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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] have just come out of 8 year relationship. Feel like I don't know how to date/flirt. Scared will grow old with many cats. Any advice?
POST: This is my first post so please be kind :)
I know that lots of people often feel confused when they come out of a long-term relationship... | I have just come out of an 8 year relationship. I am confused about dating and flirting. I am scared that I will grow old alone and lonely. What advice can you give? | I have just come out of a 8 year relationship. I feel confused and scared. I don't know how to date/flirt. What do? What do I do?
| I'm a 23 year old woman who has just come out of a long-term relationship. I'm scared I'll grow old with many cats. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I get over knowing that all our plans are now gone after a break up, M 22/ Ex GF 19
POST: (Full background under my submitted)
I decided I couldn't wait for my ex to come around since there was no guarantee that me waiting for her would be worth it. Sure since the breakup we h... | My ex and I had so many plans after the breakup and now that we are done forever I can't wrap my head around the fact that we will never laugh, kiss, talk etc etc again. How do I move on and be happy after knowing all the hard work we put in and all the love is out | I decided I couldn't wait for my ex to come around after the breakup, now all that is gone. How do I move on and be happy after knowing all the hard work we put in and all the love is gone?
| I'm so lost and alone after a break up, how do I move on and be happy knowing that all our plans are now gone? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19M] girlfriend [16F] is envious of my past relationships. Not sure how to talk her out of it
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now, and it has been a blast since the very first day. We basically went from rather good friends to an amazing couple wi... | My girlfriend is envious of my past relationships in which I have been in love with other women. I would like to come up with an objective advice on how to talk her out of it. | Girlfriend is envious of my past girlfriends, my last one in particular. I am positive that I have never been in love with anyone as I have been with my current girlfriend. What should I do to keep it from being too hard?
| Girlfriend is jealous of my past relationships, and I am not sure how to talk her out of it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Help Wanted: Working Out and Sex Drive
POST: On Sunday, I ran my first 10-mile race. While this is a great accomplishment I have noticed a significant spike in my sex drive during the week leading up to the race and in the days since I ran; about 10 days in total.
I workout 2-3 times pe... | I have noticed a significant increase in my sex drive during the week leading up to my first 10-mile race and in the days since I ran. I want to continue working out but am afraid being fit will turn me into a sex addict. | I have a high sex drive during the week leading up to a race, but can't stop thinking about sex. I want to continue working out but am afraid being fit will turn me into a sex addict. What do?
| I am a 20-something male who has been working out and eating a plant-based diet for the past few months. I want to continue working out but am afraid of becoming a sex addict. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/M] did something kinda stupid and want to know if I should try to correct it with this girl [19/F] further or leave it be.
POST: This is kinda non-romantic, I suppose. I recently made several new friends on twitter. All of them are girls. They're all fairly cute but I've been b... | I told a girl on twitter that I thought she was cute but I meant nothing serious, woke up in the morning and realized what I'd done and apologized, feel awful about it and want to know if I should try to correct it further or leave it be. | I made a mistake and told a girl that I thought she was really cute but that I didn't mean anything serious. I feel awful and I feel like a creep but I feel like apologizing further would make it weirder. What do?
| I told a girl I thought she was cute but I didn't mean anything serious about it. I feel awful about it and I feel like a creep but I feel like apologizing further would make it weirder. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I 27/F get over my three year relationship with my ex/SO (26/M)
POST: I have been dating my SO for nearly three years, the past year of which I had to move back to my home town and in with my parents. Because of this, and several other things, I became quite depressed and our... | I have been dating my SO for three years, the past year of which I had to move back to my home town and in with my parents. Because of this, and several other things, I became quite depressed and our relationship suffered for it, and it eventually led to us breaking up. One of the main | I have been dating my SO for three years, the past year of which I had to move back to my home town. I feel really lonely and I just dont know how to get out of this slump. How have you gotten over the initial stages of heartbreak?
| I have been dating my SO for three years, and I have been in a very bad place for the past few weeks. How do I get over this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I want to lose weight, where do I start?
POST: It's summer and I've got a lot of time on my hands, I've also got some fat accumulating on my body that I really wouldn't like to be there and have a new appearance when I return to school in August. I'm a gamer so my diet is poor and I tend... | I want to lose weight and look better in summer but I'm not sure how to start, I've never tried to lose weight before and I'm not sure if a morning jog would be a good start. | I want to lose weight and I'm a gamer and I have a lot of time on my hands. I'm unsure as I've never tried to lose weight before. What do I do? What are some good ways to do it?
| I want to lose weight, where do I start? I'm a gamer and I'm lazy, I'm also a bit overweight. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] and my girlfriend [23F] of 4+ years have slowly been having less open communication. Who is being unreasonable? Other opinions?
POST: We began dating right after 1st year Uni, dated 1 year then broke up for 6 months over differences in expectations for how long our dating wo... | My girlfriend and I have been having less and less open communication about our relationship future and our relationship goals. Is this normal? Is it a real problem or is one of us being unreasonable? Can anyone relate? | Girlfriend of 4 years has been having less and less depth and frequency of conversation. I feel it's not sustainable and she feels it's necessary. We plan to go couples counselling this month. What is the normal? Is it a real problem? What do?
| Girlfriend and I have been having less and less open communication. I feel like we are not having enough depth of conversation and I am not sure if it is a problem or if it is just a normal thing to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating tzatziki
POST: Obligatory this was when I was in high school.
So, for those of you who don't know, in Boston there's a shopping area called Haymarket. To all the tourists in the area, it's just Faneuil Hall, which is the crazy cramped food court building in the center of the a... | I ordered a Greek yogurt-based tzatziki from a food court in Faneuil Hall, and it tasted great, but after eating five or more bites it caused my reaction of disgust/bewilderment. | Tried eating tzatziki, people looked at me with disgust/bewilderment. I was a good person, but after eating it, my body just went "Okay, you need to cool it with that stuff." What do?
| I ate a tub of tzatziki, and it tasted like a Nantucket Nectar. I'm not sure why everyone around me looked at me with mild disgust/bewilderment. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: [insurance] I can no longer afford insurance for myself and my family
POST: Okay... Long story short.
My wife was a school teacher but hated her life. At this time i was working full time and working on my degree. Well things flip flopped around and I ended up going to part time at... | My wife was a school teacher but hated her life and switched jobs and now we are paying 750 for insurance that barely covers us and we cant afford it. I would like to know if there is some sort of advocacy service that can help me navigate the insurance system so that I can get my family affordable insurance without p... | I can no longer afford insurance for myself and my family. I would like some sort of advocacy service to help me navigate the insurance system so that I can get my family affordable insurance without paying over 15% of our annual income.
| I am a college student who is trying to get insurance for my family. I am not sure if it is worth it to pay $175 for insurance that I will not be able to afford. |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Just Bought A Garmin Forerunner 305 For What I Think Is A Decent Deal. Thought I'd Share.
POST: So I did some looking around at different models of wrist mount GPS units. Cost and functionality were the biggest concern. I finally decided on the Forerunner 305 since it would do everything I... | I found a great deal on a Garmin Forerunner 305 for $160, and it will work on any fitness GPS. I think it's a decent deal. | Just bought a Forerunner 305 for $160. The coupon should work on any Garmin GPS. What do I do now? What should I do?
| I bought a Forerunner 305 for $160 at Best Buy. I think it's a decent deal. I'm hoping to meet more cool people like her while pursuing this sport. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: I have read the FAQ, but I still have no idea what I am doing. Sorry for the stupid questions!
