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Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.
**Your top 10 posts:**
* "[25 Upvotes and I will ask her out](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/reefw0)" by [u/South\_Original8872](https://www.reddit.com/user/South_Original8872)
* "[Based on a real story](https://www.reddit.com... | Crush |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too!
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided f... | Crush |
My crush is too shy to admit he likes me so he's an asshole to me. This is a grown man, btw.
Anyway, I adore him but he's stupid. | Crush |
Guys shes nice and touchy with everyone but me 💀 ans also is mean to only me💀 but we are close friends and i liked her since we’ve met and thing is today we had a test ans one of our classmates told me to sit in front of him which also required me to sit next to my crush so i could cover him while he cheats in test ... | Crush |
Is it ok to leave someone on read if the conversation seems like it’s run it’s course? and I don’t wanna respond with an average “lol” or something like that. I don’t mean it to be toxic or ignoring her I just don’t know what to say or keep dragging it on. | Crush |
I just confessed to my crush and I’m absolutely terrified | Crush |
The place that I live in, has holidays. My family decided to go for a staycation of one night at a resort a bit away from home. Only to find my childhood crush and family there too, on the exact same days. We’re now adults (me just graduating in one year and he graduated one year ago). We don’t speak, but when we bumpe... | Crush |
we met a few days ago and she invited me to a local concert last night with some of her friends. she's very flirty but she has so many friends it's hard to tell if that's just her personality or if she likes me. but we hung out like the whole time and it seemed like she was focusing much more on me than anyone else..i ... | Crush |
I have a long time crush on one of my college mate from college. I never had conversation with him as he is from different department. He started to notice me and got to know that I like through our mutual friend. My feelings for him didnt change for years. So I confessed to him on my 7th semester through text. He poli... | Crush |
I need help. I have always been the loser in school who gets made fun of until this school year (11th grade). During quarantine, I grew to 6'1, lost a lot of weight, and I'm a completely new person. This school year, IDK if I am delusional or not but it just seems like everybody likes me. I don't have any experience wi... | Crush |
We met the night before in an office team dinner. As I was helping organise the dinner event, I was tasked to come up with a game that we can all play as a team (we had around 100 people consisting of smaller teams). As I went around asking ideas from the sub-teams, I met him when I approached his team's table. I intro... | Crush |
i have been talking to a girl that goes to my school on snapchat and we have texted a lot, we also have been facetiming until pretty late(1-3 am). i like her, i think she likes me but although we usually talk 1-2 hrs a day at least she ignores me in school. on a call with her, i asked her about it and she brushed it of... | Crush |
Ever since I met him....he was such a cool guy.. does he like me?.. | Crush |
Okay so I (18f) met this guy (19m) at a party. He asked me for my number and then we matched on tinder. He started texting me a fair amount and we smoked together once with nothing happening. He continued to text me (but he’s bad at replying so even though he’d instigate convo he’d take at least 2-4 hours to respond) a... | Crush |
As the title says... I became too obsessed. I stalk her everyday. I try so hard to hide my feelings when i'm with her. I cry myself to sleep every night. Today i liked one of her posts by mistake and i feel so bad.
I know she likes me, even the slightest. But the talking stage or whatever the f... is that scares me t... | Crush |
Well. There is a boy I really like. and I met him in my freshman year and he liked me. but because of covid we stopped talking. Now in my junior year I don't have any classes with him but my friend does. So I spent my entire junior year having a crush on him but never talking to him. Until a month ago he invited ... | Crush |
Sounds dumb, I know.. but there’s this guy and he’s pretty cool. Always saw him around campus, and my friends know him. We’re not like close personally. Well, recently he has followed me on social media and on strava (we’re both runners and bikers) and he always likes my Instagram stories and what not. Well last week I... | Crush |
So a week ago me and this guy fucked. It was basically the first time I met him at a HP. We have been texting ever since but a lot of ppl have warned me abt him he has a lot of red flags. i can even notice it while texting him just these past couple of days. But he’s in my head. Idk what to do. i tried stopping talkin... | Crush |
basically i (nb they/she 20) always felt excluded growing up because i would basically pretend to have crushes on guys bc i felt like i didnt fit in, i realized that i was pan, but then as i grew older i know i dont like guys and im only attracted to non-men so i label myself as lesbian. i lost a lot of friends because... | Crush |
original post*
This cute chick recently gives me the look now and then, even tho I haven't talked to her yet.. Be anywhere I see her giving me multiple glances and heck sometimes just staring at me .. I don't see any expressions tho and once it happened that we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds straight until she looked dow... | Crush |
STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫 | Crush |
Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, ... | Crush |
she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.
