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0 | NTA. Your wife harbors someone who tells you that Zoey has a "defect" in her personality for buying an expensive make up kit, that's the kind of thing that has people thinking about divorce. | ocx94s | 0biterdicta | 1,625,316,270 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "0biterdicta", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#cd7a00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "7b2737a... | [
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"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with ... | 1 | No persona (persona_history_length=0) |
1 | Is he now outsourcing or asking for a 'friend'? 😂 | ocx94s | 750more | 1,625,346,835 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "750more", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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2 | >instead of staying with mom where they grew up.
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Kinda wonder why they aren't staying there... Maybe Mom had rules against some of their shenanigans. | ocx94s | 84unicorn | 1,625,330,390 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "84unicorn", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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3 | Agreed. When I read about the color blending ruining the make up, I was like... that had to have been pretty destructive, beyond just normal wear and tear that comes with application. It sounds like the cousins a maliciously ruining things and getting away with it. I hope OP is able to get this to stop. | ocx94s | 84unicorn | 1,625,330,535 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "84unicorn", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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4 | Vanilla pudding in an emptied out mayo jar | ocx94s | A10110101Z | 1,625,347,981 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "A10110101Z", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with ... | 8 | No persona (persona_history_length=0) |
5 | Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his b... | ocx94s | AG-freeflyer | 1,625,335,161 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AG-freeflyer", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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6 | I think everyone is missing that BIL is taking advantage of OP and his wife as well. He and his adult daughters have been living with OP for 10 months now. If 3 grown ass adults cant pool their money to find an apartment there is a much bigger issue. | ocx94s | A_Magical_Potato | 1,625,328,594 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "A_Magical_Potato", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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7 | There’s a German proverb: if it looks like shit, smells like shit and tastes like shit then it probably is shit | ocx94s | Accomplished-Mess982 | 1,625,335,168 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Accomplished-Mess982", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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8 | NTA
Sammy sounds like he is spoiling his daughters and justifying their actions by blaming the victim (Zoey). Kicking them out may be a good idea at this point. | ocx94s | AceofSpadesYT | 1,625,316,154 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AceofSpadesYT", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7... | [
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9 | My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued. | ocx94s | AffectionateAd5373 | 1,625,328,099 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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10 | I'd tell the wife she can leave with her brother, frankly. | ocx94s | AffectionateAd5373 | 1,625,328,235 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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11 | I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers. | ocx94s | AffectionateAd5373 | 1,625,331,695 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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12 | Yep. I've always found it makes a film over the top, and then you wind up having to scrape half the pan out to get past it. | ocx94s | AffectionateAd5373 | 1,625,334,084 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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13 | True. But surface sanitizing with alcohol is never going to kill everything.
When I was doing makeup professionally, I used to scrape a bit of the shadow or whatever onto a clean surface, and use that. I never put the brush into the container from the skin. | ocx94s | AffectionateAd5373 | 1,625,334,245 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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14 | Why is your wife valuing the comfort of her nieces over that of her own daughter? And that comment her brother made about your daughter having a defect... What in the holy fuck of a thing to say to someone who housed you after going homeless?? | ocx94s | Ahblahright | 1,625,321,748 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ahblahright", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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15 | Yeah part of the problem is someone not understanding a quality but expensive product is worth it | ocx94s | AlanFromRochester | 1,625,344,499 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AlanFromRochester", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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16 | Right. Taking something that doesn’t belong to you without the owners permission is being a thief | ocx94s | Annual-Contract-115 | 1,625,333,748 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Annual-Contract-115", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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17 | the way the OP described how the colors were ruined i can take a pretty good guess it was probably a face or lip palette (most likely cream) because eyeshadow would be an easy fix. if it is cream (which is probably is) there’s no fixing those colors once you mix them in the palette.
EDIT: i’m pretty positive it’s a li... | ocx94s | AromaticPersimmon0 | 1,625,326,801 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AromaticPersimmon0", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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18 | Or take the wife on her word and do treat them like his daughters. Set a standard for them and discipline them when they break the rules. See how quickly they become "not your daughters, you're overstepping".
