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2 18 year old ADULTS stealing from a 16 year old CHILD then punishing her for not "sharing" and being treated like garbage... | ocx94s | draksid | 1,625,322,831 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
This is the kind of thing that starts to end a marriage. Op is going to start to see the little things his wife does that bug him are not changeable because her whole side of the family is like this. Some things you can’t unsee bro. | ocx94s | drongo_congo | 1,625,332,919 | 8 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Also sharing makeup is unhygienic. Bacteria city. So they basically ruined Zoe’s makeup, not borrowed. The mom should understand this and want to prevent her daughter from waking up with a face full of cold sores or styes. | ocx94s | drouoa | 1,625,329,934 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
One thing I will say is that if brother in law and his daughters treat everyone that way then I do think we’ve found the reason nobody else wanted to take them in | ocx94s | drwhogirl_97 | 1,625,328,578 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
18?!? Too old to be going into someone’s room uninvited wtf | ocx94s | elzibet | 1,625,331,602 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
It makes me wonder if his wife’s whole family is like this and her “normal meter” is broken. Especially if her brother has done this to her their whole lives. Not an excuse, but maybe an explanation. | ocx94s | enameledkoi | 1,625,325,385 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA.
They are disregarding her boundaries after repeatedly being told what these boundaries are. You have allowed her to enforce these boundaries in the only way that seems to work with them.
As a female myself I know that the make up I use is some of the most expensive due to serious skin issues (allergies and derm... | ocx94s | faeriehasamigraine | 1,625,316,269 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
For sure. I’m 18 and I hardly use makeup - I don’t even own a palette. Even **I** know that mixing shades and shit like that is like, the number one thing not to do lol | ocx94s | failoutboy | 1,625,329,875 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Nta tell everyone that if they keep up with the silent treatment in your own home to yourself and daughter, then they better start packing up their stuff and staying elsewhere. No one treats you and your family poorly under your own roof. | ocx94s | gemma156 | 1,625,318,199 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
u/OnlyInQuebec9 you need to tell your wife this!!! They are bullying her, they were bullying her to begin with and they (and your wife) are now gaslighting her. Your daughter has a right to feel safe in her own home and your wife is contributing to taking that away from her. NTA. | ocx94s | giantbrownguy | 1,625,323,053 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
"my daughters aren't thieves!!!"
"Oh that's so good to hear i was afraid you were going to be an ass about this and not pay for the damages. I have to admit i thought you were going to weasel out of it like some sort of criminal but i guess i was mistaken." | ocx94s | golgon4 | 1,625,333,479 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Yeah the defective comment should have been met with Sammy’s bag being packed for him. For someone to speak that way of OPs daughter while living with OP is grounds for a boot in the ass out the door. | ocx94s | gorramfrakker | 1,625,335,507 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Yep! As someone who had eczema flare-ups on my eyelids, expensive makeup brands were the only ones who didn't give me the same flare-ups. | ocx94s | gottabekittensme | 1,625,333,075 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Your grandfather is genius | ocx94s | hallomakker | 1,625,348,696 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
It's a teenage 'horse's head equivalent' of forcing an issue. | ocx94s | hamishjoy | 1,625,326,013 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
“Your daughters don’t need to be using expensive adult makeup… that they stole, not borrowed. Teach them some manners.” | ocx94s | human8ure | 1,625,320,976 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants. | ocx94s | huskergirl-86 | 1,625,320,641 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA. The cousins aren’t borrowing. They are stealing. Borrowing is when you ask permission for something and then return it in the same condition in which it was given. Saying that your daughter should not be spending so much money on makeup is just a distraction/deflection from the fact that they they took her proper... | ocx94s | ilp456 | 1,625,317,281 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
And there is a 2 year age difference, which at this age, is a huge gap. | ocx94s | impostershop | 1,625,326,480 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
For all of us please don’t back down. The asshole move is redirecting b.s. which is what sammie and his daughters are doing. Even blood sisters beat each other over going through one another’s stuff | ocx94s | jarmstrong2485 | 1,625,321,364 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
At this point I'd be outright telling your BIL and nieces it's time to start respecting YOUR FAMILY in YOUR HOUSE or they have to leave. | ocx94s | jayd189 | 1,625,320,537 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA if they cant respect privacy then a locks the awnser simple as that | ocx94s | jdnddjdhdb | 1,625,317,726 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA - yay for boundaries! | ocx94s | jellyfromtheshop | 1,625,316,414 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Omg, I was looking for this comment. I'd tell them to get out and take OP's wife with them. She's a huge part of the problem. | ocx94s | jinxrn1975 | 1,625,323,922 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