And yah i accepted it.
So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.
And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.
Any thoughts? Should i take it as ... | Crush |
He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁 | Crush |
For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.
She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her... | Crush |
M15
Hello this is my first time posting on reddit
So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.
And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade bel... | Crush |
So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?
Side note: I would tell him in person given the ch... | Crush |
So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.
I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just t... | Crush |
Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.
I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant... | Crush |
So i was at my friends place with his girlfriend and her best friend for whome i have a crush. So we were just drinking and having fun now comes the question. So besides this one time she always engages with me wants to play thumb wars or something. We are sitting not like drunk but relaxed and she starts brushing my h... | Crush |
I've actually been rejected so many times in my life, and I decided to never catch feelings again or think about love and relationships again. But it's always the same, I easily catch feelings and start loving the person passionately. Same experience over and over and over. And this year at college, I met this girl Car... | Crush |
I’ve known this girl for years and ever since I met her I know she’s the love of my life. We’re really close with eachother and we used to have sex a few years back she even did have a crush on me at one point but this was years ago. How do I get her to develop these feelings back for me. I know if we get together rn w... | Crush |
I’ve started hardcore falling for my boss. He’s become one of my good friends throughout the time I’ve known him, but the more I see him, spend time with him, joke with him, or even just be near him I catch myself staring. I can’t get him out of my head most of the time and worst part. I think it’s mutual. There’s many... | Crush |
I’ve been in denial with this one guy for a few months now ever since he started working. I’m usually the shy type and he is one too so it’s hard having a conversation together alone.
Coming back from a rough break from work, he asked me to go to Seattle with him— of course I said yes, and it was with another coworker... | Crush |
I’m 18 and I never really had noticed guys before 2 months ago. I went to a hockey game and I found the players really cute. Ever since then, it’s like there’s really cute guys everywhere. I guess I’ve just noticed it now. I even have a crush on a guy the gym. I never felt like this at 16 or anything. Apparently I’m a ... | Crush |
I got the balls to ask for her number and I got it. Now what? What should I text her (keep in mind I have never talked to this girl ever expect when I went up to her and asked for it.) | Crush |
i’ve liked this guy for a year now and it started off as a pointless crush and we were practically strangers. We saw each other around and we said hey here and there and talked but as time progressed, we’ve developed into friends and we’re sort of in the same friend group, i see him three times a week for work (we don’... | Crush |
Picture this : I’m in first year university , awkward, chubby, un-cute. I never felt good enough, I was never the girl that anyone paid any mind to, the DUFF if you will. I met this dude and we became friends. He comes to residence all the time , hangs out with me, watches anime with me. As a surprise to no one, I fell... | Crush |
So I finally got the courage to ask this girl, who I’ve had a crush on for years, for her number. She said yes and we started texting really well for like four days. I asked her if she wanted to grab food and she said she’d love to. We setup a day and then I waited for her to text first. When the day came around she sa... | Crush |
To start off, I’m in high school, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. There’s been this girl I’ve been interested in lately, but I’m not sure if I have a crush on her or not (probably a very small crush). I got to start talking to her through orchestra relations and being in the same club. What I know is I want to ... | Crush |
Not sure if age is helpful but just in case:
Me: 13 y/o Boy
Crush: 13 y/o Girl
I apologize in advance for the super long post.
Not to long ago I asked my crush if I could tell her something at lunch in private (so I could tell her how I feel) . She says yes and we agree on a spot to meet up. She isn’t there at the beg... | Crush |
Let me introduce myself a bit before this story starts. My name is Ace and I'm a transgender guy. And I have a crush on a much older girl. Alright so I'm talking with this girl online, Let's call her Ivy. Ivy and I have been talking since the end of december 2021. In february I started to develop a little crush on Ivy.... | Crush |
Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year.
