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yaFfHH5jbY2mEAC2V9Ih79kDTs6Em3uW | av52ye | {
"description": "staying with my boyfriend against my friend's wishes",
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} | AITA for staying with my boyfriend against my friend's wishes? | Hi everyone! FTP, etc.
I (F18) recently started dating my boyfriend (M19) about 2 months ago. Before we were "official" we were talking for a few weeks, because I met him when we were both in high school. I also met one of my best friends (F18) when I was in 10th grade and she was in 9th (she is currently a senior in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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m6cdiTJkLwCBHyCsAwlb9RXudAxphKe6 | awytjl | {
"description": "changing an entry on Wikipedia to prove to a med student they can't rely on it to be accurate",
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} | AITA for changing an entry on Wikipedia to prove to a med student they can’t rely on it to be accurate? | I was in a sub for medical students, and saw a comment that someone was using Wikipedia to get drug information. There are multiple sites and resources that are far more reliable, and it’s fairly well known in academia that Wikipedia is NOT a reliable source of information.
I explained in a comment that Wikipedia c... | HISTORICAL | {
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rpV0omT1XAn2OEvbQNsPUEjoqeBmekw5 | aucq08 | {
"description": "throwing serious topics on a guy I don't know well",
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} | AITA for throwing serious topics on a guy I don’t know well? | I know I’m probably not a real asshole for this but I would like to know if I should not have done this- I hope that’s acceptable.
I’ve been in a new class since a few weeks, and I don’t know most people in it very well yet. Last week we had an excursion and when everyone went home after that I ended up with one guy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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OlIDm7aJ8QNMf4oMgd772nAanEpWh5ZH | a8fuih | {
"description": "thinking my brother should help pay for the costs of a ticket when I borrowed his car with expired registration and no insurance",
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} | AITA for thinking my brother should help pay for the costs of a ticket when I borrowed his car with expired registration and no insurance. | AITA for expecting my brother to help pay for some of the costs?
(On mobile so sorry for any typos!)
This incident happened several years ago and my brother and I are good and have a great relationship shop. but this remains a sore spot when it comes up and it dawned on me to use this forum to get an outside perspec... | HISTORICAL | {
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yQ5mN8TEMQ9ZwLlezSk61x4x9uLULWHC | 9v0nqz | {
"description": "calling someone a rude name to their face due to their bad parking",
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} | AITA for calling someone a rude name to their face due to their bad parking? | In context I was picking my son up in the UK from primary school.
I park a few roads away because I know it's a residential area and many other parents block driveways the road over from school because they're the most important people in the world.
This road I park down has a 180° turn at the bottom with some double y... | HISTORICAL | {
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OnHpRQfDmy3tRPIfTVIU5P8pEzYAWfu7 | auylx0 | {
"description": "'scamming' my roomate",
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} | AITA for 'scamming' my roomate? |
Hey, I moved into a new apartment the 15'th december 2018 with 2 acquaintances, the apartment got 3 bedrooms, 2 of them are smaller and the bigger one is about 40% bigger than the other 2.
So before we moved in, I asked my roomates (let's call them X and Y) who was taking the big room, X says that he doesn't care, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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a7OflxriqnRXCINr82V6BXOWGkH6lVeg | b1fsav | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because I don't see a future",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because I don’t see a future? | I know the answer to this may seem obvious to some of you, but my heart keeps telling me I made a mistake. My girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) had been together about 8 months when I decided to end things. We have had several conversations about what we want out of life, including where we might like to live, having childr... | HISTORICAL | {
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5U4SqubF9mbb8RvD3zqnp0NrBNFDY8f8 | ac4sxv | {
"description": "deleting tinder matches",
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} | AITA for deleting Tinder matches? | Im a guy.
I tend to swipe right everytime I can basically on Tinder because i basically want someone to match me. When somebody does, which doesnt occur very often, its very rare actually, I instinctively go onto their profile and think very hard if there would be any chance we could get together.
I kind of then real... | HISTORICAL | {
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IHAQsYLzVamwpjtvivw6pRXqg9G1WbBe | abg8v5 | {
"description": "accepting food from this guy",
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} | AITA for accepting food from this guy? | In my Bio class, there’s a kid who sits next to me that we’ll call Austin. Austin gets school lunch every day, but instead of eating it in the Cafeteria, he brings it into Bio class. It kind of annoys me that he does this, since having someone eating pancakes with maple syrup sit next to me as I do my worksheet makes w... | HISTORICAL | {
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VqWOErIVkPNF5fy3Aa9Q2uRMQtUL7m8Y | 9ytcd7 | null | AITA - My (M19) new friend (F20) has a lomg distance relationship |
So to start off I didn't know she had a boyfriend in the beginning while we hung out a fencing tournament. So I asked her to go see a play. The play got cancelled and we ended up walking around town and then having a VERY casual dinner not a romantic setting what so ever. Although I'm into her I didn't make any advanc... | HISTORICAL | {
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feGFgS2Epea6Zo2v4cq4aL5g3CQXdfo8 | aoe2qn | {
"description": "moving up into my older sister's class against her wishes",
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} | AITA for moving up into my older sister's class against her wishes? | I'm not trying to be r/iamverysmart but, I've always been above average with academics, namely math and science. my older sister always disliked that and came up with excuses about why I was ahead of her when I'm a year younger.
When I was in year 10 we tried more difficult math as I wasn't learning and she wanted to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6onXh2bboTQBcp8ATYZheZu9PoPBekb3 | ark62e | {
"description": "not allowing my sister to host her kid's birthday party at my house",
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} | AITA for not allowing my sister to host her kid's birthday party at my house? | My sister has 14 kids. It's as chaotic and nightmarish as you can imagine. Usually she never asks to come over to my place because it's a nightmare to travel with 14 kids to come visit their auntie who lives 5 hours away. If we're having a gathering it's always me who is travelling to their place. I don't really mind. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 218,
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} | RIGHT |
H49GdonzBnjDnydrYaA7Ek6ElKTn8QbQ | a8gr21 | {
"description": "withdrawing in a deliberate attempt to 'punish' my friends",
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} | WIBTA for withdrawing in a deliberate attempt to 'punish' my friends | Throwaway account, because I'm about to expose an ugly, vindictive side of myself. This isn't who I am, but it is who I'm being today apparently.
