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AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard? | i'll try to keep this short. i had a [1967 impala 4 door](https://i.imgur.com/hlbpptf.jpg) that i bought in feb 2019. a couple months ago i bought my first house that had a 2.5 car garage. i moved the car in and started tearing it down for a complete restoration. i had the body in one bay and the chassis in another, pl... | 70,805 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/gr8bp3/aita_for_suing_my_girlfriend_after_she_had_my/ | 2020-05-26 23:35:45 | nta - sue her ass. sue her for the cost plus a few extra thousand for the time and money. have her prosecuted for theft, destruction of private property and have the guys that came to get it prosecuted for receiving stolen goods. nail them all to the wall. | nta! how do you have the nerve to do something like that in someone’s home? she isn’t even your wife!! she went too far and i say you dodged a bullet. | nta: holy shit, definitely not the asshole. that’s like your girlfriend selling a dog out from under you while you are on a business trip because she didn’t like it!
the audacity. if she didn’t like it, she could’ve just ignored it. the most toxic part is that she sees no issue. your property, your house, she throws ... | nta. my husband has several old cars. i haven't seen the inside of the garage in twenty years. but he loves his hobby cars and i would never dream of asking him to lose one. i say take her to court. be sure you sue for replacement cost. the impalas are getting hard to come by and you may have to pay more than you think... | nta. what is with this sub and terrible so's who don't respect their partner's property and passions? like how the fuck did she expect you act?! *oh, yay you completely destroyed my passion project while also causing a considerable financial loss. but at least your car is in the garage!* 🙄
she wasn't very bright, bei... | completely, definitely, whole-heartedly nta!!!!!! what a horrid human being! what a selfish, ungrateful and disgusting human being!
‘67 impala?!?!
i want to sue her too! i’m going to sue her for making you have to post this and causing me emotional distress!
is there like a gofundme for suing people?! cause i’ll c... | i would file a police report and see if there was any way that you could get her prosecuted. nta. | nta.
relationship wise: this was a gross overstep on her part just to get her way on something minor. ending the relationship immediately was the right thing to do.
legal wise: don’t destroy something you can’t afford to replace. take her down, let her pay it off over the next few years. | nta. i can make an educated guess as to why it was a 67 impala, and i am horrified for you. that’s straight up theft. if that’s how she treats your baby, imagine what else she’ll feel free to dispose of. | nta. on a normal day this would be bad enough, but as a petrolhead this really has got my blood boiling i can only imagine how much this meant to you. i am so sorry this has happened to you. i am so sorry is there anyway you could get the car back? | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
AITA for pretending to get fired when customers get a temper with me? | i am a high schooler with a weekend job at a coffee shop. my coworkers who work weekends are:
james - the owners son, he goes to my school. he's a shift manager but it's not a real formal thing, he's a friendly guy.
danielle - a college student who sometimes works weekends too.
so sometimes customers will come in a... | 60,634 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/e5k3z2/aita_for_pretending_to_get_fired_when_customers/ | 2019-12-03 17:07:53 | nta that's a perfect way of dealing with hostile customers. | nta. i think it’s hilarious and maybe it’ll teach some people a lesson about controlling their assholery. | you’re not an asshole at all. you’re the hero retailers need! brilliant. | nta - customers can be fucking dicks. usually people are pretty respectful and reasonable, even when they have a legit complaint... but every now and then there's the one guy or gal that comes in and just can't be made happy. they're the worst.
i've taken the approach of "killing with kindness" and being sarcastically... | nta- fun fact harrods actually hires people for this. if a customer is upset in the store, the manager will call back the “offender” and fire them in front of the customer to satiate them. then, the guy who’s job it is to be fired just goes back to the back room and waits for another customer to get angry so he can be ... | this kind of reminds me of a video on youtube where a kid (teen) goes to a barber for a haircut and i can't remember what the prank was but his intention was to prank the barber with some kind of shock reaction prank.
well, someone had told the barber about what the kid had planned so the barber had his own prank pla... | esh
the customers are obviously assholes for being assholes for no good reason.
yes, you are a little bit of an asshole. is it justified? absolutely. are you still an asshole? yes. unfortunately, in a customer service role, you are always going to have to deal with people who are angry over absolutely nothing. ... | nta. [some places have mirrors placed behind the counter because it has proven that people behave better when they can see what they look like when they act out.](http://disclosive.com/list/why-big-mirrors-are-installed-in-bars-behind-the-counters) some people seriously need a wake up call when they start misbehaving. | is this a good idea? i know if i see a manager or lead fire an employee in public i would think less of the business and management. and likely get my. coffee elsewhere. you may be indirectly costing the business by doing so. may not be a big deal to you, but to the owners of a small business it can do harm. | nta. that's hilarious, and puts shitty customers in their place. | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | null | ESH | NTA | null | NTA | 0.024102 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
AITA for bringing my SIL’s wallet to the restaurant when she conveniently always forgets it? | 60,326 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/x2k5kv/aita_for_bringing_my_sils_wallet_to_the/ | 2022-08-31 17:59:37 | nta but you totally should have flipped the switch- left your wallet at home- only brought your licence so she had to cover the whole bill then never taken her out to a restaurant again | she made the reservation and invited you. etiquette says she would be responsible for 100% of that bill.
