yosrissa/AITA-D-BERT-classifier
Text Classification • 0.1B • Updated • 1
Error code: DatasetGenerationCastError
Exception: DatasetGenerationCastError
Message: An error occurred while generating the dataset
All the data files must have the same columns, but at some point there are 7 new columns ({'Financial and Legal Disagreements', 'Other', 'Work Dynamics', 'Cultural and Identity-Based Issues', 'Family Issues', 'Personal Boundaries', 'Relationship Conflicts'}) and 3 missing columns ({'title', 'id', 'selftext'}).
This happened while the csv dataset builder was generating data using
hf://datasets/yosrissa/AITA-posts-topics-dataset/train_labels.csv (at revision 6eb9de284292a6c15b4e295713ad5c40db03c20c)
Please either edit the data files to have matching columns, or separate them into different configurations (see docs at https://hf.co/docs/hub/datasets-manual-configuration#multiple-configurations)
Traceback: Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1870, in _prepare_split_single
writer.write_table(table)
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/arrow_writer.py", line 622, in write_table
pa_table = table_cast(pa_table, self._schema)
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/table.py", line 2292, in table_cast
return cast_table_to_schema(table, schema)
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/table.py", line 2240, in cast_table_to_schema
raise CastError(
datasets.table.CastError: Couldn't cast
Family Issues: int64
Relationship Conflicts: int64
Work Dynamics: int64
Financial and Legal Disagreements: int64
Personal Boundaries: int64
Cultural and Identity-Based Issues: int64
Other: int64
-- schema metadata --
pandas: '{"index_columns": [{"kind": "range", "name": null, "start": 0, "' + 1218
to
{'id': Value(dtype='string', id=None), 'title': Value(dtype='string', id=None), 'selftext': Value(dtype='string', id=None)}
because column names don't match
During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/src/services/worker/src/worker/job_runners/config/parquet_and_info.py", line 1417, in compute_config_parquet_and_info_response
parquet_operations = convert_to_parquet(builder)
File "/src/services/worker/src/worker/job_runners/config/parquet_and_info.py", line 1049, in convert_to_parquet
builder.download_and_prepare(
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 924, in download_and_prepare
self._download_and_prepare(
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1000, in _download_and_prepare
self._prepare_split(split_generator, **prepare_split_kwargs)
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1741, in _prepare_split
for job_id, done, content in self._prepare_split_single(
File "/src/services/worker/.venv/lib/python3.9/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1872, in _prepare_split_single
raise DatasetGenerationCastError.from_cast_error(
datasets.exceptions.DatasetGenerationCastError: An error occurred while generating the dataset
All the data files must have the same columns, but at some point there are 7 new columns ({'Financial and Legal Disagreements', 'Other', 'Work Dynamics', 'Cultural and Identity-Based Issues', 'Family Issues', 'Personal Boundaries', 'Relationship Conflicts'}) and 3 missing columns ({'title', 'id', 'selftext'}).
This happened while the csv dataset builder was generating data using
hf://datasets/yosrissa/AITA-posts-topics-dataset/train_labels.csv (at revision 6eb9de284292a6c15b4e295713ad5c40db03c20c)
Please either edit the data files to have matching columns, or separate them into different configurations (see docs at https://hf.co/docs/hub/datasets-manual-configuration#multiple-configurations)Need help to make the dataset viewer work? Make sure to review how to configure the dataset viewer, and open a discussion for direct support.
id string | title string | selftext string |
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1fs8i6c | WIBTA for not letting my MIL tell our kid that the tooth fairy is real? | I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant, so my husband and I have been having a lot of conversation about how we want to raise our child.