POST: Just wanted to say sorry again for wasting your time helping me out! I know I'm probably blind or something. >.<
I read the FAQ, and I was able to do some of the things to get started but ma... | I read the FAQ and it said I could calculate my BMR, but it didn't tell me how to calculate my BF% or what to look for in a diet to help me lose weight and build muscle. I have no idea what I am aiming for. | I read the FAQ, but I still have no idea what I am doing. I want to lose my layer of fat and build muscle, but I am not sure what the goal weight is. What are my other options?
| I am trying to lose my layer of fat and build muscle, but I am not sure if there's a goal weight involved or what sort of time table I am looking at or how many calories I would need to eat. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Recently we got a new flatmate who is turning out to be an absolute nightmare. What horrible flatmate stories do you have?
POST: A little background info: A few months ago, my flatmate and I were forced to rent out our spare room to keep costs down. My flatmate put an ad out and this guy... | A new flatmate has been acting really weird and abusive towards us. We can't kick him out as he is on the lease and we can't afford rent payments with just the two of us. | My flatmate is a pathological liar and has lied about everything. He loves all the attention it brings him. We can't kick him out as he is on the lease. What horrible flatmate stories do you have?
| My flatmate is a complete psycho and we can't kick him out of the flat because he is on the lease. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I tell if She [22/F] is uninterested or just shy after first date with Me [22/M].
POST: I've just come out of a 4 year relationships a month later set up a date with a girl I've had previous dates with. Our previous dates were always a bit awkward because we were both nervous... | I had a great first date with a girl, we talked for an hour and had some moments of intimacy but after the date I feel disconnected or not reaching the level of intimacy I should've. Is it appropriate to send the night of the date a "I had a great time, we should catch up again soon" | After a date with a girl I had previous dates with, I felt we became more comfortable and we ended up talking for an hour. But after the date was over I feel disconnected or not reaching the level of intimacy I feel I should have. What do I do?
| I'm not sure if she's shy or just shy after a first date with me. I'm not sure if I'm overthinking or over expecting things. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by leaving the house door open.
POST: This happened a couple of hours ago, and i'm still a bit nervous about all this. I'm what most would consider a hardcore gamer, and as most people into this, they usually cherish and collect their favorite games and such.
Today I skipped work because... | I left my door open and my gaming console was stolen while I was at home, I now have a gaping hole in my house where my consoles used to be. | Left the door open, my monitor was crooked, and the cables were off. Someone robbed my house. What do? What do I do?
| I left my door open, and my house was robbed. I'm a gamer, and I'm a bit of a paranoid person. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend and her ex.
POST: Hi,
Throwaway account. I'm M/22. I was with my girlfriend for about a year then we split because she went travelling. We are now back together and met up overseas and travelled for a few weeks then she has a few weeks travelling by herself before she retu... | Girlfriend and her ex keep in touch and I am uncomfortable that she is staying with an ex boyfriend when she has not told me who she is staying with. What is the best way to bring up the fact that this makes me uncomfortable? | Girlfriend keeps in touch with ex-boyfriend, who she has told me a bit about, but is not open about it. What is the best way to bring up the fact that this makes me uncomfortable?
| Girlfriend and her ex are staying with a friend in a country she has never visited before. I'm not sure if I should bring it up or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Has anyone ever been in a trial relationship? LDR [22F] and [22M]
POST: I'm the 22F and we've been 'together' for 5 months now.
We're in an LDR and we're around 3k miles apart. We've never met, but we will in one month and will be spending a month together for the first time.
We're... | 22F and 22M are in an LDR and are 3k miles apart. We're in a trial phase and are considering committing or not. Has anyone been in a LDR and how did it work out? | My SO is in a trial phase of an LDR and is considering committing to it. We are committed to meeting each other and its that part that is shaky. Has anyone been in this type of situation before and how did it work out?
| I'm in a LDR and I'm not sure if I should commit or not. Has anyone been in a trial relationship before? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] my father [61M] sometimes seems to not care about me, and it really hurts.
POST: Im not even going to bother post all the abuse he's done to me, posted that in other places. But
-first visit to the gynecologist, (was 19 then too, thought there was something wrong, wasn't. Lo... | My father seems to not care about me, and it really hurts. I have heard nasty things said about me when I told my parents I had a boyfriend who abused me. | My father seems not to care about me. It really hurts. I have heard nasty things he said when he thought I wasn't listening. What can I do? What can I say?
| My father is abusive, and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't know if I should move out or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (23/F) have been dating an inexperienced dater (23/M) and I have no idea what's going on.
POST: So, we met on the ever popular OKCupid about a month ago, and have been on around 8 dates since. On our second date we ended up going home together, and having sex, but there was no awkw... | I dated an inexperienced dater on OKCupid, had a great time and conversation, but when we're apart he ignores me and seems bored. I'm a little confused and frustrated. | Dating inexperienced dater, no real experience, no interest outside of face to face dating. I really like him, but he seems bored when we're together. What do? What do I do?
| I'm dating an inexperienced dater, but I don't know what's going on. I'm not sure if I should be worried or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26/F] with my ex[24 M] of three years, broke up with me because I make him happy. Now he wants to go date other girls for one last time before possible settling down. Emphasis on possibly.
POST: My ex and I have been together for three years and he's broken up with me because he ... | My ex broke up with me because he says I make him happy and he's not ready to settle down. He claims it's just a break he needs. Do I let him go and make him realize what he's losing, or should I respect his decision? | My ex broke up with me because he says I make him happy. Now he wants to go out and party one last time before settling down. Should I let him go and make him realize what he's losing?
| Ex and I broke up because he says I'm perfect for him and he's not ready to settle down. Now he wants to go date other girls for one last time before possible settling down. Is this bullshit? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [29M] Worried that I may never be about to be monogamous
POST: After a good amount of relationships and dating I am starting to notice a trend with myself. After a while I find it hard to keep focused or interested in one girl and start looking for something "new and exciting". Part ... | I often find myself looking for someone else to spark my interest even if its not a long term relationship, and I wonder if I am capable of being monogamous. | After a good amount of dating and being in a relationship I find it hard to keep focused or interested in one girl. I feel the need to learn about their lives and experiences and enjoy them together. What do I do?
| I am not sure if I am monogamous or not, and I am worried that I may never be about to be monogamous. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [F25] being selfish for not wanting to leave my family to live near partner's [M26]?
POST: I've been in a long distance relationship for the last 5 years. We live over 250 miles away from each other, and have done since the beginning, apart from a few years when I was at uni, I ... | I'm in a long distance relationship, and am struggling to find a place to live with my SO, we have discussed moving closer to our families but I don't want to leave my parents, I love my SO and want to be with him, but I don't know what to do. | I love my SO, we have a problem living over 250 miles away from each other. I don't want to leave my parents, but I love my SO and I don't know what to do. What do? What is the best way to move away?
| I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'm not sure if I should move closer to my SO, or stay where I am. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How soon is too soon?
POST: I'm going to start by saying I've (25f) been out of the dating game for about 3 years. That LTR ended in June and I've had numerous "dates" with guys who turn out to be creeps or just not what they advertise.
