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| My inability to assert myself positively in a group.,2 |
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| Walking on a dark street with noone around.,6 |
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| When I found out that I can travel with my best friend.,1 |
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| [ I have not felt this emotion yet.],6 |
| Being caught in changing the truth (lying).,2 |
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| Failing in an examn because of lazyness.,4 |
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| When I was insulted by a fellow student.,3 |
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| I was very sad when I heard that my Auntie had passed away.,4 |
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| Talking to someone I disliked.,0 |
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| My first public appearance in front of a rathe big audience.,6 |
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| Diagnosis that I have a stomache ulcer.,4 |
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| A man spat on the wall of a house.,0 |
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| When my grandmother died - at her funeral.,4 |
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| Being insulted in public.,2 |
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| I saw a dog who was eating excrements.,0 |
| When I won a trip to Greece in a competition.,1 |
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| Being chosen to do your experiment with aphasia.,1 |
| Being in love for the first time.,1 |
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| I missed the last tram home and had to walk in the pouring rain.,4 |
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| I made dinner for some friends and they appreciated it very much.,1 |
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| A relative not acting on her promise.,0 |
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| Failing university entrance examn.,2 |
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| When I dated my friend's boyfriend after they had broken up.,2 |
| "I was ashamed when my boyfriend went to sit with another girl |
| when he invited me to come to watch Drama festival.",2 |
| Joy at meeting a woman I love very much.,1 |
| Once I lied to my parents and this made me feel very guilty.,5 |
| "When I state things with great positiveness and try to convince |
| others, and it appears that my statement is not right.",2 |
| Death of my father,4 |
| "When I was watching a movie with many violent episodes. They |
| accurately showed the cutting of corpses, etc...",0 |
| "When I stayed in the house of friends, I washed my face and |
| wanted to dry it with a towel. This towel seemed to have been |
| used over a long time already. It smelled indefinably awful.",0 |
| "When a friend told me that my education had nothing to do with |
| our discussion. This friend has failed the 7th grade, what made |
| me angry was that I had not used my education to argue.",3 |
| I had an accident with damage to the car body.,3 |
| "When I saw the film ""Memorie of Prison"" I saw a scene of |
| masturbation of a man in the hold of a ship apart form fact that |
| the film wasn't pleasant I had a leg of coconut candies in my |
| hands. |
| When I was a child I had a grass-parakeet I liked very much. His |
| legs were crippled so that he could not move very fast. Once I |
| came into the room, did not notice him and stepped on him. A few |
| days later he died. |
| After attending a song contest proposed by a band called Chyne |
| we (6 of us) waited for the members of the band to greet us in |
| front of the stage. We went out after a few minutes as it was |
| time to close the hall. We had been waiting at the entrance hall |
| for ten minutes when three of the band members came out. They |
| were very excited to see us, one of them was so excited that he |
| had tears in his eyes. We felt very warm and close to each |
| other. They took us back into the hall and we talked freely. We |
| were together for about an hour and during this time we felt |
| that they were very sincere. |
| |
| When I passed standard 8 exams I jumped, rolled over the ground. |
| It so happened that while staying at anaunt's place I discovered |
| that I was afraid of sleeping in pitch darkness. The room |
| which my sister and I were sharing had no light, and I would |
| refuse to sleep without having the light of the adjoining |
| bathroom switched on.",6 |
| "Once I had torn a few pages off a library book and I felt ashamed |
| at this.",2 |
| When my aunt died.,4 |
| "When I heard that one of my good friends, when at a party, had |
| got herself involved with some very undesirable characters and |
| was experimenting with drugs.",0 |
| My being admitted to UNZA.,1 |
| "I took Pharmacology books from my friend's desk without |
| permission and I was found guilty. |
| |
| When I do not put in the needed amount of hours of work or study |
| for the day, I feel guilty and try to make up for the lost |
| time. |
| I came across a friend with whom I had lost touch for a long |
| time. |
| During the lesson the teacher called me and asked me if I had |
| reported that I was late. I pretended that I had but looking at |
| her eyes I knew that she knew that I was lying. I thought that |
| it was really bad luck that she had examined the list of the |
| students who were late. |
| Our association had Polish visitors and when they were going back |
| by boat I did not go to see them off (I am the chairman of the |
| association). |
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| |
| [ When after a night of sleeping in another's arms, one wakes |
| alone and knows that the lonely arms of the night are not the |
| same that one meets in the morning.]",4 |
| "It happened in a tram: some older people started to grumble about |
| the young people just because I had not immediately left my seat |
| to them.",3 |
| Caught lying to my father about a speeding ticket I had received.,2 |
| "I had an accident in which I hurt my eye. I was afraid of having |
| injured it badly.",6 |
| "Saw my class leader acting like a God when he chose people to go |
| to your English lectures.",0 |
| "I was very ashamed when I was neglected by a certain friend whom |
| I was thinking loved me very much.",2 |
| "At work when I did not get the full co-operation of my colleagues |
| to complete an assignment.",0 |
| I prayed unfaithfully.,5 |
| Before the examn.,6 |
| When I learned that two of my friends had had a serious car accident.,4 |
| "When I am in an environment or with a person much worse off than |
| me, I realize how privileged I am.",5 |
| "We hitch hiked our way back from a town rather drunk. We were |
| dropped in another town which was unknown to us. I needed to |
| urinate, so I did it on a wall which turned out to belong to the |
| military headquarters. They arrested me and made me pay a fine |
| of 500 pts. We had to go home on foot (6 km) since it was too |
| late for anyone to give us a lift.",3 |
| "It was August 30th when I heard on the radio that I passed my |
| M.C.E. exams and I was really happy and joyous because of the |
| event.",1 |
| Often I forget to give my immediate family birthday presents.,5 |
| "A good friend of mine died. During the funeral I felt an intense |
| feeling of sadness.",4 |
| "At the airport, eighty beer cans that I was carrying in a |
| bag spread all around while I was going through the metal |
| detector.",2 |
| "When I passed the driving test three weeks ago and got my |
| licence.",1 |
| When my boyfriend went away for a month long holiday without me.,3 |
| Being insulted by my roommate.,3 |
| "My brother in law was dying of cancer. To see him wasting away |
| was very sad.",4 |
| "When walking along the beach with my boyfriend, we saw 2 people |
| having sex on the sand dunes in full view of everyone. It was the |
| fact that they chose that area in which to have sex, that |
| disgusted me.",0 |
| "I was driving near my girlfriend's house and I decided to keep |
| going because it was late and I would be back in the next few |
| days anyway. The next day she was killed in a road accident. |
| Finding myself alone in a public toilet block with a man known to |
| have had great psychological disturbances. |
| I recently became sexually involved with my sister's lover. I |
| care for him very much, but I am ashamed of the hurt I may cause |
| her.",2 |
| "When two hyenas made crying noise on the window of my bedroom at |
| home when I was preparing for my MCE examination during the |
| night.",6 |
| "I experienced this when one of my friends reported to the |
| Headmaster that I had gone out for beer, whilst the information |
| was not true at all. So I had to fight the friend before the |
| Headmaster.",3 |
| "There were old people in a crowded bus and I did not have the |
| courage to give them my seat. I closed my eyes to sleep and then |
| opened my book to read. In my heart I wanted to give them the |
| seat.",5 |
| "I arrived in Vienna in the middle of the night. I asked for some |
| silly information - as I realized myself afterwards - and the inquiry |
| clerk reacted in a very arrogant manner.",3 |
| "When I complained to my mother about how untidy the kitchen |
| loooked, she boxed my ears ( this had never happened before).",2 |
| "For the girl who halped me go on living and made me happy - when |
| I don't see her even for two or three days. |
| Immediately after the New Year holidays I happened to visit a |
| party where there was a lot of alcohol and I became drunk. On the |
| next day I felt sort of ashamed when I remembered what I had said |
| and done on the night before. |
| I had been together with my boy-friend for two and a half years, |
| when he got to know another girl and not even tried to conceal |
| that from me. I drew my conclusions and left him - I also felt a |
| bit guilty for what had happened. |
| |
| A meeting with the family and the friends I felt dear and loved, |
| sharing the gladness of being together at a birthday. |
| I was doing an experiment and was not getting the appropriate |
| result despite the fact that I had repeated the procedure 4-5 |
| times. Then finally I got it right by a stroke of luck. |
| I added a little ? to a yield in an experiment to get more of |
| a yield. |
| |
| At the seaside, when a wave suddenly came and took off my bikini. |
| |
| When I got home from my job, I found a letter from the university |
| telling me that I had been admitted to begin my studies. |
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| The day before the university results came out I was both excited |
| and scared. If I failed I did not know what I would do as I did |
| not want to work, my family was ambivalent. |
| In a situation whereby a friend's actions were deliberately |
| against my wishes and (with) no regard to my feelings.",3 |
| "When I overslept for the second time on the day I had an |
| examination.",2 |
| "For a medical check-up, we - boys and girls - had to take off our |
| clothes with the exception of our underwear. Then we had to go |
| into another classroom where older pupils were sitting and |
| staring at us.",2 |
| "The 2nd time someone I had met cared for came over to my house I |
| was absolutely inebriated and was sick into a bucket.",2 |
| "When I was made to feel responsible for the emotional state a friend of |
| mine was in.",5 |
| "I answered a certain question from Dr. Maqgda wrongly. She asked |
| something about Femur and my answer was saying something |
| concerning the brain. So I was very ashamed amongst my friends.",2 |
| "When my room-mate made a mess of the room after having drunk the |
| whole night at a graduation party ceremony.",0 |
| Going to see a good film with my best friend.,1 |
| "I met a friend in a discotheque. he was with a girl and he told |
| me that she was not his girlfriend. I, to say something, |
| commented that she must be a viscious woman. He then told me |
| that she was his girl.",2 |
| My grandfather died thirteen years ago.,4 |
| When I imitated a teacher behind his back - walking very silly.,2 |
| "When my daughter had problems with her friends and I could see |
| her predicament from the window. She was given a the cold |
| shoulder.",4 |
| Can't remember that feeling.,2 |
| |
| ,3 |
| Finding out that the girl I like does not like me.,4 |
| When a girl that I liked didn't accept my curting.,0 |
| "I went to the school library and asked for a book, but the |
| librarian told me that there wasn't such. However when an other |
| colleague asked for it she gave it to him. |
| When my friend who was drunk insulted me in public for no reason at |
| all. |
| |
| On our way to France, my girlfriend and I went to Verona. By |
| chance we met an Italian couple - they gave us two tickets for |
| the dress-rehearsal of Aida. It was a different world for us |
| full of fascination. After the representation we ate a phantastic |
| pizza in a restaurant near the Arena. |
| I was present when they found a shop-keeper dead in his shop. |
| He had been shot with a shotgun at close range. |
| I thought that I had failed an examination, but when I was |
| informed about the mark, I saw that I had passed it. |
| |
| When I got 21/30 points in an exam of statistics. The result was |
| unexpected and it made me realize that statistics do not |
| surpass my abilities, as I have sometimes thought. |
| |
| I spent all weekend with a friend instead of studying for my |
| exams. |
| When I was in F4 I played a basket-ball match against another |
| school's team. One of their team members kicked a team-mate of |
| mine so I kicked him back and we had a fight with each other.",3 |
| When I had to dissect a live mouse at school.,0 |
| After an event in which I felt that I had acted unfairly.,2 |
| "At the dentist's, waiting for my turn to come. |
| During the Christmas holdidays I wanted to invite my brother, his |
| girlfriend and their child for dinner. When I said to my |
| brother's girlfriend that I would like them to come at my place |
| for dinner, she refused and never mentioned it again as if I |
| had never asked her.",3 |
| "This happened a year when I was having a hard time, I got |
