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10ugp04 | Lease clearly states tenants are to keep the "peace and quiet" of the home and not create any nuisances that will disturb other tenants.Roommate "Emma" has been been loud noisy sex for 4 months now with her BF. When I say loud, I can hear her panting like a dog while they screw through the wall. I can't even sit at my ... | WIBTA for convincing my landlord to evict my roommate? | NTA |
10v5h9s | My sister was recently widowed. She was in a very tulmutous relationship with a man who was very mean to her. He also had a drug problem so they were always broke. She has left him many times over the years and always went back to the dismay of me and everyone else who helped her. The last time she left him was on xmas... | AITA for telling my sister to figure it out | NTA |
10ukyod | For the last 4-5 years, I have been living closer to my grandparents. My grandma was diagnosed with dementia in that time, and it has gotten worse. However, it is the issues with my grandpa that have caused me to want to do this, which includes the following -blaming me when another relative doesn’t return his call -ca... | AITA for making the decision to no longer help out in caring for my grandparents? | NTA |
10u788e | My mom's boyfriend has been around since I was 12. I was a messy kid. I mainly contained myself in my room, because I felt anytime I left I always did something wrong. Accidentally leaving a wrapper on the kitchen counter. Taking a shower and not drying the wet floor. I just couldn't do anything right. My room was mess... | AITA for calling my mom's boyfriend an idiot and telling him it'd be better if he didn't speak? | NTA |
10uxrz5 | I am graduating high school in June of 2023 and am only allowed to bring 4 people to my graduation. My family is currently trying to convince me to allow my father to attend my ceremony, while I do not want him there in the slightest.I have been no contact with my father for 2 years after my parents divorce, especially... | AITA for not wanting my dad to be at my graduation? | NTA |
10uuah5 | For context: I (26F, we'll call myself Bree) don't shave my legs or armpits (I don't do my armpits all the time, really).So over the weekend, my mom and I went shopping and we went to try on shoes. I sit down on one of those cushioned seats that shoe stores have and lifted up my pant leg to try on a pair of boots. My m... | AITA for exposing my mom in front of friends? | NTA |
10v2vun | 3 years into this thing, my parents still double mask, glove up and socially distance everywhere. When I lived at home, I had to follow their very paranoid rules (I'm talking washing groceries and dodging maskless joggers), but I moved out a few months ago and have since restarted my life.I wore a mask to public indoor... | AITA for not caring about going to my dad's birthday party? | NTA |
10v4yiu | My (24F) birthday is in a few weeks and I have decided to go away for that weekend. Among the friends that I invited are 'Sarah'(22F) and her new fiance 'John'(25M).A bit of backstory is that I have known and been on and off friends with John for about 15 years and I met and became really good friends with Sarah after ... | WIBTA For uninviting one of my best friends to my birthday | NTA |
10v22qs | I 27 female and my sister 29 got into a massive argument over something stupid which escalated quickly into us throwing nasty remarks at each other. A background to our relationship is my sister and I are extremely close. We grew up poor so we’ve always shared a room and bed growing up. We know everything about each ot... | AITA for making fun of my sister’s pregnancy? | ESH |
10u5pre | So my wife (42f) ran into an old friend (male) a few weeks back during one of her three-hour shopping runs to a local store. She mentioned it in passing to me and I didn’t think much of it.Fast forward to Wednesday when I wake up and my wife is a little panicky and asking if we can buy a taser locally. I ask what going... | AITA for wanting to know more about a man the frightened my wife | NTA |
10u95zt | I (38M) have a sister (36F). We're pretty close and love each other to bits. She has two kids with a man who didn't want any. Both times she got pregnant he told her that if she didn't abort he would leave her. He has stepped up and has taken responsibilities though, but whenever things go south he accused her of makin... | AITA for putting one big condition if I lend my sister money for buying a house | NTA |
10v3j67 | Long story short, whenever I make a "big" breakfast for myself I ask around to see if people want to have some pancakes or whatever I'm making and usually everybody gladly accepts. It's just the kind of roommate culture I like plus I enjoy cooking. I rarely get offered anything, usually my two roommates just make their... | AITA for never making food for my roommates again? | NTA |