nta | nta. awesome power move. but when is your husband gonna step up and make her pay her share? | nta. that was a boss move. but if you want to keep it up without getting accused of touching her things, when you're in the car, don't let your husband start driving until she shows you she has her wallet on her. you told her right up front "i'm not paying this time." and she tried to push you into it. honestly, i don'... | nta - why do you and your husband still allow her to stay with you or choose expe sive restaurants or even go out with her?
i think you need to talk to your husband about this behaviour. i am very curious as to why he hasn't stepped in and shut this down and wonder if he is the one encouraging her to do this behind yo... | stop eating out with her. when she makes a reservation. tell her to have a nice evening and doordash yourself a nice meal. | nta.
she’s playing checkers, you’re playing chess, and she’s mad you called her on her bs. | usually, i'm against people touching others' property, but in this case, well done. be aware that next time she will be hiding her wallet, but maybe just refuse to go out to dinner if she didn't bring her wallet/card. let her know if she doesn't pay she will not be going out with you and your husband and make it clear ... | nta. stone cold busted. next time she books an expensive restaurant, just stand her up, and even better, tell her to find a hotel for her next visit. | nta - i would have done the same. she’s only furious because you called her on her crap and beat her at her own game. if she genuinely forgot her wallet she would be thanking you for having the forethought to remember it for her so since she’s so “forgetful”. | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... | |
AITA for making a dad joke? | note. my step-daughter, madeline, was about a year old when i married her mother, jessica. madeline’s father died before she was born.
madeline is currently 15, and she’s rebelling for almost everything. she did something bad, so while picking her up, i set a punishment up for her. then she said “you’re not my dad. ... | 56,878 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/dhfeg9/aita_for_making_a_dad_joke/ | 2019-10-13 19:41:26 | esh, but that was one hell of a joke and i congratulate you for it. | yta but a small one, it's a fun joke but wrong audience.. | esh. but a+ for execution | i thought it was funny, but i too am an asshole | nta if it was a one time thing.
teenagers are a special test of our patience. | nah it's a fun dad joke and teens are full of shit anyways | nah. your daughter is 15, so she's somewhat of an involuntary asshole by virtue of being a teenager. what she said was hurtful, but chances are she'll come around with maturity.
your dad joke was funny and harmless. i am seriously struggling to find anything negative to glean from it. even when i was an assholey teen ... | nta
she is old enough to know that words have power. while you may have said it in a joking manner, she got to feel a little bit of what you felt when she said you were not her father. that being said, this is an opportunity to sit down with her and let her know that you do love her, very much consider yourself her fa... | esh. my dad is not my biological father and when i was a teen i went through similar angst and wanted to lash out. now i had the good sense to know that saying something like that would be extremely hurtful so i never did. but also if my dad ever said something like that, especially in front of my brother who is his b... | well, biology aside, do you see yourself as her dad? because i'm betting you do, and the fact that you'd say you aren't, in public no less, is probably confirming her own adolescent fears. she is probably actually insecure about you not being her "real" dad, and i bet that makes her worry that you won't always be there... | ESH | YTA | ESH | null | NTA | NAH | NAH | NTA | ESH | YTA | 0.679453 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
WIBTA for refusing to stop cooking bacon in my kitchen due to my teenage daughters vegan lifestyle? | dad here, old fart, loves his daughter to pieces but i’m struggling to see eye to eye with my teenager and wife on this one.
we’ve always been a meat eating family, we live in the rural midwest and bacon for breakfast is pretty much a given. this year my 14 y/o daughter decided to go vegan, and i jumped onto her supp... | 51,279 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/dkqv29/wibta_for_refusing_to_stop_cooking_bacon_in_my/ | 2019-10-20 22:19:11 | nta. get her a special sponge she can use to wash her own dishes so she didn't have to use the "tainted" dishwasher. | as a teen who’s trying to go vegetarian, your daughter is acting ridiculous. “the dish washing machine’s tainted”? what kind of bull is that? and she shouldn’t be forcing you guys to go vegan in your own house if you don’t want to. you’ve been very supportive as it is, buying separate pans. ywnbta | nta, and i say that as a vegan. "cross contamination" is bs that militant vegans make up to make themselves feel superior to other vegans. and she has to understand that there's going to be meat around. i get that it upsets her, really, but unless she only lives with vegans for the rest of her life this is something sh... | nta.
