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Before we were officially exclusive, but AFTER we'd had a couple of "magical" dates, my [M29] current girlfriend [F24] of 3.5 months slept with a friend of hers, and separately had an MFM threesome. How should I feel? | My girlfriend Alice and I had a whirlwind romance and immediately fell for one another. Honestly, it was such a breath of fresh air, I have been dating a "certain type" of girl for so long and she was so different and friendly - to meet someone I had such an instant connection with who also had all my hobbies and gave ... | relationships | null | 155 | 242 | 0.69 | 1,725,655,557 | 1fapk6h | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1fapk6h/before_we_were_officially_exclusive_but_after_wed/ | drama | 38 | 1 | 1 | 348.95 | 20 | 903 | 1,523 |
AITA for telling my daughter [26F] that I [55M] will not walk down the aisle with her stepdad [50M]. | My wife and I divorced when my daughter was 6 years old, and my wife had custody of my daughter for the most part since I was too busy working 50 hours a week, she quickly moved on to be with another man 7 years younger than her. I knew from many stories I've heard that my daughter would probably end up being closer to... | AmItheAsshole | Asshole | 24,499 | 2,286 | 0.77 | 1,568,616,744 | d4x0zs | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d4x0zs/aita_for_telling_my_daughter_26f_that_i_55m_will/ | drama | 19 | 0 | 1 | 21,150.23 | 6 | 409 | 6,306 |
My bf hates his life because we don’t live in NYC and I can’t stand it | Around 6 months ago, I (26F) moved to SF to be with my boyfriend (26M) . We had been long distance from norcal to socal for 2ish years. I quit my job, left my community, and moved in with him. I went full time with my small business. It’s worked out, but I miss my old job and have been interviewing to return to office ... | relationships | null | 805 | 177 | 0.93 | 1,733,958,514 | 1hc6wej | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1hc6wej/my_bf_hates_his_life_because_we_dont_live_in_nyc/ | drama | 16 | 0 | 1 | 925.65 | 23 | 366 | 1,110 |
TIFU by wearing new shoes to a wedding and becoming an accidental sideshow | I went to a wedding 2 weeks ago, not super formal, but fancy enough that I wanted to wear something decent. I had just bought new dress shoes a few weeks ago (finally grabbed a nice pair since I’d I'd won a jackpot on Stake slots and figured, why not treat myself a bit).
What I didn’t do was break them in. Rookie ... | tifu | S | 1,787 | 57 | 0.97 | 1,746,483,581 | 1kfoq4c | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1kfoq4c/tifu_by_wearing_new_shoes_to_a_wedding_and/ | story | 13 | 0 | 1 | 1,790.39 | 22 | 249 | 10,721 |
My (28, F) best friend (29, M) is barely talking to me after we shared an intimate moment. | Using a throwaway because he follows my actual account
I've known my friend since middle school. We were neighbors and went to the same schools , and we've always been super close. Until very recently, there were absolutely no romantic feelings or attraction between us. He's always just been my friend.
A few months ... | relationships | null | 231 | 242 | 0.84 | 1,732,278,584 | 1gx6pi4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1gx6pi4/my_28_f_best_friend_29_m_is_barely_talking_to_me/ | drama | 18 | 0 | 1 | 436.04 | 12 | 552 | 1,406 |
Jealousy | My stepdaughter is 17. She originally wanted to get our 4Runner when she got her license last year. That isn’t going to happen because it’s mine and I haven’t said she can have it. Now her boyfriend is looking to buy her a Charger after her bio mom gave her a truck. I realized at dinner tonight that I’m jealous.
All ... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 1 | 5 | 0.6 | 1,747,178,167 | 1km0gid | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1km0gid/jealousy/ | drama | 1 | 0 | 1 | 5.6 | 23 | 133 | 7,600 |
TIFU Update: I fucked up by not knowing the guy I like works on the same floor as me and telling my friend loudly that, "he could fuck me in the ass." | Link to OG post! https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/acyy54/tifu_by_not_knowing_that_the_guy_i_like_works_on/
Two months ago, I fucked up. I was infatuated with this super cute guy who came in and guest lectured for one of my classes. I ended up realizing, not in a way that I wanted to at all, that he actually work... | tifu | M | 67,178 | 2,312 | 0.88 | 1,553,923,021 | b77hvn | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/b77hvn/tifu_update_i_fucked_up_by_not_knowing_the_guy_i/ | story | 32 | 0 | 1 | 61,428.64 | 5 | 587 | 12,117 |
AITA for taking my clothes off at the Cheesecake Factory? | So me [23F] and my bf [24M] were celebrating our 1 year anniversary and went out to dinner to celebrate. My bf planned it as he knows how much I love the Cheesecake Factory. I REALLY love their cheesecake (this becomes important later)
Well everything was going fine and we were having a good time until an elderly man... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole POO Mode | 12,232 | 3,321 | 0.9 | 1,724,266,057 | 1exxlkv | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1exxlkv/aita_for_taking_my_clothes_off_at_the_cheesecake/ | drama | 10 | 1 | 1 | 14,329.8 | 18 | 411 | 4,739 |
The Quiet Heaven Inside Me | Whenever life becomes too heavy to carry , when the ache in my chest feels too deep for words, when tears press against my eyes and the world feels cold & loud , when my heart feels heavy with unspoken sorrow, when the noise outside drowns the quiet inside , I close my eyes and return to the place my soul calls home. A... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 1 | 0 | 0.66 | 1,747,632,459 | 1kq3zja | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kq3zja/the_quiet_heaven_inside_me/ | story | 5 | 0 | 1 | 0.66 | 5 | 749 | 6,705 |
My boyfriend smashed our television set in anger when his football team lost | I (29F) have honestly never been so scared in my life. My sister is letting me stay with her. Only her and my brother-in-law know what happened. I have never seen anyone so furious over something so small.