10uxsfw | My friend (M21) is staying at my (F20) one bedroom apartment because he was kicked out of our college dorms. Not only was he kicked out of his dorm, but he explained that the college has confiscated his phone and they’re running an investigation to see if they find evidence of what he has been accused of. Because of th... | AITA for leaving my friend in the streets? | NTA |
10v3ixm | So, my dad was in a bad mood and my mum went running so we were put in charge of dinner. The way to make dinner also infuriated dad. My sister had to do the bins but the bags all broke at the bottom. So my dad, (in a bad mood mind you) shook my sister (15). I explained to him that the bags were broken but my sister was... | AITA for telling my mum what my dad did? | NTA |
10uwl8m | Just to preface this, this is actually about my sister’s situation (F20). So she’s living with 3 roommates in a house in their 3rd year of uni. There is only 3 bedrooms, so they turned their “loft” area into a bedroom. It’s not ideal, but it worked for my sister. The only problem is that the laundry room is in my siste... | AITA for being upset when my roommates come into my room at night to do their laundry? | NTA |
10v17sd | Context: Me and my girlfriend have been living with my mom for 2 weeks now, we also have a 1 yr old daughter with us.We used to have our own house but sold it and moved back to our hometown and are staying with my mom for a while.Yesterday we had my daughter’s birthday party, My mom came to the party later and decides ... | AITA for telling my mom it’s not all about her? | INFO |
10uzgh3 | Sorry for any mistakes.My ex-wife and I had a child when we were married, who is around 9. My ex and I have 50/50 custody, although she usually gets him for weekends. Recently, I bought a new car, a convertible. A convertible was always my dream car, dating back to even when I was a kid. Anyways, when I go to pick up m... | AITA for refusing to get a different car? | NTA |
10uokhg | I (24F) live in a townhouse that is divided into four separate apartments, and all of the townhouses are managed by our leasing office. One of my old roommates, who I am very good friends with, lives two doors over from me, and she has been telling me repeatedly that her downstairs neighbors have been throwing parties ... | AITA for telling my apartment's property manager that she needs to do better at her job? | NTA |
10uyde4 | I’m a single parent but my daughter goes to her dads every other weekend from Friday 7pm to Sunday 11am. This weekend she went like normal and yesterday she saw her auntie who loves her very much and our relationship as my daughters family is neutral. I mention this because I feel like auntie could’ve texted me to ask ... | AITA because I am upset that my child came home with almost 30 new toys? | NTA |
10ujb68 | I(16f) live with my mom, I pay my own phone bill, I bought my phone on my own without the help of my mom. Recently my mom didn't pay her own phone bill and has been bothering me to use mine. I don't have much of a problem if she needs to make a call, send a text, or use my mobile Hotspot to log in and do her daily stu... | AITA for telling my mom that she's not entitled to my mobile hotspot? | NTA |
10v64h7 | My wife and I recently had our first baby, and she's 3 months old now.A few weeks ago my family was hit with a massive, massive tragedy. I'm still struggling to come to terms with it. I wanted to travel to the funeral, but my wife didn't want to come with the baby. She didn't want me to go either and said I should be s... | AITA for leaving my wife and infant to attend a funeral? | NTA |
10uz6aw | On mobile.I'm a woman in my late 30s. I have some kids. My neighbors are also late 30s, M/F, with kids the same ages.My back property line borders houses in a neighborhood that is accessible if you hop in the car, drive down the highway and make a turn into the next neighborhood. Or, you can just walk through my proper... | WIBTA for asking kids to keep off my lawn? | NTA |
10v4ahl | Throw away title I didn't know what to say.But me (29f) and a Co worker let's call her Sally for this post (26f) have become very close friends and we chat a lot on Facebook messenger, we talk about work and things that's happened as well as our own lives and kids. So yesterday I was called into a meeting from higher ... | AITA for sharing our opinions in a private message. | NTA |
10v48w0 | This is really dumb and going to be short. I was talking to a friend of friend and in the conversation I said I was a boy mom. Because they were talking about their daughter and I said exactly word for word "I can't have anymore kids so I guess I was just meant to be a boy mom" and she started going off on me for it.... | AITA for calling myself a boy mom? | NTA |
10v25jh | Hi, so yesterday my GF's brother had my phone to call my GF as I was driving. He saw a notification which said 'Tinder' and him not ever using tinder though I was on the tinder app. Unbeknownst to him it was actually a notification from r/tinder and he proceeded to tell my gf and then my gf confronted me and went throu... | WIBTA Gf brother accused me of cheating after seeing notification from r/tinder | NAH |