| admission to do research despite obstacles in the procedure of admission.",1 |
| "Having been unjustly punished, I feel disgust towards the person |
| responsible.",0 |
| "Not helping parents enough at home and at the farm - this has |
| happened many times.",5 |
| "When males in my family try to assign house duties exclusively |
| with referance to sex.",3 |
| "I had thrown with the ashtray a still lighted cigarette in the |
| plastic wastepaper basket. It had burnt out and my landlords made |
| me a row that I might had set their flat on fire.",5 |
| Someone talking about me at my back.,3 |
| When I feigned sick leave from work.,5 |
| "When my mother's new husband treated her and my brothers and |
| sisters badly. |
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| China can not even give you good sound systems for an open |
| lecture. |
| The mother of a person with whom we had been sharing a housing |
| accused me of trying to rip her off over payment of bills in the |
| house. |
| When I was accused of having refused to do some hostel work while |
| I was at school. Actually I had not been allocated any work. |
| When I was ten I got shut in the school with a friend. I had to |
| jump out of a window and cross a beam 10 metres high. |
| I and my friends got acquainted with a guy from Sofia who turned |
| out to be gay, but we found that out only after 2 or 3 days. |
| In the University we were convoked to a stroll like a freshman I |
| was still innocent about the manipulation. On seeing the goal of |
| the exaltation to poor character people, I felt anger on feeling |
| myself mass of maneuver. |
| Remembering (at the time I did not feel guilt) in recent yrs. how |
| angry I would get when I was babysitting my new brother and he |
| would not stop crying. I did not do anything harmful or shocking. |
| But I feel guilty for treating him the way I did especially |
| since I adore him now. That's why I spoil him now.",5 |
| "When I flew out to my mother and made rude remarks because I felt |
| so tense (studied too hard for an examination).",5 |
| My girlfriend gave me the mitten (left me).,4 |
| "When I heard that a good friend, who had been abroad for a long |
| time, would come and see me.",1 |
| "I was then in the 10th standard and was going to my native place. |
| The last bus had already left and so I started walking, it soon |
| became quite dark. The road was a village road and was deserted, |
| I was not even sure if that was the right way. I finally reached |
| home at 10 P.M.",6 |
| I felt very happy when I won the football pools.,1 |
| "When the relationship with my first girlfriend broke up and I |
| realized it too late.",6 |
| "Accidentally dropped a friends camera flash, so that it was |
| broken.",5 |
| "In a warm bus full of people, someone vomited and the whole bus |
| stank.",0 |
| "When my sister lost her only son, who was sixteen years old. I |
| felt very bad about it as this was the first death in my family |
| and then I learned slowly to understand to life.",4 |
| "Watching an old lady running up the street to catch her bus and |
| miss it, it reminded me of my own mother and how dreadful it |
| would be to be her in the same situation.",4 |
| "Saw someone who picked up a cigarette from the floor and smoked |
| it.",0 |
| When I go out alone at night.,6 |
| "When I took my entrance exams successfully and also when I got my |
| school leaving certificate because the delivering ceremony was |
| extremely official.",1 |
| "During an argument with my brother, I behaved rather |
| intransigently, even cruelly, wishing to morally hurt the ""person"" |
| opposed to me.",5 |
| I do not study enough as I do not understand it properly.,5 |
| "In an exam when I answered the questions with very little |
| assurance due to insufficiet preparation.",5 |
| "While watching a movie, someone who was drunk started vomiting |
| helplessly.",0 |
| "My son lives in the country. I feel sadness when I see mothers |
| having walks with their children.",4 |
| When I see dead dogs on the road.,0 |
| "I promised a friend that I would return a book to it's owner for |
| him , but I forgot to do it. |
| I feel disgusted with toadies, hypocrites, chameleons. |
| My sister came back home and reproached me for not having tidied |
| up the house, although I had been working all morning and she had |
| done nothing. |
| After being told that an ex-boyfriend had been hurt by my wearing |
| something he had given me when I was with another guy. I was |
| unaware of my actions really, as I had not considered the fact |
| that he had given it to me, and might see me. I still respected |
| his opinions of me. |
| Last night I did not do very well in one of the subjects. Before |
| the result was announced I feared that I would fail. Finally I |
| got a D and as the results of the other subjects were not all |
| good I felt a little sad. |
| Our teacher had invited us to lunch and once at the canteen we |
| started introducing ourselves. Two of the boys showed a lot of |
| interest in knowing personal details and then they started |
| talking about some activities held in the college. I had little |
| interest in those activities so I talked to another student |
| sitting next to me as I was afraid that they would ask me |
| questions on those activities. |
| I wanted to finish a relationship after 3 months. Unfortunately |
| my friend had a different opinion. I could not answer his |
| feelings this made him unhappy, and me feel guilty. |
| I was drawn up a statement for an infringement of the traffic |
| ordinance. In fact I was innocent. |
| When I realized that I did not have the basic things needed by a |
| student like me. |
| Did well in an examn just before my father's birthday: the best |
| present I can give to my father.",1 |
| Once I saw some children hunting a cat to death.,3 |
| "When a man rang the doorbell and wanted to enter the house with |
| violence. I was alone at home that moment.",6 |
| "Always, and this happens often when I do not keep my word.",5 |
| I was alone at home on New Year's Eve.,4 |
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| Hearing a strange noise in the biology building.,6 |
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| When I was accepted to study at this school I was very happy.,1 |
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| Lecturers being unfair to me in reports.,0 |
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| A mother who shouts at her child for nothing.,0 |
| Seeing a film in which there were several bloody crimes.,0 |
| When someone in my family died.,4 |
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| Pictures of Nazi extermination camps on a T.V program.,0 |
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| My roommate being unconsiderate.,3 |
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| I refused to lend my homework to a friend.,5 |
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| The day I learnt that I had been admitted to the university.,1 |
| Insulted by disgusting people.,3 |
| I saw a report on T.V news on apartheid in South Africa. ,3 |
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| My boyfriend returned after a long absence.,1 |
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| Forgetting a close friend's birthday.,5 |
| "I wore a dirty dress a certain day I was going to town I met an |
| old friend who made a comment about my dress so I felt ashamed.",2 |
| "I felt shame when I saw someone I knew and pretended not to see |
| her. Later she saw me and said hi.",2 |
| "There was a family fight in my house some time back. My uncle |
| had given me a watch as a present and I lost it. During the |
| fight he accused me of having sold the watch. I was disgusted at |
| his false accusations.",0 |
| My bed sheet (present of my parents) damaged by roommate.,3 |
| I forgot to lock the outside door at my Land Lady's place.,5 |
| A very drunk person.,0 |
| When a skunk invaded camp.,0 |
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| When my grandmother died. I had lived with her for ten years.,4 |
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| Being misunderstood by friends.,4 |
| My sister was afraid of her husband.,2 |
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| Found my name on the list of attending the English lectures.,1 |
| I did badly in the mid term examination.,2 |
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| Once I answered my father rudely.,2 |
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| When I see rotten meat.,0 |
| |
| ,1 |
| When an alcoholic stood dribbling over a food counter.,0 |
| |
| ,6 |
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| ,5 |
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| ,3 |
| |
| ,0 |
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| ,1 |
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| ,3 |
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| ,2 |
| Getting the top price in the football pools.,1 |
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| ,1 |
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| ,0 |
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| ,5 |
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| ,0 |
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| ,6 |
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| ,1 |
| In the dark an unreal figure formed by a shadow.,6 |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,1 |
| ,5 |
| Lying to my grandparents about visiting my boyfriend in Chico.,2 |
| When I knew the feelings of a beloved person.,1 |
| |
| |
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| ,5 |
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| ,3 |
| Someone attacked me with a knife.,6 |
| |
| ,3 |
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| ,5 |
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| ,2 |
| |
| ,5 |
| After the fact that made me ashamed I felt sadness.,4 |
| Once I did not have enough money to pay for a coffee.,2 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,0 |
| Getting back my Psych 140 midterm.,6 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,3 |
| Bought something bad from the shop and they refused to change it.,3 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,5 |
| I didn't offer my seat to a pregnant woman in the bus.,2 |
| "Once a week I work as a volunteer in a biologic garden. this work |
| in the garden and the contact with other volunteers filled me |
| with joy. They also gave me support after I failed passing my |
| driver's test. |
| I had promised to do a task for someone that was close to me, and |
| from the outset I knew it was important that I do it, but when it |
| came to it, I let them down. |
| Receiving notification that I had made a successful application |
| to the Speech Therapy course at Uni, gave me a very good feelig |
| of achievment and joy. |
| I told a lie about someone to someone else and they found out |
| and questioned me about it. |
| |
| |
| When biking and I felt very bad (problems with heart and |
| respiration). |
| Some time ago a girl tried to make me up without any action of my |
| part. She used all possible means. Although I behaved refusingly |
| she did not give up for a longer time. |
| I was all of the sudden sad when I heard that my cousin who |
| usually paid school fees had passed away after a very short |
| illness. |
| When I gave water to the plants of a friend. Then one plant fell |
| over, and a little statue broke. I, of course, had to tell him |
| everything. |
| I was once chatting with friends. Then some boys came and joined |
| us. These boys took all my 3 friends away and I was left alone in |
| shame without knowing where to go from there. |
| My sister was impolite to my father when the family was having |
| lunch together at a restaurant. She thought that our parents had |
| been prejudiced against her, this was an extreme thought. |
| I felt guilty because I had not accomplished a thing as well as I |
| had wanted to. |
| Someone asked me to do something and I made up an excuse and said |
| no. I then went and didn't the same thing with someone else and |
| hoped the first person never found out.",5 |
| "[ If one has planned to do something ""important"" and then, for |
| some reason, fails to do it.]",5 |
| Quarreling with classmates.,3 |
| "I was working in a classmate's house with a group. A girl began |
| to graze her foot against mine under the table. |
| When I realised that I was forgiven by the God who is there, when |
| I realised how much God loves me and that my acceptance with him |
| is not based on my performance - that he loves me unconditionally |
| and showed that love in Christ who died because I do need |
| forgiveness. |
| I had been telling lies and people discovered instantly that I |
| was telling lies. I felt very shameful and I felt like |
| disappearing from people. |
| I felt guilty when I spent a night at my boyfriend's place, |
| particularly because I had been harsh and spiteful when I had |
| left home. The reason was that I feared a possible discussion on |
| the subject and I wanted to leave defiantly.",5 |
| I felt guilty when I couldn't help a person.,5 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,4 |
| Good dinner on the National Day.,1 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| Being sexually assulted on a bus.,0 |
| First time going out with a boy and other people laughed at us.,2 |
| I saw a lot of starving people in a T.V news report.,4 |
| The time that I had to put my dog to sleep.,5 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,4 |
| My sister bkoke her leg.,4 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| I overreacted towards my mother and felt ashamed afterwards.,2 |
| |
| ,4 |
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| ,2 |
| |
| ,3 |
| Talking to a close friend.,1 |
| When my grandmother died - having to see my mother weep.,4 |
| |
| ,6 |
| When I was presumed to have stolen maize from the school garden.,0 |
| I said something especially stupid which I did not mean at all.,2 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| |
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| ,6 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,3 |