Short version of a long story: we all live together. My friend rejected me and within two weeks was sneaking into our other friend's room (right next door to mine) at night... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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VtgYzE9QosQd7mvIABTtHIaNYU6TIMji | b5xd4z | {
"description": "using BCC emails",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for using BCC emails? | I'm one of a team of brand specialists at a technology vendor. My teammates represent different vendors, and as a result are effectively my competitors. As a team we are pretty tight knit and we pride ourselves on our close professional relationships built around transparency.
In times past, we uncovered many situatio... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
Fts4bcTUozR193XQKh9oCAsluidtNTxi | apwnd8 | {
"description": "telling my ex that I don't care",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my ex that I don't care? | So this happened a while back, and I actually think it was quite funny. But the other day, some friends and I were sharing some stories about our exes, and some of them said I was an asshole for doing this, so I wanted to see what the general consensus was on this.
So about a month after her and I broke up, we were g... | HISTORICAL | {
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uuD5STbjh4Fl8YBJDjGkbckyf9rziLvh | azp292 | {
"description": "making a move on a chick with a bf",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for making a move on a chick with a bf | Long time watcher, first time poster so sorry if my formats a bit off.
TL;DR at the bottom
Bit of backstory first;
Known this girl (we'll call her Susan) since we were 16, we are both currently 20
Liked her when we went to school together.
I recently got out of a 3 year relationship and was starting to mingle again on... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
MA3UD4cFWjU6lxfeiFwHzPgpl0aMlQm6 | autm6u | {
"description": "liking Kpop when I'm white / posting a non-meme on a meme page",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for liking Kpop when I'm white / posting a non-meme on a meme page? | I'm a 19 year old white kid who attends university in NY state. I got into Kpop (Korean pop, just in case you don't know) in December 2017. I adore the groups I've gotten into. I try very hard not to objectify or fetishize the men and women of the groups I like. Liking Kpop has gotten me more interested in Korean cultu... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
M4hHzGTt5jUjItQ4jnk90HPcgYiosVgl | a8snyf | {
"description": "interviewing elsewhere when I've already accepted a job",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for interviewing elsewhere when I've already accepted a job? | I accepted a job but don't start for another couple of weeks. It's overseas and there's more paperwork, so they have been patient on their end.
I had applied to many places when I first started looking, but one of them that I'm really interested in had only recently contacted me. Without having worked at either, I cou... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
NThdxOCxZA7oHqXKIvC3sVU8yb3QON6V | 9u3n09 | {
"description": "leaving school and moving 30 minutes away from my gf",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for leaving school and moving 30 minutes away from my gf? | So my girlfriend of 2.67 years and I both go to the same college and until recebtly we were both RAs, I graduated last year but due to some unforeseen classes and requirements I was going to have to take another 1-2 years to complete my second major. I also learned that this would cost me $50,000-$60,000. I didn't thin... | HISTORICAL | {
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O5bY15WcDJGhV3tUXEd6qyrSexyxJ4C2 | b0spb2 | {
"description": "being pissy with my roommate/friend/ co worker",
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} | AITA for being pissy with my roommate/friend/ co worker? | So, as the title suggests, I spend a lot of time with this individual. As such, I understand that we are, at some point, bound to have a spat. Still, when it happened today, I was left pretty floored by it.
We work at a shoe store. Sometimes when looking for shoes in the stock room we take the display from the floor; ... | HISTORICAL | {
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tPIHtdH7ZdZgOsg9O97gB8zNaHksVYgM | acwrb8 | {
"description": "telling my sister she shouldnt be angry about waiting",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my sister she shouldnt be angry about waiting? | Last night my sister and I went to McDonald's. We hadn't eaten all day and no one wanted to make dinner at home
We got our burger meals and some other stuff and proceeded to wait in the corner we always do.
It was about 6 p.m on a Friday, which I'm not sure about where other people live, it can get pretty packed in f... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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qtJUF3dLPNZdkFePY4M89cFZnFvWe6lb | b72y3s | {
"description": "not missing people",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not missing people | This is something that has bothered me and made me think I might be crazy but I’ve always had trouble missing people. As a child when my parents would go on vacation and leave me with my sibling (they are older and took care of me during those times) I wouldn’t really miss them or feel the need to call or message them... | HISTORICAL | {
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uiTT1Wm3VPwpoRUAYVhGnbF24BnHmGGU | b5w2k8 | {
"description": "faking an emergency to get a girl to leave my house and not stay the night",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for faking an emergency to get a girl to leave my house and not stay the night? | So I spent the day with this girl who I’ve seen a couple times. It’s a girl I’ve known from school years ago, but we have reconnected in recent months.
I spent the weekend at her place a few weeks ago and we had a great time.
This weekend past we had arranged for her to come to mine and spend the night. We went out... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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NJOIwG0F4eFvsIqiwx2UlCLGhgHRy30d | 9uoih3 | null | AITA | For thinking that if I get in line to order behind you and then you let two of your friends come and get in line with you, that you should at least offer to let me go ahead of you? | HISTORICAL | {
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Xlo86K01ArdlyIJcC46GTYRKtzh2HA1R | aadfa6 | {
"description": "baking cookies for an event and another batch for my classmates and grandmother(birthday) and not giving them to my family",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for baking cookies for an event and another batch for my classmates and grandmother(birthday) and not giving them to my family? | So I found a great chocolate-chip cookie recipe and I have a special event on monday where we bring homemade cookies and give them away to people on the streets for free as a tribute for a deceased teen who enjoyed baking and sweet things.
So I made one batch for that and another batch that I split in half.