**Your top 10 posts:**
* "[25 Upvotes and I will ask her out](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/reefw0)" by [u/South\_Original8872](https://www.reddit.com/user/South_Original8872)
* "[Based on a real story](https://www.reddit.com... | Crush |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too!
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided f... | Crush |
My crush is too shy to admit he likes me so he's an asshole to me. This is a grown man, btw.
Anyway, I adore him but he's stupid. | Crush |
Guys shes nice and touchy with everyone but me 💀 ans also is mean to only me💀 but we are close friends and i liked her since we’ve met and thing is today we had a test ans one of our classmates told me to sit in front of him which also required me to sit next to my crush so i could cover him while he cheats in test ... | Crush |
Is it ok to leave someone on read if the conversation seems like it’s run it’s course? and I don’t wanna respond with an average “lol” or something like that. I don’t mean it to be toxic or ignoring her I just don’t know what to say or keep dragging it on. | Crush |
I just confessed to my crush and I’m absolutely terrified | Crush |
The place that I live in, has holidays. My family decided to go for a staycation of one night at a resort a bit away from home. Only to find my childhood crush and family there too, on the exact same days. We’re now adults (me just graduating in one year and he graduated one year ago). We don’t speak, but when we bumpe... | Crush |
we met a few days ago and she invited me to a local concert last night with some of her friends. she's very flirty but she has so many friends it's hard to tell if that's just her personality or if she likes me. but we hung out like the whole time and it seemed like she was focusing much more on me than anyone else..i ... | Crush |
I have a long time crush on one of my college mate from college. I never had conversation with him as he is from different department. He started to notice me and got to know that I like through our mutual friend. My feelings for him didnt change for years. So I confessed to him on my 7th semester through text. He poli... | Crush |
I need help. I have always been the loser in school who gets made fun of until this school year (11th grade). During quarantine, I grew to 6'1, lost a lot of weight, and I'm a completely new person. This school year, IDK if I am delusional or not but it just seems like everybody likes me. I don't have any experience wi... | Crush |
We met the night before in an office team dinner. As I was helping organise the dinner event, I was tasked to come up with a game that we can all play as a team (we had around 100 people consisting of smaller teams). As I went around asking ideas from the sub-teams, I met him when I approached his team's table. I intro... | Crush |
i have been talking to a girl that goes to my school on snapchat and we have texted a lot, we also have been facetiming until pretty late(1-3 am). i like her, i think she likes me but although we usually talk 1-2 hrs a day at least she ignores me in school. on a call with her, i asked her about it and she brushed it of... | Crush |
Ever since I met him....he was such a cool guy.. does he like me?.. | Crush |
Okay so I (18f) met this guy (19m) at a party. He asked me for my number and then we matched on tinder. He started texting me a fair amount and we smoked together once with nothing happening. He continued to text me (but he’s bad at replying so even though he’d instigate convo he’d take at least 2-4 hours to respond) a... | Crush |
As the title says... I became too obsessed. I stalk her everyday. I try so hard to hide my feelings when i'm with her. I cry myself to sleep every night. Today i liked one of her posts by mistake and i feel so bad.
I know she likes me, even the slightest. But the talking stage or whatever the f... is that scares me t... | Crush |
Well. There is a boy I really like. and I met him in my freshman year and he liked me. but because of covid we stopped talking. Now in my junior year I don't have any classes with him but my friend does. So I spent my entire junior year having a crush on him but never talking to him. Until a month ago he invited ... | Crush |
Sounds dumb, I know.. but there’s this guy and he’s pretty cool. Always saw him around campus, and my friends know him. We’re not like close personally. Well, recently he has followed me on social media and on strava (we’re both runners and bikers) and he always likes my Instagram stories and what not. Well last week I... | Crush |
So a week ago me and this guy fucked. It was basically the first time I met him at a HP. We have been texting ever since but a lot of ppl have warned me abt him he has a lot of red flags. i can even notice it while texting him just these past couple of days. But he’s in my head. Idk what to do. i tried stopping talkin... | Crush |
basically i (nb they/she 20) always felt excluded growing up because i would basically pretend to have crushes on guys bc i felt like i didnt fit in, i realized that i was pan, but then as i grew older i know i dont like guys and im only attracted to non-men so i label myself as lesbian. i lost a lot of friends because... | Crush |
original post*
This cute chick recently gives me the look now and then, even tho I haven't talked to her yet.. Be anywhere I see her giving me multiple glances and heck sometimes just staring at me .. I don't see any expressions tho and once it happened that we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds straight until she looked dow... | Crush |
STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫 | Crush |
Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, ... | Crush |
she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.