she's 14. there is no middle ground at 14. my condolences, as it's going to be a long winter. | pfft had a vegan roommate in the past. he used the fridge and dishwasher just fine. time for a real world lesson for her - she's not always gonna live with people who share her food lifestyle. she's got to learn to compromise. there is no reason to inconvenience yourselves and others because she's being a dramatic teen... | nta. you're already being as supporting as you can, but at the end of the day it's your house. you don't need to bend the knee to your daughter over this. | nta, obviously. you've been supportive of her new diet choice and have been very accommodating by getting her pans to use for vegan food. she can't expect you to change your whole lifestyle to cater to her. meat needs to be kept in the fridge, and if the dishwasher is tainted then maybe she should try washing a dish by... | you know the answer, i'm assuming this is for your wife 😄 you are accommodating despite it being irrational. it's now being pushed to a new level of irrational. explain to your daughter that you're trying to be as accommodating as possible but this is too far for you and there's no grounds for farther arguing because ... | nta many vegans cohabitate successfully with meat eaters, your daughter is pushing the line here and being unreasonable. you have gone out of your way to support her dietary choices (i'm assuming that she washes her own pans and dishes by hand herself rather than using the contaminated dishwasher lol) it is time for he... | nta, but this actually sounds really complicated. teenage girls can have very contentious relationships with food, and that can express themselves in a lot of ways. i think you need to get more information going forward. she might just be a teen pushing limits and seeing what she can control. she might also genuinely b... | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
Aita for wearing the “joke” bikini my friend got me? | so it was my birthday couple months ago. had a party. got some gifts. my friend “mandy” for me a “super cute bikini”. i liked it. said thanks. she had ripped the tags off but whatever.
anyway. went to the community pool with my roommate. wore bikini. got in the water. roommate immediately is like uhm girl.... i look ... | 50,961 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d7yuot/aita_for_wearing_the_joke_bikini_my_friend_got_me/ | 2019-09-23 00:16:51 | nta
well played!!!
you deserve an award, but i’m broke. so here’s an emoji instead. 🏅 🎖 🥇 | nta. play stupid games, win stupid prizes. plus it's not your fault he was blatantly stating at your tits right in front of her.
e: because it still isn't clear to literally anyone, i'm saying mandy has nobody to blame but herself for what happened. | nta. she knew what kind of gift she was giving you, you were just getting her back in a harmless way. no one's gonna die from seeing boobs. now you can all have a laugh about it. | nah, she pranked you, you pranked her | esh. her for her buying you see through clothing and you for basically getting naked in front of her and her bf | ahhaha op this is fantastic. i won't give a judgement. i'm leaning fairly heavy towards no assholes here but a part of me does feel like everyone sucks cause you did purposefully do something that you know would bother your friend.
she absolutely deserves it though. and you simply outplayed her. she was playing checke... | esh and you know it. obviously she's ta for letting you wear a see through bikini in public.
but you're an adult. deal with it like an adult. knowingly exposing your body to people that did not actively consent to seeing it is not the adult way to handle things. | nah
esh if you squint
her joke was just as harmless as yours. not tasteful, imo, but harmless and not asshole-y. i don't see it as much as either of you being jerks, and more like a back-and-fourth prank. now you're on equal ground, lol.
(also, if her boyfriend was distracted that's on him, not you or her) | [deleted] | esh. you're both shitty friends and thoroughly deserve each other. | NTA | NTA | NTA | NAH | ESH | NAH | ESH | NAH | null | ESH | 0.27716 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
AITA for telling my extended family how many men (roughly) my sister has slept with after she outed our youngest brother as a virgin? | we had a family dinner this evening. my family has four kids in total: me, my elder sister (29f), younger sister (24f) and youngest brother (22m).
extended family attended our family dinner. so all of our significant others, our cousins, aunts and uncles etc. during the dinner my elder sister and youngest brother got ... | 49,334 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cihc3z/aita_for_telling_my_extended_family_how_many_men/ | 2019-07-27 13:11:51 | esh one person making personal attacks doesn’t mean someone else should- especially since you weren’t even in the argument to begin with. | nta. you were looking out for your little brother and you fought with the truth. if your sister can't take the truth, she shouldn't dish it out. she also shouldn't have kept it from her husband. |
nta.
1. she started the personal attacks on body count so she can’t be mad when someone points out hers.
2. she lied to her husband about her past and that’s her fault. if anything she’s the asshole for that.
3. if their marriage is truly in trouble for you speaking the truth it’s probably not the best match | esh
it makes you look trashy and gross to have this personal info on your sister. and most people probably didn't think less of your brother when they heard virgin. it's family. family does not give a shit about your sex life. unless you're married and making babies. you got involved in a fight that didn't involve you... | nta.
i feel like everyone voting esh thinks it’s more “damaging” to be slut shamed than it is to be shamed for being a virgin.
i was a late bloomer- literally every sexual milestone was hit wayyyy after what is “socially acceptable” for people my age. when you tell a person that you’re still a virgin you’re immedia... | nta - people really need to learn not to dish it if they can't take it. simple as that. | esh. your sister obviously was the asshole for spouting off about your brother with hurtful intentions, but you were also ta for doing the same thing back to her (even though you were just sticking up for your brother). your family is ta for blaming you for the marital problems because your sister created those problem... | nta
this brightened my day to read. | esh except your brother.