10 cooki... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
oI3bzNvt5s58znanGjTuKfPznJaGhgzP | b19gzn | {
"description": "giving money which I didn't earn to a poor woman",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for giving money which i didn’t earn to a poor woman? | I (M29) quit my job about 4 years ago to come and live with my partner (M38) but “havent been able” to find a job here - rural area with only blue collar work I’m not qualified for, but kinda refuse to work my ass off as a bartender or similar for a very low payment in this area while i could earn much more for bartend... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
MVHAH3yG74nNwbrMK2sd52rTij5Sbm98 | aqq1h3 | {
"description": "thinking it's unnecessary for my wife to add salad to my vegetarian cooking",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 24
} | AITA for thinking it’s unnecessary for my wife to add salad to my vegetarian cooking? | So this is how me (40M) and my wife's (46F) Valentine's romantic dinner without the kids was ruined. Talking about how to get our somewhat overweight kid more healthy, she said every meal has to include lots of salad. I pointed out that typically I cook vegetarian anyway - for example last night's meal was whole-meal p... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 24
} | WRONG |
QSQY0XVSq27BgYjxiGjUG0kSLLhyDFKJ | 9v4yxo | {
"description": "not wanting to talk to my mom",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk to my mom? | Hello everyone,
Before I begin my story, just want to let everyone know this is a throwaway account (username checks out) just because a lot of my irl friends have easy access to my main account.
Alright, so throughout my childhood I have been regarded as the kid with strict parents. Things such as not being able to... | HISTORICAL | {
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D2KKSX2gQ3cacktQAzguDWiZrv1pdEa8 | a8qcmd | {
"description": "ending my friendship with a friend of almost 8 years and promising myself to never help him again",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for ending my friendship with a friend of almost 8 years and promising myself to never help him again? | So, this has actually happened a while ago.
I had a friend, let's call him Charlie, for the sake of the story, and we got to know each other way back in high school and instantly got along. I have been with him when he was going through a lot of bad things, when people kept leaving him, he had his heart broken, starte... | HISTORICAL | {
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3cwbGnylCvDbrMmmAyvaQkRAP3J3Wuzk | 9zstie | {
"description": "dropping my friend who has become a militant vegan",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for dropping my friend who has become a militant vegan? | **TL;DR** One of my (21F) best friends (21F) from high school has always been passionate about animal welfare, was a normal vegan for a while, but over the last several months has become an insanely militant vegan. Whenever we hang out, the events centre around her veganism. Her social media is nothing but preachy vega... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
8t1fBK8gdmr7T5kjp5jWuUswwpOA91F0 | aad5t5 | {
"description": "wanting my photos taken down from my mums facebook page, even though it upset her",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For wanting my photos taken down from my mums Facebook page, even though it upset her. | The day before this incident there was a fight in the car between my sister and Mum. Long story short my Mum broke some of my sisters stuff and they were shouting. I then spoke up.
Later I commented on my Mums Facebook profile asking her to take some photos of me down. I don’t like Facebook and the privacy seems sketc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
FUtSLnXLQMh4kAvTV9DZ0S80h5aiRhwt | a3t0bf | {
"description": "telling someone \"no\" at the gym to use a machine they were 15 minutes late to get on",
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} | AITA for telling someone "No" at the gym to use a machine they were 15 minutes late to get on? | Some context about the YMCA I go to, they have a signup page when you walk into the cardio room. You sign up in 30 minute blocks for a machine. If it's 5 minutes past when you signed up, then you're considered a "No Show" and anyone can use the machine for the remaining time. I've been back home living with my parents ... | HISTORICAL | {
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eTAUmXR1bMpK5RIAzZnOn1iI3Zzb1OnS | azwo9s | {
"description": "getting mad at work and probably leaving because I wasn't even interviewed for a minor promotion? I had trained for the job for over a year. the new boss hired someone she knew from another location",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA because I got mad at work and will probably leave because I wasn’t even interviewed for a minor promotion? I had trained for the job for over a year. The new boss hired someone she knew from another location | I have been doing the job for weeks after my lead left and received good reviews. My boss said that I could apply and would get an interview. Was never interviewed and it seems the choice had been made when I asked. AITA ? I am qualified and can do the job with my eyes closed. | HISTORICAL | {
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Ipi77dAibUdTdZuAOlfLb0VAG1CpcH4G | azaf6g | {
"description": "not wanting to go down on my gf",
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} | AITA For Not Wanting to go Down on my GF? | We're both 22 and been together for 8 months, and I don't go down on her. I'm just not into it at all, I've done it with an ex before and I just didn't like doing it. Now my gf's box is very nice and nothing is wrong with it at all but I just don't want to do it. She does blow me a lot and I told her she doesn't have t... | HISTORICAL | {
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8vhPURoywIpbDDKc6ggEdykmvenBfbrg | aoxeur | {
"description": "wasting the time of someone who is trying to get me to join a pyramid scheme",
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} | AITA for wasting the time of someone who is trying to get me to join a pyramid scheme? | On mobile, so sorry for any formatting issues. Also using a throwaway.
So back in college, I met this guy (M) in one of my classes. He wasn’t the sharpest tool in the shed and struggled with a lot of the assignments.
Now, I would regularly help out a few struggling classmates with their assignments. One day, M found ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Fhdtr4LcjmRShKZ33bMuuhvSY79phiRu | angq4n | {
"description": "telling my close friend to leave starbucks",
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} | AITA for telling my close friend to leave Starbucks | Okay so I live relatively close to a Starbucks and my close friend goes to the same Starbucks despite living across town, with numerous Starbucks near his place. I can't study when friends are around, and need space on my own. I told my friend to leave the Starbucks thats near me. AITA? Should I go to a different furth... | HISTORICAL | {
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1ZhepHdP8m8dKzTREAizgsLbI3av5Wzq | a18a7y | {
"description": "breaking up with my gf because she kept pressuring me to tell my parents about us",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my gf because she kept pressuring me to tell my parents about us? (w|w relationship) | Brief background info: I am a lesbian and have only recently come out to my immediate family (\~about 3 months ago, and it was by accident\~). The whole ordeal went 'okay' besides with my mom. She ended up disappearing for a few days, and by the time I left home to go back to university, we had only seen each other onc... | HISTORICAL | {
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yKsy39g8RPn5wcBeJ0PHToTgF9Uv69e7 | axnzeb | {
"description": "not giving him his cigarettes",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not giving him his cigarettes? | Bf is trying to cut down on smoking. He buys a set amount and gives them to me. After his dinner cig he doesn’t want me to give him any until the next morning.
