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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting
POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try.
Backstory:
When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ... | Went through hard time caused by breakup with guy. Still the vivid memories and emotions coming back but moving on has made me stronger. Now I can't avoid seeing these girls from his group of close friends who he always has there for him. Don't want to sound insulting but I have to cut contact and would hate to hurt t... | have to decide if I want to continue contact with some girls who used to know my ex because of the emotional attachment. Also is best for me to cut contact. Will be insulting if I do and could use outside opinions. | 2.224846 | 0.639928 |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.
POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219
I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d... | Having been stuck for several weeks at a plateau 223-226 after dieting hard and exercising regularly, I've had a major loss of inches since measure-in day and hit 219 on the scale today. That's my lowest since high school! it feels pretty damn good and I can't wait to keep on keeping on. | After a plateau in the last few weeks and a sudden dip in my CW measurements (went from 222 down to 219), I've realized I've lost 8 inches in my overall size. Feeling pretty happy about myself! | 2.759633 | 1.129751 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?
POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide?
I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real... | Insecurities with my body image - acne scars that have gone away for a while but left scars behind - recently realized someone likes me and I'm interested in them, too, but would like to work through any body image issues beforehand. How did you communicate? | I've had terrible acne on both arms when young that still presents scars, and I'm interested in someone who likes me, but I have some body image issues that I need to work through before anything physical takes place. How do I approach this upfront? How has the relationship progressed with people knowing what makes me... | 2.514228 | 2.418906 |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?
POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the... | Have $25k in student debt. Paying off $11k will get rid of everything above 5% interest in the next 9 months and drop minimum payment per month to $150. At the end of the 9 months, will moving savings/down payment be higher priority than student debt? | Have $25k in student debt. Will pay off $11k in monthly minimum payments over 9 months. At the end of the 9 months will our savings be $35k or focus more on down payment for a $300k home? | 1.264965 | 1.257024 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)
POST: Throwaway
I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a... | My girlfriend seems really happy and pleased with me cleaning and doing chores when I'm aloof and distant, but then it's all the negs/attacks when I try to show affection/courtesy when I'm in a good mood. How do I keep the aloof attitude for the benefits of myself and her without her getting upset/jealous? | My girlfriend gets nicer and happier when I'm being aloof and distant. Not sure what to do to keep things going forward. She's very dependent on my kindness and acceptance so it's hard for me to walk away from her. | 1.355093 | 0.253606 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?
POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti... | Guy I've been dating for 1 month hasn't been texting me as flirty, cute, excited as usual lately and I noticed when we hung out last Sunday. Asked him if everything was all right afterwards and he said yes but never tried to initiate conversation afterwards and did some other casual conversation the whole night. Do yo... | Guy I'm dating hasn't called me adorable/cute/flirtatious in a long time and hasn't texted back like he usually does when we hang out anymore. Probably because he's getting comfortable. Do you think it's okay that I asked if everything was ok? | 3.455809 | 0.099546 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?
POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks... | GF revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I am short (5'7"-5'8) and she thinks its shallow of me to take issue with it. I am extremely turned off by this and want to break up with her. Is it bad of me? | My gf revealed to me that being too short was why she almost didn't like me. I feel turned off and sickened by this view. I don't want to end our relationship over this. | 1.563895 | 0.652579 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)
POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf... | Just had a gynecological procedure to remove an IUD that ended up revealing a previously undiagnosed ovarian cyst. Started getting really crazy hormonal afterwards and ended up paranoid about my awesome boyfriend being unfaithful and leaving me. Now I feel like there will always be something I'm going to have to worry... | After my gyno told me I needed to have an IUD removed, my crazy hormonal system went into overdrive and I became paranoid and miserable. Now I'm feeling this constant anxiety that won't go away. How do I explain this to my boyfriend without sounding like I'm making excuses? | 3.167683 | 0.661267 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)
POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ... | recently heard the song Feel Again by OneRepublic and realized my heart has been numb in the lack of dating experience and is now yearning to experience first love (or at least some friendship) before going to college so what should I do!? Thank you for any help! :) | recently heard the song Feel Again by oneRepublic and it got me thinking bout my never really been in a relationship nature and how i feel numb about it. I have a couple girl friends and want to jump in head over heels for one but unsure what to do and need advice. Thanks! | 2.803664 | 2.414023 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive
POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible.
Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ... | My boyfriend's sex drive is way higher than mine, and sometimes it can be overwhelming to keep up with his sexual needs. I keep trying to be more non-directive when it comes to giving him what he wants sexually but he can feel rejected sometimes. I want to learn how to approach his needs better without him feeling rej... | My boyfriend's sex drive is crazy high compared to mine and I have trouble denying him without him feeling rejected. How do I approach his needs without rejecting him? | 1.436892 | 0.022028 |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm just really tired right now...
POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point.
I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a... | Moving out of my home at the end of the week. Worried about not having enough money and not being able to make the lifestyle change. I am starting to become irritated at how stressed I am. Please don't judge and try to be understanding if I am overwhelmed. :) | I am moving out of my house with my boyfriend a week from now and I am starting to be extremely stressed out because of money issues and unknowns. Anyone have any tips on coping with these issues? | 1.60322 | 0.980109 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything?
POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months.
