seangogo/processed_tldr_sft_dataset_20251028_232434

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	427	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 2058, 614, 3645, 448, 458, 2310, 505, 594, 4780, 714, 646, 944, 2498, 311, 1490, 476, 3061, 311, 1435, 13, 5301, 4780, 525, 2167, 6419, 1154, 704, 1246, 653, 358, 3291, 1105, 358, 10767, 1366, 311, 9474, 5039, 1105, 389, 5573, ...	47	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 320, 69, 14, 17, 17, 8, 614, 311, 7071, 700, 421, 358, 1366, 311, 2058, 1414, 1493, 7571, 476, 537, 323, 1035, 12213, 311, 5112, 67092, 271, 2946, 25, 2806, 2704, 421...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	307	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 16033, 374, 2058, 12482, 11, 1496, 979, 498, 1744, 432, 2578, 537, 387, 0, 4320, 944, 633, 63670, 11, 1496, 421, 697, 11618, 4977, 311, 387, 2087, 13970, 13, 4320, 944, 2968, 705, 11, 42500, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 1469, 275, 271, 50328, 25, 17481, 609, 3043, 53, 0, 55378, 389, 10282, 389, 382, 2946, 25, 220, 18, 15, 37, 11, 220, 20, 6, 21, 3263, 13387, 25, 220, 17, 18, 21, 41253, 25, 220, 16, 20, 15, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	280	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3017, 6787, 374, 22290, 1151, 24569, 26, 1128, 1410, 358, 653, 2687, 352, 911, 432, 429, 1035, 19952, 847, 3853, 8263, 700, 279, 3245, 30, 3555, 594, 697, 3139, 448, 2487, 2168, 4714, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2157, 508, 16, 24, 37, 60, 448, 847, 4238, 508, 16, 24, 44, 60, 220, 16, 15, 3951, 11, 758, 325, 30602, 481, 6928, 476, 24647, 1939, 2946, 25, 3555, 525, 697, 7343, 911,...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	285	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 400, 16, 19, 74, 304, 5458, 11636, 320, 541, 366, 20, 11334, 323, 1184, 311, 3581, 803, 369, 1495, 8160, 389, 264, 3968, 3, 18, 15, 15, 74, 3753, 13, 2585, 311, 22089, 400, 20, 17, 15, 15, 3183, 78, 1948, 279, 1378, 30, 151643, ...	45	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 56461, 3104, 24387, 271, 50328, 25, 31399, 26310, 5458, 11636, 476, 13997, 369, 1495, 8160, 1939, 2946, 25, 358, 614, 400, 17, 20, 74, 304, 5458, 11636, 13, 3776, 869, 11679, 518, 220, 24, 13, 20, 4, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	354	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40026, 374, 264, 3076, 645, 69466, 15150, 19151, 979, 358, 2776, 6419, 11, 323, 458, 10740, 7649, 979, 358, 2776, 650, 83698, 13, 6695, 374, 12764, 323, 1340, 594, 279, 37291, 358, 3003, 3512, 29005, 13, 3555, 653, 30, 151643, 151665, ...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 3017, 58, 17, 20, 76, 60, 22761, 508, 17, 19, 69, 60, 374, 1172, 6419, 323, 23795, 979, 358, 2776, 53166, 1055, 323, 28727, 13, 320, 24, 3951, 692, 2946, 25, 31345, 13757,...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	335	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 4588, 7412, 358, 614, 1012, 4924, 369, 264, 2254, 421, 4297, 572, 16910, 323, 1431, 358, 22231, 432, 1576, 358, 1744, 432, 3643, 752, 1401, 4484, 88, 608, 62098, 88, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665,...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2157, 220, 17, 23, 434, 448, 7412, 358, 2776, 4924, 220, 18, 15, 386, 481, 220, 16, 2254, 11, 2160, 432, 16910, 311, 2548, 421, 4297, 374, 16910, 476, 1079, 358, 1660, 448...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	189	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 479, 69, 1053, 1340, 4558, 3207, 944, 2400, 752, 1576, 358, 572, 2238, 2805, 13, 220, 4695, 358, 1079, 2167, 6519, 1007, 553, 1059, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2160, 432, 16283, 429, 419, 6519, 752, 1007, 504, 847, 41888, 1939, 2946, 25, 576, 1008, 1899, 847, 22761, 7, 17, 18, 1635, 2310, 8, 323, 7037, 7, 17, 17, 1635, 2310, 8, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	385	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 23864, 264, 2409, 34815, 84442, 62481, 26, 26115, 429, 358, 2776, 24870, 1732, 2845, 10865, 26, 73118, 17176, 26413, 4572, 1137, 26, 17811, 358, 2776, 2087, 311, 19594, 349, 847, 25838, 448, 847, 7709, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	36	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 320, 17, 22, 12318, 8, 1079, 1508, 41403, 13307, 68663, 1283, 264, 342, 73930, 5729, 2820, 42930, 13, 2585, 653, 358, 10339, 847, 26775, 73118, 12, 2090, 311, 847, 25838,...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	220	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 1744, 358, 2578, 1075, 1378, 7571, 518, 3055, 13, 4320, 944, 1366, 311, 26, 1101, 1366, 311, 387, 1968, 916, 33360, 369, 825, 13, 3155, 358, 653, 4113, 1573, 7770, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 54720, 342, 1945, 315, 419, 62092, 4486, 1492, 752, 320, 16, 23, 76, 8, 700, 13, 5209, 323, 9702, 498, 25, 692, 2946, 25, 2055, 5926, 358, 33693, 311, 279, 5492, 31733, 13...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	364	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1246, 653, 358, 23101, 1839, 448, 847, 25838, 315, 220, 17, 13, 20, 1635, 2041, 1435, 8266, 1075, 358, 1513, 944, 1366, 311, 4486, 1435, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2157, 508, 17, 15, 12318, 60, 3432, 12264, 448, 25838, 508, 17, 18, 3183, 60, 315, 220, 17, 13, 20, 1635, 1839, 6541, 271, 2946, 25, 3017, 25838, 323, 358, 614, 458, 7897,...