10uygx6 | Me (19m) have been dating my gf (19f) for 8 months. At the beginning of our relationship it was going amazing, with everything being normal and we were both happy. A few months into our relationship I noticed that she would sometimes compare me to her BIL. I didn’t mind at first until she started to do it way more ofte... | AITA for being uncomfortable that my gf (19f) is “obsessed” with her BIL (20m)? | NTA |
10ullpm | My son (5) loves it when my parents come to visit and they always bring him a special local delicacy. We can't get it where we live and it's quite healthy so I've always been pleased that my son likes it. My parents manage to visit about once a month.My daughter 1 seems to be allergic or intolerant to this delicacy. Sh... | WIBTA for banning a food my child loves? | NTA |
10uv3qk | My (29) boyfriend (30) has let his hair grow indefinitely since pandemic started almost 3 years ago. We have been together for almost 9 years in a nice and respectful relationship. When we met, he had this nice and well-kept appearance, short hair and trimmed beard.When I asked him about the hair length, he said there ... | AITA for asking my boyfriend to cut his hair for my birthday? | YTA |
10uripa | My (F28) Husband (M29) and I have a baby (F6months). I always get her to sleep in our bed with us as she very rarely self soothes, I then transfer her into her next to me cot. This is at my side of the bed, she often wakes up when I put her down so requires settling. I usually just stroke her face or tap her chest and ... | AITA for telling my Husband that I don’t care if he doesn’t get any sleep? | NTA |
10v3yma | Hey all, I'm looking for some advice on a situation with my sister. She's 28 and has always talked about wanting the traditional family life, you know, being a stay-at-home mom and all that. But the thing is, she's always been making choices in her dating life that don't really align with her goals.Now she's met this g... | WIBTA if I intervened in my sisters self-sabotage? | YWBTA |
10usju5 | This is a long story but I will try to sum it up as much as I can.On Christmas of 2014, my father told my mom he didn't love her anymore after 38 years of marriage. It was a confusing few months after. My dad left the house a month later and stayed with my brother for a little while before leaving entirely. There was ... | AITA for telling my father to F Off | NTA |
10uyqww | I was having a rare night out with my wife, our time was limited. My wife walked away to use the bathroom and the guy next to me, pulled out a bottle of salsa, asked me to try it (he had a bowl of self brought chips) and asked my opinion. I said it was good (to be polite, it was ok at best) and he asked me if I wanted ... | AITA for not wanting to buy salsa from a stranger at the bar? | NTA |
10uqerq | 4 months ago my (27F) Uncle (52M) was sadly diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. The doctors gave him 9-12 months but he unfortunately passed away 4 weeks ago. 6 months ago my partner (27M) and I booked our dream trip of a lifetime to Japan. We went and on day 2 of the trip uncle passed. My Dad (55M) was extremely clos... | AITA for missing my Uncle's funeral and then falling asleep at the wake? | NTA |
10uu4u9 | I (39f) and my sister (30f) were at our parent's house for Sunday dinner. Dinner is over and everyone is just hanging out in the kitchen. My parents go into the living room to watch the Grammys. My sister and I, who don't get to see each other often, stay at the kitchen table to chat. We can see and hear the TV th... | AITA for packing up my kid and leaving my parents' house without saying anything? | NTA |
10trw4e | To set the scene here, I am a 55 year old father of four and grandfather of five. The pertinent ones here are my eldest daughter Michelle who is 34, her husband Peter who is 35 & my grandchildren Beth and Sam, who are 12 and 14 respectively. To give some context to the rest of this post, Beth and Sam are adopted an... | AITA for changing my granddaughters hair without her parents' permission? | NTA |
10v550k | Background: taking my SO to Europe. She’s always wanted to go and we saved up enough airline points to get us there business class. She asks her parents to join us which I’m ok with, but now she doesn’t want to do business class because we don’t have enough points to cover everyone’s tickets. Am I wrong for wanting to ... | AITA for wanting to fly business class with SO, and leave her parents to fly in economy? | NAH |
10tzkvs | My partner is Michael and my stepson is Grant (10yrs)Tonight we had lasagna and salad for dinner. Grant has a portion of lasagna that was as small as his fist, which is the usual metric we use for his portion sizes to make sure we aren't giving him more than he can handle. He took a few bites of salad and literally 2 ... | AITA for eating ice cream when my stepson wasn't allowed to have dessert? | NTA |
