seangogo/processed_tldr_sft_dataset_20251029_035927

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t3_1hxu8s	relationships	I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting	Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	427	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 2058, 614, 3645, 448, 458, 2310, 505, 594, 4780, 714, 646, 944, 2498, 311, 1490, 476, 3061, 311, 1435, 13, 5301, 4780, 525, 2167, 6419, 1154, 704, 1246, 653, 358, 3291, 1105, 358, 10767, 1366, 311, 9474, 5039, 1105, 389, 5573, ...	47	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 320, 69, 14, 17, 17, 8, 614, 311, 7071, 700, 421, 358, 1366, 311, 2058, 1414, 1493, 7571, 476, 537, 323, 1035, 12213, 311, 5112, 67092, 271, 2946, 25, 2806, 2704, 421...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_33lz18	loseit	SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.	30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	404	I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 1075, 419, 7412, 714, 1079, 7218, 3123, 11, 1265, 582, 653, 432, 1293, 6010, 11, 614, 264, 7324, 1320, 287, 476, 1077, 432, 282, 43137, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665,...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 12260, 752, 508, 69, 60, 864, 5025, 387, 1293, 6010, 1939, 2946, 25, 21018, 678, 2219, 3707, 26485, 25, 358, 1101, 5926, 3697, 700, 315, 847, 330, 768, 398, 35985, 2718, 448...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_38a85h	relationships	Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?	What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	463	Did I take the easy way out? Or did I make a wise choice by realizing that this was not going anywhere?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14568, 358, 1896, 279, 4135, 1616, 700, 30, 2521, 1521, 358, 1281, 264, 23335, 5754, 553, 43014, 429, 419, 572, 537, 2087, 12379, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 1516...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 508, 17, 19, 386, 60, 9482, 264, 1602, 501, 5025, 448, 264, 1293, 882, 4238, 508, 17, 19, 434, 60, 1576, 582, 9324, 311, 1366, 2155, 2513, 700, 315, 1039, 5025, 13, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_2as12n	personalfinance	Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?	I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	422	I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 1744, 566, 594, 25037, 264, 501, 19578, 14132, 1576, 566, 8788, 358, 12213, 432, 11, 323, 358, 2776, 537, 2704, 1246, 311, 10354, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665,...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 508, 17, 20, 434, 60, 1744, 429, 279, 7412, 358, 3003, 1012, 9120, 369, 264, 5625, 3951, 508, 18, 24, 386, 60, 374, 25037, 264, 19578, 14132, 504, 752, 382, 2946, 25,...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_2bzi1g	relationships	My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)	Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	323	Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2463, 1605, 279, 5382, 17176, 700, 315, 847, 4780, 5619, 24927, 24927, 46118, 1809, 323, 358, 686, 387, 14453, 421, 807, 2525, 311, 2906, 311, 3821, 269, 363, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 15166...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 5523, 20850, 271, 50328, 25, 350, 2773, 52, 553, 1136, 3249, 279, 17176, 700, 315, 847, 4780, 271, 2946, 25, 2055, 419, 6932, 1101, 3351, 13, 1205, 2299, 304, 1550, 21850, 323, 752, 323, 847, 2326, 47...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_2t51s9	relationships	My Boyfriend [15m] Broke up with Me [17f] and is spreading Rumors about me. I don't want to break up, Help?	I asked about this before but didnt really get any help :/ My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me last weekend, and now he's spreading rumors about me around school. He's saying that I'm psycho/crazy and a bunch of stuff. What happened that led to the breakup is that some girl was texting him saying flirty stuff, he...	My boyfriend broke up with me for texting a girl that was sending flirty stuff to him, and he's telling prople that i'm crazy and read through his stuff. I don't want to break up at all.	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (21,M) need help getting a girl (22) who used to like me interested again... POST: Without getting into too much detail.. I (21, M) have recently started messaging this girl (22) i knew from high school, and it seemed to be going some where but a couple bad decisions on my part and...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	258	I've been trying to ask a girl out but have seemed to have missed my chance and lost her interest. How can I get her interest back and ask her out?