Fast forward go a few weeks ago. I met a m... | I feel like a long term relationship is possible with a guy who has already expressed interest in me physically. I'm not rushing into anything and I'm not pressuring him. Is it too soon to start seeing where this is going? | I feel like an opportunity is coming up this weekend. I feel like the relationship is more than physical. I feel ready mentally, physically and emotionally. What do? What is too soon?
| I'm ready to date a guy who is ready to show me off to his family. How soon is too soon? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: How do i live with my ex for a few more weeks
POST: Me 30m and my girlfriend 23f of 4 years just broke up a few days ago. We have dated on and of the entire 4 years.We have lived together for about 3 years off and on. We usually go about 8-11 months and then we lose interest it seems then... | My ex cheated on me and broke up with me and now says shes not interested in a relationship but wants to stay friends. I need help with my mental health after this. I need to stay away from her and our home. I need support. | My girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me a few days ago. We have been dating for about 3 years. We have very minimal contact. I feel if we are breaking up, this is it. What do i do? What do i do?
| Girlfriend broke up with me, i am now in a m2m lease and i dont know how to deal with this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] disappointed my girlfriend [19F] of 6/mos by saying I didn't want to go to a haunted house
POST: For the past few week my girlfriend has been wanting to go to a haunted house. She has asked my multiple times and I had curved the question by jokingly saying "Yeah, only if som... | My girlfriend has expressed disappointment that I said I would not enjoy a haunted house if I go with her, and I feel like I could have communicated more directly when she first brought up the haunted houses a few weeks ago. How do I make this into a good night, or is that not possible anymore? | My girlfriend was disappointed that I said I would go to a haunted house, but it almost seemed like she was depressed. What do I do now that she's disappointed? What do I say to make it into a good night?
| My girlfriend is disappointed that I said I wouldn't enjoy a haunted house because of my anxiety. How do I make this into a good night? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/M] girl in the group...awkward scenarios
POST: Hello reddit,
So earlier in the year an old school friend of ours came into the group with a long distance BF and nobody was really bothered but soon the "hatin'" came up. After a while she broke up with the guy and I watched a... | Old school friend flaked on me and everyone still hangs out but one friend keeps obsessing over her and I feel lonely. How do I deal with the consequences? | Girl in the group flaked on me and I moved on, everyone still hangs out but there's a veil of passive aggressive and I feel lonely. What do?
| Girl in the group flaked on me and I moved on, now I'm lonely and need a group of friends to chill with. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, How would I do so?
POST: I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that feel as if by them paying for me so far, (feeding me and letting me live with them rent-f... | I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that feel as if by them paying for me so far, I am not only their slave, but am expected to mindlessly agree with everything they say and do. They think that I am not capable | I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that expect me to mindlessly agree with everything they say and do. What would be the best way to do so?
| I am thinking of severing all ties with my family, mostly because they are a bunch of self righteous christian people that feel as if by them paying for me so far, I am not only their slave, but am expected to mindlessly agree with everything they say and do. They think that I am not capable |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34 F] with my _boyfriend__ [30M/] 1 year, I have just found out he has been cheating for 6 MONTHS!!!!
POST: 6months...6 months!!!!! I've never felt so betrayed. I'm everything you would expect heartbroken, angry. I haven't stopped crying since I've found out I'm pretty sure he's ... | My boyfriend has been cheating on his long term girlfriend for 6 months, I have just found out he has been with other women. I'm devastated, lonely, and need advice. | Boyfriend has been cheating on me for 6 months. I'm heartbroken, and I need advice on how to cope. I feel so alone. What do I do? What do I do?
| Boyfriend cheated on me, I'm heartbroken, I don't know how to cope. I need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by blowing my nose in the shower
POST: Well reddit, I fucked up hard. I woke up this morning with a nasty cold, and I hopped in the shower before getting ready for school. I thought to myself, "Why don't I just blow my nose in the shower, I mean, it's all just going to go down the drain ... | I blew my nose in the shower, and my phlegm got stuck in the drain catch, and I told them to take a deep sniff of it. | Tried to blow my nose in the shower, my roommate was looking at the tub and was hollering. I scooped up some of my nasal droppings and told them to take a deep sniff. What do?
| I blew my nose in the shower, and I got a cold. I'm still not sure if I'm a dick or a genius. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 4 months, starting to think I'm just another number
POST: Hey Reddit,
I've been dating this girl for 4 months now, and long story short it's been great. I shouldn't complain, but yet I keep feeling as if I'm just another number.
Let me elaborate. ... | Been dating a girl for 4 months, and we're starting to think about having sex. I feel like I'm just another number. | Girlfriend is a virgin, I'm a virgin, we're thinking about having sex. I feel as if I'm just another number. What do? What do I do?
| I'm a virgin, she's been with a few guys, and she's not a virgin. I'm starting to think I'm just another number. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] A really good friend (17/f) made a move on me...
POST: Ok, so I am a bit younger, I hope you don't mind.
I am currently 20 and will start Uni in Germany this fall and I have the first time a real problem with a relationship. I always had a really good friend and she help... | A really good friend kissed me, I panicked and friend zoned her, I don't want to friend zone her, what should I do now? | A really good friend made a move on me, I panicked and friend zoned her. I like her, we understand each other well, but I don't want to friend zone her. What should I do now?
| A really good friend made a move on me, I panicked and friend zoned her. What should I do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by breaking a 3yo backyard jungle gym swing set
POST: Last night was one of my best friend's birthday parties. I'm in the backyard and a couple of my friends go out front to smoke and I stay behind with one other guy. After talking for a bit my eye catches a wooden jungle gym complete wi... | My friend's 3yo brother broke a jungle gym swing set that we used to have as kids, and I feel awful about it. I still feel bad about it even though his parents are OK with it. | My friend broke a jungle gym swing set and his parents were very upset. They want to get rid of it for a while anyways. I feel bad about it. What do you think? What do you think reddit?
| I broke a jungle gym swing set and my friend's 3yo brother was upset by it. I feel bad about it, but I'm not sure if I should feel bad or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should subreddits with niche appeal be allowed to become default subreddits?
POST: For the uninitiated: Default subreddits are subreddits with a certain number of subscribers which makes them visible to people who aren't signed into reddit or haven't added or removed any subreddits.
I'm ... | Should default subreddits with niche appeal be allowed to become default subreddits? I'm finding some of the default subreddits (i.e. atheism and politics) tend to be very off putting, it's not even about the principle of what is being argued or discussed but the way | Should subreddits with niche appeal be allowed to become default subreddits? What are the best ways to make them more welcoming to new users?
| Should subreddits with niche appeal be allowed to become default subreddits? If so, how? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [35/M] of almost 4 years consistently blows off affection from me [28/F].
POST: We have been together for almost 4 years and a lot of the time I feel like we are just good friends who have sex. Any type of affection I give him is usually discounted as "needy" or "clingy"... | My boyfriend consistently ignores my affectionate gestures and comments and I feel like I am constantly being petty and invalidated. I don't want to break up, but I hate wondering if he doesn't love me because he doesn't show affection. | My boyfriend of almost 4 years blows off affection from me. I feel unloved and don't feel like my feelings are reciprocated. What do I do? What do I say to him?
| My boyfriend of almost 4 years consistently blows off affection from me. I don't feel like my feelings are valid and I don't want to break up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my casual relationships in college.
POST: Hey relationship redditors,
I have a quick and intriguing question about relationships in college. What would you do in this situation? It is kind of awkward once I really think about it. Here's my short story.
I'm 20 years ol... | I really like this girl from last semester, but she told me she's not too interested in dating. She has a sister and likes vegetarian food. I could be wrong. | I really like this girl from last semester. She's not too interested in dating. She has a sister and I really like her. What would you do in this situation? What do you think?
| I'm a black man in college. I'm not interested in dating. I'm not interested in going out. I'm not interested in going out with her. I'm not interested in going out with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (19M) wanted to ask out friend of couple months (20M) only to find out his ex (20M) is moving in
POST: I'm a student at college and I was going to confess all my sappy gooey feelings to a guy (Let's call him Mike) and ask him out. We hang out as much as we can on weekends. I've kno... | I was going to ask out a guy I really like only to find out his ex is moving in next door. I don't want to ruin our friendship. Should I? | My friend of couple months (Mike) is moving in with another guy (Joey). I'm shocked at dinner and the rest of the drive as Mike also talks about the huge probability of them being together. What do? Should I tell him?
| I want to ask out a guy I've known for a few months, but I'm afraid he's going to be with his ex. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my 35m boyfriend 3yr. police officer dating bartender
POST: hi, reddit,
I've come here to ask a few questions... And thank you all in advance for reading.