10v3bwh | I saw someone else post about measurements and I thought this would be a good place to post my own query. I (25F) am taking an costuming and sewing class for a university elective. It’s not in my major, but I want to do well and learn the skill so I can make my own clothes and be crafty.We all have a sew a dress or tun... | AITA for not wanting to turn in a school assignment about my body measurements? | NTA |
10tohfu | My girlfriend Sarah and I had been discussing taking a road trip for a while due to the stress we had both been under. It was my 9-year-old daughter Emily's weekend with me, so it meant she'd be coming along with usWe decided to make the trip on Emily's weekend with me, and Sarah's yorkie puppy Daisy had to come along.... | AITA for scolding my daughter for letting the dog run away? | YTA |
10v4oav | At the time of writing this it’s s currently 3:30 am PST, 42° F I (F29) woke up absolutely freezing under 2 blankets. I checked the thermostat and it said “off”. So I know that my fiancé (M35) turned it off while I was sleeping. (in a separate room which is our gaming room is where he’s currently playing video games a... | AITA: To Heat or Not to Heat? | NTA |
10v1ubv | I, 19F am a manager at a fast food restaurant (it is not a McDonald’s or anything) and I work with people who are generally between 17-22, our boss is 20. I have two co workers, Thomas, 18M & Jackory, 17M who I’m in reference to.Today, I worked an 8 hour shift, and jackory, he’s still new (has been here about a mon... | AITA for telling my co workers to stop disrespecting me? | YTA |
10uy4bs | For context. I call her my sister because I’ve known her since I was 6, she was 5. (Our parents met then and we lived together up until early 2022, they got divorced.) I still consider her my sister and always will because I genuinely love her and besides my mom, she was there for forever in my life. So basically she h... | AITA for giving my sister harsh advice to not go back to her shitty ex?? | NTA |
10uy28w | My husband John has been best friends with Victor since they were kids, and they both got engaged in the same month. I’m calling John my fiancé because, even though we’re already married (super small event because of covid), we’re still planning our big wedding party. Victor and Julia just got married yesterday.A few m... | WIBTA for not inviting my fiancé’s groomsman’s wife to be my bridesmaid? | NTA |
10uzdjy | I (17m) have come into money from a job I won't disclose, and I've basically come to an agreement with my parents to buy a house for them and my sister to live in, in about a year. I'll stay in our current home. When I told my "best" friend (18m) about this. He suggested I let him move in for free. I had a decent laugh... | AITA for telling my best friend he can't move in with me when I get my own house? | NTA |
10uqu8l | About 3 years ago I (25M) moved into a house with some roommates I found online. One of the old tenants who moved out before me left a vintage record player in the living room. This thing is straight out of the 1950s, definitely worth some money. My roommate at the time who used to live with him said he was supposed to... | AITA for not returning a vintage record player to a guy who left it at a house years after his lease ended? | NTA |
10tugna | I used to be close with my brother-in-law but we aren’t anymore due to how he treated my best friend. I don’t hate him or anything but I would prefer he wasn’t staying in my home.When my husband told me he was coming to visit, I made it clear I didn’t want him staying here but my husband wouldn’t budge and said his vis... | AITA for walking around the house in underwear so my husband would ask his brother to stay in a hotel? | ESH |
10uz1xd | For context my dad died on January 18th of 2022 so a little over a year ago. Him and my mom we're still married. She has done quite a few irritating things since he passed but this takes the cake for me. Another important note is her and my dad didn't have a great relationship but this was not due to abuse or cheating.... | AITA for not meeting my moms fiancé | NTA |
10trtrq | My brother is getting married next month. My fiancée (26 F) and I (27 M) have been together for almost 3 years now. She was the lead singer of a local band in my country. They were famous, successful and at the height of their popularity and had won so many awards when she decided to leave the band because she got tire... | WIBTA if I don't attend my brother's wedding because his soon-to-be wife told me not to bring my fiancée? | NTA |
10v3s2i | My partner and I dicussed the bridal party and decided we would ask our siblings (I have 3) and he would ask his siblings (he has 2) and his best friend, so we would each have 3. He then asked another friend, saying he didn't realise we were only having 3, and is now telling me he wants to have 5 (1 sibling + 4 friends... | AITA - bridal party decisions | NTA |
10ug3m8 | So I (23F), am autistic. I currently work as a stripper at a club, and have done so for about 10 months so far. Before you ask, no, working elsewhere or in a different job is not an option ATM.Due to my ASD, I struggle to find and keep good friends, although I've been trying my best, I've only recently made some, one, ... | AITA for "showing off" and upsetting coworkers? | NTA |
