Hkang/summarize_sft-test_lm-EleutherAI_pythia-1b_seed-42_numex-250_lr3e8_12K_HF_RM-BON_64

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t3_odlcs	AskReddit	Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do?	My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor of some sort. Her parents have agreed sort of, but have taken no action. I am worried because i...	serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor...	serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1151, 3764, 314, 23201, 305, 71, 13, 3198, 1361, 432, 247, 30286, 390, 7345, 533, 617, 4651, 31451, 1361, 13, 752, 476, 891, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 47770, 314, 23201, 19609, 13, 3198, 1361, 15, 1737, 476, 891, 513, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 310, 1907, 247, 2257, 273, 8991, 3374, 2...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	202	My girlfriend is severely depressed and has become very withdrawn from me, i need to get her the help she needs to feel better and i dont know what to do.
t3_44h9co	relationships	Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag?	I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Anni...	potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3052, 309, 544, 938, 16, 46, 62, 32721, 253, 3226, 309, 1353, 6523, 544, 938, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything...	potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2442, 305, 71, 434, 3331, 310, 2238, 273, 247, 660, 14661, 1436, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 281, 5963, 3095, 323, 616, 3331, 434, 5231, 32, 1359, 943, 309, 2312, 281, 31479, 670, 619, 24626, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3052, 309, 544, 938, 16, 46, 62, 32721, 253, 3226, 309, 1353, 6523, 544, 938, 16, 39, 62, 1512, 17770, 314, 323, 253, 5231, 273, 617, 3331, 544, 95, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	537	I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for a lot of people, and I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and her friend's friendship with Annie.
t3_13ngyh	AskReddit	Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences?	For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming int...	Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and...	Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 322, 1070, 4861, 715, 7139, 13, 13762, 9361, 247, 5561, 369, 21266, 247, 11129, 13, 285, 1160, 690, 15229, 1175, 2739, 275, 247, 787, 40304, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 39714, 13, 752, 403, 634, 1682, 13, 390, 6830, 9065, 13, 34778, 8450, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1198, 479, 13, 670, 247, 807, 3622, 247, 1643, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	323	went camping with a group of buddies in the middle of nowhere. Fell off the ladder and got on my back, now we're all laughing.
t3_26gzc6	relationships	Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill?	About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear ...	Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment...	Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3808, 5371, 3722, 83, 5394, 13, 619, 9386, 22273, 310, 3192, 1557, 273, 479, 285, 2509, 594, 1199, 323, 479, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2455, 29216, 779, 323, 824, 247, 22793, 33186, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1099, 39, 1092, 15101, 544, 1237, 353, 62, 374, 337, 16, 19, 1107, 1969, 1359, 513, 368, 5717, 3095, 665, 556, 644, 3192, 1557, 273, 368, 6...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	482	My boyfriend has been doing all of this for me. I feel awful about it. How can I start to show him how thankful I am and how much I appreciate all of this?
t3_4epaj9	relationships	I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single?	I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The stra...	I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and ...	I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 751, 247, 3226, 285, 703, 1537, 751, 479, 13, 533, 703, 671, 1537, 320, 2668, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 4677, 436, 562, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 938, 39, 62, 452, 12759, 281, 871, 544, 1797, 39, 62, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 13, 309, 1158, 359, 1472, 715, 1016, 643, 533, 309, 476, 626, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	257	I think I have a crush on this girl, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not. I don't want to ask, how do I slyly find out if she's single or not?
t3_19nvhz	relationships	I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships.	So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't really know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't reall...	Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships. POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage...	Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 443, 5860, 320, 275, 10912, 7875, 387, 1884, 15, 9018, 574, 247, 19609, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 2509, 1633, 3430, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships. POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 46, 13, 1384, 62, 717, 281, 564, 949, 271, 10912, 7875, 387, 2363, 1884, 604, 309, 717, 1335, 2014, 13, 533, 309, 717, 642, 2323, 275, 7688,...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	341	My mother and I agreed that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't really know.
t3_h41pk	relationships	Need some advice on breaking up	So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probab...	Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating...	Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up<\|endoftext\|>	[ 308, 2200, 281, 2740, 484, 342, 253, 33952, 1390, 2129, 13, 846, 247, 1048, 2312, 359, 4425, 281, 1978, 2820, 13, 436, 369, 247, 10551, 285, 309, 1335, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 20389, 690, 7535, 327, 10155, 598, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1158, 352, 434, 673, 323, 619, 33952, 285, 309, 281, 1067, 352, 572, 953, 15, 329, ...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	292	Girlfriend of 9 months and I are going to break up. I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold.
t3_250ro9	relationships	I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder	As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend a...	Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder POST: As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't te...	Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).<\|endoftext\|>	[ 22757, 13597, 3331, 313, 12563, 2335, 617, 2432, 72, 5953, 10, 310, 3939, 327, 308, 6228, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 943, 2028, 617, 390, 417, 313, 263, 672, 481, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder POST: As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't te...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 746, 401, 62, 1119, 253, 5599, 619, 3331, 310, 13597, 544, 1423, 46, 13, 655, 401, 62, 327, 308, 6228, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1284, 253, 4060,...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	229	I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend also really, really...
t3_31is9l	relationships	Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree.	Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became very good friends and the relationship started escalliting quite quickly. We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the f...	we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree. POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became...	we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 359, 1313, 387, 6831, 13, 703, 4395, 1977, 281, 1263, 13822, 4721, 15, 1500, 5605, 247, 1048, 4181, 2954, 13, 309, 971, 281, 2118, 281, 320, 342, 617, 1735, 807, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree. POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 247, 544, 1093, 78, 62, 806, 807, 9835, 402, 33659, 6497, 323, 1529, 544, 1093, 71, 62, 374, 2607, 3253, 556, 644, 1469, 973, 3707, 703, 4395, 1...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	488	I fell for a girl that left me, moved halfway across the country, she says she wants a long distance relationship. Not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl or if its because I missed her.
t3_2ptbbs	relationships	Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask.	We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be w...	I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase o...	I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 971, 281, 320, 342, 617, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 359, 403, 1512, 2080, 7419, 285, 309, 5476, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 1158, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 2312, 281, 3780, 670, 352, 15, 9876, 703, 971, 281, 3523, 2505, 272, 390, 310...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase o...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1619, 39, 62, 342, 619, 385, 544, 1630, 39, 62, 273, 608, 1107, 13, 5605, 281, 871, 670, 619, 3708, 533, 1912, 626, 1642, 15, 187, 187, 1...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	357	Ex of 5 years wants to know about my status but won't ask because we are too far apart and she isn't communicating with me via text or in person.
t3_36781z	legaladvice	Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment?	I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue....	I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full acc...	I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 717, 2820, 281, 1089, 690, 3686, 273, 4320, 42498, 16, 3306, 14851, 326, 271, 11169, 1364, 2523, 247, 2451, 347, 7830, 313, 395, 326, 1480, 18831, 320, 816, 271, 4500, 481, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full acc...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 7685, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2615, 271, 11169, 16410, 281, 3959, 247, 2451, 347, 7830, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 2820, 281, 1089, 604, 627, 310, 667, 29889, 10097, 1485...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	276	My company only offers direct deposit, and it takes a week to physically print a check. Can the employer refuse to offer a check as payment?
t3_3gjyf9	dating_advice	Should i even go there?	The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male , is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but never anythig more - I thought he was gay. We've always had a bit o...	guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should i even go there? POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but ne...	guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 5599, 665, 13052, 479, 1537, 320, 11730, 533, 5605, 281, 1153, 489, 247, 5886, 342, 479, 347, 1048, 347, 309, 20848, 387, 253, 1659, 309, 4143, 15, 309, 306, 671, 2183, 779, 1512, 1199, 670, 619, 1495, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should i even go there? POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but ne...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 44275, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14482, 891, 1014, 564, 627, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 3973, 1501, 2490, 187, 510, 5006, 16, 1342, 891, 751, 2363, 3127, 5086, 13, 310, 30...	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1...	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	414	Boy is questioning his sexuality and has a sexual interest in me. Ive told him a lot about my past and hes now interested. Should i even go there?