I'm a police officer, my boyfriend is a bartender. We've been together for about 3 years. We've had a lot of ups an... | my boyfriend hangs out at bars with his drinking buddies while I work night shift. I'm upset that he does this and I don't know if I could have a future with him. Is this normal? | My boyfriend is a bartender at a bar where I work. He hangs out and drinks at the bars while I'm at work. I feel bad for letting it bother me. I don't know if I could have a future with him. What do? What do I do?
| boyfriend is a bartender at a bar. He goes out and drinks at night. I work night shift. I don't want to be bothered by it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20 M] need help getting over my [20 F] Crush.
POST: Hello guys. So i'll just start off by saying there is a girl, a girl i've been a schoolmate with for 8 years and have known her for about 13 years.
For as long as i can remember, i had a crush on her. Thought it was just going to p... | A girl i've known for 8 years and have had a crush on for 13 years, i asked her for her number and got it, she said she's busy studying, but i can still see her voice when i call her, do you think there is still a chance? | Girl i had a crush on for 8 years, i got the number, she made an excuse when i asked for it, i can't forget her, i'm in deep. What do? What do you guys think?
| Crush on a girl for 8 years, she's studying in a city an hour away, i'll be going to her with my friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: My last day at the restaurant...
POST: So, I worked at a restaurant as my second job, after about a month and a half, things were not going as planned. I will spare the details. However, today, I knew I was going to quit, I was just going to wait until the end of my shift.
That's when... | A food runner at a restaurant yelled at me for not working and I left early enough for them to notice and make her stay until close. | I was working at a restaurant and the food runner was acting like a millennial. I was on the schedule to close and she was leaving at 1015. I was going to clock out at 1030. What do I do?
| I was fired for talking to a food runner and not cleaning. I was on the schedule to close and she was leaving at 1015. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Long-distance issues. Plus, she likes me too much? [26M/21F]
POST: I (26M) have been dating this girl (21F) for somewhere over a month now. I recently told her that we should be exclusive, but I am starting to regret that. There are a couple issues: first, the physical distance betwe... | Long-distance dating, she has intense feelings for me, but I don't feel such adoration. I'm worried that the distance is too inconvenient. I'm worried that I'm going to break her little heart. | Girl has intense feelings for me, but I don't feel such adoration. I'm worried that the distance is too inconvenient. What do? What do I do? What do I say?
| Long-distance relationship. She likes me too much. I don't feel the same way. I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Just turned 18 and want to build my credit
POST: I have been working since 16 and make around $12,000 annually with a small amount of expenses (gas, car insurance). I literally just turned 18 and felt that it would be a good idea to get a credit card. I honestly don't need it to "m... | Just turned 18 and want to build my credit. I want to get a credit card to start building my credit. What are some of the best secured Credit Cards to get? | I just turned 18 and want to get a credit card to start building my credit. What are the best secured Credit Cards to get? What are the best options?
| I want to build my credit and I want to get a secured credit card. What are some of the best secured credit cards to get? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[24/F] just found out that my [24/F] SO used to date a guy that I hated
POST: Backstory: I knew they were friends and he was an asshole. And she always claimed to have never dated him. But last night when I was going through her phone I found an old conversation which was suggestiv... | My SO dated an asshole and now claims there is nothing left to hide from me. I'm mad and she's sorry. How do I move forward? | SO used to date guy that I hated. I found an old conversation that was suggestive. She says there is nothing left to hide. How do I feel about this? What do I do?
| SO dated a guy I hated, he's been with her for a long time, she's been lying to me about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] fell hard for [18F].
POST: I basically love the stupid fucking girl. I've had girlfriends in the past and some casual shit, but have never truly cared for any of those girls and she's the only one good enough to get me emotionally invested and now I feel like a big fucking p... | I fell for a girl who is now distant and some more awful shit happens in her life when she goes home. I want to stop talking to her but I still end up texting her and saying stupid shit. | I fell in love with stupid girl who is becoming more distant and some more awful shit happens in her life. She's tough but has her own way of handling things which is not to communicate with anyone. What do you think? What should I do?
| I fell for a girl who is now not with me and I'm not sure what to do. I'm not sure if I should just be happy about it or if I should just be pissed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[29M] with my long term GF [28F] of 3 years, both ambivalent about having children.
POST: I [29M] have been in a relationship with my girlfriend [28F] for three years now, and we have been seriously discussing long-term (aka marriage) prospects. The good news is that both of us can... | My long-term girlfriend is ambivalent about having kids, and we both can see ourselves with jobs in the near future. Can this change or solidify if we finally get stable jobs? | We both are ambivalent about having children, but we can see a future with one another in the long term. Can this change or solidify if we get stable jobs? What are the detracting issues?
| My girlfriend and I are both ambivalent about having kids, and we are both going to get a master's degree in the next few years. Can this change or solidify if we finally get stable jobs? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [17 M] deal with my ex [17 F] (been together for 2 years and broke up a month ago)
POST: we have been together for 2 years and it was a great relationship, we had intimate relations too, we basiclly lived in each others house and we were so happy, she loved me and I loved he... | my ex (2 years) broke up with me and we fought a lot and we hurt eachother a lot and she said she doesnt want to be with me anymore. How do I get her back? | my ex broke up with me a month ago, nothing has changed, I love her and I want her back, how do I get her back? What do I do?
| I love my ex and she doesnt want to be with me, how do I get her back? I have to I feel, its been a month and nothing has changed, I think she still loves me but doesnt want to be with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (31m) roommate's (31m) guest never leaves my apartment. Going on 2 weeks now and I'm annoyed
POST: Hey everyone. My roommate and I are coming to the end of 2 years of living together. Long story short, I will not continue to live with him beyond 2 years.
We used to work together a... | Roommate is oblivious to his own inconsiderate behavior and doesn't leave my apartment when he's supposed to. I'm annoyed and I don't know what to do. | Roommate's guest never leaves the apartment. I'm annoyed at this point. I texted him yesterday and he never replied. What do I do at this point? What do I say?
| Roommate's friend is staying in my apartment. I'm annoyed and don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [29 M] am dating multiple people. How do I navigate this situation?
POST: I had always dated monogamously since the first date, and for reasons related to a past experience of trauma I opened myself up to the possibility of dating around. (Long story, but this is actually a healthy... | I'm dating three different guys at once, and I'm not sure if I should be monogamous with one or two. How do I navigate this situation? | I'm dating three different guys. One is an old fling, the second is a guy I've been seeing for two months. I really like him. How do I navigate this situation? What do I do when I'm not sure if I'm exclusive with someone?
| I'm dating three different guys, and I'm not sure how to navigate this situation. How do I make the decision to be exclusive with someone? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Help with bringing a pseudo-outdoor cat indoors?
POST: This cat currently lives on our front porch as our outdoor cat, we acquired him pretty recently. He was abandoned by a neighbor's brother, and has more than likely only been an outdoor cat for a few months. He wants to come inside de... | We want to let our pseudo-outdoor cat inside, but we're worried he'll tear the place up and/or get used to a litterbox. We could always get him declawed, but the housetraining thing is my real concern. | Pseudo-outdoor cat wants to come inside, we want to let him in, but we're worried he'll tear the house up. What do? What's the best way to bring him inside?
| We want to let our cat inside, but he's clawed and we're worried he'll tear the place up. Any tips? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my close friends [23-26 M/F] who are lazy and never want to put effort into anything.