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1fqq0xx | AITA for not letting my mom browse my messages? | I am a 16 year old male and has had a phone since I was 8. My mom would take my phone from time to time and browse all my messages and conversations on all my messaging apps. I understood it when I was younger, but now I feel like I'm too old for that. When I told her I don't want her to do that, she'd accuse me of hid... |
1fuh88g | AITAH feeling guilty for swearing at kids i do not know | throw away acc
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I recently got a closing... |
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My dad is visiting NY for 4 days, and he and I were planning on him staying with me. I texted the roommate gc asking if anyone mi... |
1fq6s6u | AITA for not deleting old messages from an old phone I haven’t used in years? | so my partner saw some old messages from a old phone of mine that our kid plugged up. My partner put the password in and somehow saw some very old texts between myself and an ex who at the time we were just fwb’s. I had told them multiple times about how much of bad place I was in before we met. How when we met I was j... |
1fru3zx | AITA for Refusing to Give My Mom $10 Every Month? | Hey Reddit, I need some perspective. My mom asked me to give her $10 every time I get paid, saying it would be a blessing for me genuinely saying that giving her money will bring me blessings from God. I'm $60,000 in debt + monthly expenses and my husband can't work here in Costa Rica or find an international job, so h... |
1fso546 | AITA for buying my boyfriend a chili pepper pipe? | Am I the asshole for wanting to buy my Mexican boyfriend a chili pepper pipe because I thought it would remind him of his culture?
Important information:
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1fsbrw9 | AITA for giving someone asking for money a gift card | Today I went to a local convenience store and there was a man outside asking people for spare cash. The guy seemed pleasant enough and 90% of the time I will always give a person in that situation a buck or two, but I knew I had no paper money on me so I told him I’d get him something on my way out. I considered going ... |
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1fupt0n | AITA for having a monotone voice that affects many relationships? |
I (30f) have a monotone voice and can't control it. This has been an issue since around age 16. I realized it affected my relationships earlier on, so I’ve made it a point to be extremely blunt about how I feel. Otherwise, people think I'm bored or sarcastic. I went through some things and developed PTSD, which caused... |
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1fsnwsi | AITA for deciding to quit my work and focus on my side gig? | For context me and my girlfriend are both 20 years old and don’t live together nor share any bills.
I have a ten grand saved up from working like a slave since I was 16 and I have also been doing this side business where I draw and design clothing and sell them. So I decided since my side business has been starting to... |
1fssxhw | AITA for staying home to see my grandma | Hi I'm 14 and recently my grandma was admitted to a hospital because she was having a lot of seizures recently. Today I was told that my grandma was going to come home and after school I would see her but since my mom was gone when I was young and when I was 4 came back to be a real mom while she was gone I was with my... |
1fqpne6 | AITA: For wanting a “girls day” | I (F24) wants to go see a friend (F20) in the hospital with my coworker/friend(F20). She may have a serious illness and we are very worried about her. I told my partner (M27) about it and he said he will drive us or he can drive by himself and he will visit his aunt or come with us to see our friend. Normally I wouldn’... |
1fuf1ht | AITA For not standing up for my mom while at work | (Sorry texting this on my phone English is my first language I just suck at spelling) I 25 non-binary work in a convenient store with my 60 year old mother I do graveyard she does mornings this just happen an hour ago an I'm still debating driving up their an geting on to the person last night I was stuck on the regist... |
1funf4z | AITA for not going to my goddaughters birthday party for it falling on my bday weekend? |
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1fqsn23 | AITA for laughing while my grandma’s brother is dying? | I was standing beside my father as he was showing me some funny design fails on his pc. There were actually some really funny ones which made us both laugh and giggle at times. Well, after some odd seconds of really bad designs, my fathers smartphone was ringing and we could hear his mother (my grandmother) cry on the ... |
1fv184u | AITA for Cancelling a few days before a two day trip | AITA for cancelling on a trip a few days before going to save myself from my stressful family?
I (25M) am supposed to be going on a weekend trip to an amusement park with my mother and two sisters (it’s far so we got a hotel). My mom invited me a couple months ago and I agreed.
Here’s where the issues lie, my sis... |
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1fqkdre | AITAH for wanting time with my boyfriend when he's helping his bestfriend | So not long ago mine and my boyfriends bestfriend had an accident and had to have surgery on her wrist which meant she was unable to do anything with that arm
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issue is I have epilepsy so I can't be there all the t... |
1fq3fhx | AITA for giving someone the finger at an aiport | Pretty simple story. I was travelling through Phoenix airport since I have a layover there. Some context that will be important later is that I'm not white, and my parents are immigrants, but I was born and brought up in the US.