My dude something is really off here between you and your wife. WTF is she doing siding with her brother against her own family? Her daughter is being hurt and she is telling you and her to suck it up? BIL giving his opinion about how things should be done around your household?? No no and hell no. You sir need to pull... | ocx94s | jonpeeji | 1,625,324,791 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Fucking legend | ocx94s | jorydale | 1,625,346,835 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
One could say that by calling them out, he is being a better parent to them than his BIL is. | ocx94s | kol_al | 1,625,322,800 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Have you ever talked to either of your parents about that experience? Do you think his presence was a factor in the disintegration of your parents' marriage? | ocx94s | kol_al | 1,625,323,106 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
THIS! I asked my dad to stick up for me one time at this business that I knew was taking advantage of me (I was young at the time). My dad was to busy to be bothered. And I ended up feeling humiliated and stupid. I’ve never forgotten that. 😞After that I never counted on him for anything and never asked him for help ag... | ocx94s | ksarahsarah27 | 1,625,334,836 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Yeah I would see red with this comment! It's defective to steal- stealing falls under deviance. | ocx94s | lagomorphlover | 1,625,322,737 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
i have a feeling he is going to need to call the police to get them out... | ocx94s | lastdazeofgravity | 1,625,333,019 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
A home without privacy and security is not a home at all. | ocx94s | leo_douche_bags | 1,625,325,119 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Why would he leave? It’s his house. Leaving is just asking for a permanent headache | ocx94s | lepetitoiseau622 | 1,625,340,441 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Throw the ruined palette in the TRASH. The cousins should NOT profit off of their theft! | ocx94s | littlegingerfae | 1,625,327,567 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Well they're twins so I'm pretty sure they're both 18. 😆 | ocx94s | littlegreenapples | 1,625,321,130 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
I figured, it just made me giggle a lot! | ocx94s | littlegreenapples | 1,625,321,775 | 6 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Her cousins are ADULTS. They're 18. They're old enough to know better. There are very real consequences for adults who do shit like this. What are they going to do when they move out into their own apartment with a roommate and the roommate doesn't put up with that sh--? It sounds like you're teaching not one, but ... | ocx94s | lolcakeyy | 1,625,321,360 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
WTF dang these people are entitled AF.
I'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME. | ocx94s | loveisrespectS2 | 1,625,320,392 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
I actually wanted to edit my post to say exactly this re not surprising that BIL is divorced. He's raised and enabled two spoiled brats that's for sure. | ocx94s | loveisrespectS2 | 1,625,322,655 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
>Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there
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This is it. They are extremely disrespectful and hugely entitled to think they can waltz into OP's house ... | ocx94s | loveisrespectS2 | 1,625,323,039 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
You’re deep mate, but you definitely got a chuckle outta me! 👍🏾😬 | ocx94s | madgeystardust | 1,625,329,771 | 6 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
But it’s just Nutella!
So next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it. | ocx94s | madmaxturbator | 1,625,323,994 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
If nobody wants to eat with you and Zooey, maybe you should start eating out without them. But really, it's time to start encouraging your asshole brother in law to make other arrangements. NTA | ocx94s | madpeachiepie | 1,625,320,533 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Hi I'd literally just like to repeat something you wrote as it's so important. Enforcing her personal boundaries gives her nothing to lose except bad relationships. NTA op, you are not just looking after your daughter short term, you are modelling useful behaviour to her later in life. Does your wife want your daughter... | ocx94s | magog12 | 1,625,327,820 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
no fucking way. that's his house, and they are guests. all of them are adults. if they don't like his rules, they can get out. why would you allow someone to drive you out of your own house because of their behavior? | ocx94s | maxwellgriffith | 1,625,339,187 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Wife legitimately sounds delusional for how family relationships should work. | ocx94s | medicatedhippie420 | 1,625,344,162 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA It's not that deep. Every teenager deserves privacy. | ocx94s | mellowgiraffefriend | 1,625,316,482 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Okay, so I see several issues here. And you're NTA in all of them.