I'm going to end our relationship because I can't stay with someone (30M) who destroys things over a loss. Especi... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 11,772 | 951 | 0.97 | 1,663,558,071 | xi0lot | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/xi0lot/my_boyfriend_smashed_our_television_set_in_anger/ | drama | 13 | 0 | 1 | 12,369.84 | 3 | 126 | 10,476 |
Tonight I saw the negative effects of porn firsthand with my girlfriend. | I (26m) started dating this girl (25f) recently. She spent her entire life in a religious bubble and was bullied by her family into believing it up until two years ago when she got the courage to break them off. I’m her first ever boyfriend and she said she was a virgin, and tonight we decided to be intimate.
I brough... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 18,358 | 873 | 0.93 | 1,728,615,834 | 1g10aw1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1g10aw1/tonight_i_saw_the_negative_effects_of_porn/ | story | 12 | 0 | 1 | 17,945.94 | 3 | 512 | 8,626 |
The things that I need to let out | I have never made a post on here but I need to get some things off my chest…
I (25f) have been with my boyfriend (25m) for almost 8 years now. Back when we first moved in together, we were both 18. At the time, we both lived very wild lives together and did things that I regret to this day.
We would have sex and do ... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 3 | 0 | 1 | 1,747,169,097 | 1klww9e | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1klww9e/the_things_that_i_need_to_let_out/ | drama | 8 | 0 | 1 | 3 | 20 | 1,549 | 7,233 |
My [25 M] boyfriend’s [26 M] anxiety comes out severely during intimacy. | Charlie and I have been together about five months now, and things really are pretty good. No major fights despite the occasional disagreement, and I’m genuinely happy being with him.
That said, his anxiety has started coming out really horribly during intimacy, and I’m not really sure what to do about it.
He has a ... | relationships | Relationships | 2,575 | 150 | 0.96 | 1,549,037,739 | am3mwy | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/am3mwy/my_25_m_boyfriends_26_m_anxiety_comes_out/ | advice | 12 | 0 | 1 | 2,622 | 16 | 291 | 2,559 |
Got schooled by a doctor because of my insecurities lol | Sharing this story because it might help a lot of us that’s battling similar insecurities.
I (27F) have always felt insecure about my lower face, especially my side profile, avoiding photos or even glances at it.
I finally decided to consult an oral/maxillofacial surgeon to satisfy my curiosity and also to check if ... | TrueOffMyChest | Positive | 1,849 | 55 | 0.98 | 1,716,982,329 | 1d39ynw | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1d39ynw/got_schooled_by_a_doctor_because_of_my/ | story | 10 | 0 | 1 | 1,867.02 | 11 | 663 | 9,366 |
TIFU by holding my breath and passing out during a lecture. | This happened earlier today. So I was in class listening to a lecture and it dawned on me that I couldn't care less about what my professor was talking about. So I decided to start holding my breath. Now, this is something I normally do if I get really bored. I'll hold my breath for as long as I can and then I'll rest ... | tifu | S | 33,903 | 1,877 | 0.88 | 1,488,401,628 | 5wynp1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/5wynp1/tifu_by_holding_my_breath_and_passing_out_during/ | story | 11 | 0 | 1 | 31,711.64 | 20 | 345 | 12,613 |
I [18] am thinking about breaking up with my partner [19] of 2.5 years | (WARNING! LONG POST!)
So, I've been in a relationship with my partner for 2.5 years now, and I just don't feel as interested anymore. They haven't done anything crazy that makes me want to break up immediately, but just a lot of little things have added up. A lot of their habits that used to be cute just annoy me now.... | relationships | null | 2 | 1 | 1 | 1,746,661,270 | 1khc36g | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1khc36g/i_18_am_thinking_about_breaking_up_with_my/ | advice | 14 | 0 | 1 | 3 | 23 | 1,239 | 633 |
AITA for telling my husband he is either married to me or his co-worker? | My (37f) husband (40m) has been working at his company for 10 years as a maintenance supervisor. About a year ago they hired Tabitha\* to work in their accounting department. Since the day she first started working there, she has had an infatuation with my husband that is now becoming unprofessional and inappropriate.
... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 25,405 | 2,169 | 0.96 | 1,604,003,507 | jki2fy | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/jki2fy/aita_for_telling_my_husband_he_is_either_married/ | drama | 14 | 1 | 1 | 26,557.8 | 20 | 561 | 6,206 |
I absolutely hate what this quarantine is bringing out in people I know. | Guys, this quarantine isn't an excuse to become the thirstiest bitch you can possibly be. Jesus. I never thought being inside for a couple weeks would result in male friends of mine resorting to creepy and desperate attempts to get laid.