And yah i accepted it.
So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.
And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.
Any thoughts? Should i take it as ... | Crush |
He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁 | Crush |
For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.
She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her... | Crush |
M15
Hello this is my first time posting on reddit
So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.
And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade bel... | Crush |
So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?
Side note: I would tell him in person given the ch... | Crush |
So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.
I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just t... | Crush |
Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.
I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant... | Crush |
So i was at my friends place with his girlfriend and her best friend for whome i have a crush. So we were just drinking and having fun now comes the question. So besides this one time she always engages with me wants to play thumb wars or something. We are sitting not like drunk but relaxed and she starts brushing my h... | Crush |
I've actually been rejected so many times in my life, and I decided to never catch feelings again or think about love and relationships again. But it's always the same, I easily catch feelings and start loving the person passionately. Same experience over and over and over. And this year at college, I met this girl Car... | Crush |
I’ve known this girl for years and ever since I met her I know she’s the love of my life. We’re really close with eachother and we used to have sex a few years back she even did have a crush on me at one point but this was years ago. How do I get her to develop these feelings back for me. I know if we get together rn w... | Crush |
I’ve started hardcore falling for my boss. He’s become one of my good friends throughout the time I’ve known him, but the more I see him, spend time with him, joke with him, or even just be near him I catch myself staring. I can’t get him out of my head most of the time and worst part. I think it’s mutual. There’s many... | Crush |
I’ve been in denial with this one guy for a few months now ever since he started working. I’m usually the shy type and he is one too so it’s hard having a conversation together alone.
Coming back from a rough break from work, he asked me to go to Seattle with him— of course I said yes, and it was with another coworker... | Crush |
I’m 18 and I never really had noticed guys before 2 months ago. I went to a hockey game and I found the players really cute. Ever since then, it’s like there’s really cute guys everywhere. I guess I’ve just noticed it now. I even have a crush on a guy the gym. I never felt like this at 16 or anything. Apparently I’m a ... | Crush |
I got the balls to ask for her number and I got it. Now what? What should I text her (keep in mind I have never talked to this girl ever expect when I went up to her and asked for it.) | Crush |
i’ve liked this guy for a year now and it started off as a pointless crush and we were practically strangers. We saw each other around and we said hey here and there and talked but as time progressed, we’ve developed into friends and we’re sort of in the same friend group, i see him three times a week for work (we don’... | Crush |
Picture this : I’m in first year university , awkward, chubby, un-cute. I never felt good enough, I was never the girl that anyone paid any mind to, the DUFF if you will. I met this dude and we became friends. He comes to residence all the time , hangs out with me, watches anime with me. As a surprise to no one, I fell... | Crush |
So I finally got the courage to ask this girl, who I’ve had a crush on for years, for her number. She said yes and we started texting really well for like four days. I asked her if she wanted to grab food and she said she’d love to. We setup a day and then I waited for her to text first. When the day came around she sa... | Crush |
To start off, I’m in high school, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. There’s been this girl I’ve been interested in lately, but I’m not sure if I have a crush on her or not (probably a very small crush). I got to start talking to her through orchestra relations and being in the same club. What I know is I want to ... | Crush |
Not sure if age is helpful but just in case:
Me: 13 y/o Boy
Crush: 13 y/o Girl
I apologize in advance for the super long post.