* Regarding the lock, you absolutely did the right thing for getting it, and you're doing the right thing in making sure it stays there.
* Regarding the lock part 2 and your nieces now being unable to spend time with your daughter (according to your wi... | ocx94s | melympia | 1,625,322,038 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Tell your wife that teaching and providing boundaries and privacy for your daughter now will give her a healthy baseline for the rest of her life. No joke, this is one of the most important things you will ever teach your daughter.
Instead, Zoey's basically being taught that stealing from her is fine, she doesn't dese... | ocx94s | mer-shark | 1,625,322,534 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
I never experienced eczema, but my son is prone to it (mostly elbows and back of the knees). I winced at ready “eczema flare-ups on my eyelids). | ocx94s | merchillio | 1,625,338,490 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
OP should lend his daughter his wife's makeup, then when your nieces steal it and return it in horrible shape, give it back to your wife with the expectation that using other people's things, and ruining it is perfectly fine. That will open up the discussion as to why is it not ok for her own belongings when it's happe... | ocx94s | meservyjon | 1,625,340,840 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Not even spoiling his daughters. Spoiling means Sammy would buy them shit, it’s probs the opposite he’s instead telling them to take shit that don’t belong to them and that he’s not wanting to buy for them and is blaming the victim instead of buying his daughter their own shit. Free loading would be a better word! | ocx94s | mikailranjit | 1,625,320,463 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Let’s just agree to call Sammy what he is… a waste of oxygen😌 | ocx94s | mikailranjit | 1,625,329,543 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Do you not have ducks down there in Germany? | ocx94s | mmotte89 | 1,625,338,801 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
They are adults and can have adult consequences applied to theft and harassment. | ocx94s | mr_friend_computer | 1,625,335,083 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Rent and house rules. For all of them...I had actually suggested house rules for the girls and rent for the dad but by golly, you are RIGHT. 18 is old enough to get a job.
Each one of them should be paying rent independently. Anyone who can't pay can be evicted. | ocx94s | mr_friend_computer | 1,625,335,796 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Exactly! Styes, pink eye and many more things are transferred between users of make up, also hair brushes with lice and such. It is not healthy. This is important and I agree that you should mention to your wife that her behavior is questionable not being on your daughters side.
I would just have a talk with BIL a... | ocx94s | neverclearone | 1,625,325,212 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
My family is made up of codependents and enablers and I do alright with myself until they are around but when I am around them having boundaries is out the door. They do not respect them or acknowledge them and they will bully me until I give them up. It could be 100% her family triggering this response in the wife. I ... | ocx94s | nicannkay | 1,625,326,743 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA and thank you for actually listening to your daughter instead of letting other family member's judgement and sense of entitlement get over basic rights of your daughter. Your brother in law and his daughters are taking your hospitality for granted and need to realise they are temporary guests in your house, and the... | ocx94s | nostalgicmelody | 1,625,318,879 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Honestly, you should say this because in reality you have a wife problem and her actions nows can have long tearm impact on her relationship with Zoe. You guys aren't providing a united front on house rules. Your wife js dismissive of your daughters items and privacy in a way she wouldn't be with her own. She's the one... | ocx94s | otterknowbeter | 1,625,320,951 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA
Nieces, BIL, and also, sadly, the wife of OP, are the AHs.
This particularly sticks in my craw:
''my wife shamed me....saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters..."
Why?
They are not his daughters. I think people often go wrong by starting with a proposition that isn't true, but, supposedly, under som... | ocx94s | philadelphialawyer87 | 1,625,320,257 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
100%
Using another person's things without permission is not borrowing - it's stealing.
