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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting
POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try.
Backstory:
When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ro... | Broke up 2 years ago. Want to cut contact with ex because of depression and because it's helped me get better but still feel a connection and hate seeing him or talking to him. Is there going to be awkwardness with ex's | Got emotionally attached to ex who cut contact after 1 year, made progress, found friends that accept me better and want me out but think they'll be hurt if they see me at a convention or anything. Would hate to be insulting. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.
POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219
I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my die... | Fell off the 200-lb plateau on Thursday, measuring myself today and seeing that I've lost 8 inches in total body fat since December. Happy, healthy weight gain! | Losing weight and keeping it off after a week or two of plateau. Haven't been doing much exercise, but feel great at the weight I was set at before any of this happened. And that's with my clothes feeling looser than |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?
POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide?
I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realiz... | I have body image issues that need to be worked on and would love to hear your experiences with this before asking someone out! | I have bad acne on my breasts, and I'm worried that my body image is a factor in how a potential partner views me. Would I warn someone about this upfront before anything sexual? Do I let it surprise them when the clothes |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?
POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these... | $25k in student debt, $11k down payment, $35k savings/down payment, $25k debt: which should I pay off first or focus on paying down debt and grow savings/down payment? | Current student debt $25k, 9 months to pay it off, $11k to save for down payment or $35k at end of 9 months for move. Should I focus on paying off student debt or grow savings/down payment |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)
POST: Throwaway
I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as ... | I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend when I'm being nice and polite towards her. She picks fights and complains nonstop about being treated nicely and is really hurt by it. What do I do? Do I continue the cold and distant | Girlfriend is all about showing me she's interested and gives me shit when I'm distant with her and acts very aloof towards me when I'm being nice and friendly. Is there a way to fix this or should I move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?
POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic ... | Guy I'm dating acting weird since yesterday when we hung out before the movie. Do you think it is okay for me to ask him if everything is okay, since he has been acting different since we hung out yesterday? | Guy I am dating said he doesn't care anymore if I smoke and he doesn't text me anymore when he was fine the last time we hung out before he asked me if everything was okay. Is it rude if I ask? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?
POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I... | Gf told me that she doesn't think I am that tall because of how short I am. I just turned off from her when she revealed to me that she loved me alot but now I am really turned off by her shallow view | Girlfriend told me she loves me but from a shallow perspective, said she doesn't date tall men, does that mean she doesn't feel the same way? Does this mean she isn't emotionally attracted to me? Or is it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)
POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfri... | I'm paranoid about my hormonal status after a gynecological procedure, how do I explain my irrationality to my boyfriend without sounding like I'm trying to make excuses for being an irrational asshole? | My partner and I are both hormonal but I have some sort of irrational fears that have been going on for a while and I need to know how to explain them without sounding like an asshole. I'm really freaking out right now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)
POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of... | Listen to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic and think about whether or not I am a lonely soul because I am not in a relationship. Share your experiences! | Listen to a great song and became really depressed and lonely. Have girl friends and want to be head over heels for one but don't know where to start or what to do. Have you ever been in a situation like this? What did |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive
POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible.
Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be... | My boyfriend's high sex drive is overwhelming and unattractive compared to mine. I don't want him to feel rejected because I feel like I'm not satisfying his needs enough. I want us both to be happy. | My bf of 2.5 years, sexually experienced but high sex drive, doesn't feel sexually appreciated or desired. I need help getting him to turn down his sexual needs without him feeling rejected. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm just really tired right now...
POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point.
I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep abo... | My current situation is stressful, I'm worried about moving out and having nowhere to live, my boyfriend doesn't seem to be concerned about it, and I'm just really tired. | I am about to be moving out of my house and into an apartment where I am worried that we won't be able to afford our own apartment. I am also pretty stressed about moving out and living alone and being so broke. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything?
POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months.
My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or... | Sister got engaged, I am having thoughts that her and her husband are not what I want in the long term - not sure | My sister got married and moved in with a great guy with problems. Should I be into that relationship or am I in a |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.
POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these... | I'm in a relationship but I have this crush on someone else. I think it's physically but I also think it's mental and I need advice on how to overcome. | Have been in relationship for 3 years, I find myself attracted to someone else. Afraid of feeling guilty for it, and don't know how to overcome it. Please share your experiences |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to
POST: Hello fellow redditors,
we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :)
She is sitting here with me and we will both provid... | Girlfriend of 2,5 years wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, I don't mind, I just don't want her to since I value it a lot, she does not. | GF wants me to pay for tutoring her accounting class to make her pass her exam and feel better about the subject. I said no and think it's a bad idea since it will not be professional. I also |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.
POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit ... | I think I like this girl, but I'm not 100% sure. She's also interested in another friend of mine, but I don't know if they like each other or not. What should I do? | I think I'm stuck in a triangle between A/the girl I like, and A/her friend, and I don't know which of them is in the right. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.
POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would hav... | Met a girl while backpacking europe and we really clicked and I dont know how to tell her how I feel and if i should even try or not. I really like her and Im going crazy thinking about her. | Met a girl while backpacking in europe, we have alot in common, she also happens to be one of the most beautiful women I've ever met, we're headed back to the states in a few weeks and I dont know what to |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup
POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ma... | Big dog loves having people come over and play. People get aggressive when he | have 4 dogs, always get into fight and bark at new dog. I |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do?
POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still talk... | One of my good friends got really fucked over by self-harming and I'm looking for ways to help her by being more open about it. I feel so helpless. What should I do? | One of my good friends self-harms. I'm worried about what to do. I think she might be self-harming but I don't really know what to do. She's now distanced herself from me, but I |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them
POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here.
So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was ver... | My ex is in possession of sexually explicit photos of me and won't delete them because I've asked and warned him of the dangers of possession of those photos. What can I do? | My ex is in possession of photos of me from when we were dating and won't delete them despite my warnings. What can I do? What can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response.
POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question.
We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically to... | FWB of 6 years lied about being single, engaged, and married for 2 years; I know he was cheating. Now I need to decide whether or not to tell him I know he was cheating. | FWB lied about being single, he's married. Is there any good reason to tell him I know he was lying and cheating? Also, need to figure out the rational way to handle this situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that?
POST: *First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.*
For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reaction... | Had a bout of depression, went batshit crazy | Had alot of depression and got a lot better with |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington]
POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera.
When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she dec... | I have a DNA test that proved my Dad is not my biological father. Now I am 19 and am 100% sure I found my other side of my family through investigation. Now what should I do? | My mom had a DNA test done that proved she is my biological father, but now that I am 19 and am 100% sure I found the other side of my family through investigation, I don't know |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing.
POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clicke... | Met a girl at orientation week, started talking, started texting, hang out, text her, lunch, talk, talk some more, hang out at least once a week, just want to know what I'm doing, and if she | Been talking to girl for about 3 months, text her all the time, hangout once or twice a week, pay for lunch (though we don't hangout that often), she doesn't know this, yet I am inexperienced |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family.
POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are divor... | I constantly feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's Dad's side of the family. My boyfriend and I are trying | Bf's dad is very cold with me, constantly ignores me, and while I'm happy to spend time |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now...
POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problems ... | Borderline mother has prevented me from contacting her repeatedly and now I feel awful about it despite everyone saying it's okay, and I'm wondering if anyone else has dealt with this before. How did you deal with the guilt when confronting the mother | Borderline mother contacted me after repeatedly ignoring my mental health issues and awful family life to try and end it with me. I feel horrible about the situation yet she will play the victim. How do I deal with the guilt of confronting her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed.
POST: My previous post can be seen here:
We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I understa... | A girl | There's |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly.
POST: I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything lo... | I'm in a relationship that I'm really looking forward to and I don't know if I should commit to it for fear that | I am really into this girl, but I am terrified of committing because of my lack of experience dating/dating anyone. I know |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend
POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out wit... | I'm 19 years old and Indian and have never done anything that would make my parents disapprove of me hanging out with my best friend. I want to convince them to let me go on a trip with them this summer. | My parents are very strict and don't allow me to go out and do anything fun. I've been babysitting my little sister and staying home so far but I want to go. How should I convince them to let me go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level.
POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are and... | My GF is a bit too active on social media for my comfort level and I'd like to keep it under wraps but I don't know how without seeming like a douche. The way it works on IG is I only post important stuff | GF is a bit too active on my IG for my comfort level and I'd prefer she not post something I find inappropriate. I'd rather she not but don't know how to tell without seeming like I'm too much of an asshole. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today?
POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends.
He... | LDR boyfriend hasn't texted me since last night saying "Happy Valentine's Day." Am I in the wrong for being upset that he hasn't made a single effort to text me today? | My LDR boyfriend hasn't contacted me since last night and it's really starting to get to me. I don't know if I am in the wrong for expecting a text after 7pm every morning and waiting for him to text me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question?
POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything serious.... | Been going out with a guy who rarely sleeps. Is it time to make a move on how we define our relationship? And if so, what should i communicate? And am I wasting my time with a guy who acts like he | Been on 2 out of the last 3 dates with pseudo-fwb. Our understanding is we're just friends but i don't want to be reading into things until i'm 100% comfortable with the relationship, or at least until he |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go.
POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we m... | I want to break up with my boyfriend of a year because I have no place to go due to living situation and neglect. I would also like to avoid confronting my parents regarding the reasons I chose to end the relationship. I also need to | Relationship of 1 year with a toxic relationship. Have been fighting for 2 years. I want to break up but don't know where to start. I also have a younger brother who wants me to move back home with them. I want to |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet
POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal blisters... | My big toe on my left foot has blood blisters, and my right foot has normal sized feet. Is there anything I can do to prevent them from happening? | I developed some blood blisters on the middle and big toe of both my feet (as well as a doozy on my big toe of my left foot) and am wondering if I should remove them or pop them and if there are any |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower
POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I di... | Roommate brought in lube in shower, told me it was my bottle of lube that he kept mentioning, told him it was Jenny's conditioner that he thought was awesome, no idea where it went. | Roommate asked me where my lube bottle went in the shower. I asked him why he was asking and he thought I knew its gone. Then thought I'd forgot about it and went straight to telling him where the bottle was. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable.
POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past dec... | My mom keeps trying to reunite me and my estranged sister and it's causing me so much unhappiness. Any advice? | My mom keeps trying to reunite me and my estranged sister and it's making me miserable. Has anyone else had a sibling relationship that was not entirely healthy and how did you deal with it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17)
POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we got... | Had a good chat with a girl, she said she liked me and wants to go to a film with me, does it mean anything more as friends? Or is it just as a date? | Asked girl to film a film with me, she said she likes my friend but then went and had a coffee and then asked if we can just go and have a movie to have a laugh. Is it just as friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way.
POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through e... | F 20 broke up with M20. Really sad, heartbroken and alone. Lost the relationship I thought I had. I want to connect to others that feel this way. | Broke up with my SO of two years. He said he loved me but said he wasn't. It was sudden and I lost the relationship that I thought I had. I want to be able to sleep and connect to others who have |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance?
POST: Hi all!
Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past fe... | I'm 19 f and have never had a relationship. I just started a new job and will be moving to a university near my hometown. My closest friend says I should date but I am worried about social anxiety and a potentially bad relationship experience | I am going to be moving to a new university and will be going on a long distance relationship with a guy i really like. How should i handle this and should I/shouldn't I be taking it lightly? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy!
POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high sch... | Sister is going to college with a Fetal Alcohol Syndrome young woman who has social skills issues and isn't used to making friends. Need tips and advice on how to help her. | My sister is a talented and dedicated artist and is very likely going to be unable to handle college as a result of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. I'm looking for advice on how to help her with her social skills, especially her ability to understand |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him
POST: We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a l... | I spend a lot of time with my boyfriend's male friend (John), and I don't want to tell my boyfriend why I'm leaving or who I'm with because it would jeopardize my relationship with John. What should I do? | My boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship, but I spend too much time with my new male friend and he's having a lot of trouble dealing with the new friendships. I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm cheating on him but |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad?
POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a short ... | A friend asked me to edit his short film and I gave him shit for it. He apologized for wasting my time and said nothing I did was used. What makes you mad, Reddit? | Help me make a short film, guy asks me to edit and return it, I do it perfectly, he apologizes and says he won't do it again and that he'll do better next time. What makes you mad? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight
POST: My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems with ... | My girlfriend spends the day with her friend and he sleeps in the same room as her tonight. I feel uncomfortable but don't want to be controlling and don't want to break it off. What should I do? | My girlfriend (who has a boy who likes her) is currently sleeping in the same room as her tonight and doesn't know that I know. I don't want to be controlling but I feel like that's unfair. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner?
POST: Hey guys,
I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV.
That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ro... | I'm in need of a bike to start learning for a beginner that will be on the road in about 2 years and will break my neck. Any suggestions would be awesome! | I need a bike that I can get my head around, that I'm able to take around 250cc at a reasonable price, and that I can have fun on. I'm also looking for something cool that will be enjoyable to ride. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again.
POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her at... | Went out with a girl and things were going well, stopped talking a few months later, saw her today and want to try again but don't know if I should if that would be a bad idea. | Went out with girl, had a few nice dates, stopped talking after Christmas. Now see her today and I want to give it a shot again. Should I? How? How would you handle it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché
POST: This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in tu... | I am bored of my boring work environment and want to change to something exciting and productive, but theres no point in sacrificing my job if im not gonna be productive. | I work for a big company, I get bored and unmotivated to do my job. I want to contribute to the well being of my company but its hard to relate to the things i do because of my lack of job-like |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her?
POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her. H... | Girlfriend might be hiding things from me, my friend is worried about me getting hurt in the future. Should I tell her something and risk scaring her off somehow? Or should I just leave it alone? | Old friend told me that my girlfriend was hiding things that have happened in the past four months. I'm pretty sure she's done something wrong, but I don't want to scare her off if she's already done something wrong, what should |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her
POST: Hello r/relationships,
I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am fro... | Girlfriend might get a job in a different city and might move there too. I want to follow her but she doesn't want me to. She also doesn't want to lose me for anything. | My girlfriend might get a job in a different city and I am thinking to follow her for a very long time, by taking it very hard and possibly losing her. And I have no one to ask these things. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids?
POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans to... | Wife is not currently working, and is currently expecting our first child in April. We would like to have her stay home with the child until he/she is old enough to attend full day preschool. Would this | Wife will not continue employment at her current job at the end of the school year, leaving us with $900-1200 in student loan debt and $500-600 monthly expenses. Should we get reduced or graduated student |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it?
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great.
However, she always goes throug... | My girlfriend constantly goes through my phone when I'm asleep and I've caught her in the past. Is it time to end it? I love her dearly and don't want to lose | Girlfriend constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. It's time to end it, but she won't do anything. Does that mean I should end it as well? I'm |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F]
POST: Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time.
This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I ha... | I've been rejected and I'm not sure what to do to start a relationship with a girl I like and could potentially meet another guy. I don't want to be a friend anymore. | I like a girl, she's a nice person, we have a lot in common but I'm non-confrontational so I'm kinda friendzoned. I don't want to be a friend anymore and need advise. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do?
POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got an ... | My dad is not a poor guy, but is unwilling to pay for my social security and insurance checks, and is constantly saying | My dad makes minimum wage and is not poor. He bought me $600 worth of things that are not being used on me |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"?
POST: So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semester... | I wrote a few paper on a band I love, now that band is in a different academic field where I am known as the expert on that band. Is this an obsession or is this normal? | I am obsessed with a band that I wrote a few papers on, am I obsessive or is this normal? Also, is it appropriate to say I am a band expert? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question..
POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for v... | I got a little cat, she slipped through a window and walked out onto a narrow ledge. Do I leave the windows open or lock them up? Or leave them alone and have a dead cat on my hands? | Cat almost gave me a heart attack walking out on a narrow ledge on my sidewalk. Should I leave the windows open or should I run inside and keep it shut? (Oh, and she's quite small, but still.) |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5.
POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5.
I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did suck... | A kid I was talking to in grade 4-5 was a cannibal. I attacked him, he tried to apologetically explain but i ignored him because i was hungry. | The weird kid bit me on the arm while I was running out of the play ground, he apologized and said he was hungry. I left the play ground and ran to the teacher I was mad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me
POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault.
Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/sk... | My girlfriend always thinks i'm screwing up her relationship and it's causing me issues in the relationship (I'm paranoid about it) and it's affecting my personality as a person. What should I do? | I constantly worry about things that might be wrong with me (like not telling my girlfriend i'm thinking about her or being weirded out by her) and it's causing problems with our relationship and me feeling like i'm not good enough to |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me.
POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but wi... | A girl took a picture of a nip slip, showed it to everyone in school and now she thinks i am responsible for it, and the kid is making it up. Should i throw him under the bus or just leave it alone. | Girl showed me a picture of a nip slip to which i had no part, and it spread to everyone in school. I am now under investigation for showing nudity, should i "throw him under the bus" or just leave it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps.
POST: Me 26 Her 28
Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not.
My girlfriend and I have been ... | My girlfriend of 3 years broke our promise to not sleep with anyone while she was on a trip and slept with someone while she's back in town. I still love her and want her back, but I also think I should forget about her | GF on trip with guy she slept with, says it was a mistake and wants to get back together. I forgive her, but the memory of it still hurts. So does my pride and ego. How do I move forward and move on |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: confused.
POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us, o... | I am a redditor, but I see that /r/atheism is just another religion and I wonder if I'm a dying breed of redditors who cant be swayed by religion or hate. | I love the idea of the subreddit called /r/atheism that claims to speak of tolerance and a general understanding of the world and the people that use it, but that doesn't include religious or non-religious discussions. Has |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning.
POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the cou... | My brothers were curious as to how many bronies live in my area by the number of puppies I named them, after I named a small horse as the pony from A Small Horse. | I named my little bro Alois, the pony from the Justine DLC of Amnesia, the center of my social experiment, because he took a small horse from the Amnesia TV show and named her after that little pony |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do.
POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky fo... | I'm 20 years old and have a medical condition that makes it extremely hard for me to conceive. My boyfriend doesn't seem to care. I wish he would be sensitive about the fact that I can't have kids and I wish he would | I am pretty sure I can't have children, my boyfriend won't stop bringing up the possibility but I still feel super sad whenever he says it and I wish he could be more sensitive about it. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing.
POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ne... | Relationship ended because I brought up that I wanted different things out of it than what she wanted. She seemed to agree, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing, and regretting the decision | Was in a new relationship with a girl I like. Suddenly realised that the relationship wasn't going to make either of us happy, decided to end it before it got any worse than what it was. Still friends now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this
POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ev... | My cat is terrified of my brother who is afraid of my cat is severely wounded, what should I do to get rid of him if I dont want to wait for him to have a chance to heal and be normal again. | Brother came over ran after my cat and attacked him, he just went nuts and hurt himself, need to find a way to let him out I was outside when he attacked but he is locked up, what to do about the cat when its |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him...
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with him... | My boyfriend wants me to move in with him after graduating college - I don't. I love him but I don't want to live with him. What should I say to him? Do you think this means anything? | I love my boyfriend, but I don't want to move in with him and live with him when I graduate college and start a career in a different area. I don't know if this is a sign of a bigger issue. What should |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls
POST: So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many.
She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, becau... | Girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls. Girlfriend says she's a slut and has ulterior motives for | gf talks to past sex partners from her past, gets mad when I talk to girls. She says she will talk to who she wants |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...
POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem s... | Step mom wants me to turn down netflix past 10, I wouldnt get caught, is it worth the punishment(still grounds) if i do get caught? and if i do get caught, is it worth the punishment? | My stepmom asked me to turn the volume down on netflix, i did so, but couldnt access the modem control and tried to bypass it with parental controls, got caught, but what do i do now? any advice would be |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen
POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a d... | My dog was attacked and hurt by a dog. My dad went for a walk with him and the dog attacked him and bit him. The dog is very injured and likely dead. What do I do? | My dog hurt himself, the owner of the other dog bit him, I am emotionally and physically terrified and need advice on what to do to get my dog back. Would love some tips on how to handle this emotionally. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish?
POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (and... | My close friend is getting married abroad but I don't want to go as I'm not comfortable with the racism and bad experiences she's had in the past. What should I do? Am I being selfish? | Friend got engaged in Morocco, I am uncomfortable with the wedding there because of racist and other things, she doesn't want me to go either. Should I not go at all or will that be selfish of me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified?
POST: I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and h... | I feel frustrated with my boyfriend's laziness and it's affecting our relationship, is it fair for me to be feeling frustrated about it? Am I justified in feeling this way? How can I make him do more housework? | Feeling frustrated with boyfriend of 2 years not being more productive or contributing to our relationship, especially because he is constantly playing video games and isn't putting any effort into housework. Am I justified in feeling this way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party?
POST: I only think it is fair I should begin.
So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These partie... | Went to party with friends and drank too much, woke up having to pee and smell something really rank, heard people talking about it, got it everywhere and ran fast so they could find the source. | Went to party, drank a lot and passed out. Strangely enough the smell was permeating the house and people couldn't tell the source. Had to run so fast that it was visible I'm embarrassed to say. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year.
POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of dri... | Had an extremely intense relationship. Went NC, got in touch with ex and got a chance to see him for the first time since being apart. I miss him and am trying to figure this out but don't know if it | I went to my ex for the first time in years after a month of being NC and we had a fantastic connection. I miss him and am trying to ignore the feeling of apathy that it brought. Does that make sense? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral..
POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice.
Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attractiv... | Seeing girl for a month, she doesn't go down on me because she's not comfortable doing so much, and it's driving me nuts! How do I talk to her about this respectfully without it sounding like I'm not interested? | In a pretty good relationship, but she's not a fan of oral and seems reluctant to go down on me, is there a way to approach this respectfully? She's made no attempts to try oral recently and has done this ten times so |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it
POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we comm... | me and my SO of a year are beginning to face a long distance relationship and I'm not sure if we should risk what we have becoming ugly or if we should try and make it work. | Starting to realize that we don't have enough time for each other, we are going to try and see each other for two years but we are also concerned that the distance may turn us into toxic relationships. Have you ever been in a L |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.
POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never seen ... | thought guy I'm dating had a pack of cigarettes hidden in his pocket, but I haven't seen it and don't know how to bring it up. | Thought I caught a whiff of a pack of cigarettes that the guy I'm seeing smokes, but I haven't seen it and it hasn't been brought up. I'm not sure if I should bother about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work?
POST: I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break:
We h... | SO and I are taking a 1-month break in order to re-evaluate our relationship, decide what our needs are, and try to "fall back in love" with eachother. The sizzle is just gone. Has anyone | My boyfriend and I of 5 years decided we want to take a break to re-evaluate our relationship and decide what our needs are, but we live in separate rooms. How can we make this work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I *Might* be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M]
POST: I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant and ... | I might be a father again after a fling ended abruptly. Wives and I haven't communicated much better since the fling ended. What should my move be? What do I need to do right now? | I might be the father of my son when I'm no longer married and I don't know what I should be doing with my life after that. I am 25/m and married to my wife is 22/f. Wife and I |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions..
POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that.
W... | Want to ask out coworker who I think would be down to go out but never get an opening, would be childish and cheesy to pass along but would like to get opinions on whether its appropriate or not. | I work in a small office with a girl I really like and have never gotten a chance to ask her out but I would love to and really would like to but theres always customers or coworkers around. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline)
POST: Heyooo,
So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of mess... | Met online guy 6 months ago. We've been talking everyday for 6 months. I'm leaving for the uk in two months and have started to have feelings for him. Can't tell if there's mutual feelings or not. | Met a guy online on a dating website. Talked everyday for 6 months. Started talking to him regularly and he told me he'd love to meet me in two months. He said that he'd love to come and visit me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice.
POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on.
She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a co... | Wife goes to gym 5 days a week, makes sure her phone is out of sight. Visited her phone when she left last night and saw she was talking to someone else on the app she was browsing. Don't know if it's | Wife is going to the gym 5 days a week, is texting other people, has done that for years, suspicious texts she opens on my watch. How to proceed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it
POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was definite... | Had a great relationship with | Had a great relationship, |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Frustrated with these people...
POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back.
The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hide ... | girl broke up with boyfriend, got back together, said she'd "deal with it" when I asked why she was with him. She's being very unkind. What to do?! | Girl ignores me and ignores any problems between us, decides to get back with another guy after 2 weeks, I tell her why she should try to fix things, she ignores it, and now is bitter, angry and frustrated. Need help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24]
POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years.
We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun thi... | Gf is 5/7 drunk, when she's with friends i start to think she's going to do stuff and she reacts angrily, i get frustrated and get jealous, i end the relationship cause of this. | Girlfriend is 5/7 drunk all the time, insults my self and trust, i get bitter and start to question the relationship. Now, i don't know how to deal with the situation. I feel betrayed. She doesn't understand |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there.
POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this:
*I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months.
*I stay at his house (and he ... | Boyfriend's housemates request me to pay for rent and bills just because I stay at his house and they wouldn't have it any other way. I accept and abide, but WTF is this? | My boyfriend's housemate demands that I pay rent (and bills) just for staying at his house while I'm away at work or studying - yet I *never* use electricity, do dishes, shower etc. Or wash my own clothes |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us?
POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me b... | I got dumped by my best friend, but I want to talk to him about everything, how do I go from talking to him everyday to not talking at all? I want advice how to get over this situation. | I want to talk to my best friend about our recent relationship status but afraid it will cause him to lose his family and me (who loves him) and I want advice on how to move on from this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen?
POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both scho... | I want to throw a great party, but I'm not sure what to do to make sure everyone has a good time and that things stay under control. | I'm 19, want to throw a party, how can I keep things under control for everyone to enjoy it and still have a good time? Any ideas? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it?
POST: So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just r... | I feel like a horrible person because of past relationships that I have had that left me feeling empty and have since destroyed me and I am looking to understand why I hate myself so much and how I can change it | I hate myself after being hurt by men I've been with/talked to. It has been awhile since I've felt this way and have never felt it again and don't know why. I am feeling awful and don't know how |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm worried.
POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country for ... | My two cousins are seriously troubled with mental illnesses. I don't know how to help them. I'm scared for them. Also, I don't know what to do about the emotionally unstable younger of the two cousins. | My oldest cousin has serious mental illness, and their father just killed himself today. I'm worried about my younger cousin, who has no support system of anyone she knows, and has a lot of stress/emotional problems. I'm also |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends
POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Charli... | Made Charlie pencil game for three friends, they thought it was a good idea and i blew it to 'Yes' 3 times. They believed Charlie will find them if they play the game again. | Tried Charlie pencil game with friends. I blew it to 'Yes' and then they believed the pencil said 'No' when you had already blown it to 'Yes' a total of 3 times. They think Charlie will find you when |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do?
POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn't ... | My (20F) good friend (25M) of over three years has started sexting me. I told him not to do it but he did anyway. I don't want to ruin our friendship because of this. What should | My (ex)BF has been trying to make me uncomfortable talking dirty to me and now tried sending me dirty messages. I said I wasn't comfortable with it. He said fine and left early. What do I do? Do I stick |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I think I suck at my job.
POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working.
I just cam... | I think I suck at my job. I need a reasonable expectation. I should be able to handle big picture stuff well enough but small details can get in the way and are annoying. What is a fair expectation to adhere to? | I think I suck at my job. I've worked a lot of different jobs, but am looking to join Salesforce. Has anyone else had experience in a similar position and what was your experience with human error? Is a job below " |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses?
POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year.
We both ma... | My boyfriend and I want to move in together after a year of dating. Is it reasonable to expect that we split expenses 50/50? Or is the assumption that I would pay 50/50 reasonable? Or is there a better way to | I own a house with my boyfriend and we are considering moving in together. I would expect to split expenses 50/50. BF expects to put the house at 50/50 to share expenses. I'm concerned about the situation and don't |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship)
POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada.
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Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital fo... | Girlfriend has not been in to see me in 2 weeks despite being in hospital with meningitis, blowing me off plans to come visit her for a weekend. What should I do? | Girlfriend has been sick for over 2 weeks with meningitis, blow off plans to come see me today as she has not even been in to see me for over 5 days now and is now in bed ridden. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]?
POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different schools ... | My boyfriend of one year said he wants to invite his family to his graduation rather than me, but he hasn't explicitly said he wants me to come. Am I being unreasonable for being upset? | Boyfriend didnt mention in advance that he wanted me to come down to his graduation, but I don't really care because he doesn't come from the most stable households he has. Am I being ridiculous for being upset? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had.
POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (even ... | My boyfriend constantly brings up the fact that I've had a lot more partners than him and that he doesn't believe that I can want to be in a relationship after having so many sexual partners. How do I get through this | My boyfriend has endless amounts of sexual partners and can't handle the fact that I've had so many. I don't understand how this can be fixed or how to communicate to him. How can I get this through his head |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help
POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of your... | My best friend and I got into a relationship, but we will be apart forever. I fear that if I break up with her I will lose her forever, but also want her as a part of my life. How can I handle this | Met my perfect girl, dated for 2 years but she fell in love with me, now we want to be single for a while (so I can move on) but I fear it will end in a few months or years, is there |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Boyfriend [15m] Broke up with Me [17f] and is spreading Rumors about me. I don't want to break up, Help?
POST: I asked about this before but didnt really get any help :/ My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me last weekend, and now he's spreading rumors about me around school. He'... | My boyfriend broke up with me and spread rumors about me and said i'm crazy and crazy things. I dont want to break up and want to stay together but I think he just hates me now and I need advice. | Boyfriend broke up with me, said some crazy stuff, texted girl, I saw in his twitter messages and want to keep the relationship and maybe end it, but he hates me now and is talking to this girl. What can I |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I don't know if I should believe him.
POST: I'm an exchange student in a foreign country and in the group of exchanges there is this guy, he's cute but I didn't really notice him until he helped me out with when I was breaking up with my boyfriend. It's not what it sounds like, h... | Guy friend that I was making out with said he | Friend has told me that he's into me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [15f] am falling for my friend [16m]. It's very complicated. Please help.
POST: I had to get surgery on my finger after a freak accident a couple months ago. I asked a male acquaintance if he would carry my books for me the last two periods of the day until I could do it myself.
Th... | Friend is trying to build up my crush, but I feel he is using me to get into his relationship. It's becoming very complicated and I don't want to hurt his relationship. What should I do? | A friend keeps playing games with me. I'm falling for him and don't want to hurt his relationship. Help! We have 7 classes together plus lunch and see him everyday. I feel stupid to confess this but I need to. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19M] My girlfriend [19F] always wants to be at home.
POST: Were both university students that live with our parents and have been dating for two years. For the most part things are great and we love each other a lot however since we first started dating I don't get to see her as much ... | My girlfriend always wants to be at home when we hangout and doesn't like doing things outside of the house. I feel like I'm being a little selfish by asking her to hang out when she doesn't get to do anything and doesn | My girlfriend always wants to be at home and I don't have a problem with it, but it's irritating that she can't do anything she wants to do since she lives at home. Any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Guy was a dick while I was ringing him up
POST: Well, I work at a store that sells protein, vitamins and other supplements so we usually have samples of different preworkouts, proteins, etc - we also give out free magazines.
I greeted the guy and said "hey, how's it going, man?" He ign... | guy was rude to me while I was ringing up, asked for a sample of a preworkout (which I wasn't looking for), he said "give me a magazine" and proceeded to yell at me. | guy was a dick by repeatedly insulting my profession (I'm a gym rat) and when I politely told him to drop it, he proceeded to try to rip my magazines off of my counter. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I can't believe it's been one year already. Thank you for being awesome, reddit.
POST: Since a friend showed me this site, my life has noticeably changed, and you all are partially the cause. But to be sure, I'd like to thank each of my subreddits individually.
Pics: Need I say more? You alway... | I love you guys for giving me the confidence to talk about my non-beliefs and opinions. Thanks for being awesome. | Thanks to you all, I realized that the internet isn't just for the dumb and the ignorant. I now realize that the internet is a great place to express yourself, and that reddit is awesome for the community and for the people who |
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