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 3003, 1012, 4460, 311, 2548, 264, 3743, 700, 714, 614, 9324, 311, 614, 13628, 847, 6012, 323, 5558, 1059, 2734, 13, 2585, 646, 358, 633, 1059, 2734, 1182, 323, 2548, 1059, 700, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 15...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (21,M) need help getting a girl (22) who used to like me interested again... POST: Without getting into too much detail.. I (21, M) have recently started messaging this girl (22) i knew from high school, and it seemed to be going some where but a couple bad decisions on my part and...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 3446, 1095, 10027, 1768, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 320, 17, 16, 27014, 8, 1184, 1492, 3709, 264, 3743, 320, 17, 17, 8, 879, 1483, 311, 1075, 752, 8014, 1549, 2146, 2946, 25, 17147, 3709, 1119, 2238, 1753, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_bg4v9	relationship_advice	I don't know if I should believe him.	I'm an exchange student in a foreign country and in the group of exchanges there is this guy, he's cute but I didn't really notice him until he helped me out with when I was breaking up with my boyfriend. It's not what it sounds like, he actually advised me to stay with him. And we became friends, not super close.. but...	This guy only declares love when he's drunk, should I just walk away from the whole situation or find out if he's using the drink as a way to express his feelings.	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (32F) am getting some unexpected money, would it be crazy/wrong to keep it from my husband (33M)? POST: My husband and I have been together for 5 years, very happy together and we have no real financial issues. We disagree on stuff occasionally but always come to a resolution. I a...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	282	I want to keep a $10,000 unexpected windfall from my husband as a surprise to present him with down the road. Fun surprise or bad idea?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 1366, 311, 2506, 264, 400, 16, 15, 11, 15, 15, 15, 16500, 9956, 13464, 504, 847, 9972, 438, 264, 12761, 311, 3042, 1435, 448, 1495, 279, 5636, 13, 16071, 12761, 476, 3873, 4522, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	36	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (32F) am getting some unexpected money, would it be crazy/wrong to keep it from my husband (33M)? POST: My husband and I have been together for 5 years, very happy together and we have no real financial issues. We disagree on stuff occasionally but always come to a resolution. I a...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 320, 18, 17, 37, 8, 1079, 3709, 1045, 16500, 3220, 11, 1035, 432, 387, 14264, 6324, 14347, 311, 2506, 432, 504, 847, 9972, 320, 18, 18, 44, 73530, 2946, 25, 3017, 997...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_2py5xe	relationships	I [15f] am falling for my friend [16m]. It's very complicated. Please help.	I had to get surgery on my finger after a freak accident a couple months ago. I asked a male acquaintance if he would carry my books for me the last two periods of the day until I could do it myself. This went on for almost 3 weeks. We became very good friends. That's when it got more serious... He started telling me...	taken boy has my affections after becoming my friend, says we aren't compatible but always flirts, is confusing the hell out of me.	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My ex-boyfriend stole my spare key and pawned my laptop. POST: My ex and I broke up back in July, since then he occasionally sleeps on the couch because he does not have a place to live or a job. A couple of weeks ago I went out of town for the weekend, he had stayed over the night prior...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	383	My ex is a thief and liar. Should I go ahead and press charges even though I got my stuff back to help stop his petty thefts? Or let it go?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3017, 505, 374, 264, 57735, 323, 72624, 13, 12260, 358, 728, 8305, 323, 3493, 10195, 1496, 3498, 358, 2684, 847, 6259, 1182, 311, 1492, 2936, 806, 60485, 27383, 82, 30, 2521, 1077, 432, 728, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 1...	36	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My ex-boyfriend stole my spare key and pawned my laptop. POST: My ex and I broke up back in July, since then he occasionally sleeps on the couch because he does not have a place to live or a job. A couple of weeks ago I went out of town for the weekend, he had stayed over the night prior...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 26172, 60474, 271, 50328, 25, 3017, 505, 84903, 10701, 39506, 847, 23863, 1376, 323, 53455, 291, 847, 20638, 382, 2946, 25, 3017, 505, 323, 358, 14422, 705, 1182, 304, 5768, 11, 2474, 1221, 566, 229...