10tmj7r | Oliver - my cousin - and I are almost the same age and we went to university to study the same thing. The difference was that I started working as an intern halfway through uni and after I got my Bsc, the company offered me a full time position, which I gladly took and didn't go to a master's program. Oliver, unlike me... | AITA for applying to my cousin's company just to show him I can get a higher role and pay than he has? | NTA |
10uzjoh | Hubs (m 44) & I (F48) have been on a very strong trivia team along with a regular group of about 8 people, for almost a year. The team was started by a 55 year old-ish hetero-cis couple a few years ago. They were very welcoming when we started coming to the weekly Thursday night event, they became fast friends of ... | AITA for not responding to obsessive texts | ESH |
10uri4j | I’ve lived with my friend Sarah for 1.5 yrs & I do not feel in control in many aspects of my life, and due to trauma in my childhood & past romantic relationships, that scares me. And some things that Sarah says/does triggers that fear response and I shut down. Ex. when she tells me that I’m not allowed any mor... | AITA for wanting my own place? | NTA |
10v14bm | Throwaway because bleh. I (M26) used to have a really good relationship with both my parents (M58) (F51). This changed last year when my mother blindsided me by informing me that she had seperated from my father and didnt know why but had to make this decision. I was understandably upset and unsure of what to feel as m... | AITA for resenting my mother's decision? | YTA |
10v3kqe | My (29F) partner (30M) always go to bed at the same time (it’s a nice ritual). I read and he usually mucks around on his phone for half an hour (no idea how he sleeps so soundly after!). Noise in the bedroom at night really triggers me for some reason, so when he’s flicking through videos on Instagram (even on low volu... | AITA for asking partner to wear AirPods if watching videos in bed? | NTA |
10tmag5 | I(28F) am a foster kid. Long story short: dad drug dealer, mom drug addict, mom died and dad went to jail for life, no family to take me on, bounced in the the system from the ages of 7 to 18. Then I became homeless, worked as an escort, went to college and this is currently my second corporate job. Like you might imag... | AITA for the way I respond to my new co-worker's personal questions? | NTA |
10v3je8 | Context is really important. Me (35F) and my wife (33F) have been together for 6 years and married for 3. When we first met I was fairly established in my career and she had was an impoverished med student completing her final year. I'm financially responsibly, maybe a little frugal, but I love splurging from time to ... | WIBTA of I returned the gift my wife bought me without telling her | NTA |
10v25be | AITA for telling my (50f) stepson’s current gf of 3 years about his ex wanting to have a paternity test. Backstory is that in 2018 my stepson (currently 29m) believed he was having a child with a woman who later claimed the child was not his (his current gf knows about that whole situation). Fast forward to last Monday... | AITA for telling stepson’s current gf his ex wants a DNA test on her (ex) child l. | YTA |
10v253f | My(20f) bf(19m) is the loudest eater and drinker i know. ironically loud eating has always been a major pet peeve of mine. he chews with his mouth open and he literally gulps and chugs everything he drinks. i’ve tried to politely talk to him about it, but most of the time he just throws a huge fit about it saying he ca... | AITA for commenting on the way my bf eats? | NTA |
10uyfjw | I (17F) have a younger sister (13) who is starting to concern me with her eating habits and complaints about her health. For the past month, she’s been sick on and off with a cold, cough, and allergies that gets better for a few days and then all of a sudden she gets sick again. Also, any time we go out somewhere (mall... | AITA for being concerned about my sister’s diet? | NTA |
10uutc5 | My bf is very bad at gift giving, despite him claiming his love language is receiving gifts. It seems he loves receiving them but not good at giving them at all.First year, I gave him a huge gift he wanted (I had doubts about this bc my friend reminded me that it's too big too early in the rs but he kinda sulked and sa... | WIBTA if I don't give my boyfriend a birthday gift this year? | NTA |
10v5osb | I (25F) moved to a new city 6 months ago. I did not plan ahead for things like banks, doctors or mechanics. I normally use a chain to get any issues with my car fixed but there is not one here. My car is now inoperable and I need a new alternator (and now because of the wait probably a battery)I asked around for recomm... | AITA for expecting a mechanic to communicate with me? WIBTA if I canceled after I agreed to labor and parts? | NTA |