My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ... | Sister got married and everything is great. Looking at my relationship and wondering if that's what I want - wonder if I should look for a more stable relationship. Or am just over-thinking it because I'm unhappy with my current one. | sister just got married and had a wonderful relationship - maybe I'm longing for something similar and over-analyzing the flaws in my own relationship. How do I deal with the thoughts when they pop up? | 1.135547 | 0.925496 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.
POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the... | Started new job away from my boyfriend over the summer, found myself attracted to my new supervisor, and finding myself trying to fantasize about being with my boyfriend in different scenarios. Worried this will lead to something more and causes guilt. Advice? | Found myself attracted to someone else in a long term relationship. It scares me and makes me feel guilty. Need advice on how to overcome. | 2.416151 | 0.541679 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to
POST: Hello fellow redditors,
we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :)
She is sitting here with me and we will both prov... | GF wants me to tutor her accounting classes before hers exam for approx. 8-10 hours. She wants to pay me 10$/hour. I don't want her to and would rather do it free of charge. We know that this is not a real problem. What should I do? | GF of 2,5 years wants me to pay for tutoring sessions to help her studying accounting. I don't want to and feel it's wrong since it's nothing real when compared to the time we spend together. | 1.283159 | 0.739974 |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.
POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi... | I met a really nice girl at school a couple of months ago, we get along really well and share a lot of interests, but I guess my friend (who has liked her for quite some time) still tries something and I feel uncomfortable about that. Also I think she likes another friend of mine. What should I do about it? Hope my en... | I met a girl at college, very compatible, and we started connecting more and more each time we talked. Then I found out that a guy liked her before me, and seems to still try something with her. I don't want to hurt any of my other friends connections, and I think she likes another friend too. It's just that I don't k... | 1.853555 | 1.527214 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.
POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h... | Met an amazing new woman while backpacking europe, instantly knew there was something between us, spent time together talking and sharing similarities. Have arranged another 10 days with her next week and I'm struggling to tell her how I feel. Why should I bother posting this when I have no idea what to think or do ne... | met a girl on my backpacking trip who I instantly felt like I connected with. We've been spending time together again next week and I dont know how to tell her how I feel, Im not the most experienced at relationships. | 2.856429 | 1.224791 |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup
POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ... | new dog goes from slightly skittish to super happy dog meeting new people and playing in a house with other dogs and other dogs being brought for playdates. I worry that if he meets too many new people he'll start to get anxious and shy around playtime and get hurt or hurt someone else. How do I deal with this? | I want to have a dog play party for new dogs but I can't say "no" when people bring their dogs for playdates. I want my big ole loveable Rome to be able to have some fun with all the new dogs too. | 1.952356 | 0.258242 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do?
POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still ta... | Had a conversation with a close friend where I noticed she had a few scars across her wrist, didn't realise what they probably were and then later learned what they were. I feel like I should do something to help her, but I don't know how or who to approach. It feels so unreal. | Talking to two of my friends, one of whom has a few scars on her wrist. I didn't realise what they probably were when I asked, and now I feel awful about it. I wish I could do something to help but don't know how. | 1.795729 | 1.391587 |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them
POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here.
So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was v... | Ex still has illegal sexually explicit photos I sent him from when we were dating two years ago and won't delete them despite my warnings, is there any kind of redress I can take? | Ex has pictures of me (which he knew were explicit) that he won't delete even though he was warned. What can I do? I have no proof that he threatened for the pictures because it was over the course of two years, we've been separated for half a year, and we've both gotten new phones so the text history just isn't the... | 0.804065 | 0.575778 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response.
POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question.
We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically ... | Ex lied about being single, is now married, lied to me about being single. I need help with rational response. If confronted, not looking for rancid passive aggressive revenge, just want to know how to act with integrity and not let the anger translate into irrational decision making. ~~thanks~~ | Ex-FWB lied about being single and living alone, after I asked several times. He's been married for 2 years. Realizing now he lied and cheating implied. Need rational response. | 1.670988 | 1.336459 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that?
POST: *First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.*
For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reacti... | Having a go at being batshit crazy during depression period, losing friends and even family members and business associates in the process, eventually getting better after and moving on, dealing with depression still being a factor in my life. Looking for tips on how to rebuild after such a dark period. | Went batshit crazy in depressed period which damaged relationships, work and especially self-confidence, and have some lingering effects. Wondering how others have rebuilt from this. | 1.360979 | 0.188398 |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington]
POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera.
When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she d... | My biological father harassed my Mom by constantly calling and showing up to her house, ended up being found not to be my Father, I never knew the DNA thing happened. Should I contact him now and ask for a meeting? | My Mom used a fake DNA test to try and hide who my Dad was when they were fighting for custody of me. Now ive found out the truth and want to meet my father. I'm not sure how I should approach him or how I should even go about meeting him.... | 1.046994 | 0.751079 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing.
POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clic... | Met girl during orientation week, started texting her and ended up talking all weekend long what could be described as being "together" we never hangout in person but have lunch and text plenty. Not sure what to do next. I'm 19. | Met a really great girl at orientation week, continued texting after 3rd week and hanging out at least once a week for 6 weeks. I don't know what I'm doing and I'm unsure if it's anything more than just friend. Not been in a relationship or had sex before. | 1.640978 | 1.264366 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family.
POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are div... | My boyfriend and I recently got back together and things have been fantastic since, but even though the BF's family has been loving and welcoming to me, his Dad's side of the family has made it clear they don't want me hanging around by not inviting me to family events and making cold body language gestures (no huggin... | Boyfriend and I got back together relatively quickly after our relationship breakdown, and have been fantastic since October. His family welcomed me back with open arms, and have been supportive and loving since then. But his Dad's side of his family has been very cold with me, and I'm not sure how to proceed. What do... | 1.812559 | 1.375088 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now...
POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problem... | confronted my Borderline mother about all the horrible things she has done to ruin my life up until now, despite my psychologist advising against it; feeling guilty afterwards despite everyone saying it is needed for closure. Anyone else have experience with this situation? | I've confronted my Borderline mother about all the things she's done to ruin my life up until now (including emotional neglect and abuse of myself and others, and making me suffer mental illness and ending relationships on numerous occasions) and I just can't stop feeling guilty afterwards. How do you cope with this? | 1.787739 | 0.780367 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed.
POST: My previous post can be seen here:
We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I unders... | After suffering from depression for a while I met and became involved with a girl who had also been going through depression. We have remained in contact and have had a great time on two occasions together. One of the aspects of our meetings is that we have talked openly about various aspects of our respective depress... | Met this girl after I had reached my absolute low ebb of depression. We hit it off and I have found that my depression has improved significantly since reconnecting with her. Looking forward to meeting again in the near future (hopefully). | 1.234184 | 0.785721 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly.
POST: I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything ... | Having a few month relationship with girl that I really like and whom I have come to appreciate a lot. At the same time I feel very insecure because my lack of dating/relationship experience means that I would like a girl with more conventionally beautiful features. Do you have any advice? | Having had very little dating/relationship experience, I am in a relationship with a girl I really like. I fear that with my lack of experience, if I commit to her, I will always regret it in the future. Help! | 2.170828 | 0.816679 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend
POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out w... | best friend asked me to go city trip with her for a few days, but my parents have historically said no to my invitees. What is the best way for me to convince them that this time I deserve it and how to I keep it from turning into a constant battle? | My best friend asked me to go to a few days in Montreal with her this summer. My parents are usually against my hanging out with friends. What is the best way to convince them to let me go? I'm Indian. I don't do anything bad and I'm a babysitter during the summer. Also disobeying them is not an option. | 1.781388 | 1.228263 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level.
POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are a... | GF is sharing a lot of PG13 flirtatious remarks on IG but I don't share this type of personal info with general social media friends (you know who you are) and it's been starting to annoy me. How do I tactfully tell her without coming across as an asshole? | GF of a couple months is posting some PG commentary on IG. I don't want to advertise my personal life but I don't want her flirting either. How do I tread this without coming across as an asshole? | 1.943854 | 0.619038 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today?
POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends.
... | my boyfriend hasn't texted me much in the last week or so. I've stopped initiating contact and now I'm extremely upset when I see he hasn't even sent a single message to me today. Is this wrong? I'm waiting for his texts so I can initiate more contact. I have no other reason to be upset than his lack of communicat... | Boyfriend hasn't texted me in a week or so. I've stopped texting first to see how long it takes him to text me. I'm starting to get upset that he hasn't even bothered to send me a single text today. Am I wrong for being upset? | 1.889649 | 0.37415 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question?
POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything seriou... | pseudo-fwb initiated sex after date went well, we see each other on average once a month and sometimes hangout but never sleep over. (not looking for serious) Wondering if it's time to bring up the "what are we" question? how should i communicate? as far as myself is concerned, i am comfortable with casual dating. | Fwb-ish guy comes over "prepared" but seems to want to progress beyond just casual sex. Could it be time to ask what it is we have or what we are looking for in a relationship? | 2.258914 | 0.424809 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go.
POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we... | I have isolated myself from my previous job and decided to take some time off from my academics. I have no transportation and little social support. I see that our relationship lacks communication and respect and I want to end it. Do you have any ideas for peacefully ending the relationship? And how do you move on whe... | Been dating my SO for a year. Realized our relationship and personalities are very different and I need to move on. Can't find a viable place to go other than move back with my abusive parents. Need help with choosing a new place to go and deciding whether to break up with my SO. | 3.002549 | 1.381771 |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet
POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal bliste... | Developing bloody blisters on middle toes and big toe of left foot of long distance runner. Should I pop them or leave as they don't bother me much during run or afterwards. Also have tiny misshapen feet, which I can't change. Any tips/advice appreciated. | Developing blood blisters on my run feet, despite my high arches and otherwise normal running feet. Also unfortunate big toe blister on left foot. What do? Not sure if leave them as they are, or pop them. | 2.24931 | 1.895374 |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower
POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I ... | Roommate comes into living room asking where a bottle of lube had disappeared to. It turns out it was mine that he had been using and talking about, that left his GF looking astonished. Never told anyone the truth. | Roommate asked where my bottle of lube went in the shower. It was a secret ingredient in a conditioner he was using. GF later tells me that I should have told him about it. Now he knows where my bottle went. | 2.292252 | 1.777833 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable.
POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past d... | My estranged, painful sister and I have tried to avoid being together in public, but mom keeps inviting us to the same places for visits. It makes me so miserable that seeing my sister makes me angry, and ruins time with my mom. What can I do to convince my mom this is not a healthy relationship to try keeping? | My estranged sibling and I never have had a relationship, but my mom keeps trying to arrange reunions by continually hosting them together at the same time I visit. It makes me miserable and doesn't change the fact that we are still far apart emotionally. | 2.324286 | 2.139953 |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17)
POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we g... | Having had a conversation with girl who likes me, we've known each other a while, apart from the guy she wasn't sure about behaving like a dick, we got on really well, we arranged a day out and she said she wanted to eat something beforehand before going to see a film. Is it a date? | Had a really good conversation with girl at previous gatherings. Then another friend told her not to go for dicks. She then started talking about whether she likes this guy and seems to have then made it more than a friendly "hi how are you" conversation. We're both really keen to see film so could it be a date? | 2.331513 | 2.043342 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way.
POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through... | My boyfriend of two years broke up with me abruptly. I can't eat or function normally. My heart hurts and my mind is full of questions and fears. I want to connect with others who feel this way. | Broken up with boyfriend of 2 years by mutual decision. I can't eat the food I ate with him, turn on the tv shows, listen to the music I used to love, sleep. I feel so lonely and sad. I want to connect with others who feel this way. | 1.277193 | 1.185432 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance?
POST: Hi all!
Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ... | moving to a university 4 hours away from previous job have met great guy who is interested in me and would like to take it further but don whom does long distance work well. What should I do? | Becoming out of my awkward duckling phase, met a guy at my current job who is planning to ask me out. I am moving to a university 4 hours away in a few months and I am not sure whether we should have a long distance relationship. Also, my major requires a lot of outside of class work and limited time to visit and talk... | 2.486763 | 1.563007 |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy!
POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high s... | My adopted 8 year old Russian prodigy with disabilities lacks social skills and might struggle in college due to that, any tips or ideas on helping her would be appreciated! | My adopted 8 year old Russian prodigy sister has missing arms and is socially awkward, I want to help her develop social skills to prepare for college and future relationships. | 1.157381 | 0.397146 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him
POST: We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a... | I spend a lot of time with a non-romantic male friend whom I'm helping out with a major issue at school and don't tell my boyfriend where I am or why. I don't want him to think I'm cheating on him. | Made male friend recently, spend a lot of time with him and don't tell my boyfriend where I go or why, because I know he trusts me. Don't want him to think I'm cheating or losing interest. | 1.099046 | 0.684084 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad?
POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a shor... | Someone didn't like my work on a short film, and so I was discarded. Made hours of work be wasted. Want to destroy. Reddit, what makes you mad? Let's be mad together. | I was hired to edit a person's short film, they didn't like my work, and I went home feeling really unhappy. What makes you mad? Let's be mad together. | 0.876801 | 0.256804 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight
POST: My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems wit... | My girlfriend spent the day with her friend who likes her sleeping at his house tonight in the same room. I don't know what to make of this and don't want to be controlling. Does this make it inappropriate for a relationship? | Girlfriend spends day with long time friend who is sleeping at her house tonight in the same room with her boyfriend. I don't think its suitable for a relationship but I don't know what I'm over reacting about. | 1.212885 | 1.206396 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner?
POST: Hey guys,
I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV.
That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ... | I don wanna buy a new bike based on some googling, but looking to just get from point A to point B without breaking my neck, looking for 250cc cruisers/standard bikes. What are some good first bikes you'd recommend? | Looking for a 250cc bike for a new motorcycle beginner. What would be good bikes to research and buy? | 2.700524 | 0.309601 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again.
POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her ... | Saw a girl off who I'd been seeing for a few months but cut contact over the holidays, not been texting or messing recently but saw her today and have strong feelings about restarting the flame. Not sure how she'll react or if I'll fuck it up by getting cold feet and stopping. | We were seeing each other for a few months previously. Didn't really talk after Christmas holiday but we ran into each other today and it brought back a lot of feelings and I'm not sure how to play it next time we meet up again. | 2.625959 | 0.810124 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché
POST: This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in ... | Being replaced with a mundane, repetitive and boring job, causes apathy towards work, causes lack of motivation and eventually is prone to being fired. What ways do we find to be productive AND care about the work you do? | job changes recently caused a lack of commitment from me, resulting in mindless tasks, at the end of the day i feel like i have accomplished nothing. What do you guys do to keep yourself productive. | 1.666922 | 0.916404 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her?
POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her.... | Girlfriend has kept secrets from old friend in the past four months regarding some events in the past and is worried about me getting hurt in the future. Should I bring this up with her? If so, how? | Old friend is worried about my girlfriend (A) not being honest about her past, and that she might be hiding something. Should I bring this up with A? How should I bring it up? | 0.956886 | -0.320033 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her
POST: Hello r/relationships,
I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am f... | My gf might get a job in another city. I want to follow her, basically for moving but also exploring other alternatives in my life. Also, it is difficult to move alone, so I don't want to lose her for that. | my girlfriend might move to another city and might get a job there. I might follow her and explore opportunities at ground zero in my career. | 0.623595 | 0.066735 |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids?
POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans ... | We have large student loan repayments coming up ($1,780/month) while my wife stays home with our first child, giving up on her career. Is this a good idea to lower our payments at that point while she remains home? We could possibly get reduced payments if needed. | Both parents have very large amounts of student loan debt ($72,000 for me, $83,000 for wife), the payments are $1,780/month total, wife is home with our first child for the foreseeable future. Should we be able to get our financial situation more manageable by lowering our loan payments in the interim? | 2.043468 | 1.208777 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it?
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great.
However, she always goes thro... | My girlfriend looks through my phone even when I'm asleep. She has done it multiple times before, it's not like flirting with girls or anything, it's just casual conversations with friends. Is it time to end it? | My girlfriend constantly looks through my phone while I am asleep. Time to end it? Is this normal? What do you think? | 0.546146 | 0.004535 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F]
POST: Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time.
This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I ... | I like a girl, we see each other often, grow a bit closer but still is friendzone. I don't know how to approach the issue of starting a relationship with her. I don't want to be friendzoned again. | I liked a girl that I've known and chatted with for a while, I finally took the leap and asked her out on a date, we had a great time but I'm not sure how to proceed now, I want to take the leap and pursue a relationship with her but I'm fed up of being rejected. | 0.649704 | 0.614638 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do?
POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got a... | My dad tells me that the only part of my social security check that is being used to pay for me is car insurance. Where the hell is the rest of the money going? He doesn't even buy me clothes, food, or gas. He has a girlfriend who is working too. And he's accusing me of owing him money for my cat's sickness treatment. | My dad tells me he can't afford any part of my social security check or insurance money. Gives excuses for where the money goes. Recently had problems with our relationship. What can I do to get my money back? | 2.319767 | 1.876724 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"?
POST: So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semest... | have done research papers on a specific band in all of my humanities classes thus far in college and have been known as the expert on that band by students and teachers alike. Has this made me "obsessed" with that band? | wrote a paper on a specific band in my humanities classes. Had a successful grade, but do you think I'm "obsessed" with that band in general? | 1.656596 | 0.512532 |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question..
POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for... | Acquired tiny kitty. She has gotten very comfortable sneaking out onto ledges from windowsills. Now I worry about having her come back in and perish on my sidewalk. Should I trust her instincts and leave windows open? | Acquired a little cat, got her inside and now she decided to slip through child bars onto a narrow ledge above a sidewalk on the 5th floor of my apartment building. Should I leave the windows open or seal them up? | 2.090617 | 0.428638 |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5.
POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5.
I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did su... | befriended weird kid that randomly bit me on arm because he was hungry. Teacher later found evidence of him having cannibalistic tendencies. | befriended a weird kid who was suffering from from low popularity. After getting bit by him he claimed that being hungry made him decide to attack. | 1.278733 | 1.186462 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me
POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault.
Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/... | I worry constantly that my girlfriend is upset with me and isn't telling me anything when we're talking face-to-face or skyping. This makes me feel insecure and unable to focus on anything else and it's having an effect on my mental wellbeing. Found some studies suggesting this is a fairly common thing for couples to ... | Constantly worrying that my girlfriend is upset/angry/just being weirded out about something i've done/said and this is making me emotionally unreliable and affecting my own life negatively, even though i LOVE my girlfriend with all of my heart and only want the best for her. | 1.847526 | 1.798482 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me.
POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but ... | Found a nip slip photo in yearbook of a girl who is now finding out from a kid spreading rumours that everyone has seen, that i had a picture of a nip slip without reporting it. Should i just leave it alone now, should i throw the kid under the bus, or should i just let it go. | Had photo of a nip slip, most people in school found out about it, because of a kid spreading it around, i am not involved and have no control over it, should i just leave it alone? Should i "throw the kid under the bus", blame him now? | 2.332799 | 0.981162 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps.
POST: Me 26 Her 28
Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not.
My girlfriend and I have bee... | Had a great start with GF when she left on trip later on, reconnecting fine and she slept with some guy while away. It makes me angry and hurt and I want to forget it and forgive, but the images keep coming back. We're still in contact though and on good terms. | gf broke up with me few months ago, come back and reconnect, slept with guy while away. I forgive but really hurt, need some perspective on my pride/ego taking over. | 1.830555 | 1.141272 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: confused.
POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us,... | I see the same intolerance towards atheism as other religions that I don't see in those who post that they believe in being kind, loving, and just plain good to others. Are there any of the good qualities listed above that just come naturally to people without needing a God or religion to prop up belief in? | in /r/atheism I see the intolerant, judgmental, hateful remarks and I would like to see if it is possible to find some people that are not judgmental, but are just kind and loving. | 1.627582 | -0.482338 |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning.
POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the c... | because a pups mother is shy and protective of her, named her Fluttershy and my brothers connect the name to another of Amnesia's main characters. They realize that the care home owners are adopting a pony from a TV show and question my social experiment with the pup. | named my pitbull shy little pup after a pony from a TV show that was turned into an anon character in 'A Small Horse', 2 my brothers question why I named it so, and I have been unable to explain why since two years ago. | 1.852244 | 0.921679 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do.
POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky ... | I have a medical condition that make it very difficult for me to get pregnant, and very risky for me and the baby, and I have told my boyfriend of two years that there is no possibility of us having kids. Yet he makes it a high priority in his life to have his own kids. I am at a loss for what to do. | I have a very rare and very risky medical condition that makes it very unlikely I will be able to have children, but my boyfriend will not stop talking about wanting to have kids in the future. I feel confused and hurt by the fact that he will not let go of this dream. | 0.657507 | 0.137927 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing.
POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ... | Had a crush on a new work colleague, ended the relationship quickly after deciding that my expectations for this relationship weren't going to be fulfilled. Now I feel like I may have done the "wrong" thing by ending it and letting her remain as a close friend. | ended a very new relationship with a long time friend because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship, now I feel like I may have thrown away a chance to be in a decent relationship with some one I enjoy. | 1.770357 | 0.197289 |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this
POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ... | my brother scared of my cat came over scared of him and locked him up till I could calm him down came off on him saying I wouldnt get rid of the cat and got into a argument over it and just now ran into some serious bite marks and blood dripping from his leg my brother cant even move properly and I dont know what to d... | Brother scared of my cat got freaked when it started SCREAMING like you would if you were in a really bad situation. Took gun to cat which scared him further. Cat still locked up for some time while blood dripped from my brother's leg. What happened and when should i let the cat out? | 2.714523 | 0.706893 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him...
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with h... | my boyfriend asked me to move in with him, and I realize I don't want to do it. I realize it's not necessarily because I don't like him, but because I don't want to live with my parents later and because I enjoy being alone. Do you guys think this should be a bigger sign of something else going on? What should I say t... | Boyfriend asked me to move in with him. I don't want to but I recognize my reasons are kind of stupid. Do you think that means anything? What should I say to him? Is this something I should worry about? | 2.200288 | 0.924912 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls
POST: So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many.
She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, bec... | GF talks to guy's past she was hanging out with, snapchatting and calling/texting. She gets mad when I talk to girls that aren't "stalkers" to her ex, or guys she was hanging with recently. | GF talks to exes, gets mad when I talk to other girls. She says my interest in one girl has ulterior motives. We trust each other an awful lot, and I care about her, so I don't want to stop talking to her friend. Why can't I talk to other girls, if I'm not interested in GF? | 0.767039 | 0.547974 |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...
POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem... | My step mom asked me to turn down netflix at night, i obeyed but today i found a way to have unfettered access to the network... should i bypass the parental controls and get caught, or is the punishment worth it? | Found a way to bypass parental controls time block settings, my step mom asked me to do it, i said i could but im not sure if it'd be worth being caught... help please | 1.358121 | 0.447596 |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen
POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a... | My dog got attacked by another dog and was mauled badly. The dog doesn't let go and was holding onto my father who is between them to stop the attack. We are giving him his medicine and pressing charges on the other dog owners. I'm terrified we'll lose my sweet boy. | My dog bit another dog, resulting in 3 deep bites to his neck and he's got a pretty awful wound. I'm emotionally devastated but I know he has to go for his health. | 1.559061 | 0.286678 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish?
POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (a... | close friend planning on having abroad wedding but having previously cheated on fiance and issues with the place (Morocco) I'm not keen on going. Am I being selfish? | close friend got engaged abroad and is planning on having her wedding there but I don't want to travel due to unsettling past experiences there and am scared I might do something impulsively on the day. Am I being selfish? | 1.604123 | 1.144222 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified?
POST: I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and... | stressed and feeling under appreciated by boyfriend's laziness, not taking responsibility to help with housework even when I spend hours doing the same for him, feels like he's only concerned with what he has to do rather than being part of a relationship that works together. | I have a well paying part time job and studying and am stressed about life and want my boyfriend to be more responsible with his time, but he's lazy and just sits around playing video games. I feel under appreciated. Am I justified in my frustration? | 1.135403 | 1.071712 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party?
POST: I only think it is fair I should begin.
So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These part... | Went to house party and drank too much. Late night peeing leads to weird hissing smell permeating entire house. Dad comes home and screams "who pissed on the furnace!" and runs around the house looking for culprit. Beat everyone else to the source and only blame myself. | I passed out at a party and woke up several minutes later with My pants a few drops of piss away from an unknown source that permeated the entire house. Dad found out at the top of his lungs who pisced the furnace. | 2.386547 | 1.769838 |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year.
POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of d... | saw ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. know he is intense and could be emotionally overwhelming for me. wish I could just "ignore" the negative aspects without really committing myself to living with the potential headaches. I know I have closure and have moved on, but would like to try dating again someday... | saw ex for the first time a year after breaking up, ended up feeling rushed and emotionally exhausted so didn't have closure but didn't really miss him, but now feel that maybe won't ever be with someone else more emotionally equipped to handle him. Maybe it's time to just "pass the torch" and just move on. | 2.540111 | 2.420633 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral..
POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice.
Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attract... | Been seeing this girl for a month, sex is great, has done oral but then just turns into sex, not really into giving blowjobs, wondering what's putting her off? How should I go about asking about it? | seen a girl for a month, sex is good but there's no oral foreplay - wondering what's putting her off going down on me? | 1.466941 | 0.48087 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it
POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we co... | My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and will be moving apart in a few months that will make it difficult for us to see each other often, but we are willing to try maintaining our wonderful relationship. How did you guys handle a LDR? Is it worth risking what we have being so far gone if we remain together? | in two years we will be apart and starting a LDR, does anyone have experience with this and how did you cope and stay in the relationship? Furthermore were you able to preserve the good times? | 1.665929 | 0.056409 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.
POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see... | I've known guy I'm seeing for a couple months never seen him smoke, but last night I caught a whiff of it once or twice when he went to make a phone call and I wondered if that's something he normally does without me noticing. I'd prefer not to be grossed out by smoking with a guy I'm dating. Do I bring it up? Ignore ... | Guy I've been seeing for a couple months rarely lights up a cigarette, but has admitted to having one time in the past when he's drunk. I don't think that's inappropriate for a potential partner but I'm not totally comfortable with it. Should I bring it up/ignore it? | 2.834972 | 1.4023 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work?
POST: I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break:
We... | Going on a 1-month break from our relationship, still living together peacefully, feeling that the spark has gone, but would love some input about what rules we could set about this sort of thing when we come back. Has anyone else done this/been successful? | taking a break from our relationship to see what needs adjusting in our relationship and decide what we need in order to fall back in love. We still live together under the lease. Has anyone else done this? What rules did you have about communication and sex when you came back? | 2.791412 | 2.324793 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I *Might* be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M]
POST: I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant an... | Had one night stand with girl who might be pregnant. Now realize I might be the father. What do I need to be doing now to handle this? Should I try to not be the father of the baby? What should I be doing? 25/m married w/3yo son and 8mo daughter. | Had casual fling with girl who is pregnant. She claims I am the father. I don't want to be. I know its pretty awful and shouldn't be my child. What should my next move be? How should I be handling this? What do I need to be doing right now? 25/m, 25/m, wife, 3 yo son, 8 month daughter together. | 2.563656 | 2.293265 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions..
POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that.
... | I work at retail where I seem to have a good chemistry with a coworker and I'd like to ask her out. But theres so rarely alone time for us that I've never had a chance to ask her in front of coworkers. Need some opinions on whether or not to try to do this.. | I see a coworker several times a week and I would like to ask her out in front of coworkers but never have the chance. Is it okay for me to ask her if she wants to see something together? Thanks. | 1.293912 | 0.362726 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline)
POST: Heyooo,
So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of me... | Met guy online for 6 months. Started communicating every single day and gradually we've built up to say things like "I would love to come visit you" and even planning a trip together. Thinking there might be feelings for him but not sure if there could be a mutual feeling too. Do you have any signs/tips? | Met online guy 6 months ago and we've been chatting daily for that time. Now I am preparing for a trip to see him and starting to get feelings for him. Can't tell if it's mutual or not. What are some signs that there might be more there and some signs that it's just friendship? | 1.465349 | 1.410162 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice.
POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on.
She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a ... | My wife goes to the gym 5 days a week. Texting while browsing often happens obvious distracts me. I suspect she's been texting someone else behind my back. Need some honest unbiased advice on how to approach this. | Wife goes to the gym a lot and also uses her phone for text conversations. Both could be innocent but take me concerned. Need advice on how to investigate further or separate from suspicious behavior. | 2.00774 | 1.556162 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it
POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was defini... | Been dating a lovely person for a while. Had a few slight frustrations with the lack of passion between us but didn't find it to be unacceptable. Realized I wanted more. Broke up with her recently although I never actually said what it was that was making it difficult. Feel horrible about it now because it hurts my he... | Started seeing a great woman but something was missing for me emotionally. I broke up with her recently and feel guilty about it even though I initiated the breakup. I guess I just needed to talk about it. Not a question. | 2.253751 | 1.272695 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Frustrated with these people...
POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back.
The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hid... | girl who broke up with guy came back when she needed time to "deal with the breakup" and now she's chosen this other guy over me, which frustrates me tremendously. Any advice on why she would choose the rebound guy, when frankly I don't think she should be with him again, would be greatly appreciated. | had a girl who broke up with a boy, got back together after a brief hiatus. She's been being very calloused and abrasive when not face to face (texting), and I'm frustrated and can't understand why she'd choose this guy over me. Thanks! | 2.508321 | 1.788519 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24]
POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years.
We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun t... | my gf is 5/7 drunk, almost every week, when i'm busy with work, stops respecting my boundaries cause of this. i feel resentful untill i see her and then it explodes in her face. What's causing this? | gf is 5/7 drunk usually, when i see her i start to feel resentment, want to end the relationship, she asks me what's wrong to figure out what the problem is, i'm having doubts myself, cause i lost the trust that she doesn't drink when i am around. | 0.726962 | 0.721369 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there.
POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this:
*I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months.
*I stay at his house (and h... | I stay at my bfs house regularly and pay rent and bills for him. But his housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for *staying there.* I see no reason why this shouldn't apply equally to any other circumstance related to my presence. Is reasonable to question it? | My long term boyfriend's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there and I'm having a hard time understanding why. No abuse in sight. I'll talk to him about it tonight. I don't see why I should have to support his housemates' reckless spending habits. | 1.937762 | 1.65377 |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us?
POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me... | best friend dumped me for not seeing relationship when we were apart, even when we are together he is with his mother, I want to talk to him about it, how to go from talking everyday to no contact? | Got dumped by best friend of 3 years, because he loves when we are together but not when not. When we aren't together he is with his mother who hates me. How to extract myself from this circle jerk without losing my best friend. | 1.042159 | 0.981485 |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen?
POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both sc... | Want to throw a great party for my 19th birthday. It'll be for friends from school and home. But gas is expensive so some won't be able to make it. What can I do to ensure that people have a good time and the party stays under control? | I want to throw a great party for my 19th birthday next week, however a lot of people wont be able to make it due to distance or inconvenience. What can I do to make this happen? | 0.815637 | 0.701608 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it?
POST: So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just... | Recently after a devastating breakup I could feel nothing but hate for myself. Why do I hate myself? And how can I get past it? I have a loving family and great friends. I have no desire to be single. I'm trying to figure out why I hate myself when I really don't have anything bad to be ashamed of. | I love my amazing family and friends, have a great social life and dating life. But sometimes I hate my self because I feel like I haven't been hurt by anyone. Where does this come from? Help please! | 1.432512 | 1.421831 |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm worried.
POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country fo... | I'm worried about two of my younger cousins after their fathers suicide. The oldest has severe mental health issues and struggles to express himself physically and verbally. The younger has intense emotional struggles. I'd like advice on helping/ supporting them. | Parents have been separated for a while, and younger cousins have been living with their grandma out in the country. Dad has killed himself, leaving the older child with serious mental health issues. Worried about younger child, who is intensely emotional and struggles to express them. Help? | 1.280862 | 1.159711 |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends
POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char... | blew a pencil to 'Yes' only for the person to try it to 'No' and scared my three friends to shitless when they came looking for me after school. They believe that if it says 'Yes', you have to hide from the paper for three hours or Charlie will find you (I'm not even joking) | Made friends laugh by scaring the crap out of them by blowing a pencil to 'yes' and it worked for Bob but not for the rest of us. They think that if it says 'yes', you have to hide from the paper for three hours or Charlie will find you | 1.892496 | 0.647828 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do?
POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn'... | Ex tried sexting me last night after we'd both acknowledged that conversations about what we'd fantasize about turned into actual action was wrong. But he went on complimenting how much I'd grown up and ended up having sex with me. What should I do to preserve our friendship? | Ex tried sending me sext messages after we were both in relationships. I said I wasn't comfortable with it. He went on to compliment me on how much I had grown since we dated and went to bed. I don't want to ruin our friendship because of this. Am I handling it correctly? | 2.742396 | 0.914587 |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I think I suck at my job.
POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working.
I just c... | I suck at my job. In 8 months it's been my only one and I've made a lot of mistakes. The boss says mistakes are not acceptable and I should be perfect. What is realistic expectation for someone in this position? | I suck at detail work. My boss says that I can't get away with mistakes at my position. Is that fair? How does one set a standard of acceptable mistakes at a job? | 0.604689 | 0.149927 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses?
POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year.
We both ... | My boyfriend and I are considering moving in together. Currently I'm responsible for all utilities and maintenance related expenses. He will likely make more money than I do, but is contributing less financially to the house. How should we divide the expenses for the house? The expectation is that we'd split the rent ... | Boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together when his lease is up. We have similar salaries. He makes more money than me. We're open to discussing the division of expenses. I'd expect to split house bills 50/50. He doesn't contribute to bills. Put down $60K of own money when I purchased the home. Share house expe... | 1.666034 | 1.519652 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship)
POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada.
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Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital ... | Viral meningitis developed 2 weeks ago and the ups and downs have meant partially bed ridden and having niggles associated with a lumbar puncture which resulted in spinal headaches lasting for coming up to 2 weeks now. My girlfriend has not visited once during this ordeal and blew plans to come visit this weekend. Am ... | Viral meningitis caused spine related headaches to myself, no visit from gf though a couple times I've texted a guy friend to visit instead. How can I express frustration that my girlfriend hasn't come see me once through this whole ordeal? | 2.862225 | 1.508269 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]?
POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different school... | Boyfriend has only had 6 tickets to his graduation requested to bring family members rather than me who has been involved in his life the most. I feel like I am not getting the same respect as he does bringing his relatives and it hurts my pride. | My boyfriend only has 6 tickets for his graduation while I love being invited to everything else, and I feel slighted because his family members who he doesn't really talk to get tickets instead of me. | 1.940485 | 0.85225 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had.
POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (eve... | My boyfriend takes issue with how many sexual partners I've had and seems to have a hard time believing I can be in a loving relationship when I have had so many past partners who he feels are more passionate about than him. We are just starting a serious relationship but I feel so frustrated with his negativity and i... | Boyfriend can't accept how many sexual partners I've had in my life. We have long discussions on this topic almost every day. It's driving me crazy and making it hard for me to see our relationship as being perfect because of it. I know I should probably break up with him. What should I do? | 2.291063 | 1.336788 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help
POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of yo... | Best friend got into a relationship with me - I like her but want to be single later on. How can I keep up our friendship? Is there any possible way? Need advice/experience/tips
TL;DR: best friend got into relationship with me - I like her but want to be single later on. How can I keep up our friendship? Is there a... | got into a relationship with best friend, I like her, but I want to be single and lose her when the relationship ends. Any advice possible? :) | 1.40208 | 0.186036 |
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