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_2oukwt	relationships	Today, I (19m) found out my girlfriend (17f) lied about her age.	She's actually 16. We met online and her profile said 16. But shortly after knowing her a while, we decided to go out, and her birthday was two weeks after mine. On her birthday, she turned "17". 7 months later, some psychotic girl told me that she's 15. I replied saying she's actually 17 and when my girlfriend saw t...	my girlfriend lied about her age, im not mad, she's stressed out now with lots of things going on, and I want to help her feel better.	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26F) Maid of Honor (26F) has hurt my feelings repeatedly and I'm not sure how to ask her to step down. POST: So, my best friend and I are both engaged. I've been dating my fiancé for three+ years and have known him my whole life; she has known her fiancé for about 7mths. This is ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 3017, 320, ...	490	Best friend and Maid of Honor hasn't been a good friend. I'm considering asking her to step down, and possibly cutting her out of my life.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 7107, 4238, 323, 47085, 315, 41944, 12492, 944, 1012, 264, 1661, 4238, 13, 358, 2776, 12831, 10161, 1059, 311, 3019, 1495, 11, 323, 10767, 14376, 1059, 700, 315, 847, 2272, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665,...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26F) Maid of Honor (26F) has hurt my feelings repeatedly and I'm not sure how to ask her to step down. POST: So, my best friend and I are both engaged. I've been dating my fiancé for three+ years and have known him my whole life; she has known her fiancé for about 7mths. This is ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 3017, 320, 17, 21, 37, 8, 47085, 315, 41944, 320, 17, 21, 37, 8, 702, 12898, 847, 15650, 18822, 323, 358, 2776, 537, 2704, 1246, 311, 2548, 1059, 311, 3019, 1495, 382, 294...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_4jn7mb	relationship_advice	Though I like where we are, I (26/f) don't want him (43/m) to get the wrong idea.	I've been working with and playing music with him for a while now and we have recently started hanging out outside of music and work...more recently have gone out on a few dates. It's been great; we always have a great time, we've been keeping work and outside life separate, and it's been nice having him as a cuddle bu...	Do I tell him outright we aren't going any further along with details and risk making everything terribly uncomfortable or do I just begin distancing myself?	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 7 years, she needs time POST: So let me start off by saying that I am now in a much better place than when this began about a week ago. I have gotten a lot of solid advice from friends and family. We, like all couples, have had our issues in t...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	472	Girlfriend of seven years needs time and space; we're still together; she does not want to talk about us at the moment.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 98493, 315, 8094, 1635, 3880, 882, 323, 3550, 26, 582, 2299, 2058, 3786, 26, 1340, 1558, 537, 1366, 311, 3061, 911, 601, 518, 279, 4445, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 7 years, she needs time POST: So let me start off by saying that I am now in a much better place than when this began about a week ago. I have gotten a lot of solid advice from friends and family. We, like all couples, have had our issues in t...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2157, 508, 17, 19, 386, 60, 448, 847, 22761, 508, 17, 17, 434, 60, 315, 220, 22, 1635, 11, 1340, 3880, 882, 271, 2946, 25, 2055, 1077, 752, 1191, 1007, 553, 5488, 429, 3...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_ochbg	AskReddit	How long do you spend interested in someone for a relationship? When is the threshold to move on?	Dear Reddit, I'm currently an 18-year-old male with a developed interest in a girl for roughly two years now. We've went out a couple of times with groups of friends and alone as well and I've gotten to know her quite well. Amongst these events, there were subtle skinships and hints between us; at least to what I anal...	Liked girl for two years now, thought we had mutual attraction, time went by and am confused whether the time and distance would sustain attraction or not. Questioning if I missed my chance by letting time pass by too long.	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on meeting my wife tomorrow POST: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed wit...