Last night he had a really bad nightmare. He jerked awake so hard that it woke me up too. He was really shaken up.
He wanted me to give him a cigarette... | HISTORICAL | {
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Sr7sWYAiGeZC3aQNUOexTuAOFCnVnMW9 | apk660 | {
"description": "not paying my roommate for groceries her mom bought without my permission",
"pronormative_score": 46,
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} | AITA for not paying my roommate for groceries her mom bought without my permission? | So this happened a couple months ago, but honestly I’m still kind of appalled by it and I don’t really know what to think. So I’ve been living in an apartment with two roommates, and upon move in we all agreed to spend $30 each at the grocery store every time we go shopping. Both me and my first roommate, “Renee”, are ... | HISTORICAL | {
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iIAi48zDJzk0ulH8mYatm7x8egRO0Xjy | b1abwx | {
"description": "being mad at my wife for losing her job",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For being mad at my wife for losing her job? | Ok so I know it sounds bad at first, but my wife suddenly lost her job in her chosen profession last summer. Fortunately, a friend of ours Mom runs a small business and was willing to hire my wife at the same pay she was making before, albeit only 6 hour shifts, five days a week. My wife and I looked at this as a stopg... | HISTORICAL | {
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WRCbR6lp3vo6MDBMQUV9D6AwB8DWHYLh | adwt7e | {
"description": "telling her I have a crush on her and now she is angry",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA i told her i have a crush on her and now she is angry. | alright i am vibrating till now about what happened today's morning. I am a 16 year old boy living in india and she comes to my Van (transport for school). from july till today i had a crush on her and she talked to me too but the thing is i was not able to control myself because almost all others kids were absent toda... | HISTORICAL | {
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zoGAhyZ4ICG8EO2TxztnWW2HnBBe2BvO | awcnbi | {
"description": "refusing to babysit for my sister on a pre-arranged day because she never paid me the money she owed me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I refused to babysit for my sister on a pre-arranged day because she never paid me the money she owed me? | I'll keep it as short as I can. (Throwaway, obviously)
​
My sister has owed me money since Christmas. We had agreed that we would buy Christmas presents together a couple of months beforehand, but about a month before Christmas she tells me she won't be able to pay for the Christmas presents. We had only b... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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6eYpmyJ2DgBjUfv3G5Xqh0optHAzBc4O | a1spxu | {
"description": "asking adults to pay for themselves at my daughter's birthday party",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | WIBTA for asking adults to pay for themselves at my daughter's birthday party? (TIME SENSITIVE) | My daughter was born in December. She has always been envious of kids who get to have summer beach/pool parties. This year, I decided that I was going to make her wish come true. I found a swim school with an indoor pool that hosts birthday parties. The package for up to 20 kids in the pool was $475. (Or so I thought) ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ema0nd8ClHMmu6S5TGum6cNENV2FMoZ2 | aj0p5u | {
"description": "not wanting my sister to get a second dog",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting my sister to get a second dog? | My sister wants to get a second dog. My sister and I both still live with my mom, she's turning 20 soon and I'm 18. We have a few pets, namely a cat, dog and a few fish. The cat and dog are just kinda "the family's" but the fish are bought and kept by my sister.
​
You have to understand where I am coming f... | HISTORICAL | {
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lcj1QWV31cZYh5Fde9mH1JgpgRJYJkj6 | 9z415f | {
"description": "not wanting to share stuff with my friends",
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} | AITA for not wanting to share stuff with my friends? | I'm not talking about sharing food or objects, I've got no problem with that. But for some reason I feel really bothered and uncomfortable when I have to share "traits of personality" with them. This goes both to stuff like bands we have in common, or with more serious stuff like telling them about my personal life, wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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2s6UMj3DJfZl3BAUBqFEG8GlmxidhgD6 | b4f5fk | null | AITA my boyfriend wants to go out but lately I’ve been doing my homework/not in the mood so he doesn’t want to go out unless it’s with me but upset he hasn’t been to a party | I’m a junior (21) in college and he’s a freshman (18/19) in college.
He’s sad because I haven’t been in the mood to “party” and last time we went out to one was a month ago. Before I used to say I will then the day off or the day before last minute (4/5 hours before the party) I tell him I really want to sleep in/sta... | HISTORICAL | {
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8tRhTpNxwWL4TwIHL22vyLXEk50DQlu0 | anzavs | {
"description": "canceling a job interview coz they asked me to wear a suit",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITAH for canceling a job interview coz they asked me to wear a suit? | I was recently interviewing for a new role and after going through the first round of interview I was asked to do onsite interview. I was planning to drive 5 hours for the interview and was preparing myself until the recruiter called me 3 days before the interview day and informed me that wearing a suit is a must, I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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kYLS4ZlRYhRPhBX2JWI1FCZOu6xOkYfj | am70ds | {
"description": "breaking up with my gf because I wanted to sleep with other people",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I broke up with my gf because I wanted to sleep with other people? | It sounds bad and I still feel it is.
I told my gf this and asked if maybe she’d be up to try polygamy and since I know this is a very sensitive and touchy subject I respected her decision and didn’t try to object against her. She first started with maybe, but after some thought she said know
I was very honest and o... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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iuIQf0KDnzmYfft3ZVKNkxf5zPV8LaJI | acyop7 | {
"description": "not picking up an old lady's medication",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not picking up an old lady’s medication | I don’t know if this fits here but hey, fuck it. I remember a couple of weeks ago I went into a store with a friend to purchase pre made sandwiches. It was on a day which gave us a 30min brake so we bounced quickly to this store as they made good sandwiches for the price. I place mine first on a conveyor belt and my fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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yYsuJ2MidLaSljCwGbajZ4uiqbIL1CoA | aknt78 | {
"description": "blocking our tenant from the driveway",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for blocking our tenant from the driveway? | The downstairs tenant has a tendency to leave at really late hours at night. She works from home and doesn't really leave the house during the day. Our driveway fits exactly 3 cars, so hers, my car and my mom's. Our town doesn't allow for overnight street parking and will issue you a ticket for doing so. My mom and I p... | HISTORICAL | {
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VyoaAJbwXoHYJlzvCPUmvgbrXg6vThVw | a1rye5 | null | UPDATE: AITA for giving my sons cat away? | I spoke to my son and we are getting Spacey back tomorrow. He is not far from us and the new owners (family friends) are happy to return Spacey especially as it has not been very long since we re-homed him.