there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin or having an active sexual past. you tried to fight fire with fire by slut shaming your sister. i completely understand why you reacted how you did and i think a lot of people can relate and may have acted the same. at the end of the day you suck for ... | nta you were sticking up for your brother. it’s not your fault you sister wasn’t honest with her husband. | ESH | NTA | NTA | ESH | NTA | NTA | ESH | NTA | ESH | NTA | 0.264545 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
AITA for telling my son he deserved his gf breaking up with him? | so my son had a long-distance gf recently for about two years. she was great, a really nice girl and we all loved her welcomed her with open arms. she was flying here constantly to visit him, like a weekend a month and he didn’t lift a finger to go visit her.
i tried talking to him about it several times and told him... | 47,767 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/daglhs/aita_for_telling_my_son_he_deserved_his_gf/ | 2019-09-28 14:21:44 | nta. that's the truth.
what age is he? | nta it’s a truth he needs to hear. i’m more concerned about the reaction of your wife. does she enable your son’s laziness? | nta. he's been too lazy with the relationship anyway. the girl deserves someone better and your son needs to know that it takes effort to make a relationship work. | nta - as lizzo says “truth hurts” lol | nta. your son needs to learn that relationships are about give and take; he can't do all the taking, and if you needed to be the one pointing it out then so be it. | [removed] | nta but a sticky situation. your son was in the wrong and he needed to here it but because he is your son i can see why your wife would be mad at you for saying that.
if you said it bluntly it could sound cold and mean but if you had a nice talk with your son and communicate better it would work for telling him when h... | info: this seems incredibly odd. your son wasn't even willing to fly to see her even when she said she'd only move if he visited her.
are you sure there's not some other reason he doesn't want to fly? it might just be me but it seems quite strange for someone to turn down a holiday and seeing their girlfriend of two y... | esh. like, everybody.
your son for lack of effort.
your wife for enabling him.
the girlfriend, assuming your assumption she was cheating is correct.
and you for piling on. your son already knew how you felt since you already told him. he messed up. he is hurting. now is not the time for "i told you so." | yta
this sub, sometimes... to quote the big lebowski, "you aren't wrong, walter. you're just an asshole". yes, he was lazy. yes, she should have broken up with him. that said, no one wants their father, someone who should be their most ardent supporter, shaming them in their moment of vulnerability.
save it for when... | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | INFO | ESH | YTA | 0.186339 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, every... |
AITA - Telling my parents to pay me back my college tuition if they want a relationship | i was raised by parents who believed (religiously and just culturally) in rigid gender roles. dad should work, mom should stay home with the kids. i’m the only girl and have 3 brothers.
because of their expectation i’d stay home with kids, they never valued my education, educational achievements or emphasized things ... | 47,559 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/i9pm5u/aita_telling_my_parents_to_pay_me_back_my_college/ | 2020-08-14 16:53:59 | nta.
hi from another engineer from a family filled with rage that she has all the talent that the boy was never up to.
as far as i can see, your answer to them was perfect. it was very fair, and if they have fixed their appalling bigotry issues, they would be falling all over themselves begging you to take the money.... | nta thats a generic 'sorry you're upset non apology. they are just around now because they want to influence the baby.
the 100k ask is fair if they have the means to pay it. | wow.
i would typically say that you would be the ah, because expecting money from family is never a good thing but i am making an exception here.
no, you're nta. being singled out like that because you are a woman is gross, and it's terribly unfair that your brothers got a free ride and you didn't for that one fact.... | nta.
i’m proud of you, by the way. despite your upbringing you persevered. keep staying strong and standing your ground. | sorry your family sucks, but honestly fuck them, your brothers most of all for being so entitled while simultaneously giving you shit for wanting what they got for free. nta | nta
your parents unfortunately can't prove that they're sorry because they aren't.
tell your brothers "you know what else is immature and hurtful? sexism, parental neglect, and forcing your child into debt." | nta, your parents treated you terribly due to your gender and their archaic ideas of gender roles. when given the chance to apologize they couldnt be bothered to provide a sincere one.
should you realistically expect 100k, no, but the fact they are not even willing to try to make amends is ridiculous.
nobody is entitl... | nta
only showing up now to "save" their grandchilds soul. they just wanna push their crap onto the next generation. | [deleted] | hi op--just want to say i don't think you're being an asshole here given all the pain & hardship your family put you through just so you could ensure you had a baseline successful life. but there's still space for forgiveness and a renewed relationship if you're open to it:
* ask them to fund a 529 for your child ... | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | null | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for sleeping naked on top of the covers to teach my flatmate's gf a lesson? | new to reddit, please bare with.
so i (21, guy) live with my childhood best friend (22, also a guy) and have done for 2 years now. up until last week, things were perfect between us.
however, he recently got a new girlfriend (23, lady) and she honestly seems absolutely great except for one thing; she seemingly has ... | 47,420 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d10cpy/aita_for_sleeping_naked_on_top_of_the_covers_to/ | 2019-09-07 19:21:39 | nta. she knew it was a risk when she barged in. how is she not the pervert? also, have you considered getting a lock? | nta do these people not realize how crazy they sound?