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	322	wife asked to leave family 2 month ago, tomorrow will be first time I will meet wife and kids again - need advice how to behave towards my wife to make the best impression<\|endoftext\|>	[ 7403, 4588, 311, 5274, 2997, 220, 17, 2254, 4134, 11, 16577, 686, 387, 1156, 882, 358, 686, 3367, 7403, 323, 6837, 1549, 481, 1184, 9462, 1246, 311, 35692, 6974, 847, 7403, 311, 1281, 279, 1850, 20792, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 15...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on meeting my wife tomorrow POST: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed wit...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 14656, 9462, 389, 6438, 847, 7403, 16577, 271, 2946, 25, 3017, 508, 18, 22, 44, 60, 7403, 508, 18, 22, 37, 60, 320, 69482, 2474, 220, 16, 18, 1635, 11, 3786, 2474, 220, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_36n9my	relationships	Me [33 F] with my Ex [38 M] 1.5 years. Am I just a romantic, or does anyone believe in "choosing" to love anymore or is all just based on how you feel?	I don't want to be long and I'm not going to go into the nitty-gritty details, as I don't feel it is particularly necessary for my question. It's a simple question: am I incorrect that I believe there are points in a relationship that you "choose" to love someone; you don't always "feel" like it? That isn't to say tho...	Apparently I don't get relationships. Does anyone base relationships on their choice to love and commit to a person or is it all based upon feelings now?	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: He (24M) still has pictures, and I'm(24f) assuming masturbates to, his ex girlfriend POST: We've been dating for about two and a half years. We live together outside our home town away from both our families. He spent his whole life savings getting me up here and has been a gre...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14...	485	bf has hundreds of photos of masturbating ex gf that he lied about deleting twice, that I found by snooping when I told him I wouldn't anymore.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 39093, 702, 11499, 315, 7249, 315, 92007, 505, 41888, 429, 566, 46153, 911, 33011, 10917, 11, 429, 358, 1730, 553, 65084, 33707, 979, 358, 3229, 1435, 358, 8270, 944, 14584, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: He (24M) still has pictures, and I'm(24f) assuming masturbates to, his ex girlfriend POST: We've been dating for about two and a half years. We live together outside our home town away from both our families. He spent his whole life savings getting me up here and has been a gre...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 36095, 10027, 1768, 271, 50328, 25, 1260, 320, 17, 19, 44, 8, 2058, 702, 9185, 11, 323, 358, 2776, 7, 17, 19, 69, 8, 25538, 29343, 973, 311, 11, 806, 505, 22761, 271, 2946, 25, 1205, 3003, 101...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
t3_14bd30	relationships	She [23f] told me [25m] we may have had someone else's abortion.	We hooked up with each other and other people before we started dating. Early in the relationship condoms and birth control failed and we had an abortion. About two years later we're together but now long distance, and last month I visited her. There, she tells me she hooked up with someone right before we became seri...	Learned way after the fact I may have covered someone else's abortion, not sure I can make eye contact with my girlfriend.	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] work abroad a do not have a permanent home, how do I meet women? POST: I work a monthly rotation in remote locations around the world. The months when I work, I have zero chance of meeting any women. The other half of the year I spend in hostels either traveling or relaxing ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	204	22 M working abroad. No permanent home, in a different country every month. Is it possible to build a lasting relationship with a woman?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 220, 17, 17, 386, 3238, 22131, 13, 2308, 15330, 2114, 11, 304, 264, 2155, 3146, 1449, 2254, 13, 2160, 432, 3204, 311, 1936, 264, 28769, 5025, 448, 264, 5220, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 1516...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] work abroad a do not have a permanent home, how do I meet women? POST: I work a monthly rotation in remote locations around the world. The months when I work, I have zero chance of meeting any women. The other half of the year I spend in hostels either traveling or relaxing ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 508, 17, 17, 386, 60, 975, 22131, 264, 653, 537, 614, 264, 15330, 2114, 11, 1246, 653, 358, 3367, 3198, 1939, 2946, 25, 358, 975, 264, 15088, 12695, 304, 8699, 10468, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...