How would OP treat one of his adult kids if they repeatedly stole from his other kids? Throw them out, perhap... | ocx94s | Arthemax | 1,625,337,289 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Arthemax", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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19 | Yeah, the mom is thinking her relationship with OP and kid is solid so she’s worried about what the family will think. Guess what lady, it’s on rocky ground. And she needs to get on the same page as her husband and child before she’s worrying about not being the nicest person ever. Hell having someone who will be stron... | ocx94s | AssistanceMedical951 | 1,625,339,216 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AssistanceMedical951", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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20 | How dare they guilt trip a 16 year old for wanting to keep her own property safe. One is 18 which means she's legally an adult too! | ocx94s | Auroraburst | 1,625,320,739 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Auroraburst", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8bfb5... | [
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21 | Whoops i missed that bit! | ocx94s | Auroraburst | 1,625,321,354 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Auroraburst", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8bfb5... | [
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22 | You forget 3: Their own family refused to take them in.
I'm guessing there's a good reason for that. | ocx94s | Benny-The-Bender | 1,625,338,616 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Benny-The-Bender", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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23 | My mother would have drawn and quartered us had we taken our siblings things without permission. I frequently left my journal all over the house after writing in it. My mom would pick it up and put it back in my room. She was and is vigilant about privacy. And now we are the same way with our kids. | ocx94s | BlackberryNo3478 | 1,625,333,589 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "BlackberryNo3478", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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24 | When my sister was in high school and used to borrow my dad's flannel shirts without asking, and sneak them out of the house in her backpack so no one would know.
My dad finally had enough, put on one of her baby Ts, and went to her school, walked into her class, and demanded his shirt back. | ocx94s | BoozeIsTherapyRight | 1,625,331,909 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "BoozeIsTherapyRight", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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25 | Spoiling can also mean not discouraging bad behavior | ocx94s | BotiaDario | 1,625,329,874 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "BotiaDario", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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26 | I would not let these types of people stay there long enough to get squatters rights. OP is fucking himself | ocx94s | BretTheShitmanFart69 | 1,625,339,853 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "BretTheShitmanFart69", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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27 | Doing what's right is often the hardest thing. Keep at it.
Also, it may have been said elsewhere but sharing makeup, especially eye make up is a big no no. It can lead to infections or warts so that should be shut down immediately even between the sisters. | ocx94s | Bun_Bunz | 1,625,320,542 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Bun_Bunz", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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28 | This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it. | ocx94s | CJsopinion | 1,625,325,259 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CJsopinion", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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29 | > It is amazing to me that your wife hears that and doesn't stop to consider for even a moment 'am I in the wrong?' or 'ok maybe how I think things should be doesn't work for my daughter' or the even more important 'oh wow Zoey might really learn to hate her cousins and uncle over this!' Very self absorbed of your wif... | ocx94s | Caddan | 1,625,325,328 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Caddan", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a... | [
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30 | I'm sensing some religious, clutching of pearls mentality here with the BIL. | ocx94s | CalculatedPerversion | 1,625,328,499 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CalculatedPerversion", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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31 | Don’t underestimate how grotesque people can be. When I was 18 I lived with 4 other girls…. The one girl (22f) used to take my underwear, wear them, and then put them back in my room in my dirty clothes (she didn’t like to do laundry and would run out). Needless to say when I discovered this, I started locking my door ... | ocx94s | CatsRuleHoomansDrool | 1,625,347,733 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CatsRuleHoomansDrool", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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32 | And stay with them | ocx94s | CeelaChathArrna | 1,625,323,510 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CeelaChathArrna", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8... | [
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33 | "she can drive them there"
She can stay there, too. Zoey's room wouldn't be the only one with a new lock. | ocx94s | ChariotKoura | 1,625,328,293 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ChariotKoura", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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34 | I assume he means an external lock with a key, so she can lock it when she isn't there to keep the scavengers out. She almost certainly had a bed/bath door handle which only locks from the inside. | ocx94s | ChronoMonkeyX | 1,625,329,608 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ChronoMonkeyX", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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35 | MAC has a generous return/exchange policy for their items from what I heard.