"you were naked in your own room!? you are out of order mister".
if they are the sort of people who then go around telling people you are some sick creep, they are not your friends. | wow, what assholes. you're ta because she barged into your room?! f them! and also, obvi, nta. | nta. who barges in without knocking? assholes. | nta. they both are. lock your door from now on if you can. | nta.
this girl sounds like she's blatantly trying to get you in trouble.... maybe she has a twisted plan to get you out of the house?
i don't know, but it seriously sounds like she might be doing this on purpose.
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you told her to knock on many many occasions and she even giggled when you said "next time... | nta. you "threatened " to do it yet she still barged in. what does that say about her? 😁 | esh. she needs to respect privacy but yeah, you knew full well what she would do and, rather than talk to your friend like an adult about how uncomfortable it makes you, you knowingly and deliberately exposed yourself to her. | nta, i actually think it's pretty funny this is the way you chose to make your point. you deserve your privacy and she obviously isn't respecting that. if you told her before and she just shrugged it off then maybe a little shock and real life demonstration is what she needed in order to get the point across. also scre... | nta but you can get around this two ways. replace the whole knob with a locking one. keep the old one and put it back when you leave. or even easier buy a rubber wedge and put it under the door. shepherd hardware 9133 heavy duty rubber door wedge, brown https://www.amazon.com/dp/b00004yohn/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_5zaddbr... | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | ESH | NTA | NTA | 0.010125 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for suggesting my 7yo name his new stuffed tiger "Tig Bitties"? | pretty much the title. my son won a stuffed tiger at the fair last night and said he had named him "tig". he asked me what its last name should be. i couldn't help myself and just instantly replied "bitties". then i turned to my wife to share a smirk, but she was pissed and quickly suggested a few different last names,... | 46,468 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnml52/aita_for_suggesting_my_7yo_name_his_new_stuffed/ | 2019-08-08 14:32:21 | nah
inappropriate? yes.
still funny? also yes. | nah . you jokingly suggested a name, it's not your fault your son happened to like it. there will probably be no ramifications, but you and your wife can probably convince him to change the name if she dislikes it that much. just think of a new last name and tell him in a really excited way that you "just thought of an... | nah -
he's your son but i'll tell you right now you may come to regret it.
my dad one time as a reward let us watch austin powers, the one with the fat mike myers. thinking most of the humor would go over our heads; but we really wanted to see it as we heard alot about it.
i think i was in 3rd or 4th grade and my... | yta. it may have gone over *his* head, but what about when he repeats it in school or around adults? | nta. i had a toy monkey my father called "benito" (like mussolini) and i grew up just fine. | nah but maybe refer to it as tig as much as you can, just to please your wife as a compromise
the same way you refer to his teddy bear as tess, and not miss tickles | nta. this is hilarious. | nah
hahahahahahaha | yta, but also i want to say nah because it's funny. :p
but seriously, your wife is right, that is inappropriate for a 7-year-old. he's not going to know what it means, and he's going to talk to his friends about tig bitties, and some uppity soccer mom is going clutch her pearls, and it's going to be a big mess of stup... | nah
while your joke is very funny at least for you and me lol, something could go wrong with this name, not a mayor problem or a situation i could imagine will affect your child in a important way.
some people point out that his friends will laugh at him but, if he couldnt understand the double meaning i dont think h... | NAH | NAH | NAH | YTA | NTA | NAH | NTA | NAH | YTA | NAH | 0.332334 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for switching to regular milk to prove my lactose intolerant roommate keeps stealing from me? | me and 2 other guys share an apartment together and we split all the bills. the only thing we don’t split costs on is groceries. everyone’s in charge of buying their own food and we don’t touch whatever doesn’t belong to us in the fridge. we put our names on everything so no one gets mixed up.
this issue has been goi... | 46,205 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hvcvtt/aita_for_switching_to_regular_milk_to_prove_my/ | 2020-07-21 18:29:53 | nta. as you said if r wasn’t stealing your food, he wouldn’t have had a problem. | nta. it’s your food. you could have put your medicine in it or even your pet’s medication in it. you could have put a laxative in it or even syrup of ipecac. and i would still say nta. when people steal food, lie about it and don’t replace it they reap what they sow. food is expensive, especially milk substitutes. wit... | nta. i read a story from askamanager where something similar occurred. op liked spicy food and food thief ate it then reported op to hr for trying to poison him.
eventually op got fired after hr agreed with food thief. op got a lawyer and story came out that hr and food thief were in a relationship. company owner fi... | nta.