t3_1hxu8s

relationships

I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting

Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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t3_33lz18

loseit

SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.

30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...

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404

I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...

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t3_38a85h

relationships

Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?

What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ...

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Did I take the easy way out? Or did I make a wise choice by realizing that this was not going anywhere?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ...

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t3_2as12n

personalfinance

Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?

I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...

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422

I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...

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t3_2bzi1g

relationships

My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)

Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?

SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...

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323

Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...

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t3_2t51s9

relationships

My Boyfriend [15m] Broke up with Me [17f] and is spreading Rumors about me. I don't want to break up, Help?

I asked about this before but didnt really get any help :/ My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me last weekend, and now he's spreading rumors about me around school. He's saying that I'm psycho/crazy and a bunch of stuff. What happened that led to the breakup is that some girl was texting him saying flirty stuff, he...

My boyfriend broke up with me for texting a girl that was sending flirty stuff to him, and he's telling prople that i'm crazy and read through his stuff. I don't want to break up at all.

SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (21,M) need help getting a girl (22) who used to like me interested again... POST: Without getting into too much detail.. I (21, M) have recently started messaging this girl (22) i knew from high school, and it seemed to be going some where but a couple bad decisions on my part and...

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258

I've been trying to ask a girl out but have seemed to have missed my chance and lost her interest. How can I get her interest back and ask her out?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (21,M) need help getting a girl (22) who used to like me interested again... POST: Without getting into too much detail.. I (21, M) have recently started messaging this girl (22) i knew from high school, and it seemed to be going some where but a couple bad decisions on my part and...

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t3_bg4v9

relationship_advice

I don't know if I should believe him.

I'm an exchange student in a foreign country and in the group of exchanges there is this guy, he's cute but I didn't really notice him until he helped me out with when I was breaking up with my boyfriend. It's not what it sounds like, he actually advised me to stay with him. And we became friends, not super close.. but...

This guy only declares love when he's drunk, should I just walk away from the whole situation or find out if he's using the drink as a way to express his feelings.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (32F) am getting some unexpected money, would it be crazy/wrong to keep it from my husband (33M)? POST: My husband and I have been together for 5 years, very happy together and we have no real financial issues. We disagree on stuff occasionally but always come to a resolution. I a...

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282

I want to keep a $10,000 unexpected windfall from my husband as a surprise to present him with down the road. Fun surprise or bad idea?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (32F) am getting some unexpected money, would it be crazy/wrong to keep it from my husband (33M)? POST: My husband and I have been together for 5 years, very happy together and we have no real financial issues. We disagree on stuff occasionally but always come to a resolution. I a...

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t3_2py5xe

relationships

I [15f] am falling for my friend [16m]. It's very complicated. Please help.

I had to get surgery on my finger after a freak accident a couple months ago. I asked a male acquaintance if he would carry my books for me the last two periods of the day until I could do it myself. This went on for almost 3 weeks. We became very good friends. That's when it got more serious... He started telling me...

taken boy has my affections after becoming my friend, says we aren't compatible but always flirts, is confusing the hell out of me.

SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My ex-boyfriend stole my spare key and pawned my laptop. POST: My ex and I broke up back in July, since then he occasionally sleeps on the couch because he does not have a place to live or a job. A couple of weeks ago I went out of town for the weekend, he had stayed over the night prior...

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383

My ex is a thief and liar. Should I go ahead and press charges even though I got my stuff back to help stop his petty thefts? Or let it go?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My ex-boyfriend stole my spare key and pawned my laptop. POST: My ex and I broke up back in July, since then he occasionally sleeps on the couch because he does not have a place to live or a job. A couple of weeks ago I went out of town for the weekend, he had stayed over the night prior...

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t3_2oukwt

relationships

Today, I (19m) found out my girlfriend (17f) lied about her age.

She's actually 16. We met online and her profile said 16. But shortly after knowing her a while, we decided to go out, and her birthday was two weeks after mine. On her birthday, she turned "17". 7 months later, some psychotic girl told me that she's 15. I replied saying she's actually 17 and when my girlfriend saw t...

my girlfriend lied about her age, im not mad, she's stressed out now with lots of things going on, and I want to help her feel better.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26F) Maid of Honor (26F) has hurt my feelings repeatedly and I'm not sure how to ask her to step down. POST: So, my best friend and I are both engaged. I've been dating my fiancé for three+ years and have known him my whole life; she has known her fiancé for about 7mths. This is ...

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Best friend and Maid of Honor hasn't been a good friend. I'm considering asking her to step down, and possibly cutting her out of my life.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26F) Maid of Honor (26F) has hurt my feelings repeatedly and I'm not sure how to ask her to step down. POST: So, my best friend and I are both engaged. I've been dating my fiancé for three+ years and have known him my whole life; she has known her fiancé for about 7mths. This is ...