"Hit me up on Insta, maybe we can meet up and potentially make sweet love togeth... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 22,485 | 1,460 | 0.82 | 1,586,189,977 | fw1msm | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/fw1msm/i_absolutely_hate_what_this_quarantine_is/ | rant | 13 | 0 | 1 | 19,897.7 | 16 | 307 | 9,820 |
My best friend (20M) asked me (20M) out. I said yes. I didn't know it was a date. | I'm an idiot. I'll try to keep this short. Also, I was a bit drunk when this happened.
Noah and I have been best friends since 2nd grade. We live together with one other friend near the college we go to together. He came out to me when we were in high school. It didn't change anything. When we got to college, I came o... | relationships | Personal issues | 4,788 | 205 | 0.97 | 1,536,324,713 | 9du198 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/9du198/my_best_friend_20m_asked_me_20m_out_i_said_yes_i/ | drama | 18 | 0 | 1 | 4,849.36 | 12 | 812 | 2,168 |
TIFU by almost allowing net neutrality to dissapear. | Our friends fighting for net neutrality contacted us to ask if we would once more make a stickied post about this topic. Since net neutrality is important for everyone who wants to keep enjoying a free internet - a group to which most redditors belong - the mod team has decided to allow it:
--------------------------... | tifu | S | 70,523 | 2,977 | 0.87 | 1,508,355,387 | 7791dt | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/7791dt/tifu_by_almost_allowing_net_neutrality_to/ | informative | 8 | 0 | 1 | 64,332.01 | 19 | 229 | 12,112 |
To you, who I wish you well | Thanks for reaching out.
Honestly, I still don’t know how to feel. I felt so easily discarded - and that feeling still lingers. I’m left not really knowing what to make of it all.
I own my flaws, my mistakes, and the harm I caused. I did good, but I also did wrong. For that, I take full accountability - with responsi... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 2 | 0 | 0.75 | 1,747,271,670 | 1kmvvsw | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kmvvsw/to_you_who_i_wish_you_well/ | drama | 7 | 0 | 1 | 1.5 | 1 | 1,050 | 7,318 |
My girlfriend has been tracking and questioning me about women I follow on Instagram | I (25M) and my girlfriend (24F) have been dating for 2 years and have had some issues lately, and I’m looking for some outside perspective.
A few nights ago, we went on a date and had a great time. The next day, I got a text from her asking who a particular girl was. She only gave me a first name, so I asked for the l... | relationships | null | 20 | 38 | 0.72 | 1,747,187,148 | 1km3i02 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1km3i02/my_girlfriend_has_been_tracking_and_questioning/ | advice | 14 | 0 | 1 | 52.4 | 1 | 331 | 131 |
AITA for fighting with my mom | I (18F) and my mom (42F) have never had a good relationship. Some days are okay, but most are filled with conflict. I lost my dad in 2016 when I was 9, and since then, she’s been my only parent. I was closest to my dad. After his death, she became completely focused on my younger brother (then 2), leaving me to handle ... | AmItheAsshole | null | 1 | 9 | 0.56 | 1,747,658,324 | 1kqamx1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1kqamx1/aita_for_fighting_with_my_mom/ | drama | 6 | 0 | 1 | 9.56 | 12 | 384 | 3,418 |
AITA For Shouting In A Passengers Face On A Train | For context, I (M32) was on a date yesterday and we spent a good four and half hours together going for a walk, coffee and food.
Now that involved me taking a train for 20 minutes to get to the next town over, after the date was finished we walked to the train station and waved at each other as the train left, both of... | AmItheAsshole | Asshole | 0 | 50 | 0.35 | 1,747,420,740 | 1ko8e7s | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ko8e7s/aita_for_shouting_in_a_passengers_face_on_a_train/ | drama | 10 | 0 | 1 | 50 | 18 | 349 | 3,578 |
Sex with an older woman makes me realize that i'm wasting my life | An year back in 2024 , I 'M 26' matched with a woman in her 40s on Tinder in Delhi and she was openly intersted in hooking up. In the next month I visited her place 4 times, it was all fun, a nwe experience...but coming back from her place and travelling back in metro..made me realize what a hollow act this is. There i... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 218 | 29 | 0.79 | 1,746,022,840 | 1kbhpra | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kbhpra/sex_with_an_older_woman_makes_me_realize_that_im/ | confession | 13 | 0 | 1 | 201.22 | 14 | 207 | 7,944 |
Guys-you need to understand | Women. They bleed.
Yes, even if I’m wearing a tampon and a pad, I still might leak. Accidents happen. It doesn’t mean I’m careless. It doesn’t mean I didn’t wear a tampon that day. It doesn’t mean it’s not important to me to not bleed on my pants, etc.
Sometimes you are barely bleeding and don’t think anything is r... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 13,184 | 1,488 | 0.87 | 1,619,820,706 | n24qov | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/n24qov/guysyou_need_to_understand/ | rant | 4 | 0 | 1 | 12,958.08 | 22 | 96 | 10,278 |
My mother in law (65F) hurt me (25M) and I don’t know how to resolve the conflict | This is a long post, sorry. I really hope for advice and felt it was necessary for you to have all the information. In the following I want to bring you closer to: The events that led to me being hurt; the background and why this might have happened; how I feel about it; how to proceed.