10uwwv5 | I (19M) go to a college really far away from home and last semester I took a leave of absence to treat my depression. Recently, my mom (50F) has been using Life360 several times a day to find my location. Everywhere I go, my mom would text me asking me where I was going or what I was doing. And she would always try to ... | AITA for asking my mom to stop tracking me down when I’m in college? | NTA |
10ufl16 | She was talking to another woman about how one of her cats scratched her arm. She said she doesn't know why her cat is acting so strange all of a sudden. I was just trying to join the conversation, so I asked her "are you talking about \[Cat's name\], I think you should take them to hospital as they're most likely unwe... | AITA for looking at a coworker's Instagram page? | NTA |
10uwvmc | (I’m 15F my mom 42F) Id like to start of with that my parents are both Christian and my mom grew up with Mormon parents. I however am not Christian. I lean towards Satanism. I have no issues with any religions as long as you don’t try forcing it on me. I don’t talk about satanism around my family as I know it makes the... | AITA for yelling at my mom on Christmas? | NTA |
10uximh | My roommate has had this cat for over a year and a half. I've changed the cats litter 2 times maybe. He changes the litter 1-2 times per week. Every time that my roommate asks me to change the litter, I respond with no because it will make my eyes and nose scratchy. I cuddle the cat a lot and am the main person he slee... | AITA IF I WON'T CHANGE MY ROOMMATE'S CAT'S LITTER? | YTA |
10ur5x6 | I’m taking an online, asynchronous biochem course this semester. We have a midterm tomorrow on the first 9 sections (~month’s work on material if you follow the recommended course schedule). Someone from the course messaged me on Facebook asking for my notes, she got my profile from the course group chat to message me ... | AITA for not sharing my notes? | NTA |
10usap6 | I just moved back into my house (house fire a year ago) and let my dogs out into the yard. I have neighbors who have a little porch lean to thing in the back of their house that butts up to my yard. They have a makeshift wall that's approximately 4.5 to 5 feet tall that separates our properties. When they come out my d... | WIBTA for putting up a 5-6 ft fence | NTA |
10v1t1h | So my wife and I have been together for almost 7 years now. Early on We both have have done some “red flag” things but we’ve gotten through them. I for one have talked to other girls and hid/lied about it before but have never done anything with anyone and have always come clean about it. My wife has accepted and forgi... | AITA: My wife pretty much told my sister that it’s okay to cheat or hide stuff from her boyfriend | NTA |
10umjcg | Hello. First of all, i apologize for my grammar, but english is not my language. I (M34) dated my ex gf (F34) for a few months 12 years ago. We broke up when i got a job offer in another town. It wasn't a serious relationship, we weren't engaged and we weren't exclusive. After a few years of me living in a new town, i... | AITA for taking her back to her mom?? | NTA |
10u14xq | This was a while ago, but my family and I still get into arguments over it to this day. When I was in high school, my mom used to send emails from my school account to various different teachers and community leaders to try to make sure I was taking every opportunity. I repeatedly told her not to do this, because it wa... | AITA for telling the truth about my mom instead of taking the blame? | NTA |
10v5b0w | Before I start here is a little bit of context. I (19f) have been dating my bf H. (20m) for almost two years now, known him for three. His best friend (20m), let's call him C. has also become a great friend of mine over this time.I currently work in retail on Saturdays in addition to my normal job. Last year in August ... | AITA for talking to my friend? | NTA |
10v5826 | My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 2 years. I love him very much, and his 9 year old child. Child lives week on, week off with parents. From mothers, to fathers, but primarily with h the mother.The issues lie here; I she insisted on a cat for the first 7 months of mine and my partner’s relationship. ... | AITA for leaving for a night? | NTA |
10uohwi | I'm very curious to hear opinions/judgements on this, since I am not always the best when it comes to wedding etiquette. I'm still not sure who was in the wrong in this situation from an etiquette standpoint.My husband's cousin (the groom) was getting married in another state and asked if our daughter would be the flow... | AITA for asking my husband to miss his cousin's wedding reception? | NTA |
10v0gkv | I (19M) am a college student that's also vice president of our school's LGBTQ+ club. I'm also part of a group chat on Discord with friends I've made from that club where we mostly just share memes. I never really knew anyone coming into the club because before college, I've been going to high school online since before... | AITA for getting mad at my (former) friends after they called me out? | NTA |