I hope OP takes advantage of this and helps his daughter replace her damaged items with a fresh new palette. | ocx94s | CircadianChai | 1,625,331,403 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CircadianChai", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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36 | And the wife can go with them. | ocx94s | ClothDiaperAddicts | 1,625,321,279 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ClothDiaperAddicts", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#c7a509", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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40 | NTA! You are in the right! Also 60$ makeup is VERY different from 15$ makeup from Walmart. Not even compatible quality. She’s making an investment in quality items. And even if it was 15$ makeup, it would still be her property that they are stealing which is NOT right. Your daughter should be able to keep her things sa... | ocx94s | Contrariwisey | 1,625,321,833 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Contrariwisey", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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41 | Yes, THIS!!! | ocx94s | Contrariwisey | 1,625,321,897 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Contrariwisey", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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42 | Good point!! I don’t share my makeup with anyone due to this. | ocx94s | Contrariwisey | 1,625,321,964 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Contrariwisey", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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43 | I hadn’t thought of that. Wow! I can totally see this now. And they are 18! Adults who should and probably do know better! | ocx94s | Contrariwisey | 1,625,322,098 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Contrariwisey", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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44 | That's why I though, too -- took BIL 10 months to achieve first results on his path to ruin marriage #2. | ocx94s | CountVonTroll | 1,625,339,493 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CountVonTroll", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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45 | And re: $15 set from Walmart:
She wanted to have this particular set, she set herself a goal, and she saved up for it. This wasn't just a makeup set to her, but something she had been looking forward to getting and that she had made sacrifices for. She must have been really happy when she brought it home, not because ... | ocx94s | CountVonTroll | 1,625,340,662 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CountVonTroll", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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46 | This is some seriously toxic nasty behaviour.
Lack of respect for boundaries is something that we learn from parents - your wife as well as BIL both have issues here. I imagine neither of them were allowed boundaries as teenagers and children, hence the issues now. You on the other hand, have boundaries and understand... | ocx94s | Crafty_Birdie | 1,625,323,286 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Crafty_Birdie", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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47 | Same. That's when I would probably go nuclear after that comment. | ocx94s | CuntyAnne_Conway | 1,625,326,537 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CuntyAnne_Conway", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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48 | Oooh very true. This could 100% end their marriage. Its a very serious issue and it seems like its simmering right now. Whatever next step OP takes is a risk. If his wife stays on her brothers side, thats it, marriage over. No parent who cares about their child should back down against abusers. | ocx94s | Dadbotany | 1,625,342,300 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Dadbotany", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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49 | and heck if she buys a new one for Zoey she might as well just keep the one she used, and then she won't have a reason to go using someone else's makeup again, and no makeup will be wasted. She shouldn't have used it to begin with but either way Sloan's getting more than a good compromise here, she'll essentially have ... | ocx94s | Dangerous_Wishbone | 1,625,332,426 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Dangerous_Wishbone", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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50 | Kick them the fuck out, this is unreal. | ocx94s | DownrightNeighborly | 1,625,328,437 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DownrightNeighborly", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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51 | >I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's how to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.
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uh yeah Zoey isn't wrong to do that, she's just learnt the ... | ocx94s | Dreams-in-the-Rain | 1,625,322,213 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Dreams-in-the-Rain", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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52 | "Three amigos to kick rocks". Can i marry you please? | ocx94s | EG-XXFurkanXX | 1,625,331,445 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EG-XXFurkanXX", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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54 | Not to mention he is putting a roof over their heads, which is more than their own dad is doing. | ocx94s | EatFishKatie | 1,625,338,992 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EatFishKatie", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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55 | Agreed. OP's wife needs to reconsider her priorities, fast. If I were in OP's position, I would kick Sammy & the daughters out (and have a long talk with the wife), or failing that, move out with Zoey.