THE EVENTS
My mother in law wa... | relationships | null | 1 | 15 | 0.6 | 1,745,514,214 | 1k6xg95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1k6xg95/my_mother_in_law_65f_hurt_me_25m_and_i_dont_know/ | drama | 17 | 0 | 1 | 15.6 | 17 | 1,473 | 774 |
TIFU by lying that I made $1.6M and have $250k coming in | To give you a bit of context. I 29M and my girlfriend 32F have been together since June of last year. Throughout this time, I’ve learned what it means to be in a more serious relationship and also learned how to live with a girlfriend since it was something that I’ve never done (we moved in together in December 2024)
... | tifu | S | 0 | 51 | 0.2 | 1,745,500,713 | 1k6rzwn | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1k6rzwn/tifu_by_lying_that_i_made_16m_and_have_250k/ | drama | 12 | 0 | 1 | 51 | 13 | 334 | 11,065 |
TIFU by yelling at my cat | I have a senior cat who physically does NOT act like a senior cat. She plays like a kitten and requires lots of stimulation. However, she is not that smart. For the past few days I haven't been feeling great so I haven't been playing with her as much as normal. It has also been really hot in my place. I always open my ... | tifu | M | 297 | 55 | 0.92 | 1,719,670,525 | 1drc5fe | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1drc5fe/tifu_by_yelling_at_my_cat/ | story | 6 | 0 | 1 | 328.24 | 14 | 601 | 11,819 |
Sister [33F] cheated on bf [32M] | Throwaway account for reasons.
So, a couple days ago, I found out my sister was cheating on her boyfriend of several years for at least the last couple months. He had caught her kissing some other guy sometime in August, she promised it would never happen again, but apparently, just continued talking to the guy. From ... | relationships | null | 120 | 42 | 0.92 | 1,728,872,442 | 1g35x89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1g35x89/sister_33f_cheated_on_bf_32m/ | drama | 6 | 0 | 1 | 152.4 | 2 | 486 | 1,631 |
My dad (74) trashed my apartment. I want to kick him out, but my wife says she thinks it's "not the right thing to do". | Recently my wife and I went on a vacation for two weeks. We're lucky that in our country, COVID has been kept at bay, so travelling within the country is pretty easy.
My dad lives in our apartment. He doesn't pay rent. While we were away, he continued living there. Upon our return, the place had pretty much been tras... | relationships | Non-Romantic | 3,406 | 407 | 0.98 | 1,609,263,345 | kmiu1k | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/kmiu1k/my_dad_74_trashed_my_apartment_i_want_to_kick_him/ | drama | 25 | 0 | 1 | 3,744.88 | 17 | 384 | 2,333 |
AITA for asking my boyfriend not to use the word bitch around me? | My bf and I recently got into a fight because I asked him to try to refrain from using the word bitch around me. I myself almost never use it, and even then it’s typically in conversation with other women, and in a context where it’s clear that I’m using the word carefully. I explained to him that I think “bitch” has ... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 24 | 119 | 0.59 | 1,746,378,887 | 1keozeq | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1keozeq/aita_for_asking_my_boyfriend_not_to_use_the_word/ | drama | 13 | 1 | 1 | 133.16 | 17 | 247 | 4,504 |
Married friend (26F) can’t stop talking about my (27F) ex boyfriend | Update: thank you all so much such amazing support and helping me see through things! I sent her a message saying how uncomfortable last night was for me, that it was not right to rub her friendship with him on my face and how it felt like she valued her relationship with my ex more than our friendship. I told her I ca... | relationships | Non-Romantic | 2,620 | 192 | 0.98 | 1,613,729,647 | lnciku | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/lnciku/married_friend_26f_cant_stop_talking_about_my_27f/ | drama | 11 | 0 | 1 | 2,759.6 | 10 | 442 | 2,540 |
Looking for advice on what I should do? Is my marriage over? | TLDR; I don't know if my wife loves me anymore!
One thing i'll caveat here for her sake is that there is always 2 sides to any story, and i'm not perfect, but this is my side.
I've (36M) been with my wife (36F) for 11 years, Married for nearly 5 years and have 2 beautiful kids (4 and 2). We both have decent jobs and ... | relationships | null | 11 | 25 | 0.8 | 1,746,563,919 | 1kgf2ye | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1kgf2ye/looking_for_advice_on_what_i_should_do_is_my/ | advice | 12 | 1 | 1 | 33.8 | 20 | 362 | 469 |
AITA for being honest with my boss, even if it hurt my coworker’s situation? | I (26F) work at a pharmaceutical company. My coworker (29F) has bad knees, and the pain affects her most days. Because of this, I’ve taken on most of the physical aspects of our job while she handles the reports. I’ve even covered her workload so she could take days off, and on other days, I do all the physical tasks s... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 2,038 | 136 | 0.97 | 1,745,487,444 | 1k6o3zb | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1k6o3zb/aita_for_being_honest_with_my_boss_even_if_it/ | drama | 14 | 1 | 1 | 2,112.86 | 9 | 342 | 3,753 |
AITA for refusing to plan my son/DIL wedding because my future DIL is always late | I am just retired and I was a wedding planner. My son and my future DIL asked me if I would plan their wedding since I have the experience. I did plan my daughter’s wedding.