My son is very happy. He is still angry at me and that’s understandable. I can’t believe I did such a thing. It... | HISTORICAL | {
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Q6LbR5omc3dQtAUxjEJCdlGJNMlGXNHd | aszcbh | {
"description": "handing out bean boozle jelly beans at work",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for handing out bean boozle jelly beans at work? | I’m the manager at an office job so all of my employees are pretty well acquainted. We all generally get along and they know that they can come to me with work related issues. I’m an easygoing boss, it’s obvious to them.
For Valentine’s Day, everyone brings in some snacks to kind of celebrate the day. Usually stuff l... | HISTORICAL | {
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dhZCWfFbarNLlMSja54XgvLueh3Y1lAm | b8lvrl | {
"description": "asking my housekeeper to be paid hourly/stay min. amount of time",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA For asking my housekeeper to be paid hourly/stay min. amount of time | I am a FTM to an infant who is kind of high maintenance (minor medical issues). My husband recently started a new high-stress job. Since then, he has been refusing to help with anything around the house. I don't just mean chores. He won't go to the store and buy his own deodorant, he won't clean up when he spills salsa... | HISTORICAL | {
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cNFUiwilH7AKHDaClztS8RTUEi2j1GOV | 9vas8l | {
"description": "shouting at my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for shouting at my girlfriend? | Tl;dr: My SO shouted and hit my phone off my hand, i shouted back at her and now she wants to break up.
Me and my SO (both 19, she is my first / i am her fourth) just finished a half-term test today. While doing the test we and another classmate were confused with a question, my SO chose C while me and the other clas... | HISTORICAL | {
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veJoyltoTaVhMoJuFwwpDaS2G9aaS5Jr | 9x7xsm | {
"description": "being offended and changing Thanksgiving menu bc SO's guest is bringing something juvenile and cheap",
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} | AITA for being offended and changing Thanksgiving menu bc SO's guest is bringing something juvenile and cheap |
I should not be annoyed because I told my SO to invite friends. But hot dog pizza does not go with the traditional and adult Thanksgiving I had planned. We are all late 20s or early 30s. Plus he is bringing his SO, meaning we are now feeding two people and getting a hot dog pizza in return...
So I am making changes ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zn4qnA2TGtQQ4QBZB9JhvnrF8K0TM5N7 | am3yrz | {
"description": "busting my ex-friend for doing illegal drugs and selling them at our school",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA? I busted my ex-friend for doing illegal drugs and selling them at our school | I used to be very close friends with this person and we had lots of good times together, but I cut them off last autumn because they were toxic and manipulative. The "break-up" was messy at the time but we're civil nowadays even though we don't talk.
They have been smoking weed for the better part of a year now and it... | HISTORICAL | {
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rSwyPm8lsHz785KTwIWxu9dTYewjQ6QE | b091ew | {
"description": "not wanting to search a dog that isn't mine? HELP",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to search a dog that isn't mine? HELP | This is kinda long and it isn't my first language so I'm sorry for the mistakes.
Me (F21) and my family live in the same ground* but n separate houses with my aunt and my cousin (M20) we don't get along well because my aunt likes to blame my father for everything since they were kids..., they have to move away because ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NOVnliWs4Qw5k6tp2uBa38IqU3jpWr38 | al5h2n | {
"description": "asking for a break to avoid cheating on my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for asking for a break to avoid cheating on my boyfriend? | Today I(19F) asked for a break from my boyfriend of 6 months because I found a guy at a party attractive and started flirting with him at the party. It didn't go any further, but I realized the next morning that maybe I am not ready for the commitment that comes with being in a relationship and that I missed being sing... | HISTORICAL | {
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zauupwxwUqemH1ggyJvqQSOBBuWXOuKj | a863sb | {
"description": "not giving my little brother my state ID so he can get into bars at college",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not giving my little brother my state ID so he can get into bars at college? | Several years ago when I was in college, my older brother lent me his ID, and I used it sparingly to get into bars occasionally while I was underage. Now, my little brother who is a freshman in college has reminded me of this and is asking for me to do the same. He said he wanted to save $100 on not purchasing a fake I... | HISTORICAL | {
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UbFnjaolLmZr2PJNbq8DLaOMw9dXKhi9 | at52qk | {
"description": "asking exactly what \"rights\" transgenders had lost with this administration",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for asking exactly what "rights" transgenders had lost with this administration | So, my friend (30 years plus) posted a video to her FB page which showed a movie star commenting for about 40 seconds on how this current administration is taking away “transgender” rights. The actress provided no context to her claim. So I commented on the video she posted on her FB page with, “what rights have they l... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
aHh0VtPiKbAJzwjrnoE9VVfab6bqFEKP | ay5rwq | {
"description": "not wanting to be around my sister n laws boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For not wanting to be around my sister n laws boyfriend? | This is more of are we the asshole. Me and my wife have been married for 2 years she has 3 sisters all of which we care about a lot. This is about her older sister Maira (28). Currently in a relationship with a guy named Erik (32). Both work in finance and make good money, while he is a little better off in the money d... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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0Y5gQqGswdh9avWTDrdAf0HQzrUMEchk | ain315 | {
"description": "telling my parents that I want boundaries when it comes to my life and health",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my parents that I want boundaries when it comes to my life and health | So before anything crazy is said I love my parents they have given me a great life.