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1fq5s3m | AITA for ignoring my cousin-in-law | I've(22F) been with my husband(22M) three and a half years we have been married for almost a year. He has this cousin(22M) he used to be very close to but they've been a bit distance we've gotten married, and the cousin has never been like open to me. I always reach out and invite him in his fiance(22F) to do stuff wit... |
1frw6nu | AITAH? Sentimental belongings ruined | My mom is dying of cancer and doesn’t have much time left. I live in a studio apartment with not much space at all for storage and I had asked if my parents keep some sentimental stuff safe at their new home only a few months ago and they promised to do so! My mom and I used to collect Barbie’s and I had some classic w... |
1fusmou | AITA for repeteadlty requesting my boyfriend to stop his female friend from touching his abs ? | I know that from the title it straight up looks like I'm not, however both me and my boyfriend are gay men so in his opinion I'm incredible insecure for getting jealous over a woman when she could never be "competiton", however it's just not about jealousy as I also feel very uncomfortable about it as I would never all... |
1fr7mdw | AITA for correcting my dad about my “sister” | I (16 female) am always correcting my dad when he talks about my sister (17 Female) who disowned us because we outed her to my grandma about always causing drama and pinning everyone against each other. This started last year when she moved in with my grandma. My sister we will call her Sahara has always loved drama an... |
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1frzdx1 | AITA for being pissed off with a friend for lying to me? | To explain;
I found out that a regular in my job (I work with the public) was interested in me, so we were talking outside of the confines of my job and things were going ok between us
A co worker found out they was interested in another person who also does the same job as me and warned me about it (fair enough) th... |
1fv8fto | AITA for finding used feminine hygiene products disgusting | I(50f) has recently injured my back so while I still clean the house, anything that requires me to bend my back is usually handled by my husband.
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1fu7mna | AITAH I know I am but I feel horrible | I’m so messsd up
Should my man forgive me
Should my man forgive me for having inappropriate conversations? 41f w/cptsd&adhd w/36m
I had inappropriate conversations should my man forgive me? 41f-cptsd&adhd w/36m
My now ex unknown to me had been going through my phone and emails to find evidence of me cheating. We ha... |
1frv6kt | AITA for telling my sister-in-law she needs to learn how to drive? | My brother's wife doesn't have a license and refuses to learn how to drive. They have a special needs child and my brother routinely has to take PTO to take their child to different therapy appointments. She works at the same company as my brother so he drives her everyday. At a recent family gathering I mentioned that... |
1fs04ss | AITA for going to a Coldplay concert without my friend who really wanted to go? | So, here’s the situation: my friends and I (we're all Indian) were super excited about Coldplay coming to India. One of my friends, let's call him Ash, is a *huge* fan and was the one who first asked me to go. Initially, it was going to be Ash, Dom, me, and another friend, Ashley. We were all hyped to go together.
Whe... |
1fr5bo2 | AITA for not having people over | I (23F) live in an apartment with my friend (23F) of over 5 years. We met in college and back then I was wayyy more social and outgoing. Now I prefer to stay home and enjoy the peace and quiet. Before moving to this apartment, my friend and I lived in a guest house. We didn’t feel quite comfortable having friends over ... |
1fugzd8 | AITA for Parenting my siblings? | I(17m) have 3 siblings. 3(f) 6(m) and (15m). Recently I have been in charge of watching the two little ones most of the time because my parents have work.
Because of this the 3 and 6 year olds have been acting up which doesn't help they're glued to the tv 24/7... so I started a system where they get 2 hours of tv a da... |
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1fuuwfr | AITA For Not Helping My Father With Immigration | So me 16(f) have never been close with my father 39 (m) who lives out of the country though maybe 2 times a year with an hello and how are you. But after I met my brother (his child) who lives near me we begin doing activities with each other and getting to know each other. And after that I thought perhaps I should mak... |
1fq6gz1 | WIBTA if I told my partner I don’t want to stay for the entire family trip? | So I (33M) and my partner (36M) go on holidays around twice a year with my in-laws (his parents, brother, sister, sister-in-law and two nephews) either visiting their home or going away somewhere abroad (we’re all Europeans living in Europe). I love them and feel very accepted by them, but spending so much time with ev... |
1frddz6 | AITA for not taking my phone to a barber shop? | It was the morning and I told my mother I would be going to the barber's to get a haircut. I didn't drive and instead walked because the place is only around 15 minutes away.