Not to long ago I asked my crush if I could tell her something at lunch in private (so I could tell her how I feel) . She says yes and we agree on a spot to meet up. She isn’t there at the beg... | Crush |
Let me introduce myself a bit before this story starts. My name is Ace and I'm a transgender guy. And I have a crush on a much older girl. Alright so I'm talking with this girl online, Let's call her Ivy. Ivy and I have been talking since the end of december 2021. In february I started to develop a little crush on Ivy.... | Crush |
Idk what can I say. I’m an introvert and really quiet but talk to friends normally.Any tips?/ signs to be able to tell (yes I like her but sometimes she’s shown signs but she probs does it to all her friends | Crush |
I think I like this girl but she is with someone. It’s not someone I usually see so if I do decide to tell her I can just leave her on delivered if it goes wrong. She is kind enough to still be friends even if I do end up telling her but I feel like it would be awkward and not telling her is making me miserable I feel ... | Crush |
so recently I dated this girl and she's the sweetest, coolest and at the same time fun girl I dated and coming from a history of failed online relationships, she's the first person I've dated in-person. we chatted and instantly connected so I took the chance to ask her if I can court her, she said yes. weeks of me visi... | Crush |
I have no one to talk to because im not that close to anyone, but i just want to let it all out here. Basically, Im an introvert and this girl really put in an effort to befriend and be nice to me. She's pretty, smart and nice, the type of girl who can be called as campus crush in your local highschool, college or univ... | Crush |
So for about a month, ive been talking to a guy lets call him Nate. We werent really close before he invited me to a gc by accident, i joined their call and from there we hit it off, we would laugh together and tease eachother about our laugh. I never saw myself liking him until then. Nate is very humerous and likes to... | Crush |
Originally, I thought that I just simply liked her; Like, ‘I like this girl, and I wanna get to know her,’ type thing. Now I think that it’s evolved; Like the title says, I think I love her. I’ve started to feel different. I think about her often, I can’t imagine myself with anyone else but her, I imagine scenarios whe... | Crush |
I think I like this girl but she is with someone. It’s not someone I usually see so if I do decide to tell her I can just leave her on delivered if it goes wrong. She is kind enough to still be friends even if I do end up telling her but I feel like it would be awkward and not telling her is making me miserable I feel ... | Crush |
i previously had a long term crush on one of my close friends a year ago. i eventually got distracted with another person, and told myself that i lost feelings. now that i’m starting to talk to them more, i feel like i’m regaining these feelings for him. i wouldn’t mind liking him, but he had a past of liking my best f... | Crush |
I’ve never been able to make it past the talking stage. But, there is a guy that i like and we have texted a few times but the convo died out. He always responds but never starts the conversation so I stopped talking to him. I genuinely want to know him but I don’t think he’s interested ☹️☹️I don’t know how to get over... | Crush |
In my math there's a girl I really have feelings for. Problem is we barely ever see each other in the hallways, library, lunchroom, etc. I only have one period with her and I can almost never talk to her during math, she does know I exist and sometimes talks to me.
I was wondering if someone here can give me some help... | Crush |
He also likes to tease me, and he lets me play with his hair but not his own girlfriend??? Also when all 3 of us where in my room, he was laying on me on the bed lol… he even faked to sleep little rat, but the other day at school when it was lunch, we made eye contact for like 2 mins and I almost had a heart attack…. H... | Crush |
Okay so, d has a girlfriend now (aka my best friend) and it’s going… idk anymore. My friends and family think he likes me tho, madi said to me “yeah me and d are dating but he doesn’t act like we are” i agree… let’s say he gives me special treatment? Like he likes to play fight with me and tickle me idfk why… but he li... | Crush |
I had crush on a girl who used to be in my school. I rarely talked to her but i liked her a lot. It's been 2 years since I completed my school and right now i am in college. Yesterday out of nowhere she asked me out! It turns out she had a crush on me too! I know it sounds too good to be true. Even i cant believe it. I... | Crush |
Title pretty much explains it, this girl started like a week ago and we've talked a little bit.
She is super nice and I really want to get to know her but there's only so much to talk about and I don't want to annoy her, especially with the other guys talking to her.
I'm going to a concert next month and I was thinkin... | Crush |
I’ve made myself approachable a few times, if this person didn’t like me at all.. I wouldn’t catch them staring every now and then, but now being that this person doesn’t really make an effort to talk to me. I’ve caught myself also ignoring them. It makes me feel some type of way because they seem really interesting an... | Crush |
I was the guy that posted a month ago that a girl had asked me out. Turns out she only dated me to get closer to my friend. And said this to me yesterday “I think we should break up because I never loved you I just wanted to get closer to mike everything I said meant nothing I just wanted to get close to mike”. Yeah so... | Crush |
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