POST: Sometimes I get the feeling that hanging out with this close group of friends is allowing me to miss so many opportunities in life. My friends who I hang out with on a regular b... | My close friends who are generally active and healthy are lazy and never want to put any effort into anything. I hate that they never want to be active and go to events/places like I do. | My friends who are lazy and never want to do anything are a great group of people. I hate that they never want to be active and go to events/places like I do. What do?
| I'm a 25 year old guy who is overweight and lazy. I'm frustrated because I don't want to be lazy and not do anything. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Best walks when on a choke chain: dog isn't being choked, but is it bringing up bad memories?
POST: My 3 year old GSD x Husky rescue stayed with some relatives for a few days while my boyfriend and I moved house, and the relatives found an old choke chain to walk him with, instead of h... | My dog has never pulled on a choke chain when wearing it, and it hasn't hurt him at all, but will it cause any harm in the past if I use it on him now? | GSD is best behaved when wearing a choke chain, but is it harming him in the past? What do I do if he starts pulling on the lead? What is the psychological damage?
| GSD is best behaved when wearing a choke chain, but is it bringing up bad memories? Will it hurt him in the future? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35 M] with my GF [24 F] flirt since 2 years, together since 1 month - Can you help me keep her?
POST: So I'm 35 and I'm with this 24 year old girl who is as hot as the sun. Like she is reaaally beautiful, always happy/friendly/positive/funny/clever...
She is amazing and I like h... | I like this 24 year old girl, she is amazing and we have a special connection, but she likes me as a 24 year old teen can like you... with this careless attitude, this lack of initiative and very hard to read way of showing she likes me... | Girl is amazing, I really like her, but she is under my skin all the time. How could I stop worrying that I'll lose her? What can I do to revert the situation?
| I'm a guy who likes a girl who likes me too much, and I'm not sure how to stop this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my [19 F] SO of 2 months, at a really strange point in our relationship and I badly need advice
POST: I met my current SO about 2 months ago, we go to the same university, but come from different states. Things progressed fairly quickly; after a month she told me she l... | My girlfriend of 2 months told me she didn't want a long-distance relationship and that she didn't know if she would want to remain exclusive over the summer, but now wants me to hang around so we can get back together in the fall. I don't like the idea of her being single over the summer but | Met my SO 2 months ago, we go to different universities, and things progressed very quickly. She told me she loved me and began referring to herself as my girlfriend. I feel as if I'm being used. What do? What do I do?
| Met my current girlfriend, she wants to be single over the summer, but wants to be friends and back together in the fall. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Recently surfaced trigger is about to ruin my [39 F] relationship with guy [42 M] I am dating
POST: I was in a bad relationship with my ex for 9 years. I have been single for the past 4.
I have recently started dating again and realize I have a trigger and I want to overcome it.
M... | Recently surfaced trigger in my relationship with guy I am dating is about to ruin it. How can I make it go away? I hate it and it really is bothering me. | Recently discovered a trigger in my brain that must be sleeping with my ex. I hate it and it really is bothering me. How can I make it go away?
| I have a trigger that is making me feel like I am cheating on my ex. How can I overcome it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23m) don't feel as attracted to my new gf (20f) anymore because she farts around me
POST: I know this is idiotic. I know that everyone farts and that it's unhealthy to hold them in. But neither of my other girlfriend's used to fart around me. I mean I heard the odd one, now and th... | I don't feel as attracted to my new girlfriend's farts anymore because she acts like it's no big deal. I don't fart that often, but when I do I go to the bathroom when she's around. Has anyone else dealt with this or know a sensitive way to bring it up? | I don't feel as attracted to my new girlfriend's farts anymore because she farts around me. I'm not comfortable with it. What should I say to bring it up? Has anyone else had this?
| I don't like the smell of my girlfriend's farts, but I don't want to hear them. Is it ok to ask her to do the same? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [22m] dating [19f] not sure if I should be feeling more than I am?
POST: We're dating.. not calling it BF or GF.. although that's what it basically is after about two months now. Sometimes I'm really into her and other times I'm less. She is the first girl I've actually "dated" (in t... | I'm dating a girl who really likes me and I feel like I should be feeling more affection towards her than I am. Is this something that will occur later on as we see each other more? | Dating not calling it a relationship, but I feel like I should feel more affection towards her than I do. I feel like it will hurt her in the future. What should I do? What is the non depressing way to break it off?
| I'm dating a girl I really like and I feel like I should be feeling more affection towards her than I am. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [FL] Moving out, roommates staying, I don't get my deposit back until everyone else moves out?
POST: So I am relocating to a new apartment in a few weeks and I'm trying to get everything straightened out. The company that is renting out the house I'm currently at is saying that since I... | Moving out, roommates staying, I don't get my deposit back until everyone else moves out. Roommates are friends, so I'm okay with dealing with this when they move out. What should I do in this case? | Roommates are staying at the house I'm relocating to, they are asking me to sign a waiver that says the deposit cannot be withdrawn until everyone moves out. What do I do? What is the best way to deal with this?
| Moving out, roommates staying, I don't get my deposit back until everyone else moves out. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I go for it even though my time is running out?
POST: So basically there's this girl in my class whom I'm attracted to and I think that there is a chance that we could end up being a couple, but there seems to be a few things that can prevent that from happening.
1. I've hear... | I think there's a chance that I could end up being attracted to this girl, but there's a few things that could prevent that from happening. Should I go for it even though my time is running out? | There's a girl in my class whom I'm attracted to, and there seems to be a few things that could prevent a relationship from happening. Should I try to start a relationship with her? What do?
| Should I go for a relationship with this girl, even though I have a few months left before she goes back home for a couple months and then will be going off to college? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I caught her with another guy by using the Find My iPhone website. Not sure if ill ever trust her again.
POST: 30 year old male here about to break up with the girl I saw myself marrying.
So I have had issues trusting my gf, we have been together for 2.5 years now. in march of ... | I caught my gf with another guy by using the Find My Iphone website. She lied to me about it and I dont think I ever will trust her again. Is it still cheating? | Girl I saw coming home with another guy was drinking at a bar. I caught her and a guy she works with having sex. I don't think I will ever trust her again. What do? Is it still cheating? What do?
| I caught my gf with another guy by using the Find My Iphone website. I don't know if I trust her again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I want to understand his point of view on this monogamy issue...
POST: ok. We have been together 5 years, me and his both 24. I am his first serious relationship and only sexual partner
Quick and simple: I have never made a big deal out of sex, and, in general, would not mind an op... | I would not feel comfortable in an open relationship with my SO if he would not allow me to go to a bar with friends, because he considers it a tit for tat thing. I respect his opinion, but I would not feel comfortable in an open relationship. I want to understand his point of view. | SO of 5 years would never allow me to be with another man, I feel disrespected. He considers it a tit for tat, I feel like it's not about me. What do? What do I do?
| I want to understand his point of view on this issue. I don't want to be in an open relationship, but I don't want to be in a one sided relationship either. I don't want to be in a monogamous relationship either. I want to be able to be with him |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My now ex-girlfriend [18] broke up with me[20] almost 3 months ago, after trying to get back, she is getting married
POST: Hello, so yeah she's getting married. At the beginning of may she left me over some stupid argument. After some days we talked about our feelings and such, but n... | My now ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago, after trying to get back she is getting married. I still can't believe she cheated. | My now ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago, after trying to get back, she is getting married. I still can't believe it. What should I do? What should I say to her?
| My now ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago, she is getting married, I still can't believe it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I tell my boyfriend that his friends are a bad influence on him?