When I arrived, there was a considerable queue there and I had to wait a bit before it was my turn. And so I waited for like 2 hours and 30 minu... |
1fr5hed | AITA For Asking My Brother To Allow My Friend To Live At A House He Owns? | So my brother owns about 30-35 homes in the area. All rentals. My friend was recently laid off and needs a place to stay. I can't offer up my place since it's kind of tight at the moment.
I called up my brother to see if he had any space available in the rentals. He kept asking me why i needed to know and I told him ... |
1fv1sol | AITA: scheduling... Not making a date | I said I could be free on Friday OR Saturday for a few days house sitting with a very nice girl. My exact words were I could conceivably be free.. and indeed I essentially committed to --in my mind-- arriving on one of those two days. Maybe in a follow up conversation I have more confidence in making it on Friday (can... |
1frbibs | AITA for telling my girlfriend and her friends to stop shouting? | Me and my girlfriend and 2 friends, we’ll call Alice and James were all standing around, when Alice makes a comment about how I’m mentally slow or something like that.
I argued back a bit jokingly, but I didn’t care much. My girlfriend was a bit more offended so she and Alice started arguing. By this point voices were... |
1fqtyhd | AITA for calling a friend on the shitter? | I had to shit, but had a bunch of other things to do as well. I figured I would save some time by calling my friend while on the shitter. It worked fine until he asked me if I was pooping, at which point he got mad and said it was disgusting to call him while on the toilet. I think he overreacted. What do you think? |
1fv454o | AITA for not looking at my mother in the eyes? | We've had a difficult relationship from the start. I’ve never felt like I was enough for her. She constantly compares me to others and calls me stupid. She makes sarcastic, hurtful comments, and when I tell her they upset me, she accuses me of being too pessimistic. She gets angry over the smallest things and often las... |
1furha1 | AITA Current friend wants an event at my house and wants me to invite my ex-best friend | I (25F) used to be best friends with this girl (24F). We met in college and had been roommates for years. Well, about 1.5 years ago out of the blue (to me anyway) I wanted to hang out (we saw each other a few weeks ago, I thought was everything normal) and she told me via text she didn't want to be friends anymore. I w... |
1frs44t | WIBTA if I left my friend at homecoming | So im a 16 year old girl, and I'm currently at homecoming. I hate it here so much, I hate the noise, I hate the people here, everybody is looking at me because I didn't show up in a slu**y short dress. Id rather be at home or going to my local dollar store for a monster right now, rather than have to go through this. B... |
1fv4xh8 | AITA for wanting a full pot of coffee? | Am I the Asshole for wanting my dad to make a full pot of coffee instead of just a half?
Evey single day my dad makes half a pot of coffee in the morning. Why? I HAVE NO CLUE!! We're a family of 4 who all drink coffee and when a half pot is made only 3 people can have a small cup of coffee and I didnt mind giving up my... |
1funa4u | AITA for serving box mac and cheese for a get together with friends? | I invited some of my (33f) friends over last week as we hadn’t seen each other in a while, everyone goes their own way and has kids and jobs. I was really excited because it really has been a while and it’s been a rough time for everyone. I didn’t really think too hard about what to eat or anything because my Mom alway... |
1fr6x01 | AITA for telling my friend to shut up/ F off? | I (18F) turned 18 a few weeks ago and for my birthday my parents bought me a sapphire jewelry set consisting of matching earrings, a necklace, and ring.
Due to my lunch schedule, I eat lunch with a lot of underclassmen, so I started sitting with an old friend/ acquaintance (17F) and some of her friends. I like her bu... |
1fr1ihb | AITA - best friends boyfriend messaged me for help and now she's mad | My (25f) best friends (26f) boyfriend (25m) messaged me the other night asking for some help as they we going through something and he wanted another one of our friends numbers without telling her.