> the funny thing is r buys a lot for himself and is even more stingy about his food. he will literally point out what’s his when he comes back from grocery shopping and tells us not to touch it.
this, children, is called projection: he knows he's stealing food, and he figures the two of you are going to try... | this story is incredible! who can't tell the difference between almond milk and dairy milk? | nta
if he steals from you, he should face consequences, especially after you bringing it up to him. why would he expect you buying and using products that accomodate to his health condition? | nta there is a saying in finnish that translates to 'the greedy ones have a shitty end', and i think that's what happened here. | speaking as a lactose intolerant person: nta.
dude had to learn a lesson.
if drinking real milk would have killed him, or hospitalised him, then i'd say it was too far, and there should be a better way. but having to shit for 40 minutes is a hilarious, and fair, punishment.
well played, op. well played. | nta as my husband always says " play stupid games, win stupid prizes" guy got what he deserved. | nta hes stealing from you and you taught him a lesson. he'll have the shits boo hoo | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for telling coworkers extremely bluntly why I'm not participating in the office weight loss bet? | someone got the brilliant idea to make an office diet bet due to covid gains, with people pooling in their money to see who can lose the most weight by thanksgiving.
i am one of 7 people not participating. lots of preggos, some bodybuilders, and people who maintained their weight who aren't interested. since i've vis... | 44,997 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/jhwisp/aita_for_telling_coworkers_extremely_bluntly_why/ | 2020-10-25 16:46:09 | nta! nta! nta! nta! nta! nta! nta! nta! nta!
they took this public, not you. your hr team handled this appropriately. i’m glad some of your coworkers are supporting you as well. | you're spot on, because what they are doing really is harassment - and that does not belong in the workplace.
nta.
and if they continue to give you grief in *retaliation* then you should continue to report - because the issue is not done. | no. your nta. anorexia is a horrific illness and it's not something to be played around with. you were in a good place and they put you in the bad place. i'm sorry that this has happened to you 🥺 and i really hope you are receiving the support you need.
all your coworkers who have essentially tried to "get you to pla... | nta.
your co-workers were harassing you. no matter your reason for saving no, to a non-work related competition, they should've dropped it immediately.
honestly, i'd let hr know about the comments being made, especially the women saying they don't feel safe because you are recovering from an eating disorder. that see... | nta
you told them you didn't want to participate multiple times, politely. they didn't take any notice of you and unsurprisingly it eventually came to a head. this has nothing to do with political correctness and everything to do with those colleagues being insensitive. no one should be forced to take part in activity... | nta
even not considering the eating disorder. at the first "no" they should've backed down. asking someone to lose weight is harassment and you were right to contact hr.
one can have a number of reasons for not wanting to lose weight. for example "i don't want to, mind your own beeswax." | nta - at my prior org they tried similar till someone filled a complaint with the labor department after hr didn't deal with the passive aggressive harassment that was happening to people who opted out.
i have always been uncomfortable with the dietbet model. like i'm on ww and ill see ww ambassadors endorsing diet b... | nta. the event was canceled because they couldn't respect your boundaries not because of you. tbh though i'd start looking around at other jobs. i had a job where a manager kept trying to get handsy with me and after 6 months of asking him to stop i reported him to hr. people started getting mad at me because they had ... | nta. i find all diet and weight talk a bit triggering just because i closely saw what severe anorexia did to my sister. i can't imagine what it means for you, especially if its so targeted directly at you. you tried to be good, you told them no several times. i am so sorry this happened. please take care of yourself, m... | nta
are you the asshole for laying down a boundary and then sticking up for yourself when people continuously smashed right through it? no, you are not, despite all the "mean girl" attempts to gas light you. "it was just a joke" - favorite line of all bullies everywhere.
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AITA for telling a social worker the real reason my sister wants a foster kid? | so this is a throw away account. while my sister doesn't use reddit, we have mutual friends who do.
i'm a 28f and i have a sister (36f) for the sake of story, i'll just call jane. jane is married to "bob" and they have two kids, boy and a girl. my niece and nephew are wonderful kids and no trouble at all. they fight a... | 42,225 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hsdpho/aita_for_telling_a_social_worker_the_real_reason/ | 2020-07-16 17:14:01 | nta. you told the truth and saved a teenager from a terrible life of being used and dumped for another, which is no way to treat anyone. it is a foster child, not a slave. | nta. wtf is wrong with your sister wtf..?? | nta. kids aren't slaves and shouldn't be treated as such. i'm glad you got out of living with your sister, because she sounds difficult to live with, and you absolutely did the right thing to prevent a child from being treated like you did! | nta. what you did was the only ethical option. not only is this treating another human being like a literal house slave(and a disposable one at that), but older fosters tend to have been through a horrifying amount of abuse that means they often need a lot of help themselves. honestly, the plan to have him live in the ... | nta . your sister is insane.
what happens if she learns about au pairs :/ | nta!!!!! too many foster kids end up in homes like that and its digusting! people should only take in a kid of they're willing to treat them like their own kid and provide a loving and fun home. you absloutly did the right thing, saving a kid from being subjected to being a maid and nanny. | holy shit, nta.