POST: Background:
I'm 21(F) and he's 25. He moved in with his old college room mates about a year ago, and they're a terrible influence on him. Before he moved in there, he used to go to the gym regularly, eat we... | My boyfriend's old college room mates are a bad influence on him, and I don't like the way they treat me. How do I bring this up with him so he knows I don't like his friends? | My boyfriend's friends are a bad influence on him. They give me a hard time and make me feel uncomfortable. I don't know how to tell him this. What do I say? What do I do?
| Boyfriend's friends are a bad influence on him, and I don't know how to bring it up with him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by going to homecoming
POST: Happened few hours ago. Friend coerced me into going after I told her and another friend I wouldn't go repeatedly. Decided to go. Ended up spending most of the night wishing I hadn't gone. One friend ditched me because he wanted to go get someone to grind on ... | Went to homecoming with friend coerced me into going and ended up venting to a kid who left his date for her boyfriend. I don't really feel like having chicks rubbing up all over me. | Friend coerced me into going after I told her I wouldn't go repeatedly. Ended up spending most of the night wishing I hadn't gone. Not really feeling like having chicks rubbing up all over me. What do?
| Went to homecoming with a friend who I barely saw and ended up getting vented to by a kid who's date left him for her boyfriend when they showed up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the most ungrateful thing you e ever see a Person Do?
POST: I have this friend who lives in Europe. we were friends since around 9 and we still talk. so I get a call from him (note he is a ps3 gamer just like me) and he asks me to get him a game called ghost recon future solider. ... | My friend who plays games online rage over a game that he couldn't play region locked so I give him double the price for it and he thanks me and plays it like there wasn't 1 hour of rage last night. | My friend who lives in Europe asked me to get him a game called Ghost Recon Future Solider. I gave it to him and he seems really happy. What's the most ungrateful thing you ever see a person do?
| I bought a game for my friend and he was mad because he couldn't play it. I gave him the game and he was mad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Confused about a sudden broken 2-year friendship, could you guys help me understand?
POST: To start things off, I am a 21 year old college undergrad that has very little experience in relationships in general. But I met this fantastic woman (she's 20) in one of my courses about 2 yea... | I told a girl how I felt about her and if she would give me a chance to go out with her, but she never answered my calls, texts, messages, etc. And everytime I see her (again, we study the same major) she avoids me like the plague. What do you guys think that | Met this girl 2 years ago, had a great friendship, everything came crashing down when I decided to let her know how I felt. She has no explanation for why our friendship ended all of a sudden. What do you guys think happened to her? What do I do to make it up to her?
| I met a girl, we became friends, she broke up with me, I'm still in love with her, but I don't know why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 3 years, on a road trip with her and some friends, just found out she's cheating
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. We've had our ups and downs, as with any relationship but I love her. I thought our relationship was in a re... | My girlfriend is acting very strangely lately, and I think she's cheating on our relationship. I snooped her texts with her guy friend and found some messages that made it very clear that they are having sex. How should I go about confronting her when we get back since I also broke our trust by snooping | Girlfriend of 3 years is cheating on me. I found some messages that made it very clear that they are having sex. I broke our trust. How should I go about confronting her when we get back?
| Girlfriend is cheating on me, I'm burning up inside, but I don't know if I can act normal around her for that long. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My father is making me [24F] have a civil wedding with my fiancé [26M] with rules to follow!
POST: I overheard my father talking stating he is going to make my fiancé and I get a civil wedding however rules will have to follow. Due to the fact that my parents are caribbean and cathol... | My father is making my fiancé have a civil wedding however rules will have to follow. He is making it very difficult for me and my fiancé. What shall I do? | My father is making my fiancé and I get a civil wedding but rules will have to follow. I fear this will break our relationship. What should I do? What should I do?
| My father is making me have a civil wedding with my fiancé but rules will have to follow. What shall I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Gay men of reddit: Am I a bigot?
POST: I'm not using a throwaway, and I'll attempt to be as honest as I can. I'm a straight man, 26, and I've never considered myself prejudiced at all. But in the last couple of months I've come to a startling realization.
Gay men annoy me.
It's not hat... | I've come to realize that gay men annoy me, and I'm not sure if I'm an asshole for feeling it. Have you encountered this? How do you feel about it? | Gay men annoy me. It's not hate or discomfort. I support gay marriage and am an LGBT ally. But I feel like an asshole when I see adult men acting like queens. What do?
| I'm a straight man, and I'm not a bigot. I'm not a bigot. I'm just an asshole. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] Dog continues to lick one spot, usually immediately after left alone.
POST: Hello, I need some help. My dog has a licking problem, one where she will continue to lick one particular spot. I've had her for a year and during this time, there is always one spot at a time she keeps licking... | Dog continues to lick one spot after being left alone for 5 minutes or longer, usually immediately after I leave her alone. I've tried everything I can think of to address this and she's torn everything off. I need advice. | Dog licks one spot after being left alone for 5 minutes, I can tell when she does it, I need help to address this and any advice would be greatly appreciated. What do?
| Dog continues to lick one spot, usually immediately after left alone. I've tried to address it, but it's tearing everything off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 7 months, only likes to text me to talk. Driving me crazy
POST: My bf only likes to talk to me through text. I'm all for texting with people about small stuff, but having a conversation via text is difficult. It's impossible to say everything you ... | My bf only likes to talk to me via text. I'm bored with superficial conversation. I crave deeper and intellectually stimulating conversations. He says he hates talk on the phone and when I call him, he has nothing to say and sounds bored. I offered to video chat or something, but he doesn't | My boyfriend only likes to talk on the phone. I crave more deep and intellectually stimulating conversations. He says he hates talk on the phone and when I call, he has nothing to say. What do?
| My bf only likes to talk to me via text. I'm bored with superficial conversation. I crave deeper and intellectually stimulating conversations. He says he hates talk on the phone and when I call him, he has nothing to say and sounds bored. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (21/f) am conflicted by whether relationship (4 years, 22/m) has lost its spark, and I don't know how to deal with it.
POST: My boyfriend (22) and I have been dating for 4 years as of yesterday, and I've been getting commitment jitters since around the time I moved back home ... | I have a minor minor destructive tendencies that I think is slowly killing my relationship with my boyfriend. I don't know when we've reached the expiry date, and I don't know how to deal with my doubts. | My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years, and I'm conflicted about whether our relationship has lost its spark. I love him so much, and I'm worried about the future. What do? What do I do?
| I'm conflicted about whether I should break up with my boyfriend because I'm worried about the future of our relationship, and I don't know how to deal with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [24 F] unsure what to do about [33 M] off and on for over a year, he's been acting weird and I came across confession of love for his ex.
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend off and on for over a year. We were friends for a while before we started dating. We've had a lot of problem... | Boyfriend has been acting weird and distant lately, his ex was his long term relationship partner and he recently sent a text to her from 5 years ago that he still thinks about her every second of every day. I don't know what to do. | My boyfriend of over a year has been acting weird lately. He's been sending texts from 5 years ago to his ex who broke up after some infidelity. I love him and believe he wants a future with me. What do I do?
| Boyfriend of a year is acting weird and I'm at my house and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by zoning out in class
POST: So I'm sitting in Spanish class going off of 4 hours of sleep from staying up all night preparing my chemistry lab. We were doing a group activity where we had to go around the room interviewing people in Spanish about their name, home town, phone number, etc... | In a hungover state from lack of sleep I failed to recognize what my professor wanted me to do when I read my interview to the class, and ended up zoning out in class. | TIFU by zoning out in class in hungover state. My professor wants me to read my interview to the class. I don't understand what he wants me to do. What should I do?
| I was zoning out in class, and my professor wanted me to read my interview to the class. I didn't know what to do, and I ended up zoning out in class. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] want to take a long trip alone, best friend [23F] wants to come.