I had called her a few times that day and the phone was never picked up. I quickly sent the number and didn't think anyth... |
1fr7qdq | AITA for getting pissy at my partner at his friend’s 21st party |
Hey reddit, so I (19F) and my partner (20M) have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend since January, we introduce each other as bf and gf to everyone we’re with, but we don’t officially have a title yet (he said we’d be together soon not to long ago so i’m not phased). But tonight, I was catching up with one of m... |
1fr1inx | AITA for say “I don’t care” to a classmate? | I m18 am a college student, I’ve been going through minor depression since the start of college, I moved a state away from my family and have been stressed over classes (I have 7 classes due to my degrees if I want to graduate in 4 years)
yesterday a classmate lets call her Maggie asked if I could help her with her h... |
1fv2ulg | AITA for watching videos at 2x speed | The title says it all really. My friend sent me a video to watch on youtube, one of those informative ones where someone talks through a concept with some visuals to help explain. It was about 30min long and I watched it on 2x speed the way I normally do for such videos. If I watch these videos in normal speed I tend t... |
1fsis2c | AITA for not buying cookies? | A month ago my mom broke her ankle. I took three days off to get her to appointments and make sure she had groceries, a wheelchair, cat food is accessible, those things.
She lives about an hour away. The last three weeks I took my daughter to hang out with her while I:
Got six double doozies from Great American Cook... |
1frz223 | AITA for being sensitive over my boyfriend's comment? | I, (20f) and my bf (21m) have been together for a year.
yesterday, his hair was quite messy and I decided to help him comb it. While I was combing it, he made a comment saying ''you look like my personal maid rn''.
To me, it felt disrespectful because a maid is someone who does chores in exchange for money. I tol... |
1fr0y9r | AITA for telling my mother in law she’s an *sshole? | I’m a little trapped as I’m in another country with my mother in law at the moment. My mother in law has many great qualities. She’s very down to earth and (seemingly) likable. She also has a great sense of humor that everyone warms up to instantly. The problem is the second anyone leaves the room, shots are fired. She... |
1fv8lck | AITA for doing chores after work? | live with my girlfriend and I work from home pretty much full time. I'll go into the office probably once every two weeks whereas my girlfriend is only home around once a week now that she has started her new job. Her old job was work from home so she'd occasionally do laundry and other chores during downtime.
I've b... |
1fqiecl | AITA For Sharing Something Personal | Boyfriend (29M) dumped me after I (29F) shared something personal
We were arguing and I had initiated the idea of a break up because I was uncomfortable with crossing certain physical boundaries and he had kept pushing it. I explained why I was uncomfortable with him crossing those boundaries by sharing a past experi... |
1fqy3uh | AITA For Not Telling A Student's Parents Their Kid Hit My Car? | A week ago, one of the students I (F30) teach was backing out, got out of the student parking lot and when she was driving forward accidentally hit my car in the lot in front of the student one. I wasn't too really upset, given it was just a scrape on paint, and no structural damage but the student (F16) was still ups... |
1fsepr4 | AITA for telling my friend that his ex is getting shagged right now | Context:
Me and a few friends were joking around but what tends to happen is they end up targeting jokes at me and anything I say back to them, they belittle it. I tried to leave the conversation but they were still throwing little jokes at me until I threw an insult to one of my friends saying that his ex is probably... |
1fq3znv | AITAH for getting a wheelchair and my parents not liking it | I (25M) went to my doctor because I have had pains that made me barely able to walk on most days but sometimes I can walk for 10 minutes max. I went to the doctor today asking for solutions for my pain and I made a idea of getting a wheelchair, because I have had this issue for a year and it’s not going away and i can ... |
1fshglt | AITA for giving up my seat on the bus for an old lady and not for a kid? | I 15nb currently use public transport to get around the majority of the time because my parents are too busy working, gambling, taxiing my siblings around to their stuff, and life in general to really care.
Anyways so today (about an hour ago) I was on my way home from work. The bus was full when a kid and mom got on... |
1fubuxn | AITA for going on holiday with friends? | When I was at university I lived with 5 people. Two of these were men and three were woman. We all became close friends and planned to go on holiday after graduation. This didn't end up going ahead for a few different reason and we were all upset. That was 5 years ago.