She needs to be somewhere she feels safe, protected, and not like she's going to be shunned or have her privacy viol... | ocx94s | EducationalTangelo6 | 1,625,323,307 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EducationalTangelo6", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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56 | Seeing as they are 1: 18 and 2: living with their homeless father after the divorce, I'm betting their own mother has decided she wants nothing further to do with them. | ocx94s | Effective_Put_7604 | 1,625,323,783 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Effective_Put_7604", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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57 | They had previously stolen a school laptop, according to the post. I would consider that far, far worse. Presumably, it got returned. | ocx94s | Effective_Put_7604 | 1,625,323,956 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Effective_Put_7604", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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58 | Either Mom insisted on too many rules for their taste, or -- since they are 18 and no longer legally her responsibility -- she decided to be done with the little thieves.
That is honestly the ONLY reasons I can think of why they would opt to live with their homeless father and be homeless themselves. | ocx94s | Effective_Put_7604 | 1,625,325,080 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Effective_Put_7604", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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59 | Hard to have stuff when you're homeless and couch surfing.
Which is why they're stealing from their cousin. | ocx94s | Effective_Put_7604 | 1,625,327,049 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Effective_Put_7604", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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60 | That happens to me too | ocx94s | EikoKurai | 1,625,329,648 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EikoKurai", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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61 | My guess is that either the daughters chose dad because he gives them everything they want, or mom said no way because she is tired of their crap & is no longer legally obligated to house them anymore | ocx94s | EndlessWanderer316 | 1,625,326,236 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EndlessWanderer316", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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62 | Lol that too. OP should tell them to “borrow” wife’s makeup since she feels so strongly about making these leeches happy | ocx94s | EndlessWanderer316 | 1,625,342,490 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EndlessWanderer316", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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63 | Exactly and the mother seem to be okay with someone calling her daughter defective I would have kicked out everyone and anyone who called my daughter that | ocx94s | Fanartist_Kitty | 1,625,344,027 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Fanartist_Kitty", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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64 | I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff.... | ocx94s | Featherymorons | 1,625,316,785 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c... | [
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65 | I just want to thank you for help me with my diet. After reading this, I would eat nutella. | ocx94s | FluffilyChipmunk | 1,625,333,784 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "FluffilyChipmunk", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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66 | Oh, no!! I missed that they're 18. I thought they were 12 or 13, because that's how they act. They are straight-up bullying their younger cousin! I'd kick em out, too, if I were their mom. | ocx94s | Foreign_Astronaut | 1,625,326,397 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Foreign_Astronaut", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0... | [
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67 | And honestly, with how the BIL and the 2 18 year olds act, I don't blame her in the least. | ocx94s | Frahal | 1,625,327,165 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Frahal", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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68 | I think the term would be choosing beggar. | ocx94s | Frahal | 1,625,327,655 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Frahal", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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69 | Actually, it's 4 amigos, since OP's wife seems so intent on siding with her brother. | ocx94s | Frahal | 1,625,331,200 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Frahal", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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70 | Your wife and BIL are absolutely in the wrong here. There is something to be said about kids of a similar age borrowing things from each other. However, a key part of borrowing another person's belongings is asking that person for permission and if it is okay to use their things. At no point in this post did I see t... | ocx94s | Frejian | 1,625,321,254 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Frejian", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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71 | I wonder what would happen if darling twins went dipping into AH mother's makeup instead....and whoops! ...someone forgot to tell the twin property liberators that AH mom had a world class case of pinkeye or herpes.... | ocx94s | Full_Key7756 | 1,625,338,747 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Full_Key7756", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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72 | Not the OP, but that 100% had to be a factor in it, and probably a pretty large factor.