POST: Throwaway cause she knows my account.
I'll start by saying I am a very introverted person that is constantly surrounded by people. I work in HR and have 3 roommates and rarely get a moment to breath. So I... | I want to take a long solo road trip, best friend is extremely extroverted and would likely complain about hiking/nature, would regret going alone. Is there a way I can tell her this is something I want to do alone, or should I just bring her and hope for the best? | I want to take a long trip alone, best friend is very extroverted and would complain about a lot of the hikes/nature things I have planned. What should I tell my best friend? Is there a way I can tell her this is something I want to do alone?
| I want to take a long trip alone, best friend wants to come. Best friend is extremely extroverted, does not understand the concept of wanting to do something alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (28/F) New Coworker (24/M)is spitting image of my Nightmare Ex (23/M-dated 1.5 years)
POST: Hi Ladies and Gents,
So.. a few months ago, I had a devastating break-up. I mean completely awful, worst break-up I've ever gone through, total nightmare situation. We dated for a year and... | My ex is a pretty nasty copy of my current coworker, and I am having a hard time dealing with it. I am projecting my ex-lover feelings onto my coworker, and I don't know how to handle it. | My new coworker is an exact copy of my ex. I feel sick and turned on. I am not sure how to handle this situation. What do I do? What do I say?
| I am a complete stranger to my ex, and I am having a hard time dealing with this situation. How do I handle this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Found out my (28f) ex (32m) is having a kid, and now all I want is to sleep around and I'm very depressed.
POST: I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to ... | My ex is having a kid, and I want to have revenge sex with as many guys as possible. I'm very upset and angry. What do I do? | Found out my ex is having a kid, I'm very depressed and angry. I just want revenge sex. Why is that? What do I do?
| I'm very upset and angry, and I don't know what to do. I want to have revenge sex, but I don't want a relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: M[20] confused by F[20] sending mixed messages regarding meeting up
POST: So a couple weeks ago I got with a girl I knew from high school at a club. In the morning she gave me her number and we've been texting a fair amount since then.
Last week I asked her out for drinks and she s... | Had a pretty serious relationship with girl from high school that said she was busy with school abroad and didn't want to get into a relationship but then later said she did like one night stands. I asked her if she'd be up for going out with me and she said she may be busy but might be able to do | A girl I knew from high school sent mixed messages about going out with me last week. She said she was busy but might be able to do something this week. I feel like she doesn't want to get into a relationship. What do? What do I do next?
| F[20] asked me out for drinks and I said yes but then said she may be busy and I don't know what to do next. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/m] 8 months with my s/o [22/f], can't help feeling neglected and seeking company
POST: To start off, I have never cheated or dumped someone. I like to think of myself as an ethical person that would never do something like that ^^^since ^^^its ^^^happened ^^^to ^^^me ^^^a ^... | My girlfriend and her best friend have been hanging out more and more lately and I feel neglected and am starting to feel like she's just a girlfriend on the weekend and a text buddy for the remainder. | My girlfriend of 8 months is not as excited to see me as I feel she is. I feel neglected and am at a loss. What do? What do I do?
| I'm feeling neglected and I'm not sure if I'm dating the wrong person. I'm not sure if I should leave my girlfriend to find someone else. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 2 ½ years, not sure if I should be worried about weird FB post...
POST: Okay, so my boyfriend tells me he is ping away for a week with his family to a remote location where there is no cell service or wifi so he won't be able to talk to me until ... | My boyfriend is supposed to be in the middle of nowhere without wifi or cell service so he won't be able to talk to me for a week until he gets back. I'm a little confused about his Facebook post and should I ask him about it? | boyfriend is supposed to be in the middle of nowhere, I'm confused about a Facebook post he posted. Should I ask him about it? What do?
| Boyfriend is away for a week and I'm not sure if I should be worried about a Facebook post he made while he was away. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my BF [25M] of 3 years, gave me an ultimatum of counselling or breaking up. Has since refused to set up counselling.
POST: We have been having our issues for a while, and while we usually do not have full fights over them, we do tend to get prickly with each other whene... | BF has threatened to end our relationship over issues that have been bothering us for a while if we don't go to counselling or set up a meeting to talk about them, I am now being accused of trying to start another fight. Has he refused to set up counselling? | BF gave ultimatum of counselling or breaking up. I agreed to try counselling. He brushed off setting anything up. I'm at my wit's end here. What do? What do I do?
| BF threatened to end our relationship if I didn't do something, I said I would set up the sessions and we would go. He's brushed off setting anything up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I'm trying to educate myself on choosing the right bank/credit union. Can anyone give me suggestions on where best to learn?
POST: My mom helped me open my first checking and savings account when I was 18 and it was at her bank which was Washington Mutual and has since become part ... | I'm trying to educate myself on choosing the right bank/credit union for my situation. I'm looking for a list of common services offered by the bank/credit union so I can see what I might not know about and would like recommendations. | I'm trying to learn about choosing a bank/credit union for my joint checking and savings account. I see most places saying you should make sure the bank provides the services you want. What are some good banks/credit unions?
| I'm trying to learn about banking and I'm looking for a list of banks/credit unions that I can look at and see what I'm missing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: 20k in my checking account, I'd like to split this money up into new checking and savings accounts. What are some good banks?
POST: So over the past two years I've been lucky enough to save about 20k. I've got it all in my checking account right now. I'd like to move most of that... | I've got 20k in my checking account, I'd like to move most of it into a savings account and then have a new checking account that doesn't charge me fees. What are some good banks? | I'd like to move some of my money into a savings account and a checking account. What are some good banks? What do I need to do to make this work?
| I'd like to move some of my money into a new checking account and a savings account. What are some good banks? |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Six more weeks of winter
POST: Hey Runnit. I'm having some trouble and I need a place to vent where people will understand my frustration. I've been out with a stress fracture in my tibia for the last 5 weeks. For the first two weeks I was on crutches, after which time my orthopedist said ... | I've been having some pain in my leg that has gotten progressively worse since I started using crutches, and I need a place to vent and get some support for my frustration. I'm frustrated and angry and I'm going crazy. | I have a stress fracture in my tibia, I need to use the crutches for 4-6 more weeks, and I have an itch to go for a run like I was back in high school. What do?
| I have a stress fracture in my tibia, and I'm going to have to use crutches for 6 more weeks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) think I want to break up with live in boyfriend (20M) of two years.. not sure how to do it
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, and living together since we were together around 6 months.
Everything was awesome, we rarely fought and there has rarel... | I feel trapped in my relationship with my live in boyfriend, I want to break up with him but I don't know how to do it, I fear he'll get angry and I'll break down and cry before I even get a word out. | I feel very upset and frustrated, I have no idea if my boyfriend feels the same way. I feel trapped and don't know how to break up with live in boyfriend of two years. What do? What do I do?
| I'm feeling trapped and I don't know how to break up with my boyfriend of two years. I'm scared he'll get angry and I'll break down. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: How do I start moving from college/parents to financial independence? (US)
POST: I'm starting this by saying that I realize I'm extremely lucky, and I don't want to fuck it up. I don't have a precedent for my situation, so I need your collective advice:
In a few years, I'll be leav... | I'm leaving college with no debt, and I'm job-searching post-graduation. I need advice on how to start moving from college/parents to financial independence. | I'm leaving college with no debt, I have a small part-time job, and I'm looking for a post-graduation plan. What else do I need to consider? What do I need to do?
| I'm a college student, and I'm looking for advice on how to start moving from college to financial independence. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Don't get an MIS major.