With that said my parents have zero boundaries when it comes to my life. I'm very socially awkward , anxious and insecure about myself and body due to a girl I really liked and thought we were going somewhere ended up playing me and des... | HISTORICAL | {
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tfNxW2kJ0IA2XliMzAnjNU6bUQ5MKmWM | ayukw7 | {
"description": "telling my parents about my drug addiction",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling my parents about my drug addiction? | Throwaway because some friends know my main account.
​
I'm a 20 years old female university student. Since last year I've gone through some shit with oxycodone and opiates in general, I've literally had highs and lows and now I finally decided to put an end to my addiction. I'm basically clean from opiates... | HISTORICAL | {
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spqpCEXSt87TtylNhrwgtRk1cduhHJ1f | b0kg66 | {
"description": "wearing headphones in the store",
"pronormative_score": 304,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for wearing headphones in the store? | For context, I am a 20 year old female, who has been diagnosed with severe social anxiety and depression, as well as high functioning autism.
I don’t hate people; I’m just horrified of social interaction (most likely because of the above and people were horrible to me as a kid).
For Christmas, I asked for a pair of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PAL5wGm5yyGAjIVbZzBZMY4azbRgUib3 | abd0v7 | {
"description": "no longer wanting to interact with my ex-girlfriend after several incidents",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA if I no longer want to interact with my ex-girlfriend after several incidents? | My ex and I started dating around junior year of high school. Things were going fine in our relationship until we started having cultural differences. Her being white and me being Mexican. My mother was never fond of her but she let it go. During high school we fought quite a bit but loved each other, but the fighting ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rPzOswD1updC7cf9QLNVTmJpuR0iIe0v | a1n11o | {
"description": "deleting an old friend who's ignoring me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for deleting an old friend who's ignoring me? | Firstly, sorry for formatting, am on mobile.
John and I have been friends since freshman year of school, so 10+ years. When we initially met, there was some flirting going on but nothing ever really came of it and we both started dating other people. So, not a big deal.
Once we graduated, we kinda drifted apart as mo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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viv26viBK2UszNEOnKTdWatbh7ZThdFU | b53ybg | {
"description": "expecting more from my LDR boyfriend as I'm recovering from surgery",
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} | AITA for expecting more from my LDR boyfriend as I'm recovering from surgery? | I'm 2 days post having a pretty intense facial surgery, excuse any errors. Had a total nose reconstruction. My bf and I are in a LDR with 16 hours of time difference. He works a very strenous job and values his time off and time with friends. We've been working out the kinks with the time difference, and he has told me... | HISTORICAL | {
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DMpRmseZ29tsFxnRAefbxRlkYJiAtzI7 | b1bds5 | {
"description": "refusing to take photos for my baby nephew even though I said I would",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for refusing to take photos for my baby nephew even though I said I would? | Preface, I am Vietnamese and when the infant is 1 month his/her family will host a small party to celebrate it.
My cousin, who I am really close with, is the mother of my nephew. She asked me a few weeks ago to do a photoshoot session with my nephew ( I just like to take photos and create scenes, I am not that good a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
biluNrpyPVUtqxuNLwDJCAE1AacixYIW | aams73 | {
"description": "making my ex-girlfriend cry",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for making my ex-girlfriend cry? | Sorry for the wall of text, I’m posting on mobile
Back in my first year of high school I talked to this girl for awhile and we ended up in a relationship. We dated for like 2 months and then one day she broke up with me out of the blue.
A few days later she posted a picture of herself cuddling with this other guy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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LFI8fvz8324s8MBqJoustZOeSo6QxXnE | 9wef7o | {
"description": "not standing by my mother during a court hearing because of her behaviour",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not standing by my mother during a court hearing because of her behaviour? | This is gonna be long, so buckle up. Here's the backstory: 3 months ago me and my mother made a 4000 BRL (1000 USD) purchase on a website we trusted, called Kabum. We were used to making purchases there, and were actually frequent customers on their website.
However this changed last august when we made the aforementi... | HISTORICAL | {
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YBuqTQBEn5ZAqTPaQNLfm63ppDNY58au | 9uhst1 | {
"description": "telling my friend's mom that she is the main source of why he cannot have sustainable relationships, and therefore his depression",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling my friend’s mom that she is the main source of why he cannot have sustainable relationships, and therefore his depression? | So a little background here: I was a senior captain on a division I sports team last year. About a month before our championships, one of the freshman stopped showing up to practice. When I confronted him, he told me he had severe depression and was thinking about hurting himself. I stayed with him that night listening... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
WrnSC3taXQnA9zDRaRMqcwAqtjA6V7pr | azt2bg | {
"description": "preferring my dad to die",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for preferring my dad to die | Those words are really hard to say out loud, even though out loud is just on the internet in this instance.
Almost two years ago, on father's day, my sisters and I were unable to get in touch with our dad to wish him a happy father's day. By mid-day we were all pretty concerned because he's never far from his phone. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
L3TimkWObsYWk9Gy8wjJzoi6949gnOIs | a2bo7i | {
"description": "never bringing food to work potlucks",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for never bringing food to work potlucks? | Every time I attend a potluck party or there's a potluck at work, I've always been told my the host(s) that there is no requirement for bringing food. So I don't. I still eat the food provided by everyone, so I still feel guilty about it.
The reason why I never bring anything? I have trouble planning anything in adva... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
VziruR9NCajmhNppbMiSoqsVG7Kb7CWd | ax6d79 | {
"description": "getting more upset at the person actually disturbing me at the movies",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for getting more upset at the person actually disturbing me at the movies? | Cast:
Me, H (my husband), K (kid), OH (old hag)
Had a family movie day my H and our son, to see Spiderman: Into the Spiderverse this past weekend. There was only \~10 people total in the theater, a family at the front, 3 of us on the left middle, K with her friend on the right middle (our row, but we are on either en... | HISTORICAL | {
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"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
XUZQanqPZhp0skjHg7Kg9CzHoNlyuixm | ba1ai6 | {
"description": "sharing a vague, fat shaming post",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for sharing a vague, fat shaming post? | Context: I did not do this. However, my fiancé randomly posted on FB something to the effect of:
*Can we all agree that overweight=plus size and morbidly obese=bus size?*
Cue your he is a good, loving partner/person spiel BUT he has this attitude sometimes where he feels like he has a right to express unpopular opini... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
Xnr9i4WDPHQbrF2HF10IPmQM1dXqUrcO | b1e9dn | {
"description": "not wanting to have anal sex with my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 711,
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} | AITA for not wanting to have anal sex with my boyfriend? | Here's some backstory.