I told them no and when asked why I told both of them that it is due to my future DIL lateness habit. She claims it is a cultural difference and... | AmItheAsshole | null | 6,358 | 1,467 | 0.97 | 1,729,523,629 | 1g8s2xe | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1g8s2xe/aita_for_refusing_to_plan_my_sondil_wedding/ | drama | 15 | 0 | 1 | 7,634.26 | 15 | 270 | 5,212 |
TIFU by Trying to Secretly Return Money to a Grieving Veteran | A few months ago, my old friend Mr. Williams (Name changed to protect privacy), a kind and generous veteran in his 60s, reached out to me for help. He had recently lost his wife to a long illness and was preparing to move out of state to live with relatives. Overwhelmed by grief and the daunting task of packing up hi... | tifu | M | 211 | 31 | 0.87 | 1,717,186,431 | 1d550kn | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1d550kn/tifu_by_trying_to_secretly_return_money_to_a/ | story | 11 | 0 | 1 | 214.57 | 20 | 419 | 11,927 |
I’m moving out tomorrow after 3 years of living with my BF, and I feel like a kid on Christmas Eve. | Throwaway because my BF knows my main.
Well, after 3 years of living together (together for 4), I am moving out of my BFs apartment and into my own apartment. I signed the lease yesterday after having a panic attack in the car, and have been cool as a cucumber ever since.
We started having issues in December last y... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 2,033 | 81 | 0.99 | 1,728,710,402 | 1g1t5mi | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1g1t5mi/im_moving_out_tomorrow_after_3_years_of_living/ | drama | 21 | 0 | 1 | 2,093.67 | 5 | 687 | 9,305 |
AITA for leaving my inlaws house with my daughter after she told me she was feeling uncomfortable? |
I M37 have been with my fiancee F37 for 2 years. We're getting married soon, I've only met her family a couple of times. My daughter "Judy" F16 has never met them til very recently where they hosted dinner to celebrate 4th of july and that's when they met her for the first time.
Judy has a visible burnscar on her f... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 30,478 | 4,189 | 0.97 | 1,657,119,750 | vss2sc | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vss2sc/aita_for_leaving_my_inlaws_house_with_my_daughter/ | drama | 17 | 1 | 1 | 33,752.66 | 15 | 515 | 5,852 |
TIFU by forgetting I left pills on my coffee table | I, 35m, went to the doctor's about a week and a half ago. He had me on Vitamin D2 because I am very pale and lived through another winter on this earth. But when I went, he took me off the vitamin d. Thing was, I had just picked up a bottle of the little green capsules, and had put them on my coffee table when I was ea... | tifu | S | 154 | 30 | 0.9 | 1,718,063,885 | 1dd0i6w | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1dd0i6w/tifu_by_forgetting_i_left_pills_on_my_coffee_table/ | story | 10 | 0 | 1 | 168.6 | 23 | 417 | 12,006 |
I think I saved two girls from rape today | Ok so I am just a tiny hit drunk so this whole thing might be a bit hard to understand or whatever. We were out with friends today , I work at a party island that hasn't fully opened yet. So we were drinking I was making friends left and right dancing with every body, I am that dude that has no idea how to dance but da... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 14 | 2 | 0.85 | 1,746,670,388 | 1khf3ut | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1khf3ut/i_think_i_saved_two_girls_from_rape_today/ | story | 9 | 0 | 1 | 13.9 | 2 | 370 | 8,456 |
I publicly doxxed someone for saying they're going to kill cats | I have never doxxed someone. I never even considered posting someone's address or really even making a public shaming post. I did both today and am absolutely fine with my decision, even hours later. Here's the story:
I saw a post complaining about someone feeding feral cats because they pooped in her yard and brought ... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 185 | 20 | 0.93 | 1,745,619,145 | 1k7xelu | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1k7xelu/i_publicly_doxxed_someone_for_saying_theyre_going/ | drama | 11 | 0 | 1 | 192.05 | 22 | 275 | 7,969 |
TIFU by making my husband a gloryhole | Okay so this wasn’t today but it was this week. We are remodeling our bathroom and have an insane amount of cardboard from the bathtub and surround. Well anyway…
My husband told me years ago before we were married that he had a gloryhole fantasy. Well I never ever forgot that and have been trying to find ways to brin... | tifu | S | 18,636 | 373 | 0.95 | 1,733,620,963 | 1h97ifk | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1h97ifk/tifu_by_making_my_husband_a_gloryhole/ | story | 7 | 0 | 1 | 18,077.2 | 1 | 327 | 13,052 |
Need your advice! Am I in a healthy relationship? F30 M28. Dating for almost a year but have been fighting a lot. |
I love my boyfriend. He is funny, caring, and loves his family, which makes me love him more.
A little about me - an overly sensitive and anxious person in general with low self-esteem.