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t3_4jn7mb

relationship_advice

Though I like where we are, I (26/f) don't want him (43/m) to get the wrong idea.

I've been working with and playing music with him for a while now and we have recently started hanging out outside of music and work...more recently have gone out on a few dates. It's been great; we always have a great time, we've been keeping work and outside life separate, and it's been nice having him as a cuddle bu...

Do I tell him outright we aren't going any further along with details and risk making everything terribly uncomfortable or do I just begin distancing myself?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 7 years, she needs time POST: So let me start off by saying that I am now in a much better place than when this began about a week ago. I have gotten a lot of solid advice from friends and family. We, like all couples, have had our issues in t...

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472

Girlfriend of seven years needs time and space; we're still together; she does not want to talk about us at the moment.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 7 years, she needs time POST: So let me start off by saying that I am now in a much better place than when this began about a week ago. I have gotten a lot of solid advice from friends and family. We, like all couples, have had our issues in t...

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t3_ochbg

AskReddit

How long do you spend interested in someone for a relationship? When is the threshold to move on?

Dear Reddit, I'm currently an 18-year-old male with a developed interest in a girl for roughly two years now. We've went out a couple of times with groups of friends and alone as well and I've gotten to know her quite well. Amongst these events, there were subtle skinships and hints between us; at least to what I anal...

Liked girl for two years now, thought we had mutual attraction, time went by and am confused whether the time and distance would sustain attraction or not. Questioning if I missed my chance by letting time pass by too long.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on meeting my wife tomorrow POST: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed wit...

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wife asked to leave family 2 month ago, tomorrow will be first time I will meet wife and kids again - need advice how to behave towards my wife to make the best impression<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on meeting my wife tomorrow POST: My [37M] wife [37F] (married since 13 years, together since 15) asked me to leave the house 2 month ago - reason: she tells me she lost all feelings towards me after our son's birth 10 years ago. Both kids daughter 6 and son 10 stayed wit...

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t3_36n9my

relationships

Me [33 F] with my Ex [38 M] 1.5 years. Am I just a romantic, or does anyone believe in "choosing" to love anymore or is all just based on how you feel?

I don't want to be long and I'm not going to go into the nitty-gritty details, as I don't feel it is particularly necessary for my question. It's a simple question: am I incorrect that I believe there are points in a relationship that you "choose" to love someone; you don't always "feel" like it? That isn't to say tho...

Apparently I don't get relationships. Does anyone base relationships on their choice to love and commit to a person or is it all based upon feelings now?

SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: He (24M) still has pictures, and I'm(24f) assuming masturbates to, his ex girlfriend POST: We've been dating for about two and a half years. We live together outside our home town away from both our families. He spent his whole life savings getting me up here and has been a gre...

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485

bf has hundreds of photos of masturbating ex gf that he lied about deleting twice, that I found by snooping when I told him I wouldn't anymore.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: He (24M) still has pictures, and I'm(24f) assuming masturbates to, his ex girlfriend POST: We've been dating for about two and a half years. We live together outside our home town away from both our families. He spent his whole life savings getting me up here and has been a gre...

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t3_14bd30

relationships

She [23f] told me [25m] we may have had someone else's abortion.

We hooked up with each other and other people before we started dating. Early in the relationship condoms and birth control failed and we had an abortion. About two years later we're together but now long distance, and last month I visited her. There, she tells me she hooked up with someone right before we became seri...

Learned way after the fact I may have covered someone else's abortion, not sure I can make eye contact with my girlfriend.

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] work abroad a do not have a permanent home, how do I meet women? POST: I work a monthly rotation in remote locations around the world. The months when I work, I have zero chance of meeting any women. The other half of the year I spend in hostels either traveling or relaxing ...

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22 M working abroad. No permanent home, in a different country every month. Is it possible to build a lasting relationship with a woman?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] work abroad a do not have a permanent home, how do I meet women? POST: I work a monthly rotation in remote locations around the world. The months when I work, I have zero chance of meeting any women. The other half of the year I spend in hostels either traveling or relaxing ...

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