10ug3zo | F (22) here. My parents have always wanted to buy a home together but have struggled financially. My Mum has not worked my whole life, out of choice. My dad has several health problems.When I got a full-time job at age 21, and before I even received my first paycheck, my parents asked me to save towards their home depo... | WIBTA for telling my parents i changed my mind about going on a home loan | NTA |
10uqf1c | Little background, I(21F) live with My Sister(25F), My brother(24M), and Mother(50F) Currently only my sister and I have a Job, though currently I have less shifts than my sister.My family decided they want to move out of my childhood home as it's becoming too expensive to live there anymore, this is understandable yet... | AITA for not using my full paycheck for my family's bills | NTA |
10v2pwq | So I, (19 F) was adopted from China at age 2.5. A few days ago, my friend (19 M) and I were getting into a long conversation about the United State's current geopolitical standings (we both currently live in the US). He has expressed his dislike of US politics and his desire to immigrate from the US on multiple occasio... | WIBTA for getting upset at a friend for telling me he wishes he was adopted? | NTA |
10u6yej | I (F35) am getting married this spring to my fiancé (M35) after being together for 7 years. When we started talking about marriage a few years ago, we both agreed that we wanted an intimate wedding since we are both on the introverted side. We initially wanted to do a small wedding aboard, but because of the pandemic a... | WIBTA for uninviting my cousin to my wedding? | NTA |
10u84rm | I (32M) live in Colorado, and my grandparents (86F and 89M) live in South Carolina. Their only daughter, my mother, passed away when I was 4. I was an only child as well, so they only have 1 full grandchild. My brother and sister are through another marriage so they are not technically related by blood. Las... | AITA for not wanting to move across country & be a caregiver for my grandparents? | NTA |
10ul90d | I(38f) am a single mother and offered my son (16m) my old car when he graduates high school? For context, my car is a 2011, but reliable. I don't make a lot but we get by okay. I have put in a lot of work/money into the car; new tires, new alternator and battery, new breaks and regular maintenance. There are still a fe... | AITA For offering my son my old car? | NTA |
10uskuk | So kind of a long story My wife and I currently live with my mother-in-law (please don’t judge, we are actively house hunting and it is not easy at all). We pay her rent and live in a garage converted studio apartment attached to the house. My wife and I both work mostly from home. I’m a mental health counselor for a p... | AITA for refusing to leave my home office space? | YTA |
10uwkdl | I bought apple juice and didn't have a fridge myself so I kept it in Friend A's fridge who was absolutely fine with it being there for as long as I wanted. Friend B, who is friends with us both, drank it without asking or telling me after about a week and a half. (Apparently they asked friend A's if it was theirs and w... | AITA for asking my friend to buy me a replacement apple juice? | YTA |
10v2l6h | Hi I'm new to Reddit so please bear with me if I do something wrong, (also this is probably something stupid and just a small problem in general but it happens to me a lot with my parents).Basically today/for the past few days I have been sick. I have mild asthma that only acts up when I get sick, and my asthma in gene... | AITA for hating my parents for invalidating my experiences (not sure if that's the right word) | INFO |
10v4jwk | Hello from London!My husband has sent out flyers to everyone in the neighbourhood with this on:> HM Government logo> **National lockdown 18th March 2023 for 6 weeks**> There will be a national lockdown for 6 weeks beginning 18 March 2023 due to rising COVID figures in the United Kingdom.> All non-essential ... | AITA for telling my husband to stop this hoax in the neighbourhood which may scare people? | NTA |
10uttjr | I(20f) have a sister (18f) let just say me and my sister normally don’t get along just think of it as Starfire and Blackfire from teen titans, but we stay on good terms sometimes but lately we been having bad blood with each other. This incident happens months ago, but for context i’m not the most organized or cleanest... | AITA for telling my parents the real reason why I moved out | NTA |
10uwxts | So I (19F) and my brother (20M) ill call Eli. So Eli and I wanted to throw our mom (now 39 F) a birthday, We got supplies dinner and stuff to make a cake. Our step-dad (who we will call Mike ) works till 11 most nights and doesn't seem to like us all that much scene Eli and I came back home. So we had all the supplies ... | AITA for "upstaging" my step-dad on my moms birthday | NTA |