We live in the UK but all live at different part... |
1fraisd | AITA for booking my wedding on my nephews birthday | i booked my wedding day on my nephews birthday, after running it by my sister beforehand, and was told my nephew (5)would be so happy and that he would never stop talking about it. in fact ran it by her 3+ times and explained why every other date didn’t work. she is now refusing to come to my wedding because i’m taking... |
1fur0fz | AITA - Partner expects me to go to visit Disney Florida with her Annually | My partner travels from the UK to Disney Florida at least once per year and I'm estimating it must cost around £2500 per trip. She expects to start coming along on these annual trips but then refuses to go on shorter and cheaper trips based around my interests (mainly sports) because she doesn't enjoy them. I'm not aga... |
1fueb5o | AITA for using family emergency funds for winning HOA | We had an emergency fund that sat in a very comfortable position for a while, and we live in a nice house with an HOA. We are currently at the board of the HOA which gives us a good vintage point on house values, allows us to make sure our house is always positively impacted and also helps us guide the agenda of the HO... |
1fqe9wm | AITA for making my son's birthday take precedence over my partner's family gathering? | I (37M) have a 6-year-old son whose birthday is next week. I have been planning his small birthday party and invited a few close friends and family. It means so much to him, and I just want to make it special since he's still at that age where birthdays are magical.
My partner (35M) comes from a big family, and his fa... |
1fqx387 | AITA because I want my gf to stop getting tattoos? | I (32M) met my girlfriend (28F) close to a year ago. She has since moved into my house and things are going pretty well overall.
When I met her, she was pretty heavily tattooed; almost a complete sleeve on one side covering her hand, more on the other arm, and knuckles done on both hands. She once told me that she wan... |
1fusv6q | AITA for not texting my girlfriend every time I get a break at work? | I text my girlfriend randomly throughout the day when at work and we normally see each other every day in the afternoons. Recently she’s been blowing up on me if I don’t text her on my lunch break. For my side of the story, I’m the one to drive to lunch and we go in a group of about 5 close friends. So we’re always cut... |
1fuu59p | AITA for using a towel in the sauna | My gym has a spa section where I like to come and relax, recently I entered a sauna with my clean towel that I brought from home.
After I exited the sauna, another visitor has told me to never enter the sauna again with my towel, as it releases toxins into air that he doesn't want to breathe.
There are other people i... |
1fqyn02 | AITA for not offering my bed to my grandmother? | I (M15) live with my mother and father, my mom’s mom visted us yesterday to catch up, as I was chatting and playing with my family, my youngest cousin asked my grandmother to stay over for the night. My grandmother was reluctant after a while, she said yes and all was good, until 12AM, my grandmother decided to leave a... |
1fr0uus | AITA for not babysitting my sister’s kids pretty much every day? |
So, I (21M) am childfree and have been very clear about that my whole life. My sister (33F) has three kids (8M, 5F, and 2M), and while I love them, I don’t want to be responsible for taking care of them.
Recently, my sister has been asking me more and more to babysit so she and her husband can "have some time to them... |
1fs9cre | AITA for eating my roommate’s food and blaming it on a storm? | When roommate (22F) was away visiting her family for a weekend recently, I (22F) had the apartment to myself. She lives about 2 hours away from our college campus apartment so she was gone almost 2 full days. I stayed in on the Friday night and got hungry. I finished off my snacks pretty quick into the night but wanted... |
1frorz2 | AITA for ordering a usb C cable? | My husband (M30) and I (F30) have a 3 year old and 3 month old. Today my husband told me to take some time for myself and go thrifting as well as pick up formula. I did that at took about an hour of time.
When I got home, I sent my husband to Costco, he was going to get a list of things as well as look for a charging... |
1fsa5e9 | AITA if I tell my landlord there’s a non-student living in my student house? | So this week I (M23) moved into a seven bedroom student house. Before I moved in, I had to sign a disclaimer stating that I was below 35 and that I’m a student (I am a student). So I move in and I’m the first person in the house for most of the week until a random man (I’m guessing forties) shows up in the hallway at l... |
1fs87da | AITA for calling my friend out? | so, i was in class with my friends the other day when one of them pulled a pretty big prank. it was actually kind of funny, but then the teacher noticed and got really upset. he said if no one owned up to it, the whole class would get detention.
in the moment, i felt like it was better to just say what happened rather... |
1fuerfq | AITA for encouraging my friend to pursue their dreams? | My friend worked very hard to complete a Bachelors degree in a creative field while maintaining a full time, dead end job. They’ve been at this full time job for almost 15yrs now and despite finishing their education, have zero interest in using that degree to find a new position.