Probably was a similar situation to what the posters situation is. One of their parents was a childhood friend of the guy and didn’t want to kick them out. Eventually they got given the ultimatum of them or me. | ocx94s | Galkura | 1,625,337,405 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Galkura", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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73 | It honestly screams "I'm not her real mother, I married into this." Even though from what I've read that isn't the case. It's that disgusting behavior that just unacceptable. His wife clearly has some power dynamic with her brother in which she can't think rationally. If a father is specifically buying a lock for his d... | ocx94s | GenuineSounds | 1,625,335,975 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "GenuineSounds", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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74 | This whole situation makes me sick. u/OnlyInQuebec9 has way more patience than I ever could. I'm a bit disgusted with OP's wife, I'm sorry to say, but I have the feeling she knows deep down inside that she's in the wrong but is willing to excuse it out of not wanting to deal with the backlash of her brother for some re... | ocx94s | GoodWorms | 1,625,331,087 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "GoodWorms", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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75 | Thank you for the prank that I am going to pull on my husband now. | ocx94s | GothDerp | 1,625,332,613 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "GothDerp", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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76 | Absolutely agree with this. These people are guests in your house and apparently unable to behave with basic courtesy. Get’em out. NTA | ocx94s | HRHArgyll | 1,625,323,158 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HRHArgyll", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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77 | His wife is upset because he put a lock on his daughter's room. How do you think she will react if he kicks her brother out?
If he even can, his wife most likely has the same claim to their house as he does, and they're already living here. What happens if you tell them to move out and they just say no? Police isn't ... | ocx94s | Happy-Zone-8495 | 1,625,336,293 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Happy-Zone-8495", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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78 | Exactly! Why is Zoey defective for using the makeup, but his brats aren’t?
OP thank you for standing up for Zoey. As you know, they are stealing - not borrowing - and your daughter needs to feel safe in her own home. Please try to make BIL and the cousins leave ASAP.
Or you and Zoey find somewhere else to be, le... | ocx94s | HeatherReadsReddit | 1,625,341,809 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HeatherReadsReddit", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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79 | This^^^^
Maybe bringing this up with the wife will help her understand you’re trying to allow her to set healthy boundaries | ocx94s | Hi_Supercute | 1,625,334,255 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Hi_Supercute", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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80 | Well even the dad at this point, these are the kinds of things that plant seeds of resentment. It starts small and they you can’t shake it unless it’s addressed. I hope they smooth things out for everyone’s sake | ocx94s | Hi_Supercute | 1,625,334,512 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Hi_Supercute", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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81 | Here's something else to consider: depending location and other variables, it may not be just that easy, and OP may have to legally evict BIL if things get contentious. This is a nightmare waiting to happen. | ocx94s | HoodieGalore | 1,625,333,081 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HoodieGalore", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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84 | Tell your enabling wife and BiL that borrowing stuff requires asking permission first. Simply walking in and taking is theft. Then walk in to their room and permanently borrow the $60 to buy your daughter a replacement set of makeup. Give the ruined set to the cousins. | ocx94s | ICWhatsNUrP | 1,625,321,259 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ICWhatsNUrP", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#e3be04", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "e899ca7... | [
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85 | Holy shit. Your mom is not worth knowing. I hope you are NC or LC. | ocx94s | IPetdogs4U | 1,625,328,756 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "IPetdogs4U", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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86 | I am also looking at this and wondering if OP is codependent. His wife sounds toxic. I came to the realization of how messed up my childhood was when I started to think about the shit that happened to me happening to my daughter and I was like, “no fucking way.” It was an eye opener for me to think that I never would ... | ocx94s | IPetdogs4U | 1,625,329,195 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "IPetdogs4U", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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87 | If my spouse said this to my daughter or enabled someone who did, I’d be packing our bags already. Thanks goodness there’s one healthy adult in this scenario because that will make a world of difference to Zoey’s mental health later in life. | ocx94s | IPetdogs4U | 1,625,329,613 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "IPetdogs4U", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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89 | It totally baffles me how some families allow certain types of behaviour amongst themselves. How OP's wife tolerates her brother talking about her daughter like that or talking to her husband like that in HIS house!
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90 | I can't understand that. I lived with a friend of mine and his wife for a few months and they have 2 young boys. I helped watch them, feed them, clean up there messes etc. Were they crazy and ran around and screamed? Of course they did they are toddlers.