Although I love my boyfriend, I am finding myself in situations where I have been crying and getting severe panic and anxiety attacks... | relationships | null | 5 | 36 | 0.78 | 1,746,352,934 | 1kegber | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1kegber/need_your_advice_am_i_in_a_healthy_relationship/ | advice | 22 | 1 | 1 | 39.9 | 10 | 407 | 563 |
I [31f] impulsively accused my husband [32m] of 2 years of infidelity and now we both feel awful. | I recently accused my husband of being unfaithful to me and deeply regret it.
He travels for work a few times a year and I always become jealous when he does. My mind immediately goes to him cheating on me when he travels even if his behavior and attitude tells me he’s not. We’re also trying for a baby right now and l... | relationships | null | 53 | 106 | 0.6 | 1,730,133,648 | 1ge6p7b | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1ge6p7b/i_31f_impulsively_accused_my_husband_32m_of_2/ | drama | 18 | 0 | 1 | 137.8 | 16 | 362 | 1,905 |
AITA for not accepting my sister's relationship with my ex despite her having cancer as a teenager? | My (25F) father married my step-sister's (23F) mother when I was 4 and she was 3. We've lived together most of our lives and are a family. She and I were extremely close.
She developed cancer when she was 14 and was sick for about 2 years. She's since made a full recovery. During that time, my parents became understan... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 37,451 | 3,545 | 0.98 | 1,632,837,961 | px753o | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/px753o/aita_for_not_accepting_my_sisters_relationship/ | drama | 17 | 1 | 1 | 40,246.98 | 14 | 892 | 5,674 |
AITA for not changing my sisters in laws car oil | I (35m) like to work on cars, and like to do all my own maintenance. Well obviously with that comes family that wants you to work on their car. Recently my sister in law (23f) asked me to do her oil change. I had never done one on this car so I said I would look it up and get back to her. I have done a bit of work in t... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 168 | 70 | 0.94 | 1,747,501,520 | 1koxv03 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1koxv03/aita_for_not_changing_my_sisters_in_laws_car_oil/ | drama | 10 | 0 | 1 | 227.92 | 17 | 332 | 4,105 |
I've never felt so happy | I wanted to just drop this somewhere away from the eyes of my (now) gf. Back in Sep last year I was broken up with over the phone because my ex felt like she wanted the 'uni experience'. Fast forward to now I have found someone who could not be more different from my ex. She loves motorbikes, loves F1, has the **exact ... | TrueOffMyChest | Positive | 2 | 0 | 1 | 1,747,679,553 | 1kqjadb | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kqjadb/ive_never_felt_so_happy/ | story | 5 | 0 | 1 | 2 | 18 | 179 | 6,632 |
Husband accusing me of things I didn’t do | My (30 F) husband (30 M) has been accusing me of things I didn't do on and off our whole relationship and marriage. We've been together for almost 8 years total and married for 5 and have 2 kids together, 7F and 4F. At first I thought that he was just a skeptical person and thought that eventually he would realize he c... | relationships | null | 134 | 108 | 0.94 | 1,720,014,472 | 1duese0 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1duese0/husband_accusing_me_of_things_i_didnt_do/ | advice | 8 | 0 | 1 | 233.96 | 13 | 571 | 1,576 |
AITA for leaving dinner with my parents after they called my girlfriend disgusting? | Hi, I've been a lurker for a bit on this account, but I now have a situation I need to know if I'm wrong about.
So, I (32F) have been dating my girlfriend I'll call Ruby (48F) for around 10 months. Yes, I'm well aware of our age gap. I'm a fully grown woman. I can make my own choices. Ruby treats me well, and she's b... | AmItheAsshole | null | 1,362 | 234 | 0.93 | 1,747,682,892 | 1kqkqeg | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1kqkqeg/aita_for_leaving_dinner_with_my_parents_after/ | drama | 13 | 1 | 1 | 1,500.66 | 19 | 581 | 2,864 |
[ Removed by Reddit ] | [ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the [content policy](/help/contentpolicy). ] | TrueOffMyChest | null | 5,297 | 316 | 0.95 | 1,729,963,512 | 1gcq666 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1gcq666/removed_by_reddit/ | unknown | 5 | 0 | 1 | 5,348.15 | 17 | 12 | 8,832 |
Recently found out the my (32F) ex-husband (39M) abused our dogs | **TL;DR**
In March 2025, I (32F) learned my ex-husband (39M), who took our three dogs after our 2021 separation, had been severely neglecting them. One was found emaciated during my ex-husband's eviction. I rescued all three and placed them in safe homes. My ex-husband has been charged with animal neglect but is dodg... | TrueOffMyChest | CONTENT WARNING: ANIMAL ABUSE | 37 | 10 | 0.93 | 1,747,186,419 | 1km39az | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1km39az/recently_found_out_the_my_32f_exhusband_39m/ | drama | 11 | 0 | 1 | 44.41 | 1 | 751 | 6,921 |
I locked myself in my room all weekend with a shotgun | I have been going through a severe depression all summer. I'm in an okay spot in life but I'm not where I want to be or where I thought I should be. Due to a culmination of events I spent the weekend locked in my room with a shotgun. Loaded with 3 slugs. I told myself when I left that room I would be moving onto a new ... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 12,018 | 602 | 0.92 | 1,628,515,157 | p11ats | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/p11ats/i_locked_myself_in_my_room_all_weekend_with_a/ | confession | 11 | 0 | 1 | 11,658.56 | 13 | 461 | 10,444 |