| When I fell in love.,1 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| After having failed my driving test.,2 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
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| ,1 |
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| ,3 |
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| ,4 |
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| ,3 |
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| ,5 |
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| ,3 |
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| ,5 |
| When I met my girlfriend - I had not counted on that.,1 |
| When I quarrelled with a very close friend of mine.,4 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| When my boy-friend left me and I wanted to persuade him to stay.,2 |
| The stories about the way my grandmother treated my mother.,3 |
| |
| |
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| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,4 |
| ,3 |
| |
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| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| My best friend suddenly acting strange towards me.,0 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| A conflict with a pupil.,3 |
| When I learnt that I had been accepted at the medical school.,1 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| When I was subjected to a very nasty joke by a group of friends.,3 |
| I stopped working (had a boring job).,1 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,0 |
| Once I promised to do something but I didn't do it.,5 |
| A too eager approach by a dirty drunken person in a bus.,0 |
| A recurrent lovesickness.,1 |
| "When I first saw the state of a cafeteria in the grounds of the |
| university. Due to students own lack of concern for the |
| environment in which they eat and drink. Rubbish and spilled tea |
| and coffee left everywhere.",0 |
| "One of my very good friends came to me for advice as her |
| boyfriend had been hitting her and beating her quite harmfully.",0 |
| When I had to leave home to go to some other place to study.,4 |
| "When I realized that I was pregnant. I thought about what my |
| relatives and friends would think about me and I felt a lot of |
| self pity.",2 |
| "I experienced shame when I failed to keep a promise to meet my |
| friend at the bus depot. He later came and asked me why I had not |
| turned up.",2 |
| "When I drove partially across the country with my father. We |
| stopped in a few towns and stayed overnight in motels. The joy I |
| got was from the feedom I felt and the real beauty of the |
| country.",1 |
| "After being away on a holiday for 2 months, a friend, who lived |
| interstate, had remembered when I'd get back and phoned to |
| welcome me home on the night of my arrival. |
| The behaviour of a colleague of mine, which doesn't correspond to |
| my norms of behaviour.",0 |
| When I got through the first day here at the department.,1 |
| "When I took the first year university exams and made a lot of |
| mistakes in the P110 exam. I was afraid of failing and thus |
| being unable to go to the school of medicine.",6 |
| "Begining the week-end with my girlfriend : cozyness, beer and |
| wine.",1 |
| "When I had to go to reconciliation before converting to |
| Catholicism but then once received - o.k.",5 |
| "When my mother looked in my drawer (where I keep my personal |
| things) and she found some porno photos that I have kept from |
| more than a week, and split it.",2 |
| "My sister once stole my mother's money and made her very angry. |
| After this my mother would beat her up for unreasonable reasons. |
| One day my sister lent her book to a friend without telling my |
| mother about it. When my mother learnt this she beat her up and |
| even threatened her with a pair of scissors. |
| I was selected to come here (University, College) when I was least |
| expecting it. |
| A classmate told me I must have bribed the class leader to let me |
| go to your English lecture. |
| Lately I've felt guilty because I'm folling behind in my classes |
| and not studying much. |
| |
| |
| When an acquaintance of mine told me about the way his parents |
| treated their sons in an unequal manner. The most successful of |
| them got continuous encouragement, and the youngest was not |
| encouraged and was rejected. |
| One night, walking along a park, I began to think that some |
| roughnecks would appear suddenly with knives and things like |
| that. |
| Being mistreated by my former primary school teacher, Mr Zalu. |
| I was asked to stop studying economics, a field which interested |
| me, by my employers. |
| I am usually angry at myself. This happens often. For instace |
| when I want to pet without falling in love and it soon proves |
| that I have fallen in love with him. |
| When my close friend was involved in an accident and passed away |
| instantly. He had gone to buy a new car and had asked me to |
| wait at his home so that I could see his new car. |
| |
| |
| I was disgusted when I was told to dress a big rotten stinky |
| wound which, coming closer, made me feel like vomitting. |
| |
| |
| As a child (i.e. 5-7) hiking in reasonably rugged bush and |
| becoming lost for a duration of 5-7 hours. |
| When I failed my Primary school leaving Examinations. I never |
| thought I would fail. When I heard I had failed I really felt |
| ashamed of myself. |
| When I was 20 years old, I fell severely ill and was bed-ridden for |
| 6 months. I felt very scared for my health and my studies. |
| The emotion came when a certain boy opened my locker without my |
| knowledge. |
| For the above: guilt at not living up to my own moral |
| expectation, guilt for not being the type of person my patents |
| wanted, guilt for just about bloody everything, just realising |
| that I have failed drastically in my own eyes. |
| The situation in which I felt happiest in my life was when |
| I was with the person I love for the first time. |
| |
| A friend of mine had sex with someone of a different race on a |
| Winnebago trip down to USC in front of everyone (all my friends |
| embarrassed my sorority house name). |
| |
| When a friend carelessly broke and object in my parent's house |
| and did not apologize, or pay, or anything.",3 |
| "When I saw a dead body in the mortuary I became afraid and I was |
| filled with fear.",6 |
| "Someone stole my ski at Vitosha and of course I was the one to be |
| blamed. I left them without supervision.",3 |
| "During the Christmas holidays, I met some of my old friends, |
| after not having seen them for six months.",1 |
| Bus conductor insulted me for not buying a ticket (I forgot).,3 |
| "When an argument with a friend of mine over our behaviour towards |
| another friend turned into a quarrel. I lost my temper and nearly |
| knocked him out.",3 |
| "I was walking to my car at night and thought that I was being |
| followed.",6 |
| "The last time I had to phone the Registry, after having called |
| them so many times in the last few days.",2 |
| "On one occasion whilst engaging in horseplay with my girlfriend, |
| I caused her to be physically harmed.",2 |
| "I had been very weary all week - no letters, no phonecalls, no |
| visitors and then my younger sister came with some cheese, a card |
| and some pocket money for me; and she told me that she was |
| working now.",1 |
| "When a person is privileged in account of situations that are |
| unjust, and disloyal to colleagues and friends.",3 |
| "When a friend of mine got drunk and started to blame and scorn my |
| other friends and me.",0 |
| "Taking part in the mobbing of some girls in my class in primary |
| school.",2 |
| "When I red a report in the magazine VESA about an Iranian telling |
| what she had lived in the prisons in Iran. I felt disgust about |
| that people.",0 |
| "When I realized that I was not working hard enough and was not |
| being useful as an individual to the society or the family, guilt |
| at spending money on uncalled for activities - in short wasting |
| my life.",5 |
| I was very sad at hearing that my grandfather had passed away.,4 |
| "At age 10 my foster grandmother died, I had a fear of dying.",6 |
| "This was the worst incident of my hostel life. I was insulted by |
| a close friend of mine on the eve of the New year and it totally |
| spoiled my New year's night. |
| |
| |
| |
| I had told my boyfriend that I did not want to go on with our |
| relationship. I knew that I was important to him but I wanted to |
| be free. I saw that this was difficult for him but I remained |
| firm and did not change my mind. |
| |
| |
| A person I was attracted to walked me home in the rain and got |
| sick. |
| When I was a child, I was always afraid of my father. Just when |
| he looked at me, I felt frightened. |
| |
| During a ski tour with a friend, we two had drunk too much. When |
| we went down the slope on ski, I lost my friend who had lost his |
| way. I thought that something must have happened to him (he |
| finally arrived but after a very long time). |
| |
| I had a quarrel with my fiancT. When he admitted his fault, |
| everything was allright. It was then for the first time that he |
| surprised me with coffee and cake and a bunch of flowers. |
| Feeling inadequate in a group situation, being unable to convey |
| my own thoughts and feelings. |
| My little cat which I had raised all by myself, hanged itself when |
| playing in the garden. |
| Four weeks ago I felt very much touched to find an asciatic |
| patient who had asked the very morning to be tapped of the fluid, |
| dying in the evening. I was really disgusted because this was the |
| Medical staff's negligence. Had the Clinical officers done |
| something that very morning he might have been alive today.",0 |
| I offended my mother.,5 |
| "I quarrelled with my younger sister because I had said something |
| against her boyfriend. Consequently she looked through me when |
| she saw me as she thought that I was trying to separate them. |
| She had misunderstood me.",4 |
| "I walked in on a teenage patient of mine (I work in a hospital) |
| as he was going through my office drawers and he had removed |
| money from my purse.",3 |
| "This situation happened when my friend me with a knife which I |
| stole from him.",5 |
| "I went to a party with my boyfriend who got so drunk and started |
| vomiting. It was so disgusting.",0 |
| "When I am dishonest to a friend to whom I am very close. I |
| feel guilty because I know that he gives a different version of |
| the truth and I have not corrected these mistakes, and he is |
| aware that I know that they are wrong.",5 |
| "Riding home from school after completing two midterms in two |
| days, and feeling I did well on them.",1 |
| "When I was walking on the street, I slipped on the dung of a dog. |
| I did not fall down, but I felt disgusted by the bad smell on my |
| sole.",0 |
| "When my daughter gave her solo dance performance in Poona and |
| there was a big applause, I was overjoyed.",1 |
| "I felt it when I came home after the examination session and I |
| said I had not passed my last exam.",5 |
| "I had to wash my grandmother because she did not get to the |
| bathroom on time.",0 |
| "My fiancee and I were at my parent's place watching TV. There |
| were only two TV-chairs and we were sitting on them when my |
| drunken brother came in and rudely chased my fiancee off the |
| chair she was sitting on. |
| When we rearranged furniture in our flat and got stuck in a |
| chair. |
| A friend of mine uses butter instead of oil when he is cooking. I |
| am always angry about that, because it is an unnecessary luxury. |
| Recently we both were cooking and he wanted to use butter again. |
| When I had already put the oil into the pan, he poured it out |
| again and put the butter into the pan. |
| |
| I passed my MCE Examination. at first I was worried but when I |
| heard my name I had joy in my heart and I arranged for a trip to |
| attend a wedding ceremony. |
| When I heard about the treatment of a friend in jail. Really |
| inhuman. I never realised that such things also happen in the |
| Netherlands. |
| I got into a tight pair of trousers and examined myself in the |
| mirror. My back looked unpresentable and I felt ashamed at my |
| wanting to wear those clothes that day. I quickly changed into |
| another dress. |
| I had promised to send something to a friend and it completely |
| slipped my mind. I felt guilty for having forgotten. |
| |
| |
| My parents do not like my friend and told me not to go out with |
| him. |
| The girl I was seeing didn't want to have a serious relationship. |
| ",4 |
| I made a comment that at the moment didn't fit.,2 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
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| ,2 |
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| ,3 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
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| ,5 |
| |
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| ,4 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| When my elder brother died.,4 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| Had a nice letter from my close friend.,1 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,2 |
| When someone tried to bewitch me and my friends at night.,6 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| Sleeping through crew practice one Monday morning.,5 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| When I learnt that I had been admitted to the university.,1 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,2 |
| The birth of my first child.,1 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| When I was walking around all alone at night.,6 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,2 |
| When I passed and qualified for the university.,1 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,6 |
| Did not do what I promised to do for a friend.,5 |
| When I refused to fetch water for my aunty while she was busy.,2 |
| |
| ,2 |
| Success in university entrance examination.,1 |
| |
| ,0 |
| When I met an elephant in the bush.,6 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,6 |
| My friend was badly hurt.,4 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| When I was admitted to the University.,1 |