I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year. I'm very 'vanilla' and prudish. My boyfriend is, to be frank, kinky. When we started having sex, he asked if I had anything I would refuse to do during sex. I told him that anal was a huge no go, and thought that was it. I've tried anal once, the guy I was... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 711,
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} | RIGHT |
rZZcEpmnBpNTlef5WWjqVLnlsMjEBttL | ahixdm | {
"description": "not replying to a text when it doesn't seem like a response is necessary",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not replying to a text when it doesn't seem like a response is necessary? | Whether it's with my SO or friends, texts eventually get to the point where I think to myself "Okay, this a good stopping point. I asked them how my day was, and vice versa." If it gets to the point where I feel like my response is going to be a half-assed "Oh, that's cool." Or "Dang, that's shitty." I typically opt no... | HISTORICAL | {
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TyhnWefZFtybpXT5UgfrA9wQdauLLJ1v | 9y36p2 | {
"description": "not being engaging with others",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For not being engaging with others? | This one is fairly simple. I am a (21 M) college student with a part time job. I have many different classmates, but I don’t consider myself to be a very social person and I find those who wish to talk with me to be dull and irritating, so unless it is imperative, I don’t seek socialization or conversation. I do fear t... | HISTORICAL | {
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mfq2MpDRLtvRwUqASgAyHJmd6kGD9F8E | arz15m | {
"description": "expecting more praise from people",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for expecting more praise from people? | I’m 13 so if this sounds childish, you know why
I just wish I could get more out of people
When I get good grades I wish my grandpa would say “good job” instead of “i shouldn’t get my hopes up, it won’t last” or “it better stay that way”
When I show my friends my paintings or ask them to help with something they d... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
lqoS2RUVwZwIGG7F2iPFjr8QH4knlWCD | agmdfe | {
"description": "wishing a classmate fails her year",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for wishing a classmate fails her year? | I've this classmate in every class that just makes me uncomfortable, they talk behind my back (even if I can obliviously hear them) and try to exclude me. They've been away for a while and it was so much better without them. | HISTORICAL | {
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9jd6f3kfzCyWGESB5GZCVBTtkvHIWwfg | 9tih57 | {
"description": "severing ties with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for severing ties with my ex ? | She & I have been together for ten years. We separated two years ago (I left). At first, we kept texting a lot, because it was hard for both of us to end it all of a sudden. But at some point I told her that if we weren't getting back together (she's against it), we should stop it, but she doesn't want either, so s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
s5VLrflQBLW1LyRDRaTeulrXEq3AVSED | b6z7ft | {
"description": "wanting to go out with my friends even though Im a married mom",
"pronormative_score": 62,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to go out with my friends even though Im a married mom? | I (f 34) have been married to hubby (m 38) for 15 years. We have 4 kids, ages 7-17. We used to go out to the bar regularly when we were younger. For the past ten years Hubby has not wanted to go out socially and feels that its not appropriate for a married woman to go out with out her husband. Background- neither of ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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nWZvRZnvXopE0PsAxwYJLQjLLpR1jKcL | a46mpf | {
"description": "putting my former sexual abuser on blast on the internet",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if I put my former sexual abuser on blast on the internet? | Sophomore year (I was 15F and am a senior in HS now) this guy who is a year older than me (16M at the time) repeatedly manipulated me into doing sexual things with him. He’s gotten quite a bit of flack in the past on the internet for doing some other things (harassing girls for nudes (two of them being a year underage ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
ZXCuvJmbCrz6axe2MZePYavlLHgudRf0 | axisww | {
"description": "using content creators for giveaways",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for using content creators for giveaways? | For quite a while, I've searched for giveaways for items I want but can't afford (no luck but what do I lose).
​
Recently, I was looking for giveaways for a certain product and suddenly guilt hit me. I began to thing it's shitty of me to be following/subbing to these content creators for a chance to win th... | HISTORICAL | {
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j8OvIzANayKEZoq6LrcYp4U9O9ybc98C | a6w67i | {
"description": "planning a trip to Japan without my friend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for planning a trip to Japan without my friend? | I told my friend that I want to go to Japan as soon as possible, and she suggested we go together because she's also wanted to go for a long time.
The problem is that I never want to go with her (on any trip FYI). She just kind of invited herself into my plans.
She has difficulty holding down a job, so she barely h... | HISTORICAL | {
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oX4lCgCc1T5U9uEiyfUMsHtT9UuhVtbL | awchfc | {
"description": "reporting obnoxious players with open mics",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for reporting obnoxious players with open mics? | I find it really irritating when people leave their mic open in games. Somehow it’s always someone who thinks their music is good enough to be blared over their Tin can mic or somebody with a crying baby in the background.
Now I never report them without first asking them to turn it off or to use push to talk, and I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
M4772v962pn2hBd2wr0TAYbjMAawPs28 | avkzx2 | {
"description": "locking my girlfriend in a room until she applied for a new job",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 32
} | AITA for locking my girlfriend in a room until she applied for a new job? | My \[24M\] live in girlfriend \[25F\] hates her job in advertising. She often comes home and starts crying because of how abusive they are to her. I've met her boss and he is honestly kind of twisted. He knows that she will get deported if he fires her, so he dangles that her job over her head because he knows it will ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 32,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 32
} | WRONG |
jGSTNX9fzVV7HvbU41bVshxttvVoxQGa | ak5uml | {
"description": "getting mad at my GF not answering how many people she's slept with question? plus some other info",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for getting mad at my GF not answering how many people she's slept with question? Plus some other info.... | This may seem really stupid, but after browsing this sub and reading about the similar situations..