My husband is a child in a grown ups body. Woke me up while I was desperately trying to get one more hour of sleep to scream about who ate the protein bars his mom bought him. | I was trying to sleep this morning. I have insomnia and have been under an incredible amount of stress lately. So much stress that I didn’t even get my period this month. This man busts in the room where I was getting one more hour of sleep and wants to know where all the protein bars his mom ordered him are. Well, I a... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 8,891 | 1,497 | 0.92 | 1,727,355,621 | 1fpvlje | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1fpvlje/my_husband_is_a_child_in_a_grown_ups_body_woke_me/ | drama | 37 | 0 | 1 | 9,676.72 | 13 | 306 | 8,694 |
AITA For not giving up my spot in the bathroom line for small children? | The other day, I (33f) went to a farmers market at a local park. I have a very weak bladder, so as soon as I felt like I might have to go, I went to the bathroom, which had an extremely long line. By the time I made it so I'd be up next, I really had to go, it was an emergency. Out of the corner of my eye I see a mom... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 4,545 | 764 | 0.96 | 1,722,945,236 | 1elfs1e | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elfs1e/aita_for_not_giving_up_my_spot_in_the_bathroom/ | drama | 14 | 1 | 1 | 5,127.2 | 11 | 203 | 5,513 |
My boyfriend refuses to go to therapy with his issues. Help? | Hello reddit, this is a very weird situation so I’ll try to tell it as simply as possible:
Note: english is not my first language, so sorry for all the errors and mistakes
Background: I 20F and my boyfriend 20M have been dating for four years now, and living together for 1,5 years. I’ve had quite a share of trauma in... | relationships | null | 0 | 4 | 0.5 | 1,747,652,721 | 1kq8ws4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1kq8ws4/my_boyfriend_refuses_to_go_to_therapy_with_his/ | advice | 11 | 1 | 1 | 4 | 11 | 704 | 79 |
I find it tiring to plan a meeting with my friends. | My friends, A(F19), B(M18), C(M21) and I (F19) have been meeting regularly since the end of April to grill and play games. Since we last met at C's and A doesn't have a grill, I agreed to host the meeting and it's super exhausting trying to find common ground with everyone, but it's all about dessert.
I'm a vegetarian ... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 1 | 0 | 0.99 | 1,747,143,749 | 1klm9c5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1klm9c5/i_find_it_tiring_to_plan_a_meeting_with_my_friends/ | drama | 11 | 0 | 1 | 0.99 | 13 | 264 | 7,628 |
AITA for asking my friend to call in sick to work? | Back in April I reserved a cottage getaway weekend in June for me and friends. This is a family friend’s house and he is letting me stay there for free even though he normally rents it out as an AirBnB. It is a nice house and my friends were all very excited to go and thanked me for reserving it. All I asked was that t... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 37 | 88 | 0.75 | 1,747,254,735 | 1kmppl4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1kmppl4/aita_for_asking_my_friend_to_call_in_sick_to_work/ | drama | 11 | 1 | 1 | 115.75 | 20 | 459 | 4,429 |
[24F] My BF [25M] of 3 years cheated on me with my mum [52F] | I'm sorry if this is jumbled, I'm on my phone and in total shock right now.
I'm an only child that was bought up by my mum alone (my dad left before I was born). I love (well, loved) my mum to bits, she's done so much for me and sacrificed everything so I could have a good education and a happy life. I met my boyfrien... | relationships | ◉ Locked Post ◉ | 3,201 | 329 | 0.92 | 1,439,640,255 | 3h37bz | https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3h37bz/24f_my_bf_25m_of_3_years_cheated_on_me_with_my/ | drama | 14 | 0 | 1 | 3,273.92 | 12 | 392 | 2,372 |
TIFU by suffering from premature congratulations | This happened a week ago and I'm finally thinking about this without cursing myself.
So, about a week ago my new neighbour called me because we were supposed to go to a colony meeting together.
About an hour before we were supposed to leave she calls me to tell me that she won't be able to come. I said okay then ... | tifu | S | 246 | 35 | 0.9 | 1,725,535,327 | 1f9jz72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1f9jz72/tifu_by_suffering_from_premature_congratulations/ | drama | 6 | 0 | 1 | 256.4 | 11 | 171 | 11,881 |
I want my fiance to decline his friend's wedding invitation | Hello all. My fiance (M27) and I (F25) are getting married in less than 5 months. His friend (M27) is getting married in August. My fiance is a groomsmen. The friend who is getting married is a groomsmen in our wedding too. They've known each other since middle school.
We got the official invite and RSVP in the mail ... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 599 | 280 | 0.89 | 1,747,543,873 | 1kpc0oc | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kpc0oc/i_want_my_fiance_to_decline_his_friends_wedding/ | drama | 10 | 0 | 1 | 813.11 | 4 | 385 | 7,847 |
AITA for sitting in my friends boyfriends car | I, 18f, recently started hanging out with a new group of friends.