| When they tried to rob me.,6 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| When my child was born.,1 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,6 |
| When my dog died.,4 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| When I fought with my friends.,5 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,3 |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| Introducing myself at a first tutorial this year at University.,6 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
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| ,4 |
| |
| ,5 |
| Having a fight with a class mate.,3 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| A friend of mine was shouting at me in a group of juniors.,2 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| After masturbation.,5 |
| When a friend of mine visited me and my house was in a mess.,2 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,4 |
| A boy I had been admiring so much asked me to go out with him.,1 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| An unjust calumny concerning me.,3 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| NO RESPONSE.,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,0 |
| I got to know about the death of a close friend.,4 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,4 |
| When my dog died.,4 |
| My girlfriend sent me a letter with a shiny picture in it.,1 |
| ,0 |
| Being aggressive against members of my family.,5 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
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| ,0 |
| |
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| ,2 |
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| ,6 |
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| |
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| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,3 |
| When I bought my car.,1 |
| My parents failed to visit me as they promised.,4 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,4 |
| Not being able to hand in homework in time.,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,5 |
| When I had to assume a position which I didn't expect.,6 |
| "Recently I saw a young girl fawning on a man. And what for - |
| money and things. I was ashamed to be a woman.",2 |
| "My girlfriend one day went out and promised to be back at 6.00 pm |
| however she first arrived at 10.00 pm, without a message (we had |
| to go out that evening).",3 |
| "When I ate my sister's food and then she found out that it was |
| me. I felt very ashamed but still refused to admit that it was |
| me. |
| At noon one Sunday I received a phone call telling me that my |
| mother had been knocked down by a car at the street crossing and |
| that her husband should go and see her. I could not believe this |
| as my father and my mother had gone out together to buy lunch |
| boxes. However I immediately ran to the scene of the accident. |
| I was overwhelmed with joy when I received the acceptance letter |
| to UNZA. This happened again when I passed all my first year |
| courses. |
| At about midnight I had to go by bike through Graz alone. On the |
| whole it was a distance of several kilometers. A car followed me |
| through the streets. Only when I went into a one-way street the |
| car disappeared. The rest of my way home I was very afraid. |
| Alone in the house (late 8pm) I heard noises. Sounded like someone |
| was trying to get in our back door. |
| Iqam chosen for your lecture and my best friend is not. Now he is |
| angry with me and I cannot help him. |
| I found a big, black spider near a bag of food. |
| |
| I am a school teacher. One of the classes does not obey me at all, |
| keeps on talking, does no work. One afternoon, everything went |
| wrong, and I got exceedingly angry. |
| |
| During a discussion I reacted very aggressively and so I made it |
| impossible to continue discussing. |
| I had a driver licence but I didn't drive for a long time, than I |
| started to drive again, and had to get into hard transit and |
| highways.",6 |
| "One time I set up my journey at night going to a certain bar. On |
| the way I met my friends and they told me that two people had |
| died because of heavy fighting. I proceeded on but with fear.",6 |
| "During a movie in which I saw the effect of white settlers in |
| Africa.",0 |
| "It was necessary to organise a competition in connection with a |
| celebration. Everyone was to be present at that event. It turned |
| out that there was no audience at all because everyone had |
| pretended to be very intelligent and no one had come. I got |
| furious.",3 |
| When I saw my family after a separation of one year.,1 |
| When I had drunk too much and nearly got an alcohol poisoning.,5 |
| "When my boyfriend last told me he loved me after I gave him an |
| impulsive kiss.",1 |
| "I felt very sad when I had to give up something that by right was |
| mine and although I didn't get it, a kind of suvenir that people |
| don't give you the right to have.",4 |
| When I felt lack of aid from close friends.,4 |
| "It was when I injured a friend accidentally with a stone. It made |
| a cut on the cheeks which resulted in suturing.",5 |
| "When I got permission to study at a place which was far away from my |
| home.",1 |
| "A boyfriend with whom I split up with came over to a friend's |
| house where I was visiting with a male friend. In a confrontation |
| in another room he tried to find out if I was aroused by my |
| friend by feeling my parts. |
| While studying chemistry with a friend we became angry with |
| eachother because we were both fed up. |
| When I succeeded in achieving a scholarship for which I had |
| strived hard during a period of financial, personal and physical |
| stress. |
| After hearing the news about the death of my sister, I felt very |
| sad. |
| At the funeral of a friend about 20 years old, who was killed in |
| a hit-and-run motorcycle accident. |
| I felt this situation when a certain woman from a close village |
| shouted at my mother because she didn't get what she wanted, she |
| wanted some salt to put in her relish.",0 |
| I failed an exam which I thought I would certainly pass.,2 |
| "I feel unbelievably happy about the relationship between my |
| boyfriend and me, it is a reoccurring feeling.",1 |
| "I didn't like my former fob and felt joy when I received a |
| telegram offering me a new one that I though better and for which |
| I had been waiting. |
| When I was at school, no one thought I could pass my MCE so at |
| the end of the year my name was announced on the radio that I had |
| passed. I was the happiest person. |
| I was so excited once that I told my classmate that she was old, |
| this hurt her and I felt guilty. |
| When I saw a male engineer one year and came back to find he was |
| now a female (I don't know it/them personally).",0 |
| "A shop-assistant behaved rather roughly with me though she hadn't |
| the slightest grounds for it. |
| |
| |
| When the car I was driving skidded on an icy road and landed in |
| a ditch with one side against a rock. |
| My grandmother was about to die, and it had the effect that at |
| night, after having read a book, and once in bed, in perfect |
| darkness, the fear arose that I too may suddenly die. |
| Did not pick up a water mellon skin, someone slipped on it. |
| A few months a close relative of mine died. I had never expected |
| this to happen and was sad for a few months. |
| Our only elder sister got married and started having pains in her |
| abdomen and she was told that she could not have children. To our |
| suprise she had a baby 2 months back. |
| I think that the only time I really felt shame was when I was |
| very young and I had to defecate on the street. I was very |
| worried in case someone should see me. |
| |
| |
| One day I went for a bath. I took off my clothes and as soon as I |
| had finished my brother came in. I felt sad and I found no reason |
| why he came in. |
| I was accused of having drunk a bottle of liquor and then |
| refilling with water. |
| I had written a love-letter to a class-mate of mine, this was |
| meant to be a joke. Unfortunately it fell in the wrong hands |
| and I had to face the consequences. |
| About the car (sadness) I felt anger the way I acted after |
| negotiating it. |
| |
| My father stayed abroad for one year. He does not like to write |
| letters because he makes ortographic mistakes. I never had a good |
| relation to him. He wrote me a letter in which he said that he |
| loved me. |
| A friend of mine was telling jokes which I felt to be very |
| disgusting, especially because I was eating. |
| On Reberbahn, I was in a restaurant where drinks were |
| overpriced. I did not ask for the prices beforehand, and when |
| the bill came I could not pay the bill. |
| One day I did not feel very well and I wanted to talk to |
| somebody. A friend invited me for dinner and I was very glad. |
| When I was a child, one day while playing, I fell up to my waist |
| in mud. |
| When I did not concentrate on my studies despite my mother's help |
| and cooperation.",5 |
| If a guy one is not interested in makes advances.,0 |
| "After watching the 49ers lose game after game, year after year, I |
| was finally rewarded with a Super Bowl victory which made me |
| extremely happy.",1 |
| When I considered writing a load of crap for this emotion.,2 |
| When one's studies seem hopelessly difficult and uninteresting. ,4 |
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| Not being able to help my friend to study English.,5 |
| |
| ,5 |
| In a hurry to get to lectures and the car would not start.,3 |
| When someone chased me from his house.,3 |
| |
| ,1 |
| When I was scolded by my dad for bad behaviour.,5 |
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| I passed an exam that I was absolutely certain that I had failed.,1 |
| After an argument with a friend of mine.,5 |
| Got ill.,6 |
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| ,0 |
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| ,3 |
| When I was locked out of my room by my room-mate's friend.,3 |
| "I received a letter and a Christmas present from a person I had |
| not seen for two years.",1 |
| "Last year when I worked during the Summer holidays and studied |
| at the same time for an examination I had to repeat; my boyfriend |
| went to Greece for a holiday for a month.",4 |
| When I felt alone and without love.,4 |
| When a person that I like very much got near to me.,1 |
| "In 1960, I was going to a school which was near my village and I |
| met a lion on the way, which disappeared suddenly.",6 |
| When I had to finish those big amounts of homework in time.,0 |
| "My friend had been telling me about a certain bird which when it |
| cries at night it's the sign that someone will die. So one night I |
| was alone in the house and I heard the cry of the bird and I was |
| afraid. |
| A couple of years ago during the summer holiday, I was fishing at |
| a lake with my husband. Suddenly it started raining while the |
| sun was still shining. I experienced a feeling of joy, happiness |
| and fulfillment. the whole nature was full of music. |
| |
| When I saw the movie Poltergist. |
| |
| |
| I had not punched a ticket in the bus because I had a card. But |
| when the ticket-collector came it turned out that I had forgotten |
| it. The shame I felt was great though it was not done on purpose. |
| |
| |
| At school a classmate who was a very good pupil had to help |
| another boy who performed less well. He told him on purpose the |
| wrong things so that he had to repeat a year. |
| |
| This is difficult, since I don't remember feeling disgust towards |
| anyone.",0 |
| Not doing something I had promised.,5 |
| When I felt being treated unjustly by a teacher.,3 |
| Not applicable to myself.,5 |
| "During my holidays I had a boyfriend who turned away from me |
| outwardly. Therefore I danced with another man and raised certain |
| hopes in him. After a while I had to explain to him the |
| circumstances",5 |
| When my behaviour was immoral - thinking about sex.,5 |
| "When a friend, after being free of drugs for half a year, started |
| using them again. |
| ",4 |
| Being threatened by another person.,6 |
| "When I learned that my dad had cancer. I knew he was going to the |
| hospital for some tests. My mom told me when she picked me up one |
| weekend from CAL to take me home.",4 |
| The high school entrance exam.,1 |
| "During my Highschool time I was chairman of the student's |
| comitee. In this function I once had to make a speech to a large |
| audience and I was very nervous. After three sentences I forgot |
| my text. |
| When my parents behave very witty towards me, they make insipid |
| jokes about which they laugh. Or my mother who treats me like a |
| little child. |
| When I encountered not only with my father's lack of |
| understanding but also with his unwillingness to understand me as |
| a parent, as far as things for which I (not he) have proves to be |
| right are concerned.",3 |
| Disappointment over a friend.,6 |
| "When I see how people around me pass by certain unjustice because |
| of indifference or cowardice.",3 |
| "My classmate used her personal relations to get a seat for a |
| subject that I wanted also. I had taken the pains to help him |
| apply and I did not get selected. I did not like this as he had |
| not told me the facts earlier, he need not have lied to me.",3 |
| "When my co-resident opened the bathroom door while I was bathing |
| inside.",2 |
| "A friend of mine that is abroad undertook recently an axam to |
| enter on University in Dallas, and was approved.",1 |
| Grovelling people.,0 |
| "When I beat up my brother in order to control him and make him |
| obey my parents orders.",0 |
| "I call my mother at least once a week. However last week I |
| completely forgot. This morning she called me, she thought I felt |
| ill.",5 |
| I fell off a bike in the presence of a lot of people.,2 |
| "I separated with the one I liked most. She refused all my dates |
| and told me that she had dated another one. My heart seemed to |
| cease beating. I was silent for some time and then I whispered |
| goodbye and left without turning back.",4 |
| "On my birthday, an old friend of mine sent me a card. I had not |
| met him for a year and I was very glad that he had thought of me.",1 |