They are always complaining about mo... |
1fr6qwv | AITA for asking someone to change their username? | I know a girl, friend of a friend, weve met before and been friendly.
She sells adult content which is perfectly fine. But she made a twitter one month ago (shes known me about a year), it uses my last name. My last name is common but I found it to be weird. It uses my sisters first name, which was coincidental, it's ... |
1fs7p6h | AITA for wanting my partner to tweeze facial hair in the bathroom only | my parter is AMAB and currently transitioning - a big part of their dysmorphia comes from facial and bodily hair, so they are putting a lot of time into shaving and tweezing. I fully support esp because we can't afford laser at the moment.
often they leave a lot of plucked facial hairs on the bathroom sink, which I wi... |
1fsalai | AITA for not doing my husband’s laundry | My husband is angry with me because the jeans he wanted to wear weren’t clean yet and I’ve “had a week to take care of it”. I told him that he’s a grown man who should be able to take care of this himself and that I am not his mother. His justification is that it’s not like I have anything else to do. I am currently a ... |
1fq5d9g | AITAH my partner, and I had an argument which led to the silent treatment. | Me (21F) am currently getting the silent treatment from my partner(29M). This all started because my partner told me he would call me when he got home and we made plans to online game (we currently live a few hours away from each other.) I waited for my partner to contact me, But heard nothing from him. I waited until ... |
1fqqn93 | AITAH for tell my ex she can't be mad when our daughter calls my girlfriend mum when she'll call my ex's boyfriend dad | I (M26) have had a ongoing disagreement with my ex (F25) about what our daughter will call my girlfriend (F29) or or her mom's boyfriend (M25). My ex won't correct our daughter when she'll call this guy dad but gets extremely mad when my daughter will call my girlfriend mum.
My girlfriend has been in my daughter's lif... |
1fu7lmu | AITA for accidentally ignoring my boyfriend’s text for two hours? | UPDATE: He just messaged and apologized.
He’s been going through a lot lately with work and stuff. I should’ve took that into consideration.
Hi, so what happened was I was working on some college assignments and my boyfriend and I were texting. I finished with my assignments and had texted him saying I was done with... |
1frznm9 | WIBTA to refuse to bring my son to his mother’s on her day? | WIBTA if I said I’m not going to pick him up from school and bring him to her house on her days, nor do I want to start picking him up from practice and driving to her city to bring him to karate then to her house only to get home at 9p?
To be clear, I handle pickups on the days he is with me. She lives 30 minutes awa... |
1fqy1wr | AITA for stopping for a dog on the road? | I was at a 4 way stop and there's a shed like building that looks like it's abandoned. There was a dog that was lingering there, bit close to the road, so I parked on that property to check the collar. Dog was friendly but wasn't staying still so I was digging around the car for a lead or anything similar, and a man wa... |
1fqaxfd | AITA for refusing to help my mom with housework because I’m tired from my job and classes? | I (20F) live with my mom (45F) while attending college full-time and working a part-time job. My mom also works full-time, but recently she’s been asking me to help out more with housework. She says it’s because I’m home more often than she is, even though I’m usually studying or exhausted from work.
Last week, she go... |
1fsjegj | AITA for asking my bf to do the dishes while I am gone | My (long time) bf live in my place 4 days out of 7 because his place is really small, rn I am in college while he dropped out and his trying for a job. Since he wakes up way after I am gone for college I ask him to do little tasks like "hey when you wake up can you do the end of the dishes / takes the trash out" LITTLE... |
1fsbw47 | AITA for telling my friend to stop talking about how he quit a game that we play. | Me and my friends all play a card game every week. One of my friends who has tried the game and dislikes it shows up and has mentioned that he wants to be invited when we hang out to play at locals or other events. Every time he is with us he talks about how he is glad that he has stopped playing the game. That was fin... |
1fuk6kl | AITA for staying at a party when my friend's mum died? | My (26f) friend's (29m) mum sadly passed away two weeks ago. I was hosting my housewarming party that day and my friend texted me in the morning that he won't make it due to his mum not feeling well. I replied that I completely understand and wished her (and him) the best.