10ur395 | Back in July I had gotten married to my high school sweetheart who will call Chad I found out back in October that my brother finally got engaged to his girlfriend. We found out in December that their wedding was going to be in April. Now in February we still haven’t received any sort of save the date or invitation. We... | AITA for not going into debt for brothers wedding? | NTA |
10uu4hk | English is not my first language and I'm on mobile 🙂I (38F) am disabled. I have both physical (lots of joints problems and knee malformation) and psychiatric disabilities (I'm autistic). I have an official card that allows me to park on special spots. My daughter (1F) has Down Syndrome and has the same card. You need ... | AITA Parked on a disabled spot | NTA |
10v49w9 | My girlfriend (33F, we’ll call her Jane) just launched her career in Real Estate as a buyers agent. She is currently on her second week of being in the office. She’s still in the learning phase of her career, and it often takes anywhere from 2 - 6 months to produce your first sale.My brother (48M, we’ll call him Ricky)... | AITAH for not helping my brother? | NTA |
10usyr9 | I (24M) am the only son of my parents (55F and 56M). They divorced when I was only two months old due to him cheating on my mom. She got my custody, and he had visitation every other weekend, when I would stay at his house, where he lives with my stepmother (50F) and my half-brother (16M). When I went it would all go p... | WIBTA If I stop call out my father for his greed and tell him I'll stop going to his house? | NTA |
10uzn1f | I (21f) have a complicated relationship with my parents. Most times, we’re great. I love them, and I know they love me. But the reason it’s complicated (messed up actually) is my father has been in multiple affairs ever since I was a little kid, and my parents have gotten into fights over that for years… But she hasn’t... | AITA for blocking my parents? | NTA |
10uqi8d | My (16m) mom and I have a good relationship, and I know she loves me, but she can be really overprotective of me and my siblings sometimes. I know it's only because she loves us and everything, and I know I should just let it go, but it gets so hard because I feel like there's no privacy. My siblings also all (mostly) ... | AITA for telling my mom she can't just go into someone's room and snoop? | NTA |
10ust7y | I (20F) am a junior in college and live with my parents. The issue happened yesterday between me and my dad (50M). I had to stay late on campus and my bf, just started dating, let me stay at his place for the second night in a row so I wouldn't have to make my long commute that late. He dropped me off at home in the mo... | AITA for not wanting to apologize to my dad after using his knife? | NTA |
10uovga | So I (22F) got married a few weeks ago to the love of my life (M24). We are together for 6 years know and have known each other for 11 years. He is catholic and believes in god. I bother other hand am neither in any religious organisation nor do I firmly believe in a god. I think maybe there is something bigger than us... | AITA for being married in a church | NTA |
10uwojn | Here's a little back story. In the beginning of August I was approached by my best friend's mother who had custody of her grandchild. She can no longer handle her as she was being rebellious and acting like her biological mother. Her biological mother was not helping like she promised and grandma worked too much so ... | AITA for canceling a ride after being ditched | NTA |
10uwo4w | My (22f) childhood best friend (25f) became friends because our moms worked together so we were really close up until my senior year of highschool. We became distant before then because our moms had a very big big fallout (her mom was very rude and mean to my mom). I then began distancing myself a few years later (seni... | AITA for not wanting to be apart my childhood best friend's wedding party? | NTA |
10uzhfs | hello, my (18F) boyfriend (17M) and I have been dating for a month know. I was an exchange student from Brazil going to Canada for 6 months in August of 2022. I met him at the beginning of my program and we ended up dating in the beginning of January after becoming super close. I came back to Brazil 2 weeks ago, and si... | AITA for "choosing" my boyfriend? | NTA |
10utp6p | So, basically, I read a fic I didn't like. The writing was terrible, and I thought the characters are very OOC. But that's not the issue. I posted about it in my twitter circle (in case you don't know, because I didn't a few months ago, a feature that makes my tweets viewable to only select people), naming the fic and ... | AITA for tweeting about a fanfic I don't like? | YTA |
10tibnm | We recently got 2 horses. My younger daughter (13f) wanted them as she's been learning to ride. My older daughter (17f) was against them, she's much more "princessy" and didn't want to deal with the mess and chores that come with horses, but we told her it wouldn't be something she'd have to deal with and that her youn... | AITA for making our daughter (17f) clean our horse's stalls against her will? | YTA |
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