| "Having failed to help with the 5th of March arrangements (Women's |
| Day), although I had previously promised to take part in the |
| work. |
| The computer at school had left out my name along with four |
| others and I had no rights for one year. So I was happy to find |
| my name on the medical schhol list. |
| |
| After taking a difficult midterm for one of my classes, I felt |
| shame for not studying as much as I should have. I was ashamed of |
| the results of the midterm. |
| |
| |
| At the beginning of the year I moved to a new city - I felt sad |
| as I had to leave many friends and family members behind. |
| I was angry when someone stole a magazine which I had borrowed |
| from another friend and locked it in a drawer. |
| When people manipulate others through appearing better than what |
| they really are. |
| Two years ago I saw a film on the TV. Even now it makes me |
| afraid. |
| I felt joy when I heard my name being called on the radio as one |
| of the students who had passed the interview of Nursing and was |
| selected to start Nursing. |
| I once was accused of falling in love with someone's girlfriend |
| which was not true because the girl was just a friend of mine.",3 |
| "I had gone home for a week-end and when I came back I found that |
| my clothes and my bedding had been stolen.",3 |
| When I passed the first examination that I had to repeat.,1 |
| Deception from a person I loved very much.,0 |
| "After failing a second attempt at Med 4, following a number of |
| difficult personal circumstances.",2 |
| "I was with a group of people and everybody told me to do or say |
| something. It was a confusing, strong and traumatic situation |
| for me.",2 |
| "When bicycling along, a courier van started to tail me very close |
| - I sped up and moved over and he just did the same. I reacted |
| violently, much physical responding in the dangerous situation.",3 |
| I was not chosen for the All English class.,4 |
| "We always made a lot of noise during a certain lecture. This may |
| have been because we did not respect the lecturer. Finaly, the |
| lecturer could not tolerate it and he scolded us angrily and |
| pointed out our misbehaviour.",5 |
| "When I saw that I had passed an exam. It was the last chance and |
| there was a lot at stake.",1 |
| I reachad home to find that my baby had not been bathed and fed.,3 |
| "I experienced joy at a friend's 22nd birthday party. We had good |
| food, good liquid, good company, good music, and an overall warm |
| atmosphere. The birthday girl and I communicate incredibly well. |
| I felt very content, warm and inspired just talking with her |
| giving her a neck massage. |
| When a person whom I had invited did not come on the appointed |
| day and time. |
| Found out that my grandmother might have been misdiagnosed as a |
| psychiatric patient because the doctor did not know about |
| neurologism. |
| Telling friends about how my parents had been treating my |
| brothers and sisters unfairly. |
| |
| Once when I complained I caused a great discussion between my |
| parents. |
| When I failed an exam last Summer. I had worked very hard for it |
| and I was very disappointed thinking that it was hopeless to |
| continue at college. I did overreact. |
| One evening a friend of mine was telling a fearful story, nobody |
| took it seriously but I got frightened. |
| Some time ago a close relative of mine got off cheap with the |
| worst. |
| When I received a message that my brother was seriously ill and |
| was in hospital. |
| |
| After one year of searching, my friend and I have found a flat we |
| are able to pay for. |
| My father was very angry with me, and I locked me up in the |
| shower. Then my father knocked his fist through the door, I was |
| scared to death. |
| |
| I was talking to a friend and he said something which was very |
| funny. |
| |
| My mother was stuck by an apoplectic fit, was hemi-paralyzed and |
| suffered an aphasia. |
| I was ashamed when I got the lowest result (mark) in class. All |
| the same I didn't worry too much because I knew I would have got |
| much better if I had read enough.",2 |
| A terrible fight that I provoked with my friend.,6 |
| Succeeding in helping others.,1 |
| "During an argument between friends, one of them accused me of |
| taking advantage of some other friends who usually come to the |
| university in my car, saying that I ask them too much money for |
| the petrol.",3 |
| "When I realised that I had rejected a boy, who was fallen in love |
| with me, rather bluntly four times.",5 |
| "I am ashamed of the way my father behaves with my mother and |
| sister, and with me too.",2 |
| "When I realized that I was far behind the others in the language |
| course and I could no longer catch up with the others.",3 |
| "Deliberately provoked by someone close. Angered by the |
| deliberation not the provocation.",3 |
| "When my friend, as usual, forgot the tickets at home for a |
| performance. We missed it.",3 |
| "We were driving a car of a friend of mine when we turned in the |
| wrong direction towards an unknown district, and nearly drove |
| down a precipice.",6 |
| "I had been drinking with a pal and I later (1 o' clock) had a date |
| with my fiancee. We were going to a Spanish lesson and I was |
| afraid that she would smell that I had been drinking. |
| Because I am the Captain of a basketball team I usually organise |
| a roster system so that everyone in the team can have a turn at |
| doing either a duty or a ref. A lot of the time the girls can't |
| be bothered or just forget - I usually have to fill in.",3 |
| "After an exam I was in a very bad mood as I had done it very |
| badly. At home, my mother took so long to ask me how things had |
| gone that I lost my temper. I overreacted and made my mother cry. |
| She still prepared lunch for me and did not scold me . Suddenly, |
| I thought that it was my fault and I started crying. |
| ",5 |
| "A man in a car was following me when I went running early one |
| morning in a fairly secluded area.",6 |
| [ Depressions.],4 |
| "When I miss the train and I am late, and I have to wait half an |
| hour for the next one.",3 |
| I went to visit friends and it was very companionable.,1 |
| "I live outside Graz - so I have to go by bus. One day I went home |
| from the bus stop alone. It was dark, I had to go through a |
| forest and there was a dark figure behind me. I was very |
| frightened.",6 |
| "Death of paternal grandmother to whom I was very close - died of |
| cancer.",4 |
| When I called my boyfriend he asked me if I would live with him.,1 |
| "When not fulfilling any of my obligations to a person whom I |
| respect.",2 |
| "I realised that someone was insidiously attempting to shit me off |
| I was disgusted with him for doing so, because I afforded him |
| with no excuse to do so.",0 |
| Heard some ghost-like noise at night.,6 |
| Seeing a pornographic movie in which animals were used.,0 |
| When I demand too much from my friends.,5 |
| "With the girl whom I may be loved truly. When she refused to come |
| with me to an occasion (she was from another town).",3 |
| For the first time in my life telling someone I loved them.,1 |
| "A friend of mine often had difficulties with her parents. Once |
| she had a child she had a better relationship with them.",1 |
| "When I misled a person: I said that I would do her a |
| favour and didn't. |
| |
| When I went to a job interview, I met a person who was very nice, |
| and his attitude made me glad. |
| When I was working in Delhi, I had gone alone to see the hostel |
| where I would be residing. |
| |
| I was walking outside the union refec after rain when I tripped |
| and fell. |
| When I am discussing something with a person and I realize that |
| the other person is thinking over her own argumentations instead |
| of listening, I become angry. |
| Last night, I dreamt that things that looked like monsters were |
| trying to kiss me. |
| |
| I had cared for a horse for 2 years. One day it was sold and I |
| cried for several days because I was so sad. |
| I work at a day care centre, and one day when the children were |
| outdoors a four-year old boy disappeared from the yard. I was |
| not looking after them then, but as the manager it was me who was |
| responsible. |
| |
| I felt happy at the settlement of our marriage, even though we |
| are from different socio-linguistic backgrounds our parents |
| agreed to the wedding without any conflict or discussion. We had |
| thought that they would object to the wedding but it did not happen. |
| A lonely, neurotic, shy girl lives nearby. She has expressed a |
| wish to meet me, I have however avoided her (turned down an |
| invitation) as the crisis my partner is going through uses up all |
| my empathy. |
| A group of youngsters dressed in fads talked foul language on a |
| bus. They also insulted the pedestrians on the road and were |
| impolite to the passengers of the bus. |
| |
| On the train a drunk person touched my baby and I reacted very |
| disapprovingly. I felt ashamed later as the person had not been |
| aggressive though he could have been. |
| I needed a recommendation for something. I decided that the best |
| person to get one from was a professor who I had never talked to |
| before. I felt a lot of fear going up after class to ask him to |
| recommend me considering he had never heard my name before. But I |
| did. |
| I called my little sister to make her pick up her toy from the |
| floor. When she still refused after I had asked her for the |
| fourth time, we began to quarrel. At last the whole family was |
| involved in this quarrel and trouble was brewing. |
| |
| Being in a Malaysian city with my girlfriend coming out of a |
| picture theatre - seeing her rush up to a taxi that a very old |
| sick man was trying to get to. Seeing her take over the taxi. |
| |
| I felt so afraid when dad fell ill, he had never suffered from |
| that disease since and I had never seen him as he was. |
| When I did not get admission in M.Sc after my B.Sc, I felt really |
| bad. When I started my journey to Bombay, after having accepted |
| my uncle's offer to come to Bombay, I was afraid, wondering if I |
| would succeed or not. ",6 |
| I was made a very sharp remark at a rehearsal.,2 |
| [ A chat on the telephone with a friend.],1 |
| "During a meeting I said something wrong and the others laughed at |
| me.",2 |
| "Sitting alone in a quiet room, concetrating on things happening |
| around you. Thoughts come into my mind which make me afraid.",6 |
| When a friend of mine was beaten for what was my fault.,5 |
| When a thief broke into my house at night.,6 |
| "When at school I thought that I was going to get the best results |
| in mathematics, but it was someone else who got the prize.",0 |
| Someone borrowed my textbook and deliberately did not return it.,3 |
| "When I was very young, one day, I kicked my grandmother and |
| caused her an injury which took a long time to heal.",5 |
| When my colleague spat on my face after a quarrel.,3 |
| [ I have not felt this emotion.],5 |
| "During 7th grade our class mobbed a famale teacher so badly that |
| she had a breackdown and was hospitalized.",5 |
| "When I broke a tea saucer. I felt ashamed. This was during the |
| birthday of my girlfriend.",2 |
| Failed to keep an appointment.,5 |
| Saw a father beating up his small child.,4 |
| "A class-mate answered (accidentally) the call of nature in the |
| class during a tough mathematics examination.",0 |
| Saw a dirty street.,0 |
| [ When I acted against my mind or conscious.],2 |
| "My daughter was 2 yrs she went up to a colt tried to hit it. It |
| turned on her and kicked her over the heart, sent her flying |
| through the air. I left my mother and sister to deal to her as |
| they are nurses. I felt I didn't want to know if she was going to |
| die, it was just too much. |
| |
| Feeling unable to preserve one's ideas and ambitions as innocent |
| as they are when you are young.",4 |
| "On my birthday, my closest friends were here at Berkeley pithched |
| in a lot of money each and bought me ten records to replace some |
| of my records that were stolen. They threw a small surprise party |
| for me too.",1 |
| "It was in a tramway-carriage: A stranger insulted a girl just |
| because she blew her nose. I detested his behaviour.",0 |
| "I felt guilty of revealing a secret to my in-law. I told her that |
| my brother and I had gone to disconight which is a thing my |
| brother didn't want to let her know. Later my brother was accused |
| of spending a night out. |
| When someone I love told me that she did not love me anymore and |
| that she wanted all the snaps that she had given me in exchange |
| for the ones I had given her. |
| A person whom I thought to be honest took and spend the little |
| money that I had and I had no way of getting any money in the |
| few following months. |
| |
| When my relationship with my family is very poor I often fear |
| being excluded from the group, a fear which is stronger in |
| situations when an argument is on hand. |
| When I listened to a conversation of friends talking about the |
| power of money. |
| |
| |
| After moving out of my apt. I took all the furniture and dishes |
| and everything. It was mine but I took it all just to spite my |
| roomies. We had a few (a lot) of disagreements. I felt guilt for |
| moving out for the bad reasons. |
| |
| This is an event I will never forget. I am considered a good |
| mimic. This particular day we were waiting for a professor |
| to take her class. This professor had a peculiar accent and a |
| very horrible way of lecturing and to top it all we had this |
| class at the fag end of the day. So this particular day I got |
| into my element and started imitating the professor, and the |
| professor entered the class right in the middle of it . I was |
| unaware of her presence, some of my friends tried to warn me but |
| it was of no avail as I was too engrossed in mimicing. Then I |
| suddenly noticed the silence and turned around to see her |
| entering the class. I do not know till today if she actually saw |
| what I had been doing or she had completely ignored it. Through |
| out that lecture I died of shame. All the more shameful was the |
| fact that she gave me a character certificate. |