My friend’s boyfriend Eli, and another friend, Jude, wanted to skip an assembly that was being held first period.
Jude, Eli and I all have the same class first period so we walked to the parking lot together. Jude got in his car and Eli and I sat on the... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 2 | 4 | 0.67 | 1,747,172,052 | 1kly4t9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1kly4t9/aita_for_sitting_in_my_friends_boyfriends_car/ | drama | 8 | 0 | 1 | 5.34 | 21 | 418 | 3,433 |
TIFU eating chia pudding | This whole thing happened yesterday, but I was still recovering emotionally, physically, and probably spiritually. So my partner saw something called "chia pudding" and wanted to try it, and I agreed to take part in this experiment.
I ate the whole thing, and it wasn't bad taste wise, and didn't contain any of the st... | tifu | S | 460 | 71 | 0.93 | 1,734,958,071 | 1hkn1fl | https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1hkn1fl/tifu_eating_chia_pudding/ | story | 4 | 0 | 1 | 498.8 | 12 | 147 | 11,680 |
My Dad is abusive, and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m terrified for my siblings and myself. | I’m 13 years old and have an older brother (14) and three younger sisters (9, 5, and 3 months). My parents are generally good people, but I don’t think they know better ways to punish us. My dad works a lot, and when he's home, he's either skating, working on his games or YouTube, or yelling at/disciplining us. I’ve be... | TrueOffMyChest | null | 7 | 2 | 0.83 | 1,747,524,153 | 1kp65tk | https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1kp65tk/my_dad_is_abusive_and_i_dont_know_what_to_do/ | advice | 20 | 0 | 1 | 7.81 | 23 | 409 | 8,589 |
AITA for not waking my wife up and letting her sleep the whole day? | Using a theowaway for obvious reasons. Just a quick background info: My wife (Heather - 36F) and I (35F) have been together for the past 14 years, and married for 10. We have two daughters ( 4 and 6 years old) together.
Heather is a doctor and she works ridiculously long hours, gets tired, etc. Yesterday she came back... | AmItheAsshole | No A-holes here | 9,776 | 1,148 | 0.95 | 1,716,501,506 | 1cz4y3q | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1cz4y3q/aita_for_not_waking_my_wife_up_and_letting_her/ | drama | 14 | 1 | 1 | 10,435.2 | 21 | 281 | 4,851 |
AITA for leaving when my bf told me to stfu? | I currently live with my bf and today was our worst argument yet. I finished washing the dishes and asked him to wash the cups he uses, cause he takes a new cup everything he wants SMH to drink and leaves them out just to take another cup for the next drink. This often results in cluttered cups everywhere around the ho... | AmItheAsshole | Not the A-hole | 276 | 102 | 0.91 | 1,746,251,138 | 1kdlsqt | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1kdlsqt/aita_for_leaving_when_my_bf_told_me_to_stfu/ | drama | 10 | 1 | 1 | 353.16 | 5 | 268 | 4,035 |
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🧠 Reddit Niche Classification Dataset
This dataset contains 13,061 Reddit posts annotated with a custom niche label (e.g. advice, drama, humor, unknown, etc). It includes structured features engineered from post metadata, not raw text — making it ideal for lightweight classification models.
🧾 Schema
| Column | Type | Description |
|---|---|---|
title |
string | Post title |
selftext |
string | Post body text |
subreddit |
string | Subreddit the post belongs to |
flair |
string | Flair attached to the post |
score |
int | Total Reddit score (upvotes - downvotes) |
num_comments |
int | Number of comments the post received |
upvote_ratio |
float | Ratio of upvotes to total votes |
created_utc |
timestamp | Timestamp of post creation (UTC) |
id |
string | Unique Reddit post ID |
url |
string | Link to the original Reddit post |
title_length |
int | Number of words in the post title |
selftext_length |
int | Number of words in the post body |
contains_question |
bool | Whether the title contains a question mark |
contains_capslock |
bool | Whether the title includes all caps words |
engagement_score |
float | Combined metric: (score * upvote_ratio) + comments |
hour_of_posting |
int | Hour (0–23) the post was created in UTC |
niche |
string | Target label for classification (11 classes) |
🏷️ Labels
| Label | Description |
|---|---|
advice |
Help-seeking posts, questions, dilemmas |
story |
Personal anecdotes with a beginning, middle, and end |
drama |
High-stakes conflict, betrayal, gossip |
rant |
Emotional venting or unfiltered frustration |
humor |
Meme-like, comedic, shitpost-style content |
informative |
Tips, how-tos, PSAs, educational content |
confession |
Vulnerable personal reveals or identity-based confessions |
update |
Updates on previous situations or developments |
trauma |
Distressing or traumatic experiences |
wholesome |
Heartwarming, uplifting, or positive content |
unknown |
Uncategorized or ambiguous niche |
📊 Dataset Size
- Total rows: 13,061
- Columns: 17
- Classes: 11
📊 Class Distribution
🧪 Usage
from datasets import load_dataset
ds = load_dataset("atin5551/reddit-story-niche-classification-dataset")
print(ds["train"][0])
👤 Author
Made by Atin Kumar Singh
MIT Licensed
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