinner. She's not an ex addict, she just doesn't like drinking. I however go... | AITA for taking my sister to a party instead of my girlfriend? | NTA |
10v3map | Met a guy on tinder and hit it off, he has kids so I knew it would only be every second weekend we could meet, and we also lives 1 hour away from each other. We met 4 times, with sleepovers and things where going well, though something felt ”off”. He was coming over midweek Wednesday and the weekend after he was childf... | AITA for blocking a guy (40m) I(37f) known for a month who might have had a heart attack | NTA |
10uqxxi | I'm not going to state my exact age, but I'm still in highschool. I'm underweight, about 30 pounds(~13kg) under the national average for my age and sex. This is on the thin side, but definitely not too bad. I have tried to eat more etc to bring my weight up, however this just hasn't worked for me. Through most of my ... | AITA For asking that my family not make jokes about my weight? | NTA |
10v0702 | Background: I (21F) am going overseas to visit my dad with my cousin Melanie (20F). We are leaving in a few weeks and my cousin Margaret (22F) asked my family to join. The background is really long and complicated so I will try to be unbiased: Margaret and I had a falling out almost a decade ago, her mom forced her to ... | AITA for excluding a cousin on a vacation with my family? | NTA |
10ti9gg | I (f 22) have had one of the hardest weeks of my life this week. I am in the middle of Student Teaching and I am also in the process of finding a job for the 2023-24 school year. This week I had an interview, I had a principal observe me teach a lesson, I had a friend pass away this week. All while I’m still taking col... | AITA for walking out after my partner didn’t have dinner plans made? | NTA |
10umyhz | Some Background - I (M26) lost my father when I was 18. Before he died, I was very close to my grandparents, and had spent most of my summers with them. My grandmother died a year before my father, and after about a year my father died. It was difficult to say the least, and while everything was going on, my grandfathe... | AITA for not caring that my grandfather is in the hospital? | NTA |
10uuc5k | This isn't juicy like the other stories, but I just need confirmation here.Ok so my sister recently got a rabbit a few months ago and was really excited. We established BEFORE we got the rabbit that it would be her responsibility to take care of it. She is supposed to clean up after it, brush it, feed it, give it water... | AITA for getting upset when I have to take care of my sisters rabbit? | NTA |
10u8wp0 | I (F30) am a registered nurse associate (RNA) on a busy ward with acutely unwell patients that are admitted straight from A&E. When I first qualified about 6 months ago I would do my job and I’d do it well. I have always been a team player and if I do say so myself, a bit of a push over, doing things that were aske... | AITA for quiet quitting at work? | NTA |
10tooib | My wife wants to go to a nice dinner. I agreed to it. However, she wants to go above and beyond and wants me to wear a suit. I Hate wearing suits, but I told her I’d do it if she wears a nice dress. Now, I didn’t say it; but it’s obvious that she would need to buy a new dress. I even offered to pay for it. Apparently t... | AITA for telling my wife I would wear a suit to dinner if she wears a nice dress? | YTA |
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