| When I meet old past pupils of mine - and find they are all doing |
| well - I feel joy. Yesterday I met a young woman (20 yrs) I'd |
| taught her at 6 yrs, then at 12 yrs and hadn't seen her for last |
| 3-4 yrs; she was no longer a waitress but a meter maid for |
| Council. |
| |
| My patient died of Anaemia while I was organising blood |
| transfusion for him, so I felt guilty, because I thought that may |
| be I was slow. |
| Guilt at having pressed another person to expose/explore his |
| personal weaknesses/faults, to the extent that the other person |
| was made to feel terrible/defensive. |
| I had too much homework and examinations and I did not know how |
| to organize my work. |
| |
| I was so sick that my relatives thought that I was bewitched. I |
| felt like dying. |
| When I passed my driving test, as it was the fifth time that I |
| had taken this test. |
| When I was accused by my brother of having stolen a 5 kwatcha |
| note from my mother's bag. I was beaten up for this, the money |
| was found later.",3 |
| When I passed my MSCE Exams and was selected to go to college.,1 |
| "There was a cat on the street. It had been run over and its head was |
| open. We passed beside it.",0 |
| "I felt guilt towards my mother when I went to live on rooms in |
| Nijmegen where I study.",5 |
| "I was disgusted at the existing red-tape in the government |
| offices. I accquired my passport three months after having applied for |
| it and I had to go back five times to them to correct a minor |
| error.",0 |
| "I am ashamed when I am not prepared in a subject and I have to |
| answer in the presence of the patients.",2 |
| "One day, at an important place I met a group of girls and while |
| we were waiting for a bus these girls started smoking and |
| commanded me to smoke; I felt very disgusted. ",0 |
| "Joy for me is when all my family gather around home for special |
| occasions as Christmas etc. It really gives me joy to see my |
| family and relatives and to observe natures productivity process |
| which have been going on for centuries.",1 |
| "When my father found me in bed with a girl, we were deep in actioon |
| when he entered the room.",2 |
| "I wrote a difficult Exam at one time while in my Secodary School. |
| When the results were announced on the radio, I came second out |
| of 80 students hence I felt joy.",1 |
| "My sister won a scholarship to Norway and it was particularly as |
| she walked across the tarmac to get on the plane and she looked |
| back at us.",4 |
| "I felt guilty of having suspected my room-mate of stealing the |
| money last term.",5 |
| "I felt guilty when I was found to be the chief leader of making |
| noise in class.",5 |
| "I worked for seven months in a factory, and made friends with a |
| fellow worker. Later, I visited my former fellow workers and was |
| told that, while in the army, my friend had shot himself.",4 |
| "I didn't do very well on a midterm and I'm disgusted with myself |
| because I was prepared and thought I did well.",0 |
| "At one time while at primary school I lost a pencil case of a |
| friend and I didn't mention it to her until after a fortnight. |
| One night, my boyfriend expressed his love for me in the canteen in |
| the presence of my friends by giving me a present. |
| I tried after months to begin talking to my boyfriend again. He |
| ignored me. I felt I had lowered my pride and became his |
| doormat. |
| |
| When I received the higher level exam results, I mistook the |
| grade E in mathematics for a grade F and I was shocked. |
| My roommate liked to listen to some meaningless songs which had |
| melody but had no content. We lived together so when he played |
| the recorder I was forced to listen to them. I could not tell |
| him that I did not like to listen to the songs, as I had no right |
| to disturb the freedom of others. So I would find a pretext to |
| leave the room and go somewhere else. |
| Anger at doctors for their treatment of me after giving birth. |
| They left part of placenta behind and I bled heavily for twelve |
| weeks - due to this, I felt weak and emotional, and they said I |
| needed psychiatric treatment and give me no support. |
| One of the greatest sadness was when my grandfather died, because |
| I loved him very much. |
| |
| Whenever my father smokes the smell makes me feel very |
| uncomfortable. He never listens to my complaints and I curse him |
| furiously in my mind. I cannot solve this problem by violence |
| because of traditional moral values. |
| In March I was busy studying during the night I could only sleep |
| two or three hours only for fear that I would be weeded and sent |
| back. |
| At school I was bad in mathematics. Although my teacher had |
| admonished me to do my homework, one day I had forgotten to do |
| it. When my teacher noticed it, I blushed and was ashamed to be |
| rebuked in front of the other pupils. |
| |
| When a friend of mine was drawn into a fight because of the |
| stupid gang he belonged to. I felt angry with him and his |
| friends. They could not think about anything sensible, but would |
| fool around without taking into consideration the feelings of |
| other persons. |
| |
| When my boyfriend sat up half the night playing computer games |
| with a friend. |
| |
| A class-mate urged me to carry out a particular protest along |
| with him, and when the time came this fellow drew back while I |
| had to face the situation. |
| Girl I was fond of did not initiate conversation as I expected in |
| tutorial. |
| On holidays - just driving along a road beautiful scenery. Just |
| with my boyfriend - not really talking but just feeling |
| overwhelmed. |
| When I started a relation with a girl, with whom I have fallen in |
| love already some time ago. |
| When my sister took something that belonged to me without my |
| permission. |
| |
| |
| My mother suffers from a mental illness. One night she was not |
| feeling well and was sent to the hospital. I was scared that |
| she would die, and all night I was very sad and did not dare to |
| close my eyes. |
| |
| This happened when I could not get into the school I had |
| initially wanted, and ended up doing something I had never |
| thought I would do. |
| |
| In the begining of teenage, on the matters of sex - speaking |
| about sex. |
| |
| I was travelling in a bus from school going home for holiday. In |
| the bus unfortunately I stepped on a bag in which there were |
| delicate things. |
| I read about a murderer who brutalized his victims by cutting |
| open their stomaches and taking out their bowels. |
| I reached the bus stop and realized that I had forgotten my bus |
| pass. |
| Being a spokesman for the union, I got into a quarrel with a |
| colleague who had been acting disloyally over a sustained period |
| of time. |
| In Southern Tyrol, I was gathering apples, it was a fine day, I |
| was not thinking about anything, I felt an overwhelming joy. |
| |
| |
| |
| My boyfriend breaking up with me about 7 months after I had an |
| abortion. Just the fact that he was ignoring me and continued to |
| do so. |
| [ When I break someone's things out of carelessness, or do something |
| to make others feel unhappy or hurt the self-esteem / self-confidence |
| of others, especially if they happen to be friends or family members.]",5 |
| "Classes were over and I wanted to go home. A friend of mine |
| asked me to wait for half an hour to take him back home. I said |
| no. ",5 |
| I feel anger when things don't come out as I wish.,3 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| Overhear people talking about me and saying that I am stupid.,3 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| My class winning against another class in a football match.,1 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
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| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
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| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,0 |
| When I failed the grade 7 exams.,0 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| Getting very low marks in mathematics.,2 |
| Not handing in homework in time.,2 |
| When my friend let my personal matters be publicaly known.,2 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
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| ,5 |
| One of my best friends was hurt by a girl he loves.,4 |
| |
| ,0 |
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| ,5 |
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| ,2 |
| I was very happy when I got an attractive Summer job.,1 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| When I am walking on the streets and see a gang of thugs.,6 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,3 |
| A friend of mine came to see me when he was quite drunk.,0 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| I confused a girl with another.,2 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,2 |
| Cannot recall the emotion with any force.,2 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,0 |
| At school - being whipped by the teacher in front of the class.,2 |
| I had a dream in which I was an African elephant.,6 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
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| ,0 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
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| ,4 |
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| ,5 |
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| ,3 |
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| ,2 |
| |
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| ,3 |
| |
| ,1 |
| Saw people spitting in public.,0 |
| When I won some coins in a small competion.,1 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,3 |
| The physical appearance of a meal.,0 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
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| ,0 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,4 |
| My old friend visited me in the university.,1 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| Someone messing up the room we share.,3 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| Failing an examn.,2 |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,2 |
| Because of the examination I had to study night and day.,0 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| Finding out that a boy I do not like is in love with me.,6 |
| Spit and vomit.,0 |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| ,2 |
| The death of a close friend.,4 |
| When I try to get closer at a person and she misinterpreted me.,4 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,3 |
| When my flute-teacher was replaced by a new one.,4 |
| |
| ,1 |
| When my grandfather died.,4 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| My friend had trouble and I was not able to help him.,5 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,4 |
| When approached by a gang of youths in town at night.,6 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,3 |
| When a friend died.,4 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| ,6 |
| ,5 |
| ,2 |
| My grandmother died.,4 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| Being alone in the room at night.,6 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,4 |
| Saw a dead rat on the street.,0 |
| My mother was ill and my father was not at home.,4 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| ,6 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| ,0 |
| When my grandfather died.,4 |
| |
| |
| |
| ,6 |
| On seeing a scene of an accident in a magazine.,0 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| |
| |
| ,1 |
| That I would do bad in a class and not get into Bus school.,6 |
| |
| ,4 |
| When my sister left home to go and live with her husband.,4 |
| |
| ,0 |
| |
| ,5 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,3 |
| |
| ,1 |
| When my grandmother died.,4 |
| When I got in jungle where there was a great number of snakes.,6 |
| |
| |
| ,4 |
| |
| |
| ,2 |
| |
| |
| ,5 |
| I had to change a baby's clothes for the first time.,0 |
| "One of these people who sell meat in town used a knife to stab |
| his friend and later carried on using the same knife to cut meat.",0 |
| Emotional reassurances by spouse.,1 |
| "Late one night I was pursued by gipsies who had no good |
| intentions.",6 |
| "At the death of my friend's father and especially as this |
| happened ten days before her wedding. |
| I feel disgust towards those who are responsible for the death of |
| others. |
| When my father was imprisoned for burning the house of his |
| younger brother. |
| I asked someone to bring some present to my father and found out |
| that he is not a reliable person. I was afraid if my father would |
| not get the presents he would be angry with me. |
| |
| When I got the positive result of my examination to achieve the |
| Bachelor Degree in Plychology. |
| When I saw a fight I had a physical reaction of disgust and of |
| deep perturbation. |
| I was ashamed of being laughed at by my colleagues when I failed |
| to answer a question in the classroom. |
| When I met my boyfriend and we discovered that we shared the same |
| ideals and goals in life, and that we could share all our |
| feelings and thoughts and felt that the world's not so bad when |
| you have someone really close to share your life with.",1 |
| "When I broke up my relationship with my former girlfriend as she |
| would ask me irrelevant quetions about my past.",5 |
| "Found out that someone I knew well has been misunderstanding me |
| for 2 years.",2 |
| "My father had a heart attack when I was not at home (I was still |
| living with them). He recovered relatively well although he had |
| to retire (which implied relief from the stress of a small scale |
| enterprise).",4 |
| "When I was cycling past a parked car someone opened the door and |
| nearly pushed me off my bike and into the traffic.",6 |
| "I found a big black beetle in my coffee cup. It was alive big and |
| it was moving its limbs.",0 |
| "I went to the cinema with my friends, without telling my mother |
| about it as I had been to the cinema the day before also. When |
| she asked me where I had been, I lied.",5 |
| "It was some years ago when one evening some people came home and |