t3_odlcs

AskReddit

Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do?

My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor of some sort. Her parents have agreed sort of, but have taken no action. I am worried because i...

serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor...

serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor...

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My girlfriend is severely depressed and has become very withdrawn from me, i need to get her the help she needs to feel better and i dont know what to do.

t3_44h9co

relationships

Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag?

I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Anni...

potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything...

potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything...

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I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for a lot of people, and I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and her friend's friendship with Annie.

t3_13ngyh

AskReddit

Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences?

For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming int...

Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and...

Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and...

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went camping with a group of buddies in the middle of nowhere. Fell off the ladder and got on my back, now we're all laughing.

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Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill?

About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear ...

Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment...

Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment...

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My boyfriend has been doing all of this for me. I feel awful about it. How can I start to show him how thankful I am and how much I appreciate all of this?

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I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single?

I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The stra...

I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and ...

I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and ...

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I think I have a crush on this girl, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not. I don't want to ask, how do I slyly find out if she's single or not?

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I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships.

So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't really know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't reall...

Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships. POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage...

Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships. POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage...

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My mother and I agreed that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't really know.

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Need some advice on breaking up

So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probab...

Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating...

Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating...

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Girlfriend of 9 months and I are going to break up. I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold.

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I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder

As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend a...

Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder POST: As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't te...

Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder POST: As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't te...

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t3_31is9l

relationships

Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree.

Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became very good friends and the relationship started escalliting quite quickly. We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the f...

we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree. POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became...

we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree. POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became...

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I fell for a girl that left me, moved halfway across the country, she says she wants a long distance relationship. Not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl or if its because I missed her.

t3_2ptbbs

relationships

Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask.

We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be w...

I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase o...

I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase o...

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Ex of 5 years wants to know about my status but won't ask because we are too far apart and she isn't communicating with me via text or in person.

t3_36781z

legaladvice

Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment?

I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue....

I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full acc...

I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full acc...

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My company only offers direct deposit, and it takes a week to physically print a check. Can the employer refuse to offer a check as payment?

t3_3gjyf9

dating_advice

Should i even go there?

The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male , is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but never anythig more - I thought he was gay. We've always had a bit o...

guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should i even go there? POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but ne...

guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should i even go there? POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but ne...

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Boy is questioning his sexuality and has a sexual interest in me. Ive told him a lot about my past and hes now interested. Should i even go there?