POST: Is there anything I can do as a recent graduate in Management Information Systems? Literally every job in any related field requires 2-10 years experience. How do I get this experience? Do I need to go to experience land and ask the experience fairy? It's been fr... | I'm a recent grad in Management Information Systems, and I can't find a job that will give me experience in the field I want to be in. Do I need to go to experience land and ask the experience fairy? | I'm a recent graduate in Management Information Systems. I need 2-10 years experience to get a job. There's no path. There's no direction. What do I do? What do I need to do to get experience?
| I'm a recent grad in Management Information Systems. I don't have experience, and I don't know what I want to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Starting over again and seeking guidance
POST: Hello!
So, here's the deal -- I've already lost quite a bit of weight. I'm 25, female, and 5'6". In August of 2008, I had just quit grad school, hated my life, and was really exceptionally depressed. I was renting a tiny bedroom in a house i... | I've lost weight, but I'm sluggish and I'm always out, what do I do to get back into a healthy weight-loss routine? I'm also dating a great guy, and I'm really happy. I want to keep it going. I don't know what to do. | I lost a lot of weight, started dating a great guy, and now I'm really busy and I'm having a hard time getting myself together again. What do I do? What's a good goal weight for me?
| I'm a 25 year old female who has lost a lot of weight, but I'm still overweight. I'm dating a guy who is a great cook, but I'm not sure how to deal with the "I'm always out, what on earth do I eat?" problem. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23 M] in a new relationship with a girl [24 F], recently made a terrible mistake
POST: I've been dating a girl going on two months now and we are both pretty happy. Recently I was at an event without her and drinking with some friends but we got separated. I ran into another g... | I made a terrible mistake by going to a party with a girl I was pretty drunk and having sex with her, and I feel really awful about it. How do I let my girlfriend know and any other advice? | Girlfriend made a terrible mistake and I was drinking with some friends. We had a bit more to drink, I was very drunk, I made a mistake and I feel terrible. How do I let my girlfriend know? Any advice?
| I made a terrible mistake and I'm in a new relationship with a girl who I don't know well. How do I let her know? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my friend [22 F], that i have feelings for a long time, feels like i've been used.
POST: I've had feelings for this girl for quite some time, she knows that he hang out almost daily. She doesn't have a lot of friends and she is having some hard time both financially an... | I have feelings for a girl that knows i hang out with my friend almost daily, she has a hard time financially and medically, i help her out and she has a dull feeling about me, what do i do? | I have feelings for a girl for a long time, she knows i have always had feelings for her, she is using me. What do i do? What do i do?
| I have feelings for a girl i have known for a long time, she knows i have feelings for her, but she is using me and i feel like i've been used. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] can't seem to get over an event in my gf's [22 F] past.
POST: My roommates, gf included, were talking about our past and she wasn't saying much (she didn't cause as much trouble as her bff, bff's fiance, and I had). But, one sex-story she did tell hit me hard.
She hooked up ... | My gf hooked up with a guy once, once at his place, once at his drunkenness. I can't get over that it happened. She knows it hit me hard. What do I do? | My gf hooked up twice, once in hotel, once at her place. It hurt me a lot. I can't get over it. What do? What do I do to get over it?
| gf hooked up with a guy twice, once in a hotel, once at his place. She said she felt sick and he said, "I've already started, I can't stop." |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Does intentionally taking a week without talking or hanging out count as a bad omen for the relationship? (30/m and 27f)
POST: I've been dating this awesome chick since late June. The sexual chemistry is unbelievable. We are very open with our feelings, have the same sick sense... | I have been dating this awesome girl for a while. We both have lost our social life and have been hitting new milestones. She wants to move back home close to her family. I suggested a week without talking or texting while she takes a trip home. | Girlfriend wants to move back home, close to her family. I suggested a week without talking or texting while she takes a trip home. What do? Is this a good idea? What do I do?
| I think that the lack of social interaction and the lack of a home is a bad omen for the relationship. I want to move in with her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Reddit, how do I (22F) stop my boyfriend (22M) of two years from determining my mood?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now, and a few months ago went through a wee hiccough. We're back together now and enjoy each other's company more than ever..
But I can fi... | My boyfriend has a tendency to make me feel really down when we're together if he doesn't text/do anything nice for me. I want to know how I can stop this from happening again, and how I can break the dependence on him. | My boyfriend of two years has a wee hiccough. I can find myself falling back into the old routine of things. I want to break this habit. How can I do this? What do I do?
| I'm obsessing over my boyfriend, and I want to stop feeling like a stage five clingy girlfriend. How do I do this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22M] mom [47F] found out that I am an Athiest. She is devastated.
POST: The other day, I was helping my parents move their stuff to their new house, and I brought my laundry over so I could do it there instead of going to the laundromat. The washer and dryer units had been discon... | My mom found out that I am an Athiest, and she is devastated. I don't know what to do to make her feel better. | Mom found out that I am an Athiest. She is devastated. I screwed up. What do I do at this point? What should I say to my mom? What do I do to make it seem like I'm still loyal to God?
| I'm an Athiest, and my mom found out. I'm not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Historians and Reddit detectives, can you help me figure out the mystery of the number on my Hungarian Great-Grandmother's arm?
POST: I hope you can help me, Reddit detectives. My great grandmother Marika was born in 1903 just outside of Budapest, Hungary. In 1921, she came to the US via... | Great-Grandmother Marika was born in 1903 in Hungary, and received a number on her arm in the US. She refused to speak of the numbers, and no one has a clue where they came from. Can any historians or even Hungarians of Reddit help me out? | Great-Grandmother received a number on her arm, it was very large, and was tattooed on her right forearm. What is the history of the number? Can anyone help?
| Great-Grandmother received a number on her arm, and it was a 4-digit number. Can anyone help me figure out what it means? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Want to start a strength training routine--help me out?
POST: Some background: I'm 22, f, 5'4" and currently around 253 lbs. Over the last 3 weeks I've cut out soda and sweet tea completely, started eating more fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and less white bread, reduced my calorie... | I want to start strength training so that I'm not just losing fat but maintaining/building muscle so that when I finally do lose all this weight I won't just be a nasty, wrinkly mass of skin. I plan on strength training 3 times a week. | I want to start strength training so that I'm not just losing fat but maintaining muscle. I'd like opinions on my routine. What machines should I use? What muscles should I neglect?
| I want to start strength training, but I'm not sure if I should use weight machines or free weights. What machines should I use? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [24 M] break up with my girlfriend [22F] of 1 year, for a better job
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now and I feel like we have come to a fork in our relationship. I work abroad in Europe and she is an European citizen, we met at work while she was doi... | My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and she is an European citizen, she told me she would come to America after school if I waited 2 years to finish her master, I feel like I should leave her for a better job. I love her and want to stay together but I feel so guilty about leaving | My girlfriend of 1 year wants to do an masters in Sweden, I work abroad in Europe and I feel so guilty about leaving her. I love her and I know she really loves me. What should I do?
| My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and I feel like we have come to a fork in our relationship. I work abroad in Europe and she is an European citizen, we met at work while she was doing an internship, finishing her bachelor. When her internship finished we still visited each other, when |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by wearing contacts
POST: This was yesterday morning when I was getting dressed for a ROTC event. I was in my bathroom and just got done putting my uniform on when I remembered I need to shave before I left or I would get my ass chewed out by drill instructors. So I went in my cabinet an... | I forgot to put my contacts in before I shaved and now I have pain in my eye from needles from the shaving cream I put in my contact instead of solution | TIFU by putting my contacts in instead of solution. Now I feel pain in one eye. Not fun. What do?
| I put shaving cream in my contact instead of solution and now I'm blind in one eye. |
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