| told us my father was badly injured in an accident.",6 |
| "I felt afraid of losing somebody I love to another person because |
| I was an incomprehensive person and lots of time I fight with |
| this person.",6 |
| "When I was a teacher in an evening school, a girl raised a lot of |
| questions and expressed her opinions. She, very often, took a |
| stand which was different from mine and she thought that it |
| was better than mine. Her opinions were helpful academically, but |
| she did not take into consideration my position in public. Also |
| she seemed to be very talkative and so she disgusted me.",0 |
| When I got very drunk and really misbehaved at Christmas.,5 |
| "I felt fear when my friend and I broke into an abandoned military |
| base in Los Angeles this summer. I feared because I didn't want |
| to be caught. |
| I worked at a lawyer's office during Summer and I got a very |
| good reference from him.",1 |
| "My parents were out and I was the eldest at home. At midnight a |
| male stranger phoned us and spoke to me in a rough language. I |
| hung up and heard someone walking outside our door.",6 |
| "Once I spoke without thinking very much - it was quite a |
| nonsense.",2 |
| "An old woman was violently thrown down the stairs of the tube by |
| a group of louts.",3 |
| "[ Meeting some new (unpleasant) people or some new, demanding |
| situation.]",6 |
| "My sister and I were fighting as usual. She's older tham I am, |
| bigger built and stronger I couldn't win in a physical battle and |
| in a verbal battle I couldn't seem to get through to her to |
| really hurt her. |
| In a tram, the ticket seller was commanding, taking the role of a |
| leader, trying to emphasize her non-existent authority with undue |
| strictness towards a good-humoured drunk who could not find his |
| ticket at once. |
| I finished the relationship with my boyfriend, after having felt |
| myself very unhappy for a long time. |
| |
| |
| When I left my boyfriend. I found another girl at his home but he |
| did nothing to relieve the situation. |
| I had to undergo an operation in Summer and so my family had to |
| stay at home during the holidays. I felt guilty, above all |
| because of my brothers. |
| |
| I came home from a party rather drunk. I said things I would |
| never have said normally. Next morning I was terribly ashamed |
| about what I had said. |
| |
| I felt very happy when I heard I had passed the examination to |
| move up to the second year course. |
| Having my personal objects rearranged by someone else without my |
| consent and having it arranged to their taste. Then trying to |
| find a particular object they rearranged for an hour or more. |
| In a dam lake, when the water was let flow to water the plants |
| and I and two other boys were near the water pit. We rescued |
| ourselves only thanks to the flippers and the tyre that was with |
| us. |
| A friend asked to borrow my notes and I did not give them away |
| (my notes too badly written) |
| I was forced to go to a party with someone I didn't love and he |
| was telling people that I was his girlfriend.",0 |
| "I felt guilty one day when I stole a slice of bread in a |
| cafeteria.",5 |
| "I spoke to my mother on the phone. She had skin cancer and was |
| waiting to be operated. I forgot to ask her the date of the |
| operation and just before finishing our conversation she gave me |
| the date in passing. ",5 |
| "On days when I feel close to my partner and other friends. |
| When I feel at peace with myself and also experience a close |
| contact with people whom I regard greatly.",1 |
| When I heard that my nephew had passed away.,4 |
| My boat running into another boat.,1 |
| "My father accused my brother of having bumped his car, and it was |
| wrong.",3 |
| When I pass an examination which I did not think I did well.,1 |
| Not being accepted by classmates in university.,4 |
| "I'm allergic to most foods - eating something that I'm allergic |
| to caused guilt.",5 |
| A classmate damaged ma iron and tried to hide the damage.,3 |
| "When, for the first time I realized the meaning of death.",6 |
| When my brother died.,4 |
| "I felt sad after having had an argument with my boyfriend. I felt |
| that he did not understand me and that there was no point in |
| carrying on with the relationship.",4 |
| "I had decided to propose to the man I liked to make a trip |
| together. One day, during breakfast I told him my idea. I was |
| afraid of his not accepting it and that the idea would end up as |
| a failure.",6 |
| "One of my friends asked me to go shopping with her, another |
| friend of hers was also coming along. During the outing they |
| kept talking to each other and I felt left out, even when I tried |
| to talk to them they seemed not to listen to me and did not pay |
| me much attention.",3 |
| Being sexually assulted in public.,2 |
| "The period when I was pregnant and when I gave birth to my son. |
| I can say those were the happiest months in my life.",1 |
| "In a rather important exam, when they caught me red handed |
| copying.",6 |
| T.V features showing the violation of defenceless people.,0 |
| "When I was stopped by plain clothes policemen because the car I |
| was driving had overturned on the Avenue. I had been driving too |
| fast, and I was afraid when I was stopped, questionned and then |
| toild to go. The situation ended happily since there were no |
| consequences.",6 |
| "When I thought that my high school love and I had a mutual |
| emotion.",1 |
| "I felt ashamed of my body in spite of knowing that it is more or |
| less beautiful and also knowing that my boyfriend considers me |
| beautiful, but this was only in the beginning.",2 |
| "I feared that I would have to describe my sexual life to an |
| older, strange woman.",2 |
| I am sad because some relations to friends are not very good.,4 |
| "Boyfriend ""chatting up"" another girl.",3 |
| "At an anti-pornography meeting, when samples from films and |
| magazines were shown.",0 |
| "When I received the result slip of the higher level examination |
| (an university entrance exam) and saw that I had a very good |
| possibility of being accepted into the university, I felt very |
| excited.",1 |
| "I don't know why suddenly I thought that what I was feeling for |
| my boyfriend was not really love. After almost three years being |
| together, this matter of fact shaked me and I felt a great sorrow |
| that I can call sadness. |
| When I met my girlfriend again in another town after a long |
| separation. |
| I was almost caught in the girls hostel by the security men, I |
| would have been expelled from school had I been caught. |
| I came home one day and discovered that my sister had borrowed my |
| car and had gotten into an accident with it. My entire front |
| bumper was destroyed. |
| |
| I felt much anger when my fahter interferred in my relations with |
| another person whom I liked very much, ending something that I |
| adored. |
| When I saw hundreds of snakes twisting over one another in a |
| movie. |
| When I had to talk to some strangers, from whom I was expecting a |
| negative answer. |
| |
| |
| |
| Once in primary five, I had forgotten to take a book to class and |
| the teacher punished me by asking me to stand at the back of the |
| class. I thought about the way my mother would react if she saw |
| me being punished. My mother was very good to me and though she |
| did not see me punished, I felt sorry for her. |
| I sensed a strong feeling of joy when in the plant, at my working |
| place, I got a message that I was admitted as full time student at |
| the Higher Agricultural Institute. |
| |
| |
| |
| When my middle child became very difficult to handle after the |
| birth of his baby brother and I did not have any patience with |
| him. |
| I had a very horrible dream one night, I dreamt that I had fallen |
| off a very crowded train. |
| It was a week before the higher level results were announced. I |
| had tried and failed many times and this was the last time that |
| I was taking the exam. I knew that if i failed again I woulld |
| have to enter the society. I imagined things during this period |
| - I dreamt that I had entered university and it was a nice |
| experience. When I thought about the future, an unexplainable |
| fear rose in me. I feared being a worker and not having a bright |
| prospect, I also feared the criticism of my relatives as my |
| brother had gone to university. Whenevr I thought of this issue |
| I could not eat or concentrate, and my heart beat increased. |
| |
| Being stopped by the police for a traffic offence which I don't |
| think I committed.",3 |
| "When I heard that my step-mother had treated my mother in a wrong |
| manner.",3 |
| Did not finish homework.,2 |
| "Car accident. Travelling as a passenger along narrow bitumen road |
| at night - trying to overtake semi-trailer. The truck pulled over |
| onto our side and we hit the wet dirt, swerved back into the |
| truck, back onto the verge, over a guide post and into a ditch.",6 |
| Made a statement that other people did not believe.,3 |
| When my mum learnt that I had beaten up someone in a fight.,2 |
| Not being a good host for a friend from a far away place.,5 |
| "While working as a domestic helper, one day I had not cleaned up |
| very well and they made a remark about it.",2 |
| "Receiving a very personal letter from a lady that I like, which |
| revealed that she was more enthusiastic about me than I had |
| thought possible.",1 |
| "After I had made my debut at Ullevi against IFK, Gottenburg and |
| got a good write up in the paper.",1 |
| "On New Year's Eve, when I went to the house of my girlfriend's |
| parents to meet them.",2 |
| "Some time ago a man tried to teach me something. ""Tried"" because |
| it is very difficult to teach somebody when you yourself are not |
| competent and cultured.",0 |
| "I stopped my car in front of a pedestrian crossing as a child was |
| crossing the street. The car driving in the next lane did not |
| stop and the child got hurt. Had I not stopped ...",5 |
| When I had to act alone a character for a public (40 people).,2 |
| "I slapped my sister's daughter and after several hours, she had a |
| high temperature and she ended up being admitted in hospital. |
| When I was in a Christian institution, sometimes the nuns would |
| send back the people who came to visit us when it was not the |
| visiting hours. This disgusted me. |
| When I received a positive answer from my appeal to withdraw my |
| registration at UNZA. |
| |
| |
| When my boyfriend almost had a relationship with a close friend |
| of mine. |
| When my grandfather died, I saw my grandmother crying against my |
| aunt's shoulder (I had never seen my grandmother cry before).",4 |
| "I was disgusted when my brother was arrested because of stealing |
| money.",0 |
| Failing in the English language exam.,2 |
| "Uncleaniness at my work place. The place is generally not very |
| clean, but when it reaches a point, I get angry at the person |
| who is supposed to clean the place and the people who are |
| supposed to supervise him.",3 |
| "I was very happy when I received the year end results as I was |
| worried about how well I had done. I was very happy to know that I |
| had passed.",1 |
| "I was inside the car with my husband and we were assaulted with a |
| gun at 10 o'clock in the evening. |
| |
| I feel disgust with my first boyfriend who made fun of our love |
| in an abominable way. |
| I confronted with this feeling at the Institute quite recently, |
| the pedology lecturer was the cause. |
| Following an argument with my brother, he broke my golf clubs. |
| I feel ashamed every time that someone makes me a positive or |
| negative critic. |
| |
| When I unexpectedly received birthday greetings from a person I |
| like. |
| |
| The day I was nearly stabbed to death by ruffians who wanted to |
| take my money. I refused to give them any money and they started |
| running after me, I ran into somebody else's house to save |
| myself.",6 |
| "My old boyfriend - yes the same one - asked me out. We had a good |
| time. Then he asked me out the following week. He actually took |
| interest.",1 |
| "I told someone that I still had a relationship with a boy |
| although it was finished already 3 months before. That person |
| seriously discussed several things relating that issue. Then I |
| felt very miserable because I had told lies.",5 |
| "I had worked very hard during my vacations to raise some money |
| for a few major items (e.g a radio). but when I arrived at the |
| inter-city bus terminal, my hard earned money had been stolen |
| from me.",3 |
| "During a party I overheard a conversation about china. When I |
| wanted to give my opinion one of the people came out to be Chinese |
| and his opinion was right of course.",2 |
| I got separated from the man I loved.,4 |
| When I gave my boyfriend a brush-off.,2 |
| Failed to do what I had promised.,5 |
| With self at losing an important game that I should have won.,3 |
| When I was admitted to the Higher Institute.,1 |
| "When the results of the part I exams came out I felt tremendous |
| joy in my heart. The results came out after a long period of |
| worry and anxiety, so it gave me endless relief and joy.",1 |
| "Going away for the weekend, leaving my College room open - when I |
| returned several friends had had a party there, leaving the mess.",3 |
| "One evening, I was with a group of friends having a talk. There |
| was a very trustful and joyful atmosphere.",1 |
| Noticing my flat had maggotts !,0 |
| "When the dean of UNZA asked me to vacate a big flat I was |
| occupying and take up a smaller one as I was becoming a full time |
| student at UNZA.",3 |
| "When I woke up after a night of drinking I couldn't remember and |
| discovered several untoward things had occurred. |
| My car had been towed away by the traffic police because it had |
| been wrongly parked. However the sign had been put up only after |
| I had already parked. |
| [ I feel disgusted at people who talk negatively about a person |
| without knowing the person well.] |
| When being made look a fool by the teacher in front of the class |
| during a turn. |
| |
| When I was cycling through the park late one night, two people |
| jumped out of the woods and tried to stop me. There were |