At about 10.30 pm, I recieved another text, t... |
1fubw87 | AITA for not letting child live with me | My adult daughter & her husband were evicted from their rental home. We talked of them temporarily moving in with me to get on their feet. The day before moving, my SIL and I got in a huge fight because of his disrespect toward my daughter & their 12 week old twins. In the end, I uninvited him to live with me, but told... |
1fr4c36 | AITA: am i the asshole for postponing my date ? | For context, my girlfriend and i live together in my parents house. my parents travel for work and my mom has to care for my brother who has cancer. (doctors appointments etc). my parents were home today and my mom told me that we were going to be having family dinner, my girlfriend included. about 3 hours before my mo... |
1fv6qmv | AITA for ignoring phone calls from an ex friend | I was uninvited to her birthday party by her after another friend of hers invited me via Facebook.
Over the last couple years, my friend quit inviting me to meet for cocktails and do other things with her. She also did this to another mutual friend. We discussed it several times and both of us have hurt feelings over ... |
1frqwtr | AITA for mentioning my mom's insecurities | So me, my mom and my sister were talking and the conversation started about me not washing my face after putting mascara and she started laughing about how my eyes are looking black and she said that my left eye is even funnier because i have a droppy eyelid (and she knows i'm insecure about it) so to get back at her i... |
1fsopwb | AITA for telling my unemployed mother "differently from you I have job", when she told me to find a job? | I (18F) go to school and have a job. I'm a part-timer, but in summer I used to do a full 8 hours (finishing work at 1 AM). I initially got the job thinking I was about to drop school but I'm still going. So I'm 18 (I will finish school in one and a half years), and working in the afternoon - evening.
My mother (61F) ... |
1fr33kz | AITA for laughing at my dad dying in Hollow Knight? | Me (13M) and my dad (40M) like to "play" hollow knight together. Well... He plays, and I watch (we still have fun). Sometimes, he dies in REALLY silly ways, and I laugh at that. Sometimes he doesnt like it, but thats when he is clearly pissed. But a lot of times, we both laugh at it and just laugh it off.
I do still ... |
1fqhapv | AITA for moving someone’s laundry | I'm a college student that lives in a 10-story building with one laundry room (that's 10 stories of college students having access to the few washing and drying machines there). I start off by putting my clothes in the washer, and I set it by using an app that controls setting it up, which also has a timer to notify th... |
1fqbxsz | AITA for accidentally coming out to my son in front of his friends? | So I'm bi which technically isn't a secret ,but it's never been something I like sat down and told my kids about. My youngest "Riley" (14M) is in a band with his two best friends "Zack" and "Trevor" both 15 I believe and who are a couple. They sometimes practice at our house in the afternoons so I end up chauffeuring t... |
1fq2rzp | AITAH for going on a ride my friend could go on. | AITA for going on a ride that my friend is too heavy to go on. My buddy is a big girl, and I mean a big girl and we went to Knott's, she told me "No rides" and I decided not to listen to her and enjoy myself and go on some rides. Am I the Ahole for going on rides she wasn't able to go on. |
1fstdzo | AITA for telling my friend about a guy? | So I 13/F have been talking to a guy 14/M during the whole summer who we will call Victor. He seemed nice and into me which he clearly was. He kept asking me when I was coming home as I was on holiday. I told him I didn’t know and he just replied with ok. When I got back home it was time for school. On a friday of the ... |
1fsa0dd | AITA-controlling or respect? | Wife got caught emotionally cheating.. yes i went thru her messages. But told her best friend "im not in love with her anymore, i don't know how to tell her" and speaking of "hookups with someone is all she can do right now". wife still hangs out with the accused affair person. She changed password, takes phone to show... |