my husband and i have talked about adopting teenagers. the first thing we talked about was that we weren’t asking them to babysit. it’s not their job, and foster kids have gone through so much. making them a live in, unpaid nanny is just disgusting and your sister should be ashamed of herself. | nta i’m so tired of people using the foster care system for their own narcissistic needs, usually it’s money in this case it’s labor. just as bad as people who have more children just so they can take care of their siblings etc. you absolutely did the right thing in making sure no foster kid ever goes into that abusing... | nta
i'm just going to say it, you sister is a very bad person. | nta your sister sounds horrible a foster child doesn't want need a roof over there head they need a family to love then not to be treated as a slave. you did the right thing. | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for deleting my friend's wedding photos in front of them? | i'm not really a photographer, i'm a dog groomer. i take lots of photos of dogs all day to put on my facebook and instagram, it's "my thing" if that makes sense. a cut and a photo with every appointment. i very seldom shoot things other than dogs even if i have a nice set up.
a friend got married a few days ago and wa... | 40,738 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/po2kd8/aita_for_deleting_my_friends_wedding_photos_in/ | 2021-09-14 13:15:53 | nta at all. you could have risked your health and they treated you like shit. | they wanted mates rates but didn’t even save you food?
nta. the dogs are much better people than these ‘friends’ | nta. he told you to leave without pay and you called his bluff. | nta.
they took you off the guest list for this without mentioning it to you in advance.
you went in with the expectation of $250 to take high quality pictures... while also being a guest at their event (including a place to sit, eat & drink)
and realistically, you did nothing but follow the grooms suggestion. ... | nta. who refuses to allow someone water or food? | should have kept the photos and sold them for $1,000.
the $750 extra is the butthead customer surcharge. | nta. that sounds horrible. i understand making rash decisions like this and then regretting them. but imo that was not an asshole move. nobody who gives ultimatums can then fault people for choosing one of the two options presented. like what kind of logic is that? groom: op you either choose 1. or 2. op: i choose 2. g... | nta. how do people like this even exist?? didn't know becoming a photographer meant you didn't need food or water. | nta...giving a hungry person an ultimatum is a huge mistake. i hope they enjoy their memories, because the photographs aren't on the way. | nta
you're my idol!!! lol. slave labor ended years ago were they trying to revive it?
you should make a post explaining the situation before they get back and blame it all on you. | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for making a scene of my adult son and sticking my nose in his marriage | i’m 60 and bad with the whole text thing on mobiles so i’m hoping i won’t be judged on my grammar
here’s the important background my daughter in law (32) and son(33) have 3 children aged 3 years 2 years and 4 months . he convinced her to be a stay at home mom and sell her business by telling her how good of a childh... | 40,152 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/p0p2ui/aita_for_making_a_scene_of_my_adult_son_and/ | 2021-08-08 23:03:34 | nta. it sounds like your misogynistic son needed some humiliation and to have someone stick their nose into his marriage. it's not like you are a stranger - you are his mother. also, this is not a minor thing, this is your son treating his wife like a servant, not a spouse. | nta
your son sounds like an asshole. he convinced her to become a stay at home mom so he could avoid being a dad? | nta.
good on you for sticking up for your dil. your son needs a serious reality check. 3 babies and all the chores?? he’s nuts!! | no you're nta, but you're spot on in your assessment of your narcissistic, chauvinistic son. let him have his tantrum. he's treated his wife badly, and he has no remorse. someone needed to stand up for your dil and grandkids. kudos to you.
your poor dil. thank goodness she has you. | nta. your son had the audacity to cancel a spa trip you paid for so he could go get drunk with his friends. how dare he.
any good mum tells their kids off when disrespecting their partner, especially when they are a lazy do-nothing. you dil is doing everything for that family, and she definitely didn't deserve the hu... | normally, i think a mil interfering with a marriage is a ah move. however, this is a different dynamic. you were standing up for your dil. now, you may be the ah for whatever got you banned from the bar but not for standing up for your dil | i mean, i guess we need to know exactly what was said but i’m pretty sure nta. | nta! i don’t know if this is real or not but i absolutely love it. son definitely deserved to be embarrassed and called out for treating his wife so poorly. he probably picked this behavior up from his friends. good for you for standing up for your dil. also i love your arrangement with your husband about date nights a... | nta and, as a former dil, i want to say thank you for this. my mil was horrible (her son was an alcoholic and abused me emotionally, sexually and physically, and when i called her begging for help, she told me that as his wife he was my responsibility). there are so many stories out there of toxic mil sometimes i imagi... | nta - you've mentioned that she's moving in with her parents for a while to think about this, so do check in on her and continue to be supportive.
let her know that you are here for her and that you will be supportive of whatever decision she makes.
you did the right thing. | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for saying my babysitting rates are $35 an hour? | i'm a software engineer, with a full time job and a side hustle of doing freelance coding work in my own time. i've always been the type to have a side hustle i put a lot of my free time into; i get really bored sitting idle.