OP, NTA. I'd be furious. | ocx94s | pipestream | 1,625,329,137 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
This is fantastic advice. | ocx94s | quippers | 1,625,321,657 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Seriously, every last one of them but OP and Zoey have a level of entitlement I literally can’t even comprehend.
The most bizarre part for me is how they all seem to not know about this little thing called *KNOCKING ON DOORS*?!?!? As if having a lock means someone outside the room, like, has NO WAY to communicate tha... | ocx94s | ranchojasper | 1,625,329,334 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Right? I seriously question why a person would side with their brother & his kids over their own child and husband. Something more is likely going on here for the wife to have more allegiance with her nieces than her own kid. | ocx94s | rhet17 | 1,625,325,233 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.
They need to start behaving like appreciative guests. | ocx94s | riblz11 | 1,625,316,287 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
May I suggest r/raisedbynarcissists | ocx94s | ridandelous | 1,625,336,239 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
This sounds familiar; my mom's friend got divorced bc her hubby was sleeping around and she got the house and custody of the kids. Well. Eventually, with weekends at dad's, they realized they could get away with a lot of bullshit. They eventually, one at a time, decided they wanted to run away to daddy's. Well, kids go... | ocx94s | ridandelous | 1,625,337,457 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA. You are standing up for y9our daughter, if you BIL thinks that these kids should get cheap makeup then he can buy cheap make up for his kids at Walmart and not rely on them continuing to steal your daughter's. Hell, if they're 18 then they can get their own jobs and buy their own shit. What they are doing isn't sh... | ocx94s | rmric0 | 1,625,317,777 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Work it out yourselves? Do they expect you to put a bucket of water over the door home-alone style? | ocx94s | robot65536 | 1,625,334,495 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
> Do yourself and your family a favour and give a timeline that they have to move out by or you will be taken advantage of and it might ruin your marriage.
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I wholeheartedly agree, I mean this incident alone has already started a rift between then, especially with this whole "silent treatment" busin... | ocx94s | roll20sucks | 1,625,335,430 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA. I grew up in a household where my sister stole constantly from my room and tbh, it might seem minor, but it (among other things) has affected me in life. I wish I had a father who was proactive enough to do this to stop the behavior. Firmly with you on the lock stays until they go. Your daughter will appreciate wh... | ocx94s | roxxxyramjet | 1,625,318,328 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Not disgusting. Just delicious and awesome | ocx94s | rudbek-of-rudbek | 1,625,338,891 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
The wife should be less concerned about her brother and parents hating her and work on making sure her own daughter doesn’t grow to hate her. | ocx94s | saltyswamphag | 1,625,329,151 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Something tells me you're not close with your mom. | ocx94s | saralt | 1,625,327,430 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
It sounds like the Pro Palette Paintstick to me, which is a palette of creams that you could completely fuck up. :( | ocx94s | scarlettsarcasm | 1,625,330,714 | 6 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
>...the daughters chose dad because he gives them everything they want...
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And very likely the same reason brother chose sister to move in with. | ocx94s | shingdao | 1,625,341,263 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
she'll remember which parent took her seriously and protected her during the divorce too. | ocx94s | sixtytwosixtyseven | 1,625,323,817 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
By the sounds of it, it's about the only positive thing going on. Poor girl probably feels like an alien in her own house. | ocx94s | space_keeper | 1,625,330,464 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
That must have been awful.