| shouting something at the same time. |
| When I found out that I had passed the last two exams by a |
| margin of three marks. |
| I made an appointment to pick up someone. However I arrived |
| too late and she had to wait a quarter of an hour. |
| I am the secretary of an association, and during the last meeting |
| I forgot to take the minutes. |
| When I was 10, I got busted for stealing a candy-bar. |
| |
| When a girl said in my back that we were in love, and she had |
| actually refused me. When I confronted her she started insulting |
| me. |
| In my penultimate job I was responsible of a sections with |
| several employers, after several years of dedication I was |
| dismissed by a new chef, saying that I was incompetent. |
| When I received my U.E. accredited as I was totally unexpecting |
| it and I was so happy. |
| I look up to my Karate-teacher. When I came to a training lesson |
| after I had not trained for one week, I was totally stiff. I was |
| ashamed. |
| No really strong such emotion. Just falling off to sleep when I |
| caught sight of a 5 cm diameter spider crawling onto the pillow |
| beside me. |
| I learned that a class-mate had given a list, of peolpe who help |
| each other in exams, to the professor. |
| When my sister left to go home, in Sweden, after the Christmas |
| Holidays. |
| I felt fear when once I was asleep and dreamed that I was dying |
| asfixiated by a cardiac attack, I was afraid and woke up |
| desperate. Altough I wasn't afraid of death I was afraid.",6 |
| "Quite unconsciously I offended a girlfriend of mine. It was |
| really worthy to pass this fact over in silence, but I acted so, |
| because I believed I was right. In fact it often happens to me to |
| feel guilt, after I have already done the deed.",5 |
| "I read a story in the newspaper about butchers treating their |
| animals very badly. They disgusted me.",0 |
| "I had studied for almost one week for my physics-examination. |
| With difficulty I passed the examn. I was angry about the teacher |
| and also about myself because I had not remembered enough during |
| the examn and because the time that I spent studying was wasted.",3 |
| During a meeting.,2 |
| "When I stole money from my mother and she asked me later if I was |
| responsible. I never admitted it.",5 |
| "I knew a girl so lovely that everyone would like her. But she |
| refused to accept my Christmas present and I tried to forget |
| her.",4 |
| Death in the close family.,4 |
| "At primary school, when I vomited in front of others in the middle |
| of a lesson.",2 |
| When I proposed love to a girl and she turned me down.,2 |
| "When I patronized a certain tavern which had prostitutes, it was |
| almost a brothel.",0 |
| "After having quarelled unnecessarily and without any reason, and |
| having been stupidly cross in every way.",2 |
| "When my present boyfriend asked me initially to go out with him I |
| had waited a long time for this to occur.",1 |
| "One evening, while going to meet a friend of mine, I had to cross |
| a meadow by a dark road. There were bushes on the other side of |
| the road. The weather was damp and a bit foggy. I heard steps |
| behind me and kept speeding up my steps all the time.",6 |
| Before an oral examination - which I did not take eventually.,6 |
| "I was in love with a very beautiful girl and when I went back for |
| my holidays I found her wth another guy who she said was just a |
| friend. Later I found them together and was convinced that there |
| was something fishy.",3 |
| "At having an argument with a stranger, in the street.",3 |
| "When I entered a brothel and saw two sailors with a young |
| prostitute who was not older than 18.",0 |
| "Once I had to go home on foot at 5 a.m. I had to pass through a |
| forest and I was going alone.",6 |
| "When I get something that seemed very hard like getting a job, a |
| boyfriend, etc. A specific sutuations, was when I started to date |
| a boy whom I liked for a long time.",1 |
| "I felt very guilty when a student, sitting in front of me in the |
| exam, asked me a few questions and I did not show him the answers, |
| though I knew them. |
| ",5 |
| Misunderstood by friends.,3 |
| "When I sided with my mother in a quarrel she had with my father |
| before they briefly separated.",5 |
| After the death of a girl who I disliked.,5 |
| "When I was in the 12th standard, I could not speak English. One |
| day, while talking with my relatives I used a wrong word and |
| my cousin corrected me, believing that I did not know English. I |
| really felt ashamed then. |
| ",2 |
| "Last week, my organization summoned an executive meeting and one |
| of the executive member's pointed out a loop hole in the |
| committee's administration. He could not suggest any |
| improvements, so I quarrelled with him.",3 |
| When my term paper was evaluated.,1 |
| "My father had been involved in a car accident two years ago. I |
| was then very scared thinking that he would die as he lay |
| unconscious in hospital for two weeks.",6 |
| "While intoxicated I damaged my sister's car in a minor way and |
| someone elses in a minor way. |
| I felt guilt to have come back from home without seeing my father. |
| When I went home he was at work. |
| The juniors in our dormitory at school started to complain and |
| make a lot of noise about the duties assigned to them by the |
| prefect who was my class-mate and was very cool and dull. |
| One day in the TYBA class the teacher asked me a very simple |
| question which I could not answer. Finally the teacher himself |
| gave us the answer and my friends started laughing at me as I had |
| not been able to answer a simple question. I knew the answer but |
| feared that my response may be wrong. All this made me feel |
| ashamed of myself. |
| I received a phone call from a high school friend whose younger |
| sister studied with me at the University and gave me a lift every |
| moning. She was going to get married to a guy whom I knew too and |
| who had died when he fell from a building, I was afraid to lose |
| somebody since I had already lost a brother in an accident. |
| When I could not pass my exams with good marks. My wedding was |
| to take place 15 days after the exams and I tried to convince |
| myself that this was the reason for my not having done well. |
| However, I thought that had I really put my mind to doing well at |
| the exams I would have done well. |
| When my sister took my things without having asked for my permission |
| first. |
| |
| When my pet dog,who was to us a family member, died. He had been |
| vomitting for the past three days and we had not found the time |
| to call a vet, finally when the vet came it was already too late. |
| I was driving and a deer suddenly appeared in front of the |
| car when there was a lot of traffic behind me. |
| |
| |
| |
| I lied to someone and some time later this person found out that |
| I had not told him the truth. |
| When one of my relatives went out at night leaving me and my |
| friend alone, I cheated my parents that she didn't go out, after |
| they had heard that she was out, I was afraid that she might have |
| beaten me.",6 |
| "After a pleasant evening with friends in my flat, one of them did |
| not want to leave, because he wanted to sleep with me. He said |
| that he had fallen in love with me, that he felt alone and so on.",0 |
| Class leader told me to collect homework for him.,0 |
| "I went on a picnic to the country side park. The beautiful |
| scenary made me feel relaxed and every worry disappeared , thus |
| the picnic was worthwhile.",1 |
| "I had to decline an appointment which had been very important for |
| the other person. For this reason we even got into trouble.",5 |
| "I got lost in a foreign town. I did not know the language of that |
| country and it took me hours to meet my friends again.",6 |
| In the morning just before going to the dentist.,6 |
| "In secondary school I had a class-mate who talked too much. |
| Once we went to the cinema after school and she sat next to me and |
| commented the movie throughout - very disgusting.",0 |
| "I felt disgust with a man I had trusted and respected, to whose |
| problems I had always shown deep understanding.",0 |
| "When they put the blame on me when I scored the third goal at the |
| match.",3 |
| "Yesterday, I was just about to cross the road when a country guy |
| who was ahead of me spat out a mouthful of betel juice on the |
| road. It was very windy and had I not checked my speed I would |
| have had a very good shower of his saliva. Though I was not |
| angry, I felt that these people were very indecent.",0 |
| "An accident happened to my little cousin because I had not taken |
| enough care of her. She fell on the floor and her hands were |
| hurt.",5 |
| "I was to meet one of my friends (girl) at the library at 8:00 |
| already dark. She would be walking alone. She was 45 minutes late |
| but I kept waiting, calling her room and other places she could |
| have been.",6 |
| "In my village there was this tax collector who used to cheat |
| people and collected more than was wanted, the surplus was for |
| his family and himself.",0 |
| "Thinking that I had been seen smoking at school by a teacher - |
| waiting to be summoned to the headmaster's office. |
| Being sexually assulted and told my friends about it (we cried |
| together). |
| |
| When I met again a great friend and talked a little while with |
| him. When I see again another I miss. |
| |
| I was very sad when I heard that my brother had failed the |
| standard 8 exams for the third time. |
| |
| I destroyed my step-brother's bedsheets by mistake, they were the |
| only ones he had.",5 |
| "Leaving Melbourne to move interstate - leaving relatives and |
| friends behind.",4 |
| "When I was going to bring back my girlfriend to LA to meet my |
| parents.",6 |
| "It was extremely sad to me when I heard that a patient who I was |
| taking care of in hospital had passed away. He had some abdominal |
| pains.",4 |
| "I was very sad when I could not take the M.A (I) exams due to |
| illness, and a relative of mine disheartened me about it.",4 |
| "When I first heard ""I like you !"" from my boyfriend.",1 |
| "Sitting in a bus, I heard behind, the voice of a girl I was |
| friendly with. After her talking for some time with another girl |
| I decided it wasn't her in fact that someone miming her, which it |
| was when I finally looked. I was talking to a friend at the time. |
| I had a feeling of shame when I found myself unable to answer |
| some questions from my tutor simply because of a lack of |
| preparation. |
| Climbing a mountain where the rocks were very loose. When we |
| realized the danger, we were very high up, but still had a long |
| climb ahead. |
| I'm glad when I have good relations with my colleagues and most |
| of all when we are at a party.",1 |
| When my husband stays late at a meeting and I have to be alone.,3 |
| "When I do not succeed in making myself clear to other people. |
| When they do not understand what I say.",2 |
| "As I was in a ward one man died and I was instructed to watch the |
| last offices. But this was my first time to see a dead person - |
| fear came.",6 |
| My article not chosen by the college newspaper,2 |
| When coming up for trial because of shop lifting.,2 |
| "My grandmother's brother had taken active part in the resistance |
| movement. He had been in prison many times and there he lost his |
| health. He became an invalid. When we phoned to First Aid the |
| nurse on duty behaved quite unkindly when she understood how old |
| he was (79). |
| I was in Sierra Nevada, climbing a peak over 3,000 metres high, |
| without any light and with many other problems. I was afraid for |
| my life. |
| I once felt that my last hour had come when I was unexpectedly found |
| in the hands of. |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| When I watched the T.V programme called The living planet and |
| saw the far reaching environmental destruction caused by man. |
| When I was told a friend's baby had been born with only partial |
| sight. This was her first child and she was not young (the mother |
| that is).",4 |
| "When I did not do well in the PG310 test I, I got only 4 marks |
| above the pass marks despite my effort. I felt bad because quite |
| a number of friends did better.",2 |
| "I was disgusted at myself when I dropped a vital catch, while |
| playing a cricket match, and we lost the match; though the catch |
| was difficult. ",0 |
| "A lady I live with had not bothered to clean up before she went |
| on holiday (I live in a collective).",3 |
| When I was accepted for a course on finance and accounting.,1 |
| "Recently, I left my bag in the car of someone who picked me up |
| while hitch-hiking. I spent some effort to find out where he |
| lived (I succeeded).",2 |
| "I felt afraid just before receiving the question paper of the |
| part II exam.",6 |
| "When I saw a drunk man urinate upon himsellf and he seemed to be |
| thoroughly content with it.",0 |
| "When I was responsible for getting my friend run-out in a vital |
| cricket match.",5 |
| "When I saw a man hitting a child of 2 years without any consideration, |
| simply because the child had been leaning against a window.",3 |
| "When my parents quarelled over something I had done and which was |
| wrong.",5 |
| "The trick was really intolerable. They hid it, and I was worried |
| and restless all day. When I saw them I really wanted to slap |
| each one of them.",3 |
| "When some friends and I get acquainted a guy during vacations I |
| thought he was disgusted and ""a friend"" of mine for whom I feel a |
| little disgust wanted to stay with him.",0 |
| "When I am alone and listen to a song which I like very much and |
| which I had listened before together with friends.",4 |
| Watching a horror movie with friends.,6 |
| "I was walking from my friend's house, a few blocks from my house, when a |
| car began to follow me. He waited I passed by it rotateed a little and |
| stopped on my way. I changed completely my way and the car went |
| on following me until I turned at a corner and running I hid in a |
| garden of a house, waiting for the car to pass by. I went back home |
| terribly afraid. |
| It was when I stepped on a python (snake) unknowingly while it |
| was sleeping near a baobab tree. |
| |