I(28/m) decided to ask my gf (25/f) that very question, right after reading her the previous sub. At first she was like the guys the asshole she was thinking 7 to 10), then she heard the numbers(7 to 50) was like no ok... | HISTORICAL | {
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0aG8youJNByOJ0UJ5OseZ7DCLtZF6qhT | b67tk6 | {
"description": "wanting our roommate to buy us a new mattress",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting our roommate to buy us a new mattress? | My DH and I are allowing his friend to pay rent and stay with us in our guest room until he can move out. All of the furniture in the room, including the mattress, is ours.
Friend is a bit of a slob, and our guest room looks like a hot mess. You can hardly walk in the room. I know everyone's got different standard... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
1AOhSqPl6aQWJfLyZ0CIUV46IiSNt8Ah | ba5wuy | {
"description": "jumping on my trampoline",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for jumping on my trampoline? |
So before I start then
M=Me (I'm 13 and I got autism)
B=Brother (He's 15 and got no sickness or something)
So my brother and I got a trampoline. And I asked him today if he wanted to jump on it and so on. Then I went up, b got a ball, then he came up too. And then he just began laying down and I began asking b if... | HISTORICAL | {
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sQpuPvSFh1B91KKqhsGWeaHrtSKlUEKR | ar2fcl | {
"description": "not keeping a secret",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not keeping a secret? | Hi. This will be a long post so please bear with me.
Last year I completed my one year masters' degree. I came to the uni as a shy, awkward guy. Not having much experience in the realm of romantic relationships, neither was I actively looking for them. I was insecure and still am.
During the first few days of the deg... | HISTORICAL | {
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hHfPBnHS7vxOm6CvLHwAsJ5gmLxSuhWl | 9xp5ln | {
"description": "not giving up treadmill to a girl",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For not giving up treadmill to a girl? | The gym I attend is pretty small and has only 2 treadmills. Usually to use one I have to wait a little bit. To the story:
While running on treadmill for a while some dude (D) approaches me (M):
D: When will you finish using the treadmill?
M: Well, I need 20ish minutes more I think.
D: Are you already running for 35... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
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} | RIGHT |
FPvuyDvKtDknbpoODExZVUq1LbIxygpM | a2gtot | {
"description": "calling a family member out",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for calling a family member out ? | So my family member stole a bunch of napkins from a Starbucks because she didn’t feel like buying any right now (she took about 4 inches of napkins). So I called them out and told them it was trashy. They then proceeded to tell me about how they steal from us everyday and that we shouldn’t put up with big corporations.... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 6,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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IQ3CMdjZScwNmiUotVvVix0hxTideMux | amnfpg | {
"description": "resenting my partner's teenage daughter",
"pronormative_score": 26,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for resenting my partner’s teenage daughter? | My fiancée and I have been together for three years. When we first got together I really made an effort to connect with his then 12 year old daughter. Her mother is a chronic pot smoker who already had grown up children when (let’s call her Poppy) unexpectedly came along. I think out of a “been there done that” sort of... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 26,
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} | RIGHT |
2SIqwrcz6wDNNeq2XvFknFOEy1DDFQ3W | a64k1b | {
"description": "not going to my best friend and housemates hen party",
"pronormative_score": 379,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for not going to my best friend and housemates hen party? | I live with my best friend (let’s call her Stephanie) and her now fiancé (I’ll call him dave) , I pay rent for a room in the house they own together. Both enjoy having me there and in general the arrangement works out well.
They both earn more than 3 x what I do, if this matters.
They got engaged in July and I was as... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 379,
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} | RIGHT |
vmRNYrOdguzT7TCmo2oaYYZH1KXDhRzr | b32h5t | {
"description": "breaking up with him because of his politics",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for breaking up with him because of his politics (or lack thereof?) | I’ve been dating a guy, about 6 weeks. It’s been fun, he’s been thoughtful and accommodating. Yesterday he came over to my place and a couple things I’ve noticed make me want to end things with him - my friend says he was rude to them (and I fully believe my friend), he kept talking over me, explaining things that I al... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
WR3QkBHLpJxvmwi5XVRgZ8FQfJ4VSPiq | b040g0 | {
"description": "not wanting my sibling attending my college",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting my sibling attending my college? | Ok, so this was a few years ago, but my family still often brings it up and treats me poorly over it.
I chose to attend a college a few hours away from my home town, I had never really done anything on my own and NEEDED this opportunity, a year in my older (by 5 years) brother decided to enroll at the community colleg... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
uYKnLcKkxwiDrX8iSp2CAVW2sfSFteQg | ae4mhx | {
"description": "not wanting to discuss my feelings with my husband",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to discuss my feelings with my husband? | TL;DR caring husband likes to talk about shit, I just wanna be left alone, AITA?
My husband(29), is in touch with his feelings, a little on the sensitive side, likes to talk about feelings and things of the sort. Well me(28/F), I don’t, I was raised you squash that mushy stuff down, put a smile on your face and carry... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kt7ptPNc2PHHUEexyUipfkOGPRIKfyZV | avovsy | {
"description": "ignoring MY WIFES calls",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA FOR IGNORING MY WIFES CALLS | So context. Me and my wife have been going through a really rough patch in our marriage. So rough thats shes suggested we seperate. Its also important to mote that at this moment we live in seperate countries. Anyway today she thanked me for being strong and doing what i had to do in order to survive. I was confused be... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
3BrfkAlqOPJ3UQaMg9CQXCcHR27Z371w | adw7vy | {
"description": "being upset at my GF venting to her ex-bf about suicidal thoughts",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being upset at my GF venting to her ex-bf about suicidal thoughts? | Hi all. So this morning I (M21) was talking to my girlfriend (F20) just as I normally do most mornings. She tells me that she was talking to her ex-boyfriend the night before (this doesn’t really bother me because it’s just talk and nothing more, I trust my girlfriend as we’ve been dating for 3-4 months now). Just some... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
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