I'm not a girl, but I hated strangers (if you know what I mean, people who aren't your immediate family) being around for more than a few days. It stressed me out. | ocx94s | space_keeper | 1,625,331,572 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Frankly if my wife did this I’d leave her. I’d hope she would do the same to me. I can’t imagine siding against my child and spouse when someone is literally stealing from the child. And then to choose the silent treatment as punishment? I would not accept that. The wife here sounds terrible. | ocx94s | spaceplantboi | 1,625,336,123 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Until she sticks up for her daughter it seems like the wife has basically destroyed her relationship with the daughter at this point. If I were her I would be moving out as soon as possible and then only having contact with my dad as it seems like my mum has chosen thieves over her own child. | ocx94s | sparrows-somewhere | 1,625,331,636 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Plus, I find the formula is never quite the same after it. Cheapo makeup, whatever. But when I’m buying expensive makeup *because* of their very specific formulas, warping it with alcohol means it’s essentially a junk palette now. | ocx94s | terraformthesoul | 1,625,333,907 | 8 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
I was a grown woman when I cried over my makeup palette being ruined by my toddler. Zoey showed restraint IMO. | ocx94s | theSandwichSister | 1,625,338,983 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
THIS—the lock gives her a way to enforce her boundaries! | ocx94s | threecolorable | 1,625,330,798 | 6 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
I completely glossed over that fact!!! I can’t even ignore my dog for an hour; how can she ignore her hurt daughter? | ocx94s | tilliusthepaladin | 1,625,327,174 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA part of raising a socially well-adjusted daughter is teaching her she has autonomy, and the right to say no to anything. A lock is just a physical manifestation of a default “no” | ocx94s | timotheusd313 | 1,625,328,413 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA...I feel bad for your daughter. BIL and nieces have no respect for you, your daughter or your property. Shows lack of parenting if they don't understand boundaries of other people's property. Unfortunately at 18, they'll never get it. As a woman, your wife should understand the need for privacy. He should be fin... | ocx94s | tiredlittlepigeon | 1,625,318,776 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Yea it has been nearly a year and no info on when they are getting out. This needs to be priority for the sanity of the household. | ocx94s | trekqueen | 1,625,326,642 | 2 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Absolutely NTA and to tag on this to make sure you see it. Tell your wife and nieces that sharing make-up is unhealthy. It can give rashes, develope exhema, if they swap eyemake-up as well it can cause pink-eye and other nasty infections. So it's also a healthrisk to share make-up as well as the plain rudeness of takin... | ocx94s | vimse85 | 1,625,320,632 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
16 is still young and is a minor who's likely to be at home for another 2-3 years depending on when how old they are during senior year.
18 can move out and start being completely independent. I think it's telling that two 18 year olds moved with their dad instead of staying with mom where they grew up.
Do the 3 of... | ocx94s | walkonbi0207 | 1,625,321,374 | 3 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Sammy and his kids are lucky the new lock he bought wasn’t for the front door. It is time for the three of them to find a new place to live. | ocx94s | whiskeysour123 | 1,625,333,201 | 5 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
And if OP's wife pitches a fit, she can go with them. | ocx94s | woodwitchofthewest | 1,625,331,807 | 6 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
You can borrow some of my middle fingers, if you need them. Because fuck that noise, good for you. | ocx94s | wytherlanejazz | 1,625,348,772 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Nope, I definitely feel you're more or less in the right here. Borrowing stuff without permission is not borrowing. Especially when the opposite party has expressed that they don't not want to lend something out. Plus people deserve their privacy, it doesn't matter if their a boy or girl. | ocx94s | xDeadEyezx | 1,625,316,533 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
I’m fucking DYING. My wife is pissed that I wouldn’t stop laughing for five minutes.
This prank will be paying dividends for decades. | ocx94s | xX_WarHeart_Xx | 1,625,348,228 | 7 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA - But you should keep the lock on her door after they leave anyway! Teenagers deserve the right to privacy and security and it sounds like your wife doesn't fully understand that. As long as Zoey is responsible with how she keeps her electronics tidy (fire hazard), doesn't do drugs, and doesn't have any dangerous m... | ocx94s | yaypal | 1,625,319,315 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
NTA
Your nieces are entitled and abusing the fact their father and your wife give them so much leeway. Growing up, I hated when my cousins came over because always made a mess that me and my sister had to clean up because our mom yelled at us, even when we didn't let them nor caused the mess.
Keep the lock up and st... | ocx94s | zane910 | 1,625,317,315 | 1 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
Exactly this! OP’s BIL and nieces are entitled AHoles. Instead of being grateful that someone has been kind enough to give them shelter they are abusing the generosity. Disgusting. | ocx94s | zapharus | 1,625,345,574 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
His kids are stealing and ruining other people's property. | ocx94s | zeenzee | 1,625,332,130 | 4 | Preview mode - no LLM call made | [{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a co... | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... |
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