I would never call a kid defective while I'm staying in that per... | ocx94s | Intoxicatedpunch | 1,625,343,144 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Intoxicatedpunch", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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91 | I have no idea why people think this is a good idea | ocx94s | JadeGrapes | 1,625,344,810 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JadeGrapes", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca... | [
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92 | Agreed... testers that are open to the aisle are chocked full of plague and leprosy until proven otherwise.
TIL some people are testing them on their FACE. I always do the back of the hand. If literally never occurred to me someone put it on their eyes. | ocx94s | JadeGrapes | 1,625,345,300 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JadeGrapes", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca... | [
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93 | Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA | ocx94s | JaxandMia | 1,625,326,375 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JaxandMia", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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94 | These girls are 18? And are pissed that they can’t steal from their minor cousin anymore.
I’d ask them not so kindly to gtfo your house if they cannot muster even the minimum of respect for your home and belongings | ocx94s | Jazzyfizzles18 | 1,625,321,729 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jazzyfizzles18", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d... | [
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95 | It sounds like it’s time for your in-laws to find a new place to live. They are causing massive disruption to your family and refuse to not act like spoiled brats. | ocx94s | Jeb764 | 1,625,321,431 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jeb764", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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96 | Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful. | ocx94s | Jeb764 | 1,625,322,963 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jeb764", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flai... | [
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97 | Sammy is about to bring down a second marriage, what a train wreck of a dude | ocx94s | Jengaleng422 | 1,625,338,227 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jengaleng422", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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99 | NTA - please for the love of god
Keep the lock and keep standing with you daughter | ocx94s | JudgeJed100 | 1,625,316,904 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JudgeJed100", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#e3be04", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "e899ca7... | [
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100 | I don't get how anyone could be upset about someone having a lock for their own room. The only reason to be upset is if they are stealing or taking advantage of her in some way, nothing about that is right. | ocx94s | JuicyJay | 1,625,333,967 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JuicyJay", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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101 | I’d be telling Sammy and the entitled twins that if they don’t like the house rules, they are more than welcome to go somewhere else. Oh that’s right, no one else will take them.
I’d also let your wife know she’s welcome to go with them if she doesn’t stop being a hypocritical cow | ocx94s | KatLikeTendencies | 1,625,321,346 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "KatLikeTendencies", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0... | [
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102 | NTA.
Good for you for standing up for your daughter. The lock should stay. There would be no need for it except that the girls are thieves.
The adult girls should pay your daughter back for the makeup. She saved for it. They stole it.
Time for the rest of the family to take a turn at helping BIL out. | ocx94s | Knitsanity | 1,625,316,474 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Knitsanity", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "fe8bfb56... | [
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103 | NTA at all for putting a lock on the door. Something is seriously wrong with the cousins and those excusing them from taking your daughter's things. I have two sisters. We were teenagers at the same time for a few years. None of us 'borrowed' something from another without asking. It would never even occur to us and is... | ocx94s | Kris82868 | 1,625,316,245 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Kris82868", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#dd9900", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "91f5b732-... | [
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104 | More likely this was what was accepted in her childhood home and she is now facing dealing with it again and she is trying to be the fixer and keep the angry person pacified. She knows her husband and daughter are not going to hurt her but it's pretty obvious how her brother and his children behave. OP mentions her pla... | ocx94s | LMR0509 | 1,625,343,212 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LMR0509", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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105 | You did the right thing with the lock. You opened your home to these people and they are disrespecting you and your child. I’m sorry your wife is not on your side, but your first obligation is to protect your daughter and your home, valuables and all. It was a $60 makeup kit this time, next time it will be worse.
The... | ocx94s | LaLa_Land543 | 1,625,316,382 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LaLa_Land543", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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106 | I didn’t see that part at the time of my post. My judgment goes doubly, then. OP is not on the wrong. | ocx94s | LaLa_Land543 | 1,625,324,992 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LaLa_Land543", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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107 | It sounds like she's cut from the same cloth as her brother and his brats. | ocx94s | LadyReika | 1,625,325,076 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LadyReika", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-... | [
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