my freelance hourly rates are $60 an hour, and at my full time job, my hourly pay works out t... | 39,874 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/eizcvf/aita_for_saying_my_babysitting_rates_are_35_an/ | 2020-01-02 15:09:34 | nta. 3 kids all day, for 3 straight days? even real babysitters would charge more than 15 for 3 kids. obviously they wanted you to do it as a favor, and got upset that you treated it as an actual job. | nta. if they really wanted to go away for three days they should have arranged a sitter in advance. the husband saying you're a 24 year old girl (btw, you're a woman at 24...) and your time isn't worth anything is ridiculous considering you'd get paid $60 an hour if you don't babysit their kids. the husband sounds l... | nta
>and she went crazy at me, saying that's a ridiculous rate for babysitting, that i was entitled and being selfish, that i'm trying to take advantage of how she didn't have other options, etc.
i would have bowed out immediately and told her to have fun dealing with no options.
>her husband then got mad at m... | $35 an hour for watching the 3 kids? where were you when my three kids needed babysitting? my wife and i hardly went out and never for very long because we were being charged $20 per hour per kid.
nta, op. it's your time and you charge what you think your time is worth. it's up to the customer to decide if they agree ... | nta.
a. if they need a babysitter that badly they should've arranged for one in advance.
b. you're being asked to baby sit three kids. three kids is a lot of work, $15 sounds kinda absurd to me.
c. you have your own life and an actual job that you would be neglecting (or free lance at least) that is worth almost do... | nta
you're a "stupid little girl" who pulls $60/hour freelancing. i just started salesforce training and i'd be happy to make half that freelancing. good for you! | nta. she offered to pay you, you named your price, she didn’t like it. maybe she expected a discount. i would have gone with nah except you actually named a price that isn’t outside the norm compared to the going rates in my area. the general rule used to be $15 an hour for one kid, $20 an hour for 2 kids, but she has ... | nta
if your mom and husband are so bothered by it, why arent they babysitting? | nta, because asking someone who is also on vacation to watch your kids for 3 days is kind of shitty. an evening, sure, but 3 whole days is crazy. | nta
your time, your rates
to anyone saying "it's not fair to charge that much" - the price is the price, nobody owes you cheap child care (especially during the holidays at the last minute for several days) - honestly $60 seems reasonable to me, $20 per brat per hour.
don't like it? find someone else or maybe spend... | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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AITA for making fun of a white girl for being poor because she was being racist? | i’m asian, more specifically one of the only chinese people in my grade, which has been absolutely fun these days.
so the girl in question, has been racially harassing me since the beginning of lockdown, when she dmed and said “did the bat taste good? thanks a lot you fucking freak”. i reported her to my school, and ... | 39,630 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/icmq68/aita_for_making_fun_of_a_white_girl_for_being/ | 2020-08-19 12:31:22 | nta, backing down to bullies never works, you have to hit back or they never stop. | nta in my opinion. i was made fun of for being gay as a kid, and developed a sharp tongue by way of defense. i would often get in trouble for making kids cry, even though i was defending just myself. just be careful how you hurt people and recognize that you have power and yield it with responsibility. | your last sentence answered your own question.
1. it apparently worked, so who cares.
2. burning bridges on your way out can be fun. | nta
girl “ you’re a *slur* do you eat bats?”
*roar of laughter*
you “you’re poor”
“omg she can’t control that” “meany” | nta it seems like you put up with a lot, i’m sorry. while you clearly know it’s not good to stoop to a bullies level, this girl had it coming after all the nasty shit she said. people can only tolerate so much abuse before lashing out, maybe she’ll learn that.
at least she’s left you alone and you’re switching schools.... | technically it‘d be everybody sucks because you know “she started it“ doesn’t make anyone look good but i can’t say i blame you for reacting this way. you tried solving it the right way, it didn’t work, so even though you were *an* ah too, you‘re still nta in this moment. | nta serves that bully right. she shouldn’t dish it out if she can’t take it. i agree that you shouldn’t make fun someone for something they can’t change, but some people can’t see how painful it is until they experience it themselves. | nta
yeah two wrongs dont make a right but this was the only way to get her to stfu.
don’t dish stuff out if you can’t take stuff back | if racist you be, get no sympathy from me | nta. i see the esh comments and i don't think you were being racist, because:
1. you specifically pointed out her condition. you were mean, yes, but that was a response to the racism you were experiencing.
2. poor white people may not understand the concept of privilege but they are, ultimately, white. a poor white pe... | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | NTA | null | NTA | 0 | Classify the interpersonal conflict and explain your choice. Your choices are limited to you're the a**hole (yta) when the writer is causing the conflict, not the a**hole (nta) when someone other than the writer is causing the conflict, no a**holes here (nah) when no one is causing the conflict, everyone sucks here (es... | <s>[INST] <<SYS>>
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