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	255	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 2776, 17811, 911, 7218, 700, 315, 2681, 594, 3753, 323, 1119, 458, 13154, 448, 264, 25838, 879, 3171, 944, 2167, 9324, 17811, 518, 678, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 50806, 2408, 26320, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 2776, 1101, 2167, 19227, 1290, 1431, 2146, 2946, 25, 358, 1101, 11105, 419, 62092, 323, 358, 1079, 15713, 358, 1521, 1576, 358, 1079, 911, 311, 387, 518, 279, 14...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	471	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<\|endoftext\|>	[ 48899, 287, 264, 2155, 3093, 315, 5025, 374, 3259, 752, 3405, 10485, 13, 358, 1513, 944, 1414, 3425, 419, 374, 678, 304, 847, 1968, 476, 358, 2776, 8630, 2494, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 36095, 10027, 1768, 271, 50328, 25, 2585, 311, 3484, 448, 33585, 4297, 1939, 2946, 25, 220, 17, 18, 6663, 1588, 323, 5627, 374, 220, 17, 21, 3183, 13, 31155, 369, 220, 16, 13, 20, 54023, 323, 53...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	471	I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 3003, 1730, 7037, 28023, 311, 264, 883, 879, 374, 537, 847, 25838, 13, 358, 646, 944, 16835, 847, 2618, 11, 773, 1246, 646, 358, 22279, 1493, 15650, 30, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, ...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2157, 508, 220, 17, 15, 12318, 60, 448, 847, 39093, 508, 220, 17, 15, 10270, 60, 315, 220, 18, 1635, 13, 358, 3003, 1730, 7037, 28023, 311, 4325, 770, 13, 14656, 9462, 389...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	458	My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3017, 40026, 6801, 311, 2291, 369, 10476, 1059, 448, 1059, 23168, 536, 11, 714, 358, 1513, 944, 1366, 311, 633, 7171, 2474, 358, 1744, 429, 2494, 1075, 419, 1265, 387, 3601, 304, 264, 5025, 13, 11733, 38455, 525, 3897, 304, 279, 1736,...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 2157, 508, 17, 16, 44, 60, 448, 847, 40026, 508, 16, 24, 37, 60, 315, 220, 17, 11, 20, 1635, 13, 2932, 6801, 311, 2291, 752, 369, 10476, 1059, 448, 1059, 23168, 7822, 11...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	274	I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 358, 1075, 419, 3743, 13, 362, 4238, 315, 10485, 13151, 419, 3743, 13, 1096, 3743, 3171, 944, 13151, 1435, 1182, 13, 1096, 3743, 2578, 1075, 2441, 4238, 11, 7892, 358, 2776, 537, 2704, 315, 429, 13, 2585, 653, 358, 10354, 30, 151643, ...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 3446, 1095, 10027, 1768, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 1744, 358, 2776, 30591, 304, 34407, 21495, 323, 1513, 944, 1414, 1246, 311, 10354, 11, 1045, 9462, 1035, 387, 2167, 25808, 382, 2946, 25, 358, 320, 36476, 1...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...	[ 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665...	278	Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6212, 264, 3743, 1393, 20971, 11, 4460, 311, 7071, 700, 264, 1616, 582, 646, 8329, 803, 882, 3786, 323, 1246, 311, 3291, 1059, 1246, 358, 2666, 13, 151643, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 151665, 1516...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...	[ 29038, 787, 4103, 952, 25, 435, 14, 85824, 271, 50328, 25, 358, 508, 44, 17, 15, 60, 2270, 264, 3743, 508, 37, 17, 15, 60, 879, 600, 2167, 1075, 1393, 33136, 287, 37534, 323, 600, 15522, 1414, 1128, 311, 653, 382, 2946, 25, 358, ...	[ -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100, -100...

SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

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Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

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My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

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$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

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GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

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I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

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Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

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Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

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I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

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how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

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I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

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Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...

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I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...

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My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...

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I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...

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Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...

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