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I tend to think of a lot of the post here as "you are an asshole, but you aren't *wrong*". People doing somewhat shitty things, but I get where they're coming from. However, that doesn't stop them from being considered an ass. | d6xoro | Heimdall1342 | 1,569,001,586 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Heimdall1342", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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Oh my god, that one got me too. I could completely understand OP and agreed with him! But everyone going “omg everyone has a past, stop being insecure and controlling” was just ridiculous | d6xoro | HelloMolly26 | 1,569,011,605 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HelloMolly26", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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Liars, bored storytellers, people who think the world works in a convenient and simple way only shedding more light on their lie and anything in between.
Seriously so many stories out there are pure bait for classic reddit outrage that'll push all the buttons to get the most attention from all sorts of directions and ... | d6xoro | HereComesBigSlapNuts | 1,569,012,723 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HereComesBigSlapNuts", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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I feel like if you want to get an automatic NTA you can just mention that someone cheated. After you do that anything you do to them is fair play. People forget the point of the sub is to judge events, not people's overall personalities or pasts.
"Someone cheated on my uncle's sister's former roommate. I drained their... | d6xoro | HiHoJufro | 1,569,018,308 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HiHoJufro", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-... | [
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I wonder if a lot of people on this sub are simply trying to live vicariously through others’ drama, wanting others to do things and/or validate others doing things that they themselves would never do. | d6xoro | Hibbity5 | 1,569,010,348 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Hibbity5", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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ESH | d6xoro | HowsYourGirlfriend | 1,569,000,579 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HowsYourGirlfriend", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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Yep - I was reading the one last night about the guy who didn't like that his/her company had opt-out only policy for donating actual *cents* from their paycheck to charity and wanted to go to HR about it. OP even admitted they made good money and that by the end of the year WORST case scenario wouldn't even be $12 don... | d6xoro | IAmError7392 | 1,569,011,596 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "IAmError7392", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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I was just talking to my partner last night about this. I got downvoted on a ESH. I read it to my boyfriend without telling him what my opinion was or what the final verdict was and he said "obviously it's gonna be a YTA". And the overall response was heavily NTA. He was shocked. I won't go into detail but you can chec... | d6xoro | ItsFudgeStripes | 1,569,006,385 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ItsFudgeStripes", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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I agree, that this sub focuses more on excuses as to why a person shouldn't be the asshole for generally shitty behavior and kind of completely ignores social norms. | d6xoro | Jaywearspants | 1,568,998,694 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jaywearspants", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51... | [
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...WTF!, if people said OP in that was not an arse, then I might as well unsub now. | d6xoro | JediSpectre117 | 1,569,006,274 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JediSpectre117", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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I remember the one where a guy told his friend that he'd save his dog from a fire instead of his friends kids. The amount of NTAs and people agreeing blew my mind. How could you save a dog over a child? | d6xoro | Jesuds | 1,569,019,208 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jesuds", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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It's so dumb. I see that constantly; any comment made by OP where the herd has deemed them an asshole will be downvoted to hell.
Perfectly reasonable comments, sometimes even agreeing with the YTA sentence, get trashed, and it feels like an abuse mods should be attempting to correct (like how they had to tell everyon... | d6xoro | Jewronski | 1,569,005,834 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jewronski", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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And even more people were chiming in that obviously she shouldn’t tell him because he might murder her. Even though the OP never even hinted that this was one of her concerns. Unbelievable. | d6xoro | JohnnyFootballStar | 1,569,011,227 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JohnnyFootballStar", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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I was just reading one. Apparently lying to your SO is always gaslighting and emotional abuse. Like, yeah for sure lying is shitty. But someone lying to you because of the innate human desire to deflect guilt is not the same thing as them actively gaslighting you. I swear half this sub doesn’t even know what that word ... | d6xoro | JumpDaddy92 | 1,569,013,296 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JumpDaddy92", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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> Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess.
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I think it's a personality type. I tend to blame myself for unhappiness of people around me, so I usually feel like the villain (not in an edgy, just in a unpleasant-to-have-around way). | d6xoro | JuniorSeniorTrainee | 1,569,017,798 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JuniorSeniorTrainee", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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Don’t forget to say that it’s a MASSIVE RED FLAG that their grandma felt entitled to the cookie. OP should cut out ties with anyone that knows grandma at all | d6xoro | Kobold-Town-Road | 1,569,008,882 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Kobold-Town-Road", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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It's funny when I was talking about a co worker with another one. She vented to her about all the injustices in her life but fail to mention all the things that make her look bad. Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess. | d6xoro | LaFolie | 1,569,014,037 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LaFolie", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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There was a guy who was upset that two girls came and sat on his table at Chipotle. I think he said something to them and they said something back about being able to sit there so he left his trash for them to pick up. Top comment with some weirdness like they were wrong to sit at your table. At Chipotle. During lunch ... | d6xoro | Lallipoplady | 1,569,013,064 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Lallipoplady", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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Its like that post not too long ago where the OP didn't want his girlfriend wearing a shirt that said "I suck cocks for breakfast" to a club and everyone was calling him an AH, cause 'her body her choice'. Like reddit was technically right, but it was a completely reasonable request and the world doesn't operate on tec... | d6xoro | LampIsLoveLampIsLife | 1,569,004,569 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LampIsLoveLampIsLife", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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"My best friend/FWB of five years saw my abortion bill which lied next to the computer he was using to look up restaurants."
"The fact that he is using your computer and not his phone is a HUGE red flag."
Where I realised people here see abuse in literally anything. | d6xoro | LordLimpDicks | 1,569,010,819 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LordLimpDicks", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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I think people sometimes forget that there are different culturs. Both in the world and depending on your line of work. In scandinavia I would not go out for a drink with my coworkers. It is just not social expected nor even acceptable in all lines of works here. | d6xoro | Lortekonto | 1,569,014,562 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Lortekonto", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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"I was walking down the hall of my office and this lady dropped an entire folder full of papers. I stood there sipping my coffee while she stooped to pick them all up. Some co-workers afterwards told me I was an asshole for not helping!"
"You're not obligated to help her pick up her papers at all. The co-workers who t... | d6xoro | LowKey-NoPressure | 1,569,013,033 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LowKey-NoPressure", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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reddit is mostly college-aged students - kids for them are either
* smaller siblings they are annoyed by
* the group of people their family puts them in against their wishes
* the thing that happens when you mess up during sex
There's nothing good about kids at that age. | d6xoro | LvS | 1,569,011,695 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LvS", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_t... | [
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Sometimes mgtow has a plume of misogyny in this sub. They're not the most tactful bunch, so mods typically have grounds to delete their comments. | d6xoro | Man_acquiesced | 1,569,007,162 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Man_acquiesced", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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I hated that post because I know that if I was visiting someone's house and they regularly walked around in their underwear it would make me uncomfortable but the girlfriend was like no it's her house too but it's just common courtesy to not walk around half naked while people your not extremely close with especially i... | d6xoro | Mangobunny98 | 1,569,003,341 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mangobunny98", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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The lack of use of ESH is astounding. Sure someone was definitely in the wrong but you went too far in your response. Two wrongs don't make a right is taught to kids FFS. | d6xoro | McG0788 | 1,569,007,797 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "McG0788", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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most subs about hating a specific group seem so out of touch with reality. part of being a functioning member of society is having tolerance for kids, and loud babies, and tired parents, and fat people, and out of touch old people. having tons and tons to say about those groups is... weird. | d6xoro | MissLouisiana | 1,569,015,361 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MissLouisiana", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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Oh god, that one was horrible. The offhand way people would start their YTA judgements with "yeah I'm sure 6 miscarriages is hard but..." was completely insane. I've seen more compassion for people who lose their phones. | d6xoro | MississippiCat | 1,569,014,716 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MississippiCat", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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This!
Being an asshole is sometimes ok. Not continuously obviously, but its ok to own up to being an asshole! The world is not made of cotton candy and even unicorns are spiky.
Sometimes, if you are given nothing but grief, you can hand some out too. otherwise you become a doormat.
edit: typo | d6xoro | MizkreantIncarnate | 1,569,007,875 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MizkreantIncarnate", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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These are the types of posts that I will use INFO for because I believe that I cannot genuinely make an objective decision when the story is so obviously one-sided. I don’t think people use the INFO tally enough. | d6xoro | Mockingjay_LA | 1,569,060,553 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mockingjay_LA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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Went into a post where the general consensus was a massive NTA, but I disagreed, politely and explained why. Walked away with -98. Good Times, good times. | d6xoro | Mormoran | 1,569,011,207 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mormoran", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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Along the same line, I think people are confusing being "in the right" and being an asshole more than anything.
I routinely read situations here where I think to myself, sure you can technically do/not do that, but your choice to go that route makes you an asshole. | d6xoro | MrCarlosDanger | 1,569,005,804 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MrCarlosDanger", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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I started to realize this right after that post telling OP they're NTA for snatching ice cream away from a child | d6xoro | NA | 1,568,999,995 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Case in point: current front page story about physically taking ice cream from a child (who did nothing wrong) and yelling at him because his parent was being rude. Top 10-15 comments? “NTA, his mom was rude and ice cream is expensive. It’s your money/your house, your rules.”
If I were dating the OP in that story - o... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,000,667 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Totally agree.
I'd add a few to your list. People are going to think you're an asshole if you bring up infertility as a weapon in a fight. People are going to think you're an asshole for disliking your child and their partner and making it obvious. People are going to think you're an asshole if you put someone in d... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,000,876 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Yes there is so much "cut your family off" sentiment here.
I fully acknowledge that many peoples families suck and it can be the right choice... but you see that response even in posts where Op has specified that the relationship is overall a good one.
You didn't throw me the right kind of birthday party!! Like... ... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,001,230 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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THANK YOU! Of course no one owns me, but I care for and respect my boyfriend's opinions, so if he feels uncomfortable with me doing something, I take that into consideration and act accordingly if it's reasonable. And I expect/get the same from him. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,002,223 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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That post blew my fucking mind. I've never met a single person who would actually think that's okay in real life, and yet 80% of the answers were yelling at OP telling him he's TA. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,002,276 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Oh! I have another one: Anything involving pets. If you consider a pet as anything but god damn royalty, place them above your spouse, kids, and career, you’re on the shit-list. Granted, I’ve met a minority of people IRL that fall into this category, and it will change a bit depending on your community, but most people... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,002,356 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Or teenagers that have never interacted with people | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,002,867 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I definitely think that post is an ESH, except the kid who is an innocent bystander. It's a dick move to take ice cream away from a kid who does not understand the situation, but the roommates mom is also an asshole for putting the kid in that position in the first place. The OP should have responded differently, but i... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,002,962 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Also as an adult it's a pretty big deal for someone to take the time and effort to organize something for you. The polite thing is to thank someone if they tried - even if they fucked it up. Once you're into your twenties and thirties the win is having people who care enough to put in the effort. Alienating them by ... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,003,222 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Exactly this - there is a rule against downvoting, but no way to enforce it, of course. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,003,421 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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They're wrong a lot of the time about legality too. The sub loves poisoning thief and boobytrapping stories. There is one right now about a cabby dropping a woman on the side of a deserted road at night. He had a legal duty to leave her somewhere safe. The woman was a racist, so not sympathetic in the slightest. b... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,004,073 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Yeah I’ve noticed people tend to stick to the most literal interpretation of an event. Like, “You got on the train first, you’re not obligated to give up your seat” sure but you’re still an asshole for sitting smug and self satisfied while an elderly man stands on the train, but I hope you enjoyed the validation I gue... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,004,315 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Yes omg I hated that post. I wanted to comment that I think he was an asshole but I knew I would be downvoted to oblivion for even trying. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,004,402 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Right? And everyone was acting like it would be the most inconvenient thing in the world for her to put on a t shirt. Those people are not living in reality. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,004,625 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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There was once a post about a bus rider who called management every time a bus driver drove past their stop without stopping. I got over 200 downvotes for saying “to be fair, bus drivers have a lot to pay attention to and sometimes mistakes happen. But you should still report it.” I was AGREEING that they should report... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,004,626 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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People love those stories because it's a power fantasy. They get to read about how someone stood up for themselves in an over-the-top fashion and unleashed all of the things they'd never have the guts to say. And of course the OP always comes across as an eloquent, ruthless badass because they're the writer, so we don'... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,005,045 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I work in the legal field and like 99% of the time I see "legal information" on this sub, it's totally wrong in the jurisdictions where I've worked. I sometimes dive in and try to correct stuff but there's so much misinformation in these threads that it's kind of scary. I really pity anyone who is foolish enough to tak... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,005,239 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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That’s spot on. They’re echo chambers for ideas that really aren’t common. This sub has gotten hard to tolerate recently because of that | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,099 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Hooooooooly shit that is horrific. Fuck that person. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,157 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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God yes. The big thing I’m sick of is seeing adults try to get one over on kids who are being bratty. It doesn’t make you sound cool, you sound like a complete immature jackass if you’re bragging about one-upping an 8 year old. I work at an elementary school and the kids get on my nerves all the time, but that doesn’t ... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,170 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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RIGHT lmao. I feel like a lot of commenters here have no sense of proportion when it comes to getting back at people. Plus a lot of it is major thathappened bait: “AITA for telling my 350 lb feminist classmate who has green hair and glasses that there are only 2 genders and made her cry and call me a shitlord?” | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,303 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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And the "principle" seemed to be "dude was not super nice, so now I leave it up to spite him!" | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,492 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Like idk how these people function if they think you can go scorched earth on everyone who mildly annoys you. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,654 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Thank you, you get it! Everyone on this sub makes me feel insane for taking my boyfriend's feelings into account. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,685 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Oh boy, yes. I remember having an argument with a kid (on another sub) when he said that he was playing a sport (I think it was soccer, probably casually for gym class/PE, not a competition game), and accidentally kicked the ball and hit a girl in the head. She had a barrette in her hair was cut from it, bleeding and n... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,006,925 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Everyone was convinced it was a deliberate move by the bus company to fuck this one random person over I guess? | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,007,445 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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The "not your job" or "not entitled to" mentality is one of the most toxic traits on this forum. A lot of people here have a completely selfish view of the world and relationships. The idea that you can do something just to be kind or be the bigger person is completely foreign to so many here. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,007,912 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I really think there should be a rule against attempting to give legal advice. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,086 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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It’s basic decency and to respect ppl who live with you! | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,403 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Yes that was my worst one as well. And the one about the dad who basically prioritized his children with another woman and gave them skills to start a business, while his other son was miserable. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,422 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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There’s such a big overlap between this sub and people who comment on those really weird ass subreddits about hating parents, hating children, hating your mother in law, or all those forums about narcissm. Not to stereotype but everytime I’ve seen someone who only post in subreddits designed to complain about people al... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,428 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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To add to this :
This sub very easily jumps to "dump his/her ass!". In reality, ending a romantic relationship is a very complex and difficult thing to do. I find those kinds of responses detached from reality | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,494 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Yeah reddit is so anti children it’s insane. I hate kids and don’t want them but this sub acts like being left with a child for any time at all when you declare yourself childfree is some sort of massive sin | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,616 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Thanks for writing this post. When I read that one about the poor guy whose girlfriends roommate walks around in underwear and a bra and saw everyone saying he's an asshole I almost unsubbed. They're liars if they think anyone would be okay with that. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,702 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Idk I remember seeing a lot of people saying “well that changes it a little bit but it’s still her house so she can do what she wants so find your own place.” | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,812 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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99% of the advice in this sub is to burn all your bridges and walk away with your moral superiority in tact.
It's almost as if it's written by people who are completely isolated and bitter. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,839 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I like the sports subs because you can generally have good conversations with fans of all teams. And some subs do a good job of preventing memes from being constantly recycled. Any discussion based subs make me want to kill my self | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,008,844 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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It's really odd to me how much Reddit hates kids.... Considering we were all kids once upon a time. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,036 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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hoho actually its not 𝓵𝓮𝓰𝓪𝓵𝓵𝔂 wrong | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,293 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Had to be. Her kids were younger than 10 and she's been working there for 10 years which meant they're either adopted or her co-workers had to have noticed she was pregnant a couple of times. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,355 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I agree totally. I work in broadscale social media research (nothing personal, literally post trends on the million plus scale level) and we have to keep an eye on MIL subreddits and whatnot on Reddit because they are so big, so loud, so angry, and so unrepresentative of the rest of the world | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,572 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Haha I never saw this one but I bet it was fake. The character Rosa on Brooklyn 99 is exactly like this, and, you know, on a sitcom it's pretty funny | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,661 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Yeah, I agree with that. I think that shows especially on posts like "AITA, someone did something kind of shitty, so I lost my temper / calmly told them they're ugly and will be single forever / took revenge by doing X" - I'm so tired of those. It's like they're trying to figure out just how petty they can make their r... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,684 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Same here. And this is why I don't post, even though I've been tempted to. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,685 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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There's far too many people that confuse "being able to see something" with "staring at and sexualising"
Like "I don't want to see a child in their underwear" suddenly gets changed to "omg you're sexualising them you pervert" when what they said was literally them being the opposite of being a pervert. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,685 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I love that one. I also love all the ones of adopted children who find out late in life. Then contacts their bio parents, who are cousins of the adoptive parents and who had met their bio child at numerous family functions, only to be sent an email basically saying "fuck off" and then get blocked. And the child asks if... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,964 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I just felt bad for that guy and his son. That whole situation was so sad, and obviously wayyyyyyyyyyy above Reddit’s paygrade. I hope those guys worked something out. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,009,974 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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What's even weirder to think about is that those people are probably so angry now because nobody saw them as humans when they were children. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,010,208 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I love the “It’s not illegal so NTA” | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,010,245 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I remember reading an amazing post there once trying to explain that you don't have to do something that you aren't required to do. If you were legally required to and didn't, that would make you a lawbreaker.
But the question isn't am I a criminal. It's am I an asshole.
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it is kinda funny to think about. before this sub existed most people would probably think that the internet is a great place to circle jerk/judge people.
also the mission statement of this sub also makes all of the commenters assholes by default. in the real world judging people based on limited info and your own bia... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,010,575 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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>Like imagine having a conversation in real life with any other adult about this.
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Because this sub is filled with teenagers. And teenagers see themselves as mature adults, so they genuinely don't get it. While adults see 'wow this adolescent child doesnt know wtf they're doing', the adolescent s... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,010,597 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Half of the comments in this sub feel like they were written by Dwight Schrute. “You are legally permitted to take that action therefore you are not an asshole.” That’s so obviously not the point. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,010,847 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Right. And I mean I get it, I was the same way when I was 14. The stereotypical "my parents dont know shit they're idiots I'm never gonna be like them. I know everything." Then you get older and you're like damn, shouts out to my parents for not letting me do dumb shit and enduring my freak outs about it. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,010,954 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Right? I imagine everyone who reacts that way has very, VERY short-lived relationships. Longterm relationships require patience and compromise on both sides. The whole "It's my way or the highway" sentiment is ridiculous | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,217 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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People want to fit in. And in my opinion the father wasn't even ta. And he got pointless therapy cause reddit told him too. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,261 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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>I legitimately don't understand why stuff like that happens.
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Because the people in this sub are assholes. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,505 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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You just described exactly what’s wrong with this sub.
No one deserves second chances regardless of the circumstances on here. Forgiveness is weakness and jumping ship is *always* the right idea. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,550 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I hope it is okay to ask here in a meta post. How is the brigading going? I've seen that is a major issue in this sub more than most. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,563 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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That’s super disturbing. There’s a lot of venom here and it seems like people are more concerned with punishing OP for “being a bad parent” (making a mistake) and accusing her of trying to blame the neighbour for it- when in actuality OP takes full responsibility but it’s super messed up that the neighbour intentionall... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,641 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Man, I was excited when I found a dealer in my complex; I would be stoked if I literally didn’t have to go out to get my drugs. The only thing that would make it even better is if they shot me up with my marijuanas, that way I could just lay nearly comatose in my bed 24/7.
What an ingrate! | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,696 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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Regardless of what reddit says, there is *never* anything wrong with politely explaining to your SO how their behaviour makes you feel. You shouldn’t even have to ask them to change. Someone who actually cares about you will take your feelings into consideration (obviously as long as it is within reason). | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,011,970 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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I know you’re exaggerating but this could literally be a post on this sub. It’s become absurd. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,012,177 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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And the amount of ppl who decides on whether the OP should break up right away for this dictating behavior! What is it with reddit and deciding to break up ppl’s relationship over silly things! The other day, someone was asking a man to divorce his wife of 30 years because she was toxic for not getting him proper gifts... | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,012,349 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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This is a problem with reddit as a whole - and its why the comment score should show both all upvotes and all downvotes. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,012,459 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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my favorite are the "cut everyone off fuck all of these people" posts at things that are yes, conflict, but not irreconcilable differences or major things lol.
Lots of miserable, angry, socially inept people on this website wanting others to feel the same anger towards any slight from others. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,012,983 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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The high quality of replies to that post quite frankly astounded me after some of the crap I've been reading here recently. And that top post was the best ever. | d6xoro | NA